Women, explain yourselves.

[Foxholes]

I just don't get it. All of it. The random drama pulled from nowhere, dating jerks, etc.

[pilot_light_out]

dude im from iowa too!

and im waiting for an explanation too. good thread.

[remedyeli]

Is it just me or also is it that 99% of the women out there can't commit to anything for the sake of a relationship...

I want answers.

[Hamlet]

Damn! Sluts!

[timbedinosaur]

All guys are like YEAH! GIVE US ANSWERS
and the woman are like un uh, then you might start to figure a little out about us, and we cant bitch at you for no good reason if you do.

[HelpMeSleep]

I'm a woman! I'll give you answers! I just don't know where to start... haha.

[tomakebelieve]

Here's the thing, most girls are crazy. That's how random drama, dating bad dudes, and any other weird things occur.

[remedyeli]

I'm a woman! I'll give you answers! I just don't know where to start... haha.

oh snap!
what's wrong with you people?!

[DaveZeroZero]

I'm a woman! I'll give you answers! I just don't know where to start... haha.

that's no answer!

[FayeQC]

This question could be directed to both genders really :-p

[DaveZeroZero]

This question could be directed to both genders really :-p

I blame testosterone.

[FayeQC]

I blame testosterone.

for all of life's problems :nod:

[DaveZeroZero]

for all of life's problems :nod:

it doesnt solve not getting any, so your assertion is incorrect :-)

[daniel.e]

for all of life's problems :nod:

Yeah, why did someone invent testosterone and oestrogen? :/

[DaveZeroZero]

Yeah, why did someone invent testosterone and oestrogen? :/

because someone's an idiot :-)

[sdbrown]

Oh come now, being melodramatic and overly sensitive isn't something relegated only to women. And the dating jerks comment could be reversed to ask why guys only go for the girls with fake tans and boobs.

If you don't surround yourself with obnoxious, immature people a magical thing happens: all the drama and stupid stuff goes away! Find friends with self confidence who don't need to create drama to get attention or feel important.

Any other drama can and will be attributed to one's menstrual cycle. You try dealing with that every month without getting bitchy and over reacting :-p

[DaveZeroZero]

Oh come now, being melodramatic and overly sensitive isn't something relegated only to women. And the gating jerks comment could be reversed to ask why guys only go for the girls with fake tans and boobs.

If you don't surround yourself with obnoxious, immature people a magical thing happens: all the drama and stupid stuff goes away! Find friends with self confidence who don't need to create drama to get attention or feel important.

melodrama's always a bit of fun =]

[HelpMeSleep]

oh snap!
what's wrong with you people?!
I think the problem with women is men, really.

that's no answer!
:shrug: It's such a vague question, it's hard to know where to begin. Ask me about a specific thing girls do, and I'll answer lol.

This question could be directed to both genders really :-p
Too true... I like the way you think. :-)

[spansen]

why are girls afraid of commitment, for starters?

[argg_xo]

this thread could go on foreeeeeeeevvvvvvvver.

[HelpMeSleep]

why are girls afraid of commitment, for starters?
Well, speaking from my point of view with how I am, it's not that I'm afraid to commit. If I like the guy, I'd like to be in a relationship and I'd like it to be exclusive and committed. Any reason I'm hesitant is because I'm scared of getting hurt or just not so trusting because of guys who have screwed me over in the past. In the last relationship I was in, that made me insecure about a lot of things and that caused a lot of drama and was probably one of the biggest problems we had.

[spansen]

i just got out of a relationship that lasted a little over a year.. it ended because she began worrying about what might happen with her going off to college-- and potentially finding someone else with more interests in line with what she wants to do.. but, on top of that, as i learned after we broke up, she doesn't want to commit herself to anyone yet.. she wants to be with a lot more guys.

i don't get that mentality at all.. if you have a good thing going than why throw it away?

[HelpMeSleep]

i just got out of a relationship that lasted a little over a year.. it ended because she began worrying about what might happen with her going off to college-- and potentially finding someone else with more interests in line with what she wants to do.. but, on top of that, as i learned after we broke up, she doesn't want to commit herself to anyone yet.. she wants to be with a lot more guys.

i don't get that mentality at all.. if you have a good thing going than why throw it away?
Honestly, I don't know. Different people think different ways. Personally, I've always been someone who just wants to find someone good and be with them and be happy. I haven't ever really been that interested in dating around or hooking up, I'd rather just be in one good relationship, so I don't really understand that mentality either.

[spansen]

she's special, i guess. i still love her to death-- but she's been incredibly stupid lately.

[DaveZeroZero]

she's special, i guess. i still love her to death-- but she's been incredibly stupid lately.

all women are incredibly stupid all of the time.
all men are incredibly stupid all of the time.
all of humanity is incredibly stupid all of the time.
It's a fact of life.

[HelpMeSleep]

she's special, i guess. i still love her to death-- but she's been incredibly stupid lately.
That's how I feel about my ex... but I'm hoping things work out with him, so good luck with her too. :-)

[spansen]

it's not allllll the time, everyone has their moments.. of both greatness and weakness.

[DaveZeroZero]

it's not allllll the time, everyone has their moments.. of both greatness and weakness.

I'm the same. Except replace 'greatness' with 'awesomeness.' =]

[OldJersey]

yeah girls just make stupid fucking decisions sometimes.......but...i guess guys do too...

[DaveZeroZero]

yeah girls just make stupid fucking decisions sometimes.......but...i guess guys do too...

Ain't that the truth.

[pilot_light_out]

i've learned nothing from this thread

[DaveZeroZero]

I'm not sure anyone has.

[radiogirl]

I can explain lots of things to you if you can also explain to me why the first thing you look at on a girl is her boobs, why