quick question

[SayNo2daBunny]

ok i know this sounds like a personal problem and stuff..but i'm going to marry this guy (of course i love him) and well we like different things...like in clothes, music, and sometimes in food. well we both have a great sense of humor though...well anyways nows he's telling me if i marry him i have to dress a "little different" and i can't listen to "My kind of music" around him.... well do ya'll have a b/f or g/f that have different taste in..well in anything?

[thexflamesxburn]

ok i know this sounds like a personal problem and stuff..but i'm going to marry this guy (of course i love him) and well we like different things...like in clothes, music, and sometimes in food. well we both have a great sense of humor though...well anyways nows he's telling me if i marry him i have to dress a "little different" and i can't listen to "My kind of music" around him.... well do ya'll have a b/f or g/f that have different taste in..well in anything?
i dont want to sound like a jerk or anything, but that sounds way out of line.

[SayNo2daBunny]

i dont want to sound like a jerk or anything, but that sounds way out of line.
like the fact that he's telling me what to wear and stuff like that?

[thexflamesxburn]

like the fact that he's telling me what to wear and stuff like that?
yea. i mean you love each other, he shouldnt be controlling you like that.

idk. maybe you can describe it better for me

[SayNo2daBunny]

i know thats what i tell him, but sometimes he says that he doesn't care but yesterday he told me to change my wardrobe...its not like i'm all "skanked up" i just wear stuff like t-shirts, jeans and a pair of shoes...but i notice he started saying stuff like that after prom..when he saw me all dressed up and stuff...i don't know but for sure i probably won't listen to him anyways i just wanted to know if anybody knows whats its like for their b/f or g/f to tell them stuff like that... but thanks for replying :)

[SonnyPunk]

How old are you? And your getting married? It shouldnt matter if you have different tastes in certain things...No two people are the same, everyone is different. And did I hear you list "food" as one of the things you dont have in common? Haha I can see it now...you are both out on a romantic dinner...

Guy: "Uhh...I will have the chicken, and so will my lovely fiance."

You: "Actually honey...I think I'm gonna go with the fish tonight."

Guy: "Wait...you like seafood?"

You: "Yes...isnt it yummy?"

Guy: "Look, I dont know how to say this....but...I dont think we should see each other anymore...I cant be with someone who likes seafood...goodbye..."

[SayNo2daBunny]

How old are you? And your getting married? It shouldnt matter if you have different tastes in certain things...No two people are the same, everyone is different. And did I hear you list "food" as one of the things you dont have in common? Haha I can see it now...you are both out on a romantic dinner...

Guy: "Uhh...I will have the chicken, and so will my lovely fiance."

You: "Actually honey...I think I'm gonna go with the fish tonight."

Guy: "Wait...you like seafood?"

You: "Yes...isnt it yummy?"

Guy: "Look, I dont know how to say this....but...I dont think we should see each other anymore...I cant be with someone who likes seafood...goodbye..."


hahahaha! i'm 19 years young! and he's very picky with food but we both like whataburger!

[TENSOR123]

not to sound like an asshole or anything in anyway at all, and hope u don't get offended. but i think it's pretty retarted. if u are getting married you obviously should love someone for who they are, nothing more or nothing less. if he wants you to be something other then that, i think it's wrong.

[SayNo2daBunny]

not to sound like an asshole or anything in anyway at all, and hope u don't get offended. but i think it's pretty retarted. if u are getting married you obviously should love someone for who they are, nothing more or nothing less. if he wants you to be something other then that, i think it's wrong.
no you don't sound like an asshole more like my b/f does.....thank you for replying :)

[Jim Morgan]

tell your boyfriend that you come as you are

[TENSOR123]

no problem... i hope everything works out for the best. i mean you're only 19, you have your whole life ahead of you... so keep that in mind lol

[SayNo2daBunny]

tell your boyfriend that you come as you are
thanks i will :)