Give Me A Hand!

[asteria]

Alright, so I'm kind of in a tight situation.

I planned on spending the entire summer single, and enjoying it to the fullest. Then about 3 weeks ago I met an amazing girl, and I can't stop thinking about her. We've been hanging out and hooking up and well, she's just really really really nice.

Now here's what sucks. We're not dating. We're together, but not dating. It's kind of wierd. Now to make matters worse, she's going away to school in South Carolina, and I'm stuck up here in CT.

So, what should I do? She seems interested in keeping the "relationship" going because she talks about how she wants to spend time with me when she's back from school on her various breaks. She also keeps asking wierd questions like would I come visit her if I had the money and have I ever cheated on anyone.

Do I try to make it work and go for the long distance relationship, or do I start looking elsewhere?:unsure:

[googirl8907]

If you really like her go ahead and try the long distance thing.

[ThemChains]

She's going to get down there and do whatever the fuck she wants, you're going to look for what you miss about her, things aren't going to work, they never do.

Here's what you do:


Find another girl, Anal.

[4N6 science]

She's going to get down there and do whatever the fuck she wants, you're going to look for what you miss about her, things aren't going to work, they never do.

Here's what you do:


Find another girl, Anal.

well said.....

yeah I wouldn't pursue it, because in college its just to easy to get drunk and hook-up with people.. So you're gonna be mr. faithful at home (assuming you're that way) and she's gonna be drunk and doing whatever.. it's not worth the heartache.

[asteria]

Hmm, you do have a point.

I think I might try out the long distance thing for awhile.

Ya know, just to give it a try.

If I get my heart broken, it won't be the first time and I can just move on.

It's just wierd, because it usually takes me a long time to like a girl the way I like her.

I usually do what. Fuck who I want, and not really care too much about it. Hit it and quit it. Ya know?

Yet, this girl's got me looking at things differently, and for the first time in a while, I actually feel really happy.

[thespearkid]

I'll give you a hand... JOB!!!

[4N6 science]

Hmm, you do have a point.

I think I might try out the long distance thing for awhile.

Ya know, just to give it a try.

If I get my heart broken, it won't be the first time and I can just move on.

It's just wierd, because it usually takes me a long time to like a girl the way I like her.

I usually do what. Fuck who I want, and not really care too much about it. Hit it and quit it. Ya know?

Yet, this girl's got me looking at things differently, and for the first time in a while, I actually feel really happy.

well I've been in that position before and if you feel it's different than go for it...I got hurt the last time I tried it..and it took me a while to get over it, but best of luck to you.

[asteria]

thanks man.

what happened to you?

[4N6 science]

thanks man.

what happened to you?

well it was multifaceted.. it was like a long distance relationship, plus she has just broken up with her b/f so it was like a competition and I knew that I shouldn't have gotten involved and I offered the girl more than she could handle and in the end I was the one who got hurt...and paid dearly for it..with a brief depressive episode.

[FayeQC]

If you really like her go ahead and try the long distance thing.

I agree with this so much!

[asteria]

I agree with this so much!

:-)

well, it's great to see some positive feedback!

not going to lie, I was expecting all negative responses.

[Willy McFurgle]

Go for it, otherwise you'll never know what could have been.

[F.O.C.U.S.]

if you arent usually a sad sappy sucker for this kind of thing, and she makes you happy... go for it! if things start to get weird and look like they are going to go bad... bail. until then, why worry about what hasn't happened and stop something before it has a chance to go anywhere. good luck!

[Burning Star IV]

Here you go, enjoy!

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[asteria]

Here you go, enjoy!

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haha. niceee.

[popdisaster00]

I'll give you a hand... JOB!!!
said what i came here to say, hah

[sputniksignals]

I went to school in SC. If she was cute, I'dve boned her for you so you could forget about her

[updownleftright]

Hmm, you do have a point.

I think I might try out the long distance thing for awhile.

Ya know, just to give it a try.

If I get my heart broken, it won't be the first time and I can just move on.

It's just wierd, because it usually takes me a long time to like a girl the way I like her.

I usually do what. Fuck who I want, and not really care too much about it. Hit it and quit it. Ya know?

Yet, this girl's got me looking at things differently, and for the first time in a while, I actually feel really happy.

set yourself a time frame. since you said you would just give it a try, maybe a couple months? i got caught up in one and waited around much longer than i should have. but yeah, best of luck to you.

[asteria]

yeah, i'm only going to give it a few months amd see if it works.

[NickLopez]

Do it until you feel you'd be happier if you weren't with her.

[ThemChains]

I'll give you a hand...ANAL!!!

Fixxxed.

Here you go, enjoy!



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haha.

[thesafeword]

Alright, so I'm kind of in a tight situation.

I planned on spending the entire summer single, and enjoying it to the fullest. Then about 3 weeks ago I met an amazing girl, and I can't stop thinking about her. We've been hanging out and hooking up and well, she's just really really really nice.

Now here's what sucks. We're not dating. We're together, but not dating. It's kind of wierd. Now to make matters worse, she's going away to school in South Carolina, and I'm stuck up here in CT.

So, what should I do? She seems interested in keeping the "relationship" going because she talks about how she wants to spend time with me when she's back from school on her various breaks. She also keeps asking wierd questions like would I come visit her if I had the money and have I ever cheated on anyone.

Do I try to make it work and go for the long distance relationship, or do I start looking elsewhere?:unsure:
Walcott, don't you know that it's insane? Don't you want to get out of Cape Cod, out of Cape Cod tonight?

[drewziph]

bad situation

i think ur out of luck fella
give up on it or it could be trouble.

[asteria]

bad situation

i think ur out of luck fella
give up on it or it could be trouble.


you really think so?

[m_rue]

I think you should give it a shot...obviously a huge amount of long distance relationships fail, but then there are those rare ones that can make it. You'll never know if yours can survive if you don't try.

Of course it depends on several issues like trust, how often you talk/see each other, and willingness to make it work that you should take into account.

[asteria]

I think you should give it a shot...obviously a huge amount of long distance relationships fail, but then there are those rare ones that can make it. You'll never know if yours can survive if you don't try.

Of course it depends on several issues like trust, how often you talk/see each other, and willingness to make it work that you should take into account.

yeah, i do have alot to think about. i still have some til she leaves too.

[failingwithease]

I think you should give it a shot...obviously a huge amount of long distance relationships fail, but then there are those rare ones that can make it. You'll never know if yours can survive if you don't try.

Of course it depends on several issues like trust, how often you talk/see each other, and willingness to make it work that you should take into account.

Listen to this advice.

You'll figure out along the way how much energy you want to invest in the relationship. If you really like her, there's no point in not trying to see it through. Don't listen to the people who have "been there" and will try to tell you it's a bad idea. There's a reason they were in the situation in the first place, and that's because it's always worth it to try. You never know what might come out of it.

[asteria]

Listen to this advice.

You'll figure out along the way how much energy you want to invest in the relationship. If you really like her, there's no point in not trying to see it through. Don't listen to the people who have "been there" and will try to tell you it's a bad idea. There's a reason they were in the situation in the first place, and that's because it's always worth it to try. You never know what might come out of it.


you're right. thank you!

[sandra92]

Just try ..
If you see that it doesn't work , end it up ..