Hooking up with the ex.

[HelpMeSleep]

so i've never been in a hooking up relationship until now and i'm not entirely sure how it works, especially in this case because it's with my ex.

we broke up about 2 weeks ago, and the first week he wouldn't talk to me or give me any explanations or anything, and then i talked a lot of shit about him and we were both really angry. and then the second week, we talked for about an hour on aim and we were very civil and then we talked about hooking up too. and then i'd asked if he didn't hate me then and his response was "i dunno, i mean i'll fuck you". so i agreed but i mean, obviously i wasn't expecting much more than fucking.

but then 2 nights ago, we hooked up and it was really good, but i was surprised by how he acted. he said hi and greeted me by kissing me and grabbing my ass and really didn't act that much different from when we were together, and was a lot more affectionate than i would have expected. and when i dropped him off back at his house, he kissed me goodbye and was like "i get off work at 8 tomorrow, i'll call you then" and i was really surprised.

i don't really know what to think. or do people usually fake affection when they're just hooking up with people?? i wouldn't know.

[jusscali]

He just wants to fuck u tomorrow too - no need to think into it

[spansen]

it's all about sex. that's weird.. i wouldn't be into doing that.

[thespearkid]

tl;dr

[HelpMeSleep]

it's all about sex. that's weird.. i wouldn't be into doing that.
i'm not over him and i'm kind of hoping this could lead to dating and maybe eventually getting back together, but i'm feeling very whatever happens, happens. either way, i've been really horny since we broke up and i'd rather do it with him than anyone else.

[heyzombiehitler]

Wow could you be any more of a whore? I mean where's your self pride? You're disgusting.

[infamous_alias]

Tale as old as time...as long as you guys keep "hooking up" you're inevitably going to date again.

[DickfaceChillah]

It's a sad day in my life when I realize that grabbing someone's ass makes it seem like they're still into...

[HelpMeSleep]

Wow could you be any more of a whore? I mean where's your self pride? You're disgusting.
no, i don't think i'm a whore at all, i'm hooking with one guy who i used to love. and i'm pretty sure have plenty of self pride. i'm sorry i get horny and have sexual needs, that makes me a horrible person.

[HelpMeSleep]

Tale as old as time...as long as you guys keep "hooking up" you're inevitably going to date again.
well, that would be ideal. i just don't want to get my hopes up.

[HelpMeSleep]

It's a sad day in my life when I realize that grabbing someone's ass makes it seem like they're still into...
lol i don't really think the ass grabbing is particularly important, but honestly i wasn't expecting it at that particular moment.

[thesafeword]

Old news to me.

[brentkid]

Wow could you be any more of a whore? I mean where's your self pride? You're disgusting.
Blowing things out of proportion there, chief.

Personally I wouldn't find myself in a situation like this. Too messy with people's emotions.

[HelpMeSleep]

Blowing things out of proportion there, chief.

Personally I wouldn't find myself in a situation like this. Too messy with people's emotions.
yeah, that was kind of what i though too. i'm pretty sure i could find plenty of people who are bigger whores than me but whatever.

[DickfaceChillah]

My advice would be to stop fucking him. You're leading yourself on. Even thought you still have feelings for him, you gotta understand it's unhealthy to keep fucking the guy that wants to fuck you but not date you. You gotta give yourself space to get over it or that shit will always stick.

[HelpMeSleep]

My advice would be to stop fucking him. You're leading yourself on. Even thought you still have feelings for him, you gotta understand it's unhealthy to keep fucking the guy that wants to fuck you but not date you. You gotta give yourself space to get over it or that shit will always stick.
i know i really should. all my friends tell me to too. one of them he like talkshow analyzed my relationship last night and was giving me advice. it's all solid advice that i know is good and true, but there really isn't any reasoning with me. it's like i KNOW i shouldn't but i can't let go of him and i'm just HOPING that as summer goes on, he'll take me out and things will get back on track.

[DickfaceChillah]

i know i really should. all my friends tell me to too. one of them he like talkshow analyzed my relationship last night and was giving me advice. it's all solid advice that i know is good and true, but there really isn't any reasoning with me. it's like i KNOW i shouldn't but i can't let go of him and i'm just HOPING that as summer goes on, he'll take me out and things will get back on track.

Truth. A lot of people really have to learn for themselves. But chances are he won't take you back like that. Maybe he will, I dunno him, but I just hope you figure shit out.

[HelpMeSleep]

Truth. A lot of people really have to learn for themselves. But chances are he won't take you back like that. Maybe he will, I dunno him, but I just hope you figure shit out.
thanks :) i do too. its just hard because i really didn't see it coming. i mean, HE was the one who wanted to move in together this fall (which i thought was kind of crazy) and was so sure we'd be together then and i believed it all.

i asked him tonight if he wanted to hook up again this week and all he said was i dunno. i'm going to my old neighbor who's like my little brother's baseball game tomorrow and my ex's little brother is on the team too so i'm hoping i'll see him there. although he hasn't been to the last 3 that i've been to fr this tournament, but this is the championships... so he really SHOULD go haha. i dunno i hope it works out or atleast if it doesn't, i hope i don't fuck myself up too bad.

[DickfaceChillah]

thanks :) i do too. its just hard because i really didn't see it coming. i mean, HE was the one who wanted to move in together this fall (which i thought was kind of crazy) and was so sure we'd be together then and i believed it all.

i asked him tonight if he wanted to hook up again this week and all he said was i dunno. i'm going to my old neighbor who's like my little brother's baseball game tomorrow and my ex's little brother is on the team too so i'm hoping i'll see him there. although he hasn't been to the last 3 that i've been to fr this tournament, but this is the championships... so he really SHOULD go haha. i dunno i hope it works out or atleast if it doesn't, i hope i don't fuck myself up too bad.

Or maybe he was hooking up with other girls instead of going to those games...

[HelpMeSleep]

Or maybe he was hooking up with other girls instead of going to those games...
ughh... i really hate that thought.

when we first talked last week on tuesday, i asked if he'd found a way better girl yet, because when he'd said he would easily when we broke up, and he said no. and then he told me he wasn't trying to date right now and he asked if i found another guy. but then on thursday night i was texting him when i was drinking at my friend's party and he said he wasn't interested in hooking up and i asked if he had someone else and he said yes and that i wouldn't know her.

but then we started talking on sunday again and he wanted to hook up and i asked if he was fucking her and he said no that they'd just gone out a couple times but that it was nothing. and when i saw him that night, it sounded like he'd been working a lot and i really don't think he's gone out that much. his 4th of july sounded pretty lame from what he said (especially for him, he parties way more than i ever have) and i facebook stalked him and all his friends (lame i know) and he wasn't in anyone's pictures so i actually don't think he did anything that night which actually makes me happy.

speak of the devil, he just on aim. my computer like dings everytime he get on and it says pat is now available haha.

[concernedparent]

This one girl I was talking to told me that she still kept having sex with her ex bf even though they had broken up like 3 months before. FUCK YOU.

[Jumpoff]

Pics or didn't happen.

[HelpMeSleep]

This one girl I was talking to told me that she still kept having sex with her ex bf even though they had broken up like 3 months before. FUCK YOU.
well, it's not like i'm currently talking to anyone else. if someone else came along, i would obviously choose one or the other. that's just shady.

[annaboun]

Been there, done that. Not a good idea.

[DickfaceChillah]

ughh... i really hate that thought.

when we first talked last week on tuesday, i asked if he'd found a way better girl yet, because when he'd said he would easily when we broke up, and he said no. and then he told me he wasn't trying to date right now and he asked if i found another guy. but then on thursday night i was texting him when i was drinking at my friend's party and he said he wasn't interested in hooking up and i asked if he had someone else and he said yes and that i wouldn't know her.

but then we started talking on sunday again and he wanted to hook up and i asked if he was fucking her and he said no that they'd just gone out a couple times but that it was nothing. and when i saw him that night, it sounded like he'd been working a lot and i really don't think he's gone out that much. his 4th of july sounded pretty lame from what he said (especially for him, he parties way more than i ever have) and i facebook stalked him and all his friends (lame i know) and he wasn't in anyone's pictures so i actually don't think he did anything that night which actually makes me happy.

speak of the devil, he just on aim. my computer like dings everytime he get on and it says pat is now available haha.


Jesus Christ, it sounds like you need to stop fucking around with this dude ASAP. Dude wasn't out partying on 4th of July cause he was pounding another girl. He probably fucks you, goes home and showers, then goes and fucks her. You're fueling the art of womanizing.

[HelpMeSleep]

Jesus Christ, it sounds like you need to stop fucking around with this dude ASAP. Dude wasn't out partying on 4th of July cause he was pounding another girl. He probably fucks you, goes home and showers, then goes and fucks her. You're fueling the art of womanizing.
but see, i can't believe that. it's stupid... but i don't know, i just don't believe that. i can't really explain it, but i know him and how he is and from seeing and talking to him that other night, i'm just positive that's not what he was doing on the 4th and that he isn't fucking someone else. even when we were together and we'd have issues and we'd fight and i'd accuse him of lying, the one thing i never questioned was if he cheated on me. i could just tell and i still can.

[XPunkxRockxDeeX]

I've been in a situation like this (yes, i kow I'm fifteen...blah) but i've learned that guys don't always see as much emotion in sex. he probably thinks you want to be 'friends with benefits'. definitely ask him because if you keep going with this you could get hurt *emotionally*. he could feel the same way as you or he could just want laid...guys are like that (and some girls).

[brentkid]

The absolute worst thing a person can do is allow their ex to string them along after a break-up.

[SLoT]

dont do this. it'll end badly for you. because you're a girl. this usually ends badly for the ladies.

[fadedmemories]

keep things shallow

[Paulb-182]

age old trick, i do it myself, pretend to be nice to get what you want, thats what he's doing, :)

[Mirrorsandfevers]

The absolute worst thing a person can do is allow their ex to string them along after a break-up.

Listen to Arnold!

[remyy]

I get along well with my ex. We never said like, "okey, it's over".
Just gradually stopped seeing eachother. But now we go out at town together alot and have fun once in a while :)

[Maxwell]

age old trick, i do it myself, pretend to be nice to get what you want, thats what he's doing, :)

internet high-5 right there.

[Burning Star IV]

Lol playground fellatio.

[Cure4commoncold]

Just stop while you're ahead. He's not going to get hurt either way it sounds like but, you have the potential possibly for getting hurt. I would just drop it. In all seriousness you have feelings but those will diminish with time and you'll find another guy. Don't keep putting yourself in this situation where you can get hurt though. You're wearing your heart on your sleeve and this guys carrying a fucking battle axe surrounded by flowers....

[DickfaceChillah]

Yeah dude, seriously, John Tucker's going to give you (and other girls) cold sores.

[concernedparent]

well, it's not like i'm currently talking to anyone else. if someone else came along, i would obviously choose one or the other. that's just shady.
Well it was like, she told me that right when I started to talk to her and it turned me off from talking to her.

[pilot_light_out]

yeah go for it.

[Cure4commoncold]

Well it was like, she told me that right when I started to talk to her and it turned me off from talking to her.

At least she told you outright? I'd give her kudos for being honest upfront. Most people hide skeletons like that for release later on. At least she was honest enough and brave enough to tell you immediately.

[TK]

I try to avoid hooking up with old ex's, as that never ends well.

[AlexOnFire11]

so i've never been in a hooking up relationship until now and i'm not entirely sure how it works, especially in this case because it's with my ex.

we broke up about 2 weeks ago, and the first week he wouldn't talk to me or give me any explanations or anything, and then i talked a lot of shit about him and we were both really angry. and then the second week, we talked for about an hour on aim and we were very civil and then we talked about hooking up too. and then i'd asked if he didn't hate me then and his response was "i dunno, i mean i'll fuck you". so i agreed but i mean, obviously i wasn't expecting much more than fucking.

but then 2 nights ago, we hooked up and it was really good, but i was surprised by how he acted. he said hi and greeted me by kissing me and grabbing my ass and really didn't act that much different from when we were together, and was a lot more affectionate than i would have expected. and when i dropped him off back at his house, he kissed me goodbye and was like "i get off work at 8 tomorrow, i'll call you then" and i was really surprised.

i don't really know what to think. or do people usually fake affection when they're just hooking up with people?? i wouldn't know.

Be careful. I was in the same situation once and it ends up sucking.
Sure, the sex is fantastic. But then YOU start to want more & he just wants a quick fuck.
As shitty as this sounds, it might just be easier to sever ties w/ him.

[spansen]

i'm not over him and i'm kind of hoping this could lead to dating and maybe eventually getting back together, but i'm feeling very whatever happens, happens. either way, i've been really horny since we broke up and i'd rather do it with him than anyone else.

why'd you break up in the first place?... and i find it funny that guys are thought of as the hornier of the two sexes, when i hardly ever really get horny, and my ex was often horny.. ha

[pinkluv13]

it's not worth it. i've been in the situation before. get over the good sex and his sweetness. please for your own self-respect.

[HelpMeSleep]

Lol playground fellatio.
haha it wasn't head, just sex. and technically not on the playground.

Just stop while you're ahead. He's not going to get hurt either way it sounds like but, you have the potential possibly for getting hurt. I would just drop it. In all seriousness you have feelings but those will diminish with time and you'll find another guy. Don't keep putting yourself in this situation where you can get hurt though. You're wearing your heart on your sleeve and this guys carrying a fucking battle axe surrounded by flowers....
yeah.. that's true. i know you're completely right. it's just really hard to actually do it. i talked to him a tiny bit today, i was at my neighbor's baseball game and i told him he should come watch his little brother since it was the district championships and he was like yeah i know but i'm working and then we talked about how he's been working a ton lately and that was it.

Yeah dude, seriously, John Tucker's going to give you (and other girls) cold sores.
i have yet to get any cold sores ever haha. he's really not a manwhore. from what he told me months ago, all the girls he's slept with were all girlfriends and 4 out of 5 of them were in high school. i definitely thought he was a sleeze though when we first started talking 3 years ago when i was a junior and he was a senior haha.

Well it was like, she told me that right when I started to talk to her and it turned me off from talking to her.
ohh like you just don't respect that?

Be careful. I was in the same situation once and it ends up sucking.
Sure, the sex is fantastic. But then YOU start to want more & he just wants a quick fuck.
As shitty as this sounds, it might just be easier to sever ties w/ him.
honestly, i totally agree. it's just easier said then done, you know?

why'd you break up in the first place?... and i find it funny that guys are thought of as the hornier of the two sexes, when i hardly ever really get horny, and my ex was often horny.. ha
it was actually a pretty shitty breakup. sorry i'm incapable of telling short stories. he'd been out of town for a little over a week and i was kicked out of my house so i was staying in a hotel my dad was paying for. so i'm coming back from my friends boyfriends house like a sunday night (where i actually got food poisoning that night) and we're texting and he ends up surprising me and coming over about an hour after his flight got in and he stays for a couple hours until like 2:30 and everything seems great and then as soon as he leaves, i get really sick because of the salmonella poisoning i didn't know i had. and then we didn't talk the next day but i didn't really care because i was busy dying. so then the next day, tuesday, i text him and invite him to spend the night that night and he doesnt reply. and then that afternoon i find out that he blocked me on aim which is just ridiculous. so i ask what i did and he was seriously just like "leave me alone", "don't talk to me, youre crazy" and he didnt want to have anything to do with me. randomly out of nowhere, complete 180... i was just like wtf are you bipolar?? since i've seen you all i've done is not eat and watch seinfeld all day, how can you hate me for those 2 things?? so basically he didnt even break up with me he just stopped talking to me and it fucking sucked.

as for the horny thing, totally doesn't apply here. it might sound like i'm the really horny one, but trust me, it was a mutually very horny relationship. we were both horny all the time. when he was at school, we would stay up like all night on the phone and we would both be ridiculously horny... sadly i think we were better long distance haha.

[AlexOnFire11]

yah i def. know..
hah. good luck.

[DickfaceChillah]

i have yet to get any cold sores ever haha. he's really not a manwhore. from what he told me months ago, all the girls he's slept with were all girlfriends and 4 out of 5 of them were in high school. i definitely thought he was a sleeze though when we first started talking 3 years ago when i was a junior and he was a senior haha.


some std's have no symptoms! you never know the people you think you know the most...

[HelpMeSleep]

some std's have no symptoms! you never know the people you think you know the most...
yess thats true. getting std tested should be fun.... psyche.

oh and i think you were saying something about how he was prob fucking some other girl on the 4th, but i didn't think so. so the kid whos like my little brother was hanging out with my ex's little brother after their baseball game today so i asked him to find out what pat did that night. and my little stalker source told me he stayed home that night, just like i thought and just like he told me. which makes me feel so much better. :-)

[DickfaceChillah]

yess thats true. getting std tested should be fun.... psyche.

oh and i think you were saying something about how he was prob fucking some other girl on the 4th, but i didn't think so. so the kid whos like my little brother was hanging out with my ex's little brother after their baseball game today so i asked him to find out what pat did that night. and my little stalker source told me he stayed home that night, just like i thought and just like he told me. which makes me feel so much better. :-)

phone sex'd someone? eh? haha.

[HelpMeSleep]

phone sex'd someone? eh? haha.
haha. you are way too keen on him fucking someone else. it's totally possible he isn't.

[thesafeword]

And totally possible that he is.

