i need some advice on relationships and being young and in love

[last night]

ok well here's my problem, last summer, summer of 03, i met this awesome kid name anthony, he was 16 i was 15, but now im 16 and he's 17, anyways i knew i liked him from day one, and we've talked alot, like in the begining he used to call me like 24/7 and that was before christmas, and then little by little we stopped talking, all this time i knew i had feelings for him but i didnt want to bombard him with all this crap because it would be a little wierd, and now like 3 or 4 weeks ago, we went to the movies together and we were holding hands and it was amazing, plus he just got a cell phone, so we would text each other like crazy, like 500 messages in 2 weeks, well neways this past weekend he got his phone disconnected, and we havent talked all week, and it makes me cry, because i dont want us to stop talking ever again, and i need advice on what to tell him the next time i see him, but i dont want to scare him away, any advice? you can IM me if you want my screen name is misshisskin or raissa87, thanks -Raissa

[Lueda Alia]

you should tell him how you feel about the whole thing....

[last night]

i know, but i dont know how he will react, its so hard to explain, i know he likes me, but i dont want to fuck this up, and i dont want him to think im moving to fast, and i know i need to tell him my feelings or nothing will happen but idk its so fucked up

[Lueda Alia]

nah he won't react bad. and you wouldn't be messing it up. who knows, he might feel the same but he feels like you - afraid of what your reaction might be. there's never anything wrong with telling some one how you really feel. if they don't feel the same or react badly, at least you'll know where you stand, you know?

[last night]

yea thats true, hmm, but thats the other thing, who knows when's the next time im going to see him, it might be another week, and i havent seen him since last saturday, so thats two weeks, dam...well thanks whoever you are, im raissa

[Lueda Alia]

you can always email him or something. or even call him. but either way... goood luck.

and I'm eda btw =)

[analog_boy]

you should tell him how you feel about the whole thing....

Really? I don't think that idea would ever have crossed her mind.

[richter915]

Really? I don't think that idea would ever have crossed her mind.
ah must you be so rude child? doesn't give you scene points or anything...so calm down

anyhow. talking with the chap about it WILL be weird but it's worth it if it can result in something better. Start with a vague question like...I dunno...what kinda girl he's looking for or something...then just hint at it ya know? don't come on too hard...but not too soft either. ya I suck at advice.

[last night]

thanks everyone for posting, its really helping, but yea he doesnt have his cell anymore it got disconnected and he just recently moved so his house number isnt connected :thinkerg: