ok guys i need your help...

[aLonleySeptembe]

so there's this guy that i've been in love with for the past 4 years... We were together when we were younger, but things got messed up and we stopped talking for a few months, but when we finally got over how much we hurt each other we became friends again. The next year we became best friends, and literally hung out every single day(just the two of us). It took us another year to work up to kissing again, and i really thought we were going to end up together. Needless to say, we hooked up for a month and then something came up and we couldnt be together. (his best friend liked me too, so it was a complicated situation). We stayed friends after that, but then stopped talking for a few months. He randomly called me after we hadnt spoken for a while, and we ended up being good friends again. I hadn't spoken to him for a couple of weeks, and i randomly saw him at a party about a week ago, and we were flirting and everything felt so right. I was there with another guy, but we were only dating, nothing serious and i let him now that right away. We text each other for the next few days. but now he doesnt answer any of my ims or texts. I saw him again last night, and he kissed me on the cheek and walked away and just sat with one of his friends for about an hour and then went home. I don't know what to do. Should i just leave him alone and believe that if its meant to happen he'll come back to me? or should i try to see why he's ignoring me?

[4N6 science]

how come anal wasn't an option?

[LansingGaddis]

And why is that shit blue?

[aLonleySeptembe]

Because blue is a pretty color
Any real advice? and anal is not an option lol

[Getup and Dance]

tl;dr

[LansingGaddis]

Because blue is a pretty color
Any real advice? and anal is not an option lol

Blue sucks. And why isn't anal an option? Guarantee - you offer him anal and he'll start talking to you again.

[argg_xo]

didn't read cuz the font was blue.

[4N6 science]

didn't read cuz the font was blue.

hahah same here and it was too long and anal was offered...


anal will make him happy.

[aLonleySeptembe]

Blue sucks. And why isn't anal an option? Guarantee - you offer him anal and he'll start talking to you again.
lol thats actually pretty true, he's become a complete man whore over the past couple of years... but i still really care about him

[4N6 science]

not enough to offer anal..

[argg_xo]

hahah same here and it was too long and anal was offered...


anal will make him happy.

anal is always an option.

[LansingGaddis]

Seriously. If you really cared anal would be a given.

[singlexsorrow]

I think first you should try to ask him why he is giving you signs and then out of the blue he backs off. Other than that, I think you should just leave him alone. He is causing you a lot of confusion and it just seems like he is playing games with you. You should just try to back off but stay friends if you want and find someone else that interests you.

[LansingGaddis]

I think first you should try to ask him why he is giving you signs and then out of the blue he backs off. Other than that, I think you should just leave him alone. He is causing you a lot of confusion and it just seems like he is playing games with you. You should just try to back off but stay friends if you want and find someone else that interests you.

Woah woah woah... When did we start offering real advice here? Not acceptable.

[4N6 science]

Woah woah woah... When did we start offering real advice here? Not acceptable.

agreed.. what is that nonsense, it has no place here.

[argg_xo]

real advice?!!? what has the PL come too?!!!!!!

[Getup and Dance]

so there's this guy that i've been in love with for the past 4 years... We were together when we were younger, but things got messed up and we stopped talking for a few months, but when we finally got over how much we hurt each other we became friends again. The next year we became best friends, and literally hung out every single day(just the two of us). It took us another year to work up to kissing again, and i really thought we were going to end up together. Needless to say, we hooked up for a month and then something came up and we couldnt be together. (his best friend liked me too, so it was a complicated situation). We stayed friends after that, but then stopped talking for a few months. He randomly called me after we hadnt spoken for a while, and we ended up being good friends again. I hadn't spoken to him for a couple of weeks, and i randomly saw him at a party about a week ago, and we were flirting and everything felt so right. I was there with another guy, but we were only dating, nothing serious and i let him now that right away. We text each other for the next few days. but now he doesnt answer any of my ims or texts. I saw him again last night, and he kissed me on the cheek and walked away and just sat with one of his friends for about an hour and then went home. I don't know what to do. Should i just leave him alone and believe that if its meant to happen he'll come back to me? or should i try to see why he's ignoring me?

Nudes of yourself?

[4N6 science]

who voted no???

[aLonleySeptembe]

I think first you should try to ask him why he is giving you signs and then out of the blue he backs off. Other than that, I think you should just leave him alone. He is causing you a lot of confusion and it just seems like he is playing games with you. You should just try to back off but stay friends if you want and find someone else that interests you.

thanks a lot, i really appreciate the advice. See usually i wouldnt care, like i never pursue guys... its just so different with him because this has been going on for so long.

[LansingGaddis]

Nudes of yourself?

Good idea. That's the type of contribution we need here. How old is the op anyway? I'm on the mobile version so I can't see.

[singlexsorrow]

thanks a lot, i really appreciate the advice. See usually i wouldnt care, like i never pursue guys... its just so different with him because this has been going on for so long.

Yeah from your story it seems like this guy was first interested in you so he made that call to you. But later he probably felt hesitant and wasn't sure if it was right so that could be why he hasn't been replying back to your texts or kissing you and then just walking away to sit with his friend for an hour. It's either that, or he is a straight up jerk and is leading you on cause that's just how some guys are sometimes. =/

[Getup and Dance]

Good idea. That's the type of contribution we need here. How old is the op anyway? I'm on the mobile version so I can't see.

It says 18 so we are in the clear.

Unless she lies.

[aLonleySeptembe]

well if i was lying that would be retarded because i said ive been in love with the kid for 4 years... so if i was any younger than 18 i would have fallen in love with him when i was 13 which doesnt make sense... and ill be 19 in a couple of months

and no i am not sending you nude pictures.

[chronomic]

tl;dr



and if you're gonna want a real answer from anyone here, we must see a picture of you. boobs exposed.

[Getup and Dance]

tl;dr



and if you're gonna want a real answer from anyone here, we must see a picture of you. boobs exposed.

and mabye not wearing pants.

[thesafeword]

If you want me to take you seriously, write in the accepted font and send me n00dz.
Also, anal.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

take a shot of patron... Or four!

[Burning Star IV]

Murder him...

and violated his corpse. That'll show him.

[hockeyguitar99]

anal is always an option.

thats what I was going to say.

ANAL FTW

[aLonleySeptembe]

are there any girls who want to give me advice??
and aren't going to ask for nude pictures. lol

[Getup and Dance]

are there any girls who want to give me advice??
and aren't going to ask for nude pictures. lol

Nudes?

[Burning Star IV]

You'd get some advice if you showed us your tits.

[4N6 science]

unfortunately there are none..

but seriously if you post n00dz everyone will give you real advice.. n00dz are used like currency here.

[xXaLLiOo]

i think someone should write absolutepunk across their tits and it would be like our mascot.

[Getup and Dance]

i think someone should write absolutepunk across their tits and it would be like our mascot.

You are 18, Why don't you do it?

[Miss Heartcore]

And why is that shit blue?
didn't read cuz the font was blue.
who voted no???
:lol:

[Burning Star IV]

You are 18, Why don't you do it?
I second this.

[Willy McFurgle]

Blue makes me not care, Now rainbow... Thats the good stuff.

[HelpMeSleep]

are there any girls who want to give me advice??
and aren't going to ask for nude pictures. lol
drop him. i let this guy jerk me around for 3 years (although, to be honest, the first 2 were more me jerking him around) talking on and off until we finally got together and he dumped me a couple weeks after we had sex. and he lied to me about a bunch of retarded bullshit.

i'll talk to him if he talks to me but i won't initiate anything from here on out. boys who play stupid games aren't worth pursuing, no matter how you think you feel about them.

[DannySniper]

Blue makes me not care, Now rainbow... Thats the good stuff.

Oh, you know how I love it when you talk to me in rainbow, you naughty, naughty boy.

[thespearkid]

drop him. i let this guy jerk me around for 3 years (although, to be honest, the first 2 were more me jerking him off)
Fixed.

[Miss Heartcore]

Fixed.
:-0

[HelpMeSleep]

Fixed.
haha nice touch there. that's actually more the last 3 or 4 months though.

[thesafeword]

You are 18, Why don't you do it?
You see, Washington comes up with some damn good ideas.

[drewziph]

who voted no???
me. she should just offer him some sex a la butthole.

[4N6 science]

me. she should just offer him some sex a la butthole.

yeah I know..but she doesn't like him enough to do so..

[drewziph]

also... she found out how to add a poll to a thread but couldn't work out how fucking stupid blue text is?

[drewziph]

then she's a quitter.
a cocktease quitter.

[4N6 science]

then she's a quitter.
a cocktease quitter.

agreed..

[aLonleySeptembe]

drop him. i let this guy jerk me around for 3 years (although, to be honest, the first 2 were more me jerking him around) talking on and off until we finally got together and he dumped me a couple weeks after we had sex. and he lied to me about a bunch of retarded bullshit.

i'll talk to him if he talks to me but i won't initiate anything from here on out. boys who play stupid games aren't worth pursuing, no matter how you think you feel about them.



yea, and he's been playing games since we were 15. Im just going to move on, and if he really cares about me even as a friend he'll make the first move. Thanks for the advice!

[drewziph]

yea, and he's been playing games since we were 15. Im just going to move on, and if he really cares about me even as a friend he'll make the first move. Thanks for the advice!
thankyou for using normal font.

[aLonleySeptembe]

thankyou for using normal font.
you're welcome....

[TheHigh]

how come anal wasn't an option?


hahahahaHAHAHAHAHAHA OMG. lauging out loud at work. as we speak.

[Wildflower61388]

become your own strong independant woman and save anal for marriage (keep one hole tight for later in life!) haha

[TheHigh]

then she's a quitter.
a cocktease quitter.

a buttfucking quitter.

[drewziph]

a buttfucking quitter.
who wont buttfuck... lol

honestly, anal would solve this problem.

[4N6 science]

become your own strong independant woman and save anal for marriage (keep one hole tight for later in life!) haha

interesting advice..

[LansingGaddis]

Interesting and terrible

[4N6 science]

Interesting and terrible

hahah yeah.. I should've included that in my response also..

[Wildflower61388]

haha anal fucking hurts! if u were a girl you would understand!

[4N6 science]

haha anal fucking hurts! if u were a girl you would understand!

well it seems we have someone with personal experience?

[bigblue2015]

become your own strong independant woman and save anal for marriage (keep one hole tight for later in life!) haha

HAHAHA YOU'RE RIGHT!

No. Anal or GTFO.

[LansingGaddis]

hahah yeah.. I should've included that in my response also..

It's ok. I think we all knew where you where you were going with that response.

[4N6 science]

It's ok. I think we all knew where you where you were going with that response.

yeah..its implied that anal is the greatest thing and solution to all of lifes problems.

[Wildflower61388]

HAHAHA YOU'RE RIGHT!

No. Anal or GTFO.
i'm not saying no to anal.. i'm simply saying to delay it that is all haha

[crushlustcrash]

well i think you should just totally let him go.
come on.everything will be fine.
if you guys don't end up together,you'll find somebody else eventually.
and if he came back to you,ask him why the fuck did he ignored you.
if his reason is acceptable and you feel like getting back together then get back together.
if his reason is unacceptable get him drunk as hell,strip him down,take his clothes,leave him somewhere downtown then delete his name from your phone.
that's what i did,sure it wasnt the effin right thing to do but it was hell fun.
so yeah.

[LansingGaddis]

i'm not saying no to anal.. i'm simply saying to delay it that is all haha

Seriously, if you aren't going to give constructive advice you should probably just leave.

[drewziph]

well i think you should just totally let him go.
come on.everything will be fine.
if you guys don't end up together,you'll find somebody else eventually.
and if he came back to you,ask him why the fuck did he ignored you.
if his reason is acceptable and you feel like getting back together then get back together.
if his reason is unacceptable get him drunk as hell,strip him down,take his clothes,leave him somewhere downtown then delete his name from your phone.
that's what i did,sure it wasnt the effin right thing to do but it was hell fun.
so yeah.
damn girls and their serious answers...

[drewziph]

Seriously, if you aren't going to give constructive advice you should probably just leave.
lol.

[bigblue2015]

i'm not saying no to anal.. i'm simply saying to delay it that is all haha

I see where you're coming from....however, would you be willing to reconsider?

[4N6 science]

Anal Is God.

[Wildflower61388]

I see where you're coming from....however, would you be willing to reconsider?
haha..STDU (Rutgers) no thanks.

[TheHigh]

who wont buttfuck... lol

honestly, anal would solve this problem.

anal could solve world hunger.

[bigblue2015]

haha..STDU (Rutgers) no thanks.


Thanks for putting Rutgers in parentheses or else I would have had no clue what you were talking about. Even though the STD joke has been around since 1908.

/sarcasm.

old joke is old.

[aLonleySeptembe]

well i think you should just totally let him go.
come on.everything will be fine.
if you guys don't end up together,you'll find somebody else eventually.
and if he came back to you,ask him why the fuck did he ignored you.
if his reason is acceptable and you feel like getting back together then get back together.
if his reason is unacceptable get him drunk as hell,strip him down,take his clothes,leave him somewhere downtown then delete his name from your phone.
that's what i did,sure it wasnt the effin right thing to do but it was hell fun.
so yeah.

Thanks for the advice haha if he does screw me over again im def going to get him drunk and leave him downtown!!

[TheHigh]

Thanks for the advice haha if he does screw me over again im def going to get him drunk and leave him downtown!!

while you're at it, fuck him in the ass.

[drewziph]

twice.

[bigblue2015]

while you're at it, fuck him in the ass.

That's what she means by "leave him downtown".

[LansingGaddis]

while you're at it, fuck him in the ass.

Strap-on anal is not nearly as cool as regular anal. Still beats no anal at all though. Good advice.

[DaveZeroZero]

Because blue is a pretty color
Any real advice? and anal is not an option lol

Anal is always an option. This is the internet.

[HelpMeSleep]

yea, and he's been playing games since we were 15. Im just going to move on, and if he really cares about me even as a friend he'll make the first move. Thanks for the advice!
you're welcome! i think that's the smart move in your situation.

[Willy McFurgle]

Why don't you bung him in the doo-doo hole with a lawn dart.

[4N6 science]

Why don't you bung him in the doo-doo hole with a lawn dart.

I'm putting this in my signature.. so fucking funny..