[HelpMeSleep]

well, i know that. i don't think thats the case though.

[thesafeword]

Haha, just saying.

[HelpMeSleep]

haha i know. i'm just defensive about it... like i know i want to get back together and i'm not expecting that from him... though i'm honestly hoping for it down the line. but seriously, i know him and when i saw him the other night, i could tell that he hasn't been getting any lately. i actually felt bad for the boy, despite the fact that things are weird and that he was an ass to me, he's been working so much and he just seemed tired and burnt out and he really needed to shave.. the stache is so not his thing haha.

[DickfaceChillah]

haha. you are way too keen on him fucking someone else. it's totally possible he isn't.

i'm not fond of giving guys the benefit of the doubt. after all, i am male.

[HelpMeSleep]

i'm not fond of giving guys the benefit of the doubt. after all, i am male.
this is true, very true. but in this particular case, i wouldn't really consider it the benefit of the doubt. like i was saying right before this, i am POSITIVE he hasn't been getting any. i can tell.

[Cure4commoncold]

I know how hard it is. Last year I was at a party and I invited my ex because she and I were still very good friends and I still liked her because she had been doing stuff with me but, at that party I was on medication and I drank alcohol and I almost literally died and I remember her coming in and looking at me and I told her I was so sorry for everything that went wrong between us because I thought I was going to literally die I could barely breathe. Well about half an hour later she went and sucked my best friend who was also at the party off. Needless to say I lost a best friend that night and I gained knowledge that no matter how pitiful you think someone may be or how much you think they may still like you. 90% of the time they're standing hugging you with one arm and holding a gun to your head with the other hand. Sad thing is I had to almost die to realize this.

[DickfaceChillah]

this is true, very true. but in this particular case, i wouldn't really consider it the benefit of the doubt. like i was saying right before this, i am POSITIVE he hasn't been getting any. i can tell.

Well, I'll hope not. But if he ends up getting it from other sources...



























































































































































































I'm not going to lol.

[drewziph]

people act more affectionate when not in the relationship because its more appealing.
its a power thing.

[spansen]

it was actually a pretty shitty breakup. sorry i'm incapable of telling short stories. he'd been out of town for a little over a week and i was kicked out of my house so i was staying in a hotel my dad was paying for. so i'm coming back from my friends boyfriends house like a sunday night (where i actually got food poisoning that night) and we're texting and he ends up surprising me and coming over about an hour after his flight got in and he stays for a couple hours until like 2:30 and everything seems great and then as soon as he leaves, i get really sick because of the salmonella poisoning i didn't know i had. and then we didn't talk the next day but i didn't really care because i was busy dying. so then the next day, tuesday, i text him and invite him to spend the night that night and he doesnt reply. and then that afternoon i find out that he blocked me on aim which is just ridiculous. so i ask what i did and he was seriously just like "leave me alone", "don't talk to me, youre crazy" and he didnt want to have anything to do with me. randomly out of nowhere, complete 180... i was just like wtf are you bipolar?? since i've seen you all i've done is not eat and watch seinfeld all day, how can you hate me for those 2 things?? so basically he didnt even break up with me he just stopped talking to me and it fucking sucked.

as for the horny thing, totally doesn't apply here. it might sound like i'm the really horny one, but trust me, it was a mutually very horny relationship. we were both horny all the time. when he was at school, we would stay up like all night on the phone and we would both be ridiculously horny... sadly i think we were better long distance haha.

that's still weird.. you're in an odd situation. i know i'd handle it differently than you are.. but you're you. so do whatever you feel is right. but if it ends up all he wants are booty calls you're gonna feel incredibly low soon enough..

[anamericangod]

So wrong, it's right.

[HelpMeSleep]

i'm thinking that against my better judgement (and everyone else's apparently), i'm just gonna keep doing it. the thing is, i just miss him. and we had a really stupid relationship, we hadn't even seen each other in a year and we were so serious about everything before he even came back home from school. it would've been so much better if we just let things happen.

i'm gonna follow my gut. i'm young, i don't need to be in a serious relationship or anything... so we can just have fun. i'm not ready to give things up with him... and if it doesn't work out, there's 2 other guys that i work with who i have crushes on so hopefully i won't be too heartbroken haha.

[llwilliamsll]

I would be that guy who would hook up with an ex in your state because it's so easy and exploitable. Manipulation gets be excited.

[HelpMeSleep]

I would be that guy who would hook up with an ex in your state because it's so easy and exploitable. Manipulation gets be excited.
what state? i'm not in any state. i'm just fine now.

[holyballs]

sex and a ride, hot damn

[HelpMeSleep]

sex and a ride, hot damn
i know right. i was/am too good to him haha.

[llwilliamsll]

what state? i'm not in any state. i'm just fine now.
That state of giving it up so easily to an ex and consistently. I would continue doing that until I found someone new/else.

[a gym bag]

I'm in a similar situation; I still hook up with my ex from time to time. We broke up because I went to California for college but now that I'm back in Texas for good there is a good chance that we'll get back together. She is still "trying to figure everything out", but I'm fairly certain that we'll be an official couple again in the near future.

[HelpMeSleep]

That state of giving it up so easily to an ex and consistently. I would continue doing that until I found someone new/else.
i'm not giving it up that easily. and it hasn't been consistent either.

[Greg]

i'm thinking that against my better judgement (and everyone else's apparently), i'm just gonna keep doing it. the thing is, i just miss him. and we had a really stupid relationship, we hadn't even seen each other in a year and we were so serious about everything before he even came back home from school. it would've been so much better if we just let things happen.

i'm gonna follow my gut. i'm young, i don't need to be in a serious relationship or anything... so we can just have fun. i'm not ready to give things up with him... and if it doesn't work out, there's 2 other guys that i work with who i have crushes on so hopefully i won't be too heartbroken haha.
that's probably the stupidest way to handle the situation. good job!

[HelpMeSleep]

that's probably the stupidest way to handle the situation. good job!
well thanks, i think i'll handle it completely differently since you said that. :rolleyes:

[Greg]

well thanks, i think i'll handle it completely differently since you said that. :rolleyes:
well other people tried to be reasonable and logical and explain why it is bad. and you ignored them. so i felt like doing that would be a waste of time at this point.

[HelpMeSleep]

well other people tried to be reasonable and logical and explain why it is bad. and you ignored them. so i felt like doing that would be a waste of time at this point.
i didn't ignore them, i listened to their points and agreed they were good. but i know what i'm doing... i haven't seen him in almost a week and i realized i really don't care. we were talking quite a bit last night and i didn't end up seeing him and that was just fine with me.

[NickLopez]

You're seriously 18 years old? :( So sad.

[ides of march]

The absolute worst thing a person can do is allow their ex to string them along after a break-up.
qft
even though you have these other 2 guys to fall back on, sounds like they're not gonna be this guy to you. even if this did lead back into a relationship, it would be a sex-based one, and those never end well.

[HelpMeSleep]

You're seriously 18 years old? :( So sad.
and what is your point? you're 17. that's worse.

[brentkid]

You're seriously 18 years old? :( So sad.
Dumbest fucking statement in this thread.

[HelpMeSleep]

Dumbest fucking statement in this thread.
haha basically. i was like um wtf when i read it.

[NickLopez]

tl;dr
This post was stupider.

[HelpMeSleep]

This post was stupider.
*more stupid

that one was pretty lame too. in that case, i don't know what the point of replying at all is. i still don't get the point of yours regardless.

[NickLopez]

*more stupid

that one was pretty lame too. in that case, i don't know what the point of replying at all is. i still don't get the point of yours regardless.
Both stupider and more stupid work. I don't understand the need for a correction.

Anyway, the point of replying is to further explain my overall point: that you, by coming across in this thread as someone that is not very intelligent, make me sad.

[HelpMeSleep]

Both stupider and more stupid work. I don't understand the need for a correction.

Anyway, the point of replying is to further explain my overall point: that you, by coming across in this thread as someone that is not very intelligent, make me sad.
whatever. plenty of people of would argue that it doesn't, and it doesn't sound right regardless.

haha. i'm quite intelligent so that's laughable. so i'm being stupid over a boy, i'm aware of it and i'm aware of all the consquences... and it's a choice i'm just fine making anyway... doesn't make me you or anyone else any smarter than me. and you shouldn't bother feeling sad because i'm not interested.

[NickLopez]

...than I.

And you're arguing against the dictionary. It sounds and is correct.

[HelpMeSleep]

:rolleyes: whatever. i kinda think you're a douche which means i kinda don't care what you think. now get out of my thread, thanks.

[brentkid]

The intelligence of this kid continues to blossom extravagantly.

[NickLopez]

The intelligence of this kid continues to blossom extravagantly.
You and I would probably get along if this were real life.

[VinceHotline]

no harm in getting your fuck on.

[thesafeword]

You and I would probably get along if this were real life.
This is real life.

[AlternateToLife]

...than I.

And you're arguing against the dictionary. It sounds and is correct.

Actually it'd be me wouldn't it? Me is the object pronoun and I believe it is the object on this sentence, correct me if I'm wrong.

[thespearkid]

This post was stupider.
Only five year old's say "stupider".

[bobby runs]

i'm not over him and i'm kind of hoping this could lead to dating and maybe eventually getting back together, but i'm feeling very whatever happens, happens. either way, i've been really horny since we broke up and i'd rather do it with him than anyone else.
this made me laugh hard


i did that with my ex but not fucking. a step below that. and i never had ANY intention of getting back with her. he wants your body and thats it

[brentkid]

You and I would probably get along if this were real life.
<3

[HelpMeSleep]

no harm in getting your fuck on.
thank you! see, that's what i'm saying.

Actually it'd be me wouldn't it? Me is the object pronoun and I believe it is the object on this sentence, correct me if I'm wrong.
hahaha i love you for that! and i'm pretty sure you are right indeed! but aww, look at this... you're smarter than him and you're only 15 and he's 17 :( so sad. hahha :-D

Only five year old's say "stupider".
true, along with things like "i know you are but what am i".

this made me laugh hard


i did that with my ex but not fucking. a step below that. and i never had ANY intention of getting back with her. he wants your body and thats it
i hope you're laughing with me and not at me. :-)

[thespearkid]

i hope you're laughing with me and not at me.
There's no "laughing at" here.

[bobby runs]

i hope you're laughing with me and not at me. :-)
why would I be laughing with you ?

[HelpMeSleep]

why would I be laughing with you ?
There's no "laughing at" here.
apparently not lol.

[jusscali]

no harm in getting your fuck on.
I loled

[bobby runs]

apparently not lol.
Do you honestly think he wants to get back with you?

[HelpMeSleep]

Do you honestly think he wants to get back with you?
no, i know he just wants to fuck, if he changed his mind though i'd be okay with that.

[saysmydoctor]

Stop being a bitch and anal him.

[NickLopez]

Actually it'd be me wouldn't it? Me is the object pronoun and I believe it is the object on this sentence, correct me if I'm wrong.
I was always taught that if you were to finish off the sentence, making it complete, whichever way made sense was the correct way to say the sentence.

For example: "Doesn't make me, you, or anyone else any smarter than I am" > "Doesn't make me, you, or anyone else any smarter than me am."

Correct me if I'm wrong, too.

Also, look out for it--stupider is more common than you'd imagine. Also, in what I think was the last post by LiarsTurnMeOn, it's "smarter than he", not "smarter than him". Smarter than he is > smarter than him is.

Finally, the internet is very, very different from real life. Either you haven't been on the internet enough to distinguish the differences, which I'm sure is not true, or you're ignoring that fact simply to disagree.

[HelpMeSleep]

Stop being a bitch and anal him.
how am i being a bitch? haha i'm fucking him after he dumped me like a complete ass.

[NickLopez]

Yeah, I just checked it. I'm correct.

On another note, this is a cool little page: http://www.spellchecker.net/spellcheck/

[HelpMeSleep]

good lord. this is a thread about sex and exes and such... not a grammar lesson. try the education forum. :wave:

[bobby runs]

no, i know he just wants to fuck, if he changed his mind though i'd be okay with that.
goes with this VVVVVV
Stop being a bitch and anal him.

[HelpMeSleep]

goes with this VVVVVV
i don't do anal, sorry.

[thespearkid]

apparently not lol.
Haha. Nevermind then.

[thesafeword]

She switched her username...

[HelpMeSleep]

i did switch my username. i've been wanting to for awhile and then i found out yesterday you can if you pay $3.

[bobby runs]

i don't do anal, sorry.
you should.
i did switch my username. i've been wanting to for awhile and then i found out yesterday you can if you pay $3.
what was it before

[LiquorAndDick]

Its pretty simple really. You meet up with them, have sex like you used to, and then decide you fell out for a reason and you don't talk until you hook up again.

edit: This thread gives me the idea of hooking up with my ex again.

[HelpMeSleep]

you should.

what was it before
honestly, i just don't really see any appeal to it.

and it was xotrulyblondox. i liked it when i made it my aim sn in 8th grade and then i just used it for everything else after that. i've hated it for awhile though, i'm not even blonde.

[HelpMeSleep]

Its pretty simple really. You meet up with them, have sex like you used to, and then decide you fell out for a reason and you don't talk until you hook up again.

edit: This thread gives me the idea of hooking up with my ex again.
yeah, but what about like the post-sex cuddling type stuff? does that stay or go? so far we've only hooked up once since we've been broken up and that was a quickie in the park so there was none of that.

as for your ex, go for it. are you guys on good terms?

[Chris Fallon]

I miss my ex. She was good to me.

/moment of relapse

[HelpMeSleep]

I miss my ex. She was good to me.

/moment of relapse
haha mine wasn't even that good to me... in the end anyway. i don't know why i miss him so much. and i don't know why i feel so sorry for him these days either, he was a total prick when he dumped me.

[jusscali]

I miss my ex. She was good to me.

/moment of relapse
Who dropped who and for what reasons?

[jusscali]

I really would love to fuck all my exes haha I feel like that attraction never goes away

[AlternateToLife]

I was always taught that if you were to finish off the sentence, making it complete, whichever way made sense was the correct way to say the sentence.

For example: "Doesn't make me, you, or anyone else any smarter than I am" > "Doesn't make me, you, or anyone else any smarter than me am."

Yeah, you're correct. I wasn't comprehending the verb after the "I" or "me."

hahaha i love you for that! and i'm pretty sure you are right indeed! but aww, look at this... you're smarter than him and you're only 15 and he's 17 :( so sad. hahha :-D

Well thank you but I'm not pretending to be smarter than anyone.

[HelpMeSleep]

I really would love to fuck all my exes haha I feel like that attraction never goes away
haha i only have one and i am still attracted to him and still fucking him. i suck at getting over people though, i like have to have someone else to like in order to do it.

Yeah, you're correct. I wasn't comprehending the verb after the "I" or "me."



Well thank you but I'm not pretending to be smarter than anyone.
if you read what he had been saying before that i was making fun of him.

[jusscali]

haha i only have one and i am still attracted to him and still fucking him. i suck at getting over people though, i like have to have someone else to like in order to do it.


if you read what he had been saying before that i was making fun of him.
I feel like we get over situations, not people. I've moved on from my past relationships, but I'm still drawn to the shit I liked about those girls in the first place. Hence the desire to drill them

[AlternateToLife]

if you read what he had been saying before that i was making fun of him.

Oh I know.

[Cure4commoncold]

I really would love to fuck all my exes haha I feel like that attraction never goes away

Amen to that.

[HelpMeSleep]

you know, i think i'm sick of his shit, i really can't deal with it.

i erased all the text messages in my inbox and i deleted him from my phonebook (too bad i have his number memorized) and from my ichat buddylist. i'm not gonna talk to him anymore. HE can talk to me if he has anything to say but i'm not gonna talk to him.

doubt i'll actually stick to this, fuck.

[WaltWizzle]

I feel like we get over situations, not people. I've moved on from my past relationships, but I'm still drawn to the shit I liked about those girls in the first place. Hence the desire to drill them
I definitely believe this.

[HelpMeSleep]

I definitely believe this.
i like your avatar. :-)

[Chris Fallon]

Who dropped who and for what reasons?
Mutual breakup. We dated for a little over two years, but were in very different places with where we wanted to go in our lives. I wanted to go to school, get a degree and move to California (still in that process) and she just wanted to find something comfortable and wasn't committed to a long-term deal at that point.

We talk frequently and I still love her and know she loves me (we have been close for several years), we just happen to be in different spots of life, aren't really ready to settle quite yet. She's had one boyfriend since (and he was a total dickhead - not that I'm much better haha), I haven't been involved with any girls for longer than a night (see? I'm an asshole) and well ... I've thought things were changing, getting better ... but really, I miss the hell out of her. It sucks. We were good, we just had to sacrifice for our own desires.

I have been trying to find someone new. Thought I did, fucked that up and now I'm basically in that stage where anything will do - and that really isn't me, I'm not a one-time-only guy. I'm just in a rut.

[HelpMeSleep]

Mutual breakup. We dated for a little over two years, but were in very different places with where we wanted to go in our lives. I wanted to go to school, get a degree and move to California (still in that process) and she just wanted to find something comfortable and wasn't committed to a long-term deal at that point.

We talk frequently and I still love her and know she loves me, we just happen to be in different spots of life, aren't really ready for to settle quite yet. She's had one boyfriend since (and he was a total dickhead - not that I'm much better haha), I haven't been involved with any girls for longer than a night (see? I'm an asshole) and well ... I've thought things were changing, getting better ... but really, I miss the hell out of her. It sucks. We were good, we just had to sacrifice for our own desires.
you're up late. :-)

that's sad, like the fact that you had to breakup and it wasn't because you weren't good together. but there's always the chance that things could work out for you guys later which is good.

where did you want to move in California? LA?

[Chris Fallon]

you're up late. :-)

that's sad, like the fact that you had to breakup and it wasn't because you weren't good together. but there's always the chance that things could work out for you guys later which is good.

where did you want to move in California? LA?
I have class at 9 and here I am, still wide awake! haha

It's tough because out of all the girls I've ever met, been with, etc. ... she was the one that calmed me down, took ahold of the real Chris and got him out of his shell. She really is a tremendous girl and hey - there's always hope, but she likes her job and wants to stay put (mainly her family). I want to be in film/television so yeah, LA is sort of where I need to go to fulfill my ambitions.

It was actually her birthday yesterday. I think that's partially what's made my night shitty: thinking about all this and dealing with a volatile relationship my best friend & I share.

[HelpMeSleep]

I have class at 9 and here I am, still wide awake! haha

It's tough because out of all the girls I've ever met, been with, etc. ... she was the one that calmed me down, took ahold of the real Chris and got him out of his shell. She really is a tremendous girl and hey - there's always hope, but she likes her job and wants to stay put (mainly her family). I want to be in film/television so yeah, LA is sort of where I need to go to fulfill my ambitions.

It was actually her birthday yesterday. I think that's partially what's made my night shitty: thinking about all this and dealing with a volatile relationship my best friend & I share.
haha same minus the class part. i have to get up and get ready in a few hours because my best friend and i are going apartment hunting in the morning before i have to go to work, and i don't know why i'm up or how it got this late lol.

aww well you're lucky that you've found/been with someone like that and who was that good for you even if you can't be with them right now. and that's good you can recognize all that stuff about your relationship... i can never tell if my feelings are real or if i'm just being young and naive and stupid haha. so she's staying in Washington and you're going to LA? what do you want to do in film/television? like acting or something else?

ahh sounds like yesterday was a good day. volatile relationships with best friends don't sound too fun either.

[Chris Fallon]

haha same minus the class part. i have to get up and get ready in a few hours because my best friend and i are going apartment hunting in the morning before i have to go to work, and i don't know why i'm up or how it got this late lol.

aww well you're lucky that you've found/been with someone like that and who was that good for you even if you can't be with them right now. and that's good you can recognize all that stuff about your relationship... i can never tell if my feelings are real or if i'm just being young and naive and stupid haha. so she's staying in Washington and you're going to LA? what do you want to do in film/television? like acting or something else?

ahh sounds like yesterday was a good day. volatile relationships with best friends don't sound too fun either.
She works in a law firm; she is a secretary, kind of like Pam from "The Office," taking notes and whatnot haha. I am interested in screenwriting/producing so in order to get a lot of connections and make that happen, LA is my calling. I'm trying to make myself move past our relationship because I ultimately know it won't ever work out - she makes really good money, I have no real desire to stay in Seattle and do anything up here.

Simply put: it's a very weird time, and honestly, with what happened last night, it's made my nostalgia that much stronger for "better days".

[Getup and Dance]

She works in a law firm; she is a secretary, kind of like Pam from "The Office," taking notes and whatnot haha. I am interested in screenwriting/producing so in order to get a lot of connections and make that happen, LA is my calling. I'm trying to make myself move past our relationship because I ultimately know it won't ever work out - she makes really good money, I have no real desire to stay in Seattle and do anything up here.

Simply put: it's a very weird time, and honestly, with what happened last night, it's made my nostalgia that much stronger for "better days".

You want to hook me up with a couple of your ex's if they are still in Washington?

If you want to goin in we could Eiffel tower them

[Fallinto_rhythm]

you know, i think i'm sick of his shit, i really can't deal with it.

i erased all the text messages in my inbox and i deleted him from my phonebook (too bad i have his number memorized) and from my ichat buddylist. i'm not gonna talk to him anymore. HE can talk to me if he has anything to say but i'm not gonna talk to him.

doubt i'll actually stick to this, fuck.

I'm sorry ms. Jacksonnn

[HelpMeSleep]

okay so my ex is officially a complete dumbass. what kind of fucking idiot lies to their girlfriend and tells them they work at some real estate office when they actually work at macy's in the mens shoes department?? i mean, really? wtf.. who does that?? would that not have caused some problems in the relationship if i'd walked into macy's when we were together and seen him there working and been like wtf you don't work here?? thats so pointless. what a fucking liar.

[HelpMeSleep]

She works in a law firm; she is a secretary, kind of like Pam from "The Office," taking notes and whatnot haha. I am interested in screenwriting/producing so in order to get a lot of connections and make that happen, LA is my calling. I'm trying to make myself move past our relationship because I ultimately know it won't ever work out - she makes really good money, I have no real desire to stay in Seattle and do anything up here.

Simply put: it's a very weird time, and honestly, with what happened last night, it's made my nostalgia that much stronger for "better days".
haha i've only seen The Office once but i had to watch because a bunch of people told me i'm a lot like one of the characters apparently. screenwriting and producing sounds like a pretty awesome job though. what's your major for that?

good luck moving past it, i'm sure LA will be great for you and everything will work out.

what happened last night?

I'm sorry ms. Jacksonnn
thankss. i totally forgot about that song but i now have it stuck in my head haha.

[Chris Fallon]

You want to hook me up with a couple of your ex's if they are still in Washington?

If you want to goin in we could Eiffel tower them
I'd like to Eiffel Tower your mom, if possible. You in?

I wouldn't mind hooking you up with the girl I date when I was 16. She's in the military, living in Louisiana, and looks like Britney during the shaved head years. TAKE HER - PLEASE!

haha i've only seen The Office once but i had to watch because a bunch of people told me i'm a lot like one of the characters apparently. screenwriting and producing sounds like a pretty awesome job though. what's your major for that?

good luck moving past it, i'm sure LA will be great for you and everything will work out.

what happened last night?
The Office = watch it! Oh, and I am a film/video studies major. Yup, I take classes on how to make movies, analyze films, write films, etc. My current class is all about communicating visually and sucks my nuts. I hate it.

Last night is a bit of a complicated story. My best friend and I have had a rough couple months and it all just came to a head last night. Said some things we probably didn't mean, basically told one another to fuck off ... she's meant the world to me for almost four years, and I admit I've been an asshole the past few months. We just need some time away to get some things worked out individually - the next three weeks should provide some ample change for yours truly.

And thank you for the kind words!

[thesafeword]

Watch the fucking Office!

[HelpMeSleep]

Watch the fucking Office!
haha okay. i've had multiple people tell me i'm just like Kelly i think it was. and then i've had people tell me she's really annoying. makes me feel great.

I'd like to Eiffel Tower your mom, if possible. You in?

I wouldn't mind hooking you up with the girl I date when I was 16. She's in the military, living in Louisiana, and looks like Britney during the shaved head years. TAKE HER - PLEASE!


The Office = watch it! Oh, and I am a film/video studies major. Yup, I take classes on how to make movies, analyze films, write films, etc. My current class is all about communicating visually and sucks my nuts. I hate it.

Last night is a bit of a complicated story. My best friend and I have had a rough couple months and it all just came to a head last night. Said some things we probably didn't mean, basically told one another to fuck off ... she's meant the world to me for almost four years, and I admit I've been an asshole the past few months. We just need some time away to get some things worked out individually - the next three weeks should provide some ample change for yours truly.

And thank you for the kind words!
the class you're taking now sounds really lame but the major in general sounds pretty cool.

ugh, that's rough. i hope with the time away and everything, it all gets worked out.

and you're welcome. i'm usually pretty good for kind words. :-)

[Chris Fallon]

haha okay. i've had multiple people tell me i'm just like Kelly i think it was. and then i've had people tell me she's really annoying. makes me feel great.


the class you're taking now sounds really lame but the major in general sounds pretty cool.

ugh, that's rough. i hope with the time away and everything, it all gets worked out.

and you're welcome. i'm usually pretty good for kind words. :-)
<3

[Fallinto_rhythm]

haha i've only seen The Office once but i had to watch because a bunch of people told me i'm a lot like one of the characters apparently. screenwriting and producing sounds like a pretty awesome job though. what's your major for that?

good luck moving past it, i'm sure LA will be great for you and everything will work out.

what happened last night?


thankss. i totally forgot about that song but i now have it stuck in my head haha.

ohhh I am for reaaaal

[HelpMeSleep]

so today i went to the mall again after work and i went to macy's mens on the premise of looking for for a birthday present for my dad and i saw pat there working as i was leaving the mall. we made eye contact and he looked like he was gonna talk to me so i just sort of narrowed my eyes and glared at him really quick and then i darted behind this one clothing rack display thing like a fucking gazelle.

i think it was a pretty good way of handling the situation because obviously i couldn't go over there and talk to him. i mean, i'm sure even he will know that i'm pissed and that i didn't want to talk to him, and since we made eye contact before i ducked behind that display, it's obvious that i wasn't trying to not be seen by him. so you know maybe he'll think i was genuinely surprised to see him there and that i wasn't stalking him... even though i was.

and i have it all planned out, if he tries to talk to me anytime soon, i'm going to say "i didn't know they sold real estate in macy's" and then he's gonna know what a fucking dumbass he is. HA

[HelpMeSleep]

just for the sake of ranting about this... i texted him last night and made my little real estate in macy's comment and he replied while i was at work this morning and said "its called having two jobs bitch".

and then after work i had to go to the mall to meet my family for dinner at the cheesecake factory for my sister's birthday so of course i parked and and went in and out through macy's mens. and of course like an hour after i get home, i get a text from him that says "what you need in shoes".

and then we end up texting a little, and then later on talking for 2 hours. and then he tells me that sex isn't really a big deal to him and he's like theres plenty of girls that work with him at macys that want to fuck him and its kinda like whatever so i get all pissy and am just like well ok then go fuck your macys girls whatever. and then he's all like i didnt say i fucked them and then he tells me that sex isn't a big deal and that he only likes to do it like in a relationship.

[4N6 science]

just for the sake of ranting about this... i texted him last night and made my little real estate in macy's comment and he replied while i was at work this morning and said "its called having two jobs bitch".

and then after work i had to go to the mall to meet my family for dinner at the cheesecake factory for my sister's birthday so of course i parked and and went in and out through macy's mens. and of course like an hour after i get home, i get a text from him that says "what you need in shoes".

and then we end up texting a little, and then later on talking for 2 hours. and then he tells me that sex isn't really a big deal to him and he's like theres plenty of girls that work with him at macys that want to fuck him and its kinda like whatever so i get all pissy and am just like well ok then go fuck your macys girls whatever. and then he's all like i didnt say i fucked them and then he tells me that sex isn't a big deal and that he only likes to do it like in a relationship.


this kid is lame.. leave him alone.. I had textsext last night it was fun

[HelpMeSleep]

this kid is lame.. leave him alone.. I had textsext last night it was fun
i know. i'm bad at it though. (obviously)

yayyy for textsext!! haha :-D

[4N6 science]

i know. i'm bad at it though. (obviously)

yayyy for textsext!! haha :-D

lol yeah I won't judge I do the same thing..

why did you blurt that out!! that's why I put it in a spoiler!!

[HelpMeSleep]

lol yeah I won't judge I do the same thing..

why did you blurt that out!! that's why I put it in a spoiler!!
oops! my b!! i fixed it haha.

[4N6 science]

oops! my b!! i fixed it haha.

haha thanks!!! ;-)