So I have this crush and feel like I'm 12 again.

[brentkid]

So basically I have this one friend that happens to be a girl. She's like a sister to me. She happens to have a friend that is incredibly attractive and has a fun personality as well. Totally laid back and not arrogant at all.

The three of us have hung out a lot recently and see a lot more of each other. I never knew her friend that well until a few weeks when we started seeing each other more often.

So after being out of a three year relationship for about eight months, I'm actually ready to pursue other girls. Being my typical self, I've apparently became a sixth grader again since I now I have this enormous crush on this girl. Not like I want to just hook up with her, but not like I want a real relationship with her either. I just like her as a bit more than a friend. Unfortunately for me, she's been hooking up with this other guy every once in a while. I guess you could call them exclusive since they're don't considering themselves together or anything.

My dilemma is do I tell her friend that I have this small crush on her and hope she tells her or not? I know it sounds so juvenile but it'd be absolutely creepy for me to come out and tell this girl how I feel about her. I feel pretty pathetic but these feelings haven't been around for a good four years. Plus there's the other guy to consider.

Any advice at all is appreciated for my sorry ass.

[coryatlarge]

maybe try and spend some time with just this girl your into and see if she goes for it....... maybe you could call it a date or maybe just hang out so its not awkward for you or her...... idk sometimes it's best to just throw it out there.... but then again having ur friend mention it to her might be easier on you and her because if she isnt into you it isnt as hard as face to face.....

[wewascontenders]

Your friend and this other girl have more than likely talked about you before. I'd talk to the friend and see what the other girl thinks of you.

[amysaurus]

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NO srlsy though you should tell her or at leas ther friend because she will probably tell the girl .Then maybe she'l hook up with you too? Unless you wan an actual realtionship then that's a whol edifferent story.

[wewascontenders]

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NO srlsy though you should tell her or at leas ther friend because she will probably tell the girl .Then maybe she'l hook up with you too? Unless you wan an actual realtionship then that's a whol edifferent story.

oh hey dr phil, how's the beer? :-p

[amysaurus]

oh hey dr phil, how's the beer? :-p

I actualqly did not drink any beer tonight, THANK YOU VERYMUCH.

[Renee]

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NO srlsy though you should tell her or at leas ther friend because she will probably tell the girl .Then maybe she'l hook up with you too? Unless you wan an actual realtionship then that's a whol edifferent story.
Wait until tomorrow to give advice, Amy.

[superxero]

Lol Saurush

[thesafeword]

I actualqly did not drink any beer tonight, THANK YOU VERYMUCH.
Your typing disagrees.

[concernedparent]

Fuck her in the ass.

I figured "anal"s been said so much that everyone's probably forgotten what it means.

[remedyeli]

just find a nice creative way to tell her face to face how you feel.
girls dig that shit more than anything.
any other way is just lame (text, friend asking for you, ect)

[Zach Cool]

just find a nice creative way to tell her face to face how you feel.
girls dig that shit more than anything.
No they don't.

[remedyeli]

No they don't.

ok.
maybe not from you.

[Hamlet]

just find a nice creative way to tell her face to face how you feel.
girls dig that shit more than anything.
any other way is just lame (text, friend asking for you, ect)

No, they don't. Please, no sappy mixtapes, fancy crafted cards, pencil sketches, moonlight serenades, or love letters.

Don't tell her directly how you feel either. Part of sexual tension is the fact that she doesn't know exactly how you feel about her. Once you put it out there, the mystery goes away and you become boring.

Instead, ask her to hang out. Just the two of you. Have lunch or whatever together. Kino escalate (http://www.directnaturalgame.com/Techniques/kino-escalation-ladder.html) throughout - if she's not comfortable holding your hand or arm, she's not gonna be comfortable kissing you. Maintain a fun, playful vibe, tease her a few times. Don't be needy, indecisive, or supplicating. Then make a move somewhere in the middle of the date - not at the end, that creates an awkward expectation.

[disco.tetris]

I'd talk to your friend first. They've definitely talked about you already if you've been hanging out for a while. Find out what she thinks of you before taking the next step.

Or you know what? Just ask her out. What do you have to lose? Just go for it.

[bluecrunchy]

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haha Wow that's a lot of steps. I've been doing it all wrong this whole time!

[SLoT]

you should go grocery shopping with her and while she's looking at something stand right behind her facing the other shelf and touch butts with her. when you connect eyes you will be able to see into her soul and if it's meant to be or not. touching butts opens the eye to soul as well as feels fun to do with girls. i do it with women i dont even know.

[saysmydoctor]

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[brentkid]

Haha, thanks for the advice everyone. I feel like such a little kid.

I'll probably just tell her friend today when we talk. I'm not really looking for a relationship with this girl but I wouldn't mind if we hooked up. I just don't want to make it awkward between all of us. That's my only concern.

I should mention that we hung out last night and I basically talked to her the entire time. The guy she's been hooking up with actually showed up at the party but honestly, she was paying way more attention to me I thought. Lots of eye contact and joking around while we talked. Also both the girl that I like and the girl that I want to tell first have the same birthday later this month. Like two weeks ago I told them I was getting them gifts. I didn't get her anything big but her and a few other people saw Wall-E and she loved it, so I found this dumb little dancing wall-e figurine. Hopefully the birthday idea helps my case.

[remedyeli]

No, they don't. Please, no pencil sketches

well shit, that works every time for me :shrug:
I guess it's also about timing.

[saysmydoctor]

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[sandra92]

Well , try to spend some time with her and show her that maybe you feel more than friendship ..
or try to know if she really is into the other guy .. If she really is maybe you should forget it :/

[Burning Star IV]

There can never be too much anal.

[scmaley]

I agree with the advice about asking her to hang out one-on-one. Make her feel special.

[Zach Cool]

And also, anal.

[theguy77]

reminds me of my situation now.

theres this waitress at the local ruby tuesday restaurant and everytime i see her we both blush, i feel like im in third grade. eventually i asked specifically to sit in her waiting section and then talked to her for 20 minutes on her break. im thinking of asking her out since i can finally drive.