My plan backfired

[LiquorAndDick]

Basically I wasn't texting this girl back because I didn't want her thinking I was too keen and now she's doing the same thing to me and I can't take it that well.
Would it be wrong to text her back straight away if she texts me back again? Because coming across as an eager beaver isn't my intention.

[googirl8907]

I hate when guys don't text/ message me right back if I like him. I would say say text her back fairly quickly.

[LiquorAndDick]

I hate when guys don't text/ message me right back if I like him. I would say say text her back fairly quickly.

That's the plan if she does actually text me back. I feel really bad for not texting her back straight away now and I only meant good things by it.

[kafe]

As long as you don't text back right away EVERYTIME you should be fine. It's more annoying when guys take 20 minutes to text back than 2 minutes imo.

[Burning Star IV]

Be a man and call her.

[4N6 science]

Be a man and call her.


best advice..

[LiquorAndDick]

As long as you don't text back right away EVERYTIME you should be fine. It's more annoying when guys take 20 minutes to text back than 2 minutes imo.

Usually I do reply fast so thats what I was trying to avoid aha. I guess I need to mix it up a little for this girl.

Be a man and call her.

I really wish I had it in me but I guess I'm not a man. I'll admit that.

[4N6 science]

I really wish I had it in me but I guess I'm not a man. I'll admit that.

if you really like her you will. How hard is it to make a phone call? she'll appreciate it more.

[Burning Star IV]

I really wish I had it in me but I guess I'm not a man. I'll admit that.
Fair enough. It's not easy for everyone.

I know for the longest time I hated using the phone, I always felt I was being judged on the other end.

[aidan1029]

Usually I do reply fast so thats what I was trying to avoid aha. I guess I need to mix it up a little for this girl.



I really wish I had it in me but I guess I'm not a man. I'll admit that.
Your anxiety is a little high. I really think you are overthinking the situation. Don't try to "come off" a certain way. If a girl doesn't like your style, you should move on. If you are the eager texter, then maybe a girl who likes hard to get isn't the best person for you.

[wewascontenders]

Wow

[googirl8907]

That's the plan if she does actually text me back. I feel really bad for not texting her back straight away now and I only meant good things by it.
I understand where you're coming from but to her it probably seems like you have better things to do than talk to her.

[thesafeword]

Reply exactly 3 minutes and 27 seconds after she texts you. Anything before makes you look eager and anything after that makes it look like you don't care.

[drewziph]

Wow
leeroy jenkins.

[FayeQC]

As long as you don't text back right away EVERYTIME you should be fine. It's more annoying when guys take 20 minutes to text back than 2 minutes imo.
this!

[Fallinto_rhythm]

wasting away in Margaritaville!

[lovely864md]

Don't play that game. It's immature.

Just don't text her 40 times when she doesn't text back.

[radiogirl]

Oh don't play the games! Geez just be freaking honest.

[drewziph]

but don't be too honest.

LOL.

[thesafeword]

Don't play these games, lay down the law for this bitch and if she doesn't want to cook and clean and fuck whenever you want, then she's just not right for you or anyone.

[thespearkid]

Why would a reasonably sane human being think that not texting a girl back is the way to win her heart?

[ThemChains]

Why would a reasonably sane human being think that not texting a girl back is the way to win her heart?

Reformulate:


Why would a reasonably sane human being think that texting is the way to win a girl's heart?

[disco.tetris]

Don't be stupid. Reply in like a minute or two. I hate when people don't reply haha.

[williek311]

Go talk to her in person.

[ThemChains]

Go talk to her in person.

This.

[hellogorgeous]

Why would a reasonably sane human being think that not texting a girl back is the way to win her heart?


apparently my ex thought it was the best way!! boy was he wrong.

[thespearkid]

apparently my ex thought it was the best way!! boy was he wrong.
Sounds like something a twelve year old would do?

[asteria]

Reply exactly 3 minutes and 27 seconds after she texts you. Anything before makes you look eager and anything after that makes it look like you don't care.


haha. i laughed at this for awhile.

[hellogorgeous]

Sounds like something a twelve year old would do?


Now that I think about it.. he did LOOK 12... and .. wow... I hope he wasn't lying about his age!

[caress me down]

this made my head hurt

[chrisstahl]

hold a boom box outside of her window blasting peter gabriel.

or stand outside and text her the lyrics if you really must text it.

[MyNameIsRoss]

Yeah, I would just call her. I have been in this kind of dumb situation before though. It would of been best to just call.

[nashiscash1324]

Basically I wasn't texting this girl back because I didn't want her thinking I was too keen and now she's doing the same thing to me and I can't take it that well.
Would it be wrong to text her back straight away if she texts me back again? Because coming across as an eager beaver isn't my intention.


for a while girls didn't know about this trick..now they do and we are fucked.

so just do the ap.net default....anal

[Spicoli hey bud]

It's really a lose lose situation... if you respond quickly, she expects you to respond quickly every time... if you wait, she gets pissed off. Texting is a pain in the ass.

[miketrondson]

Be a man and call her.

Correct. Then if she doesn't answer, she's a selfish broad. Which means, write her number on every wall you see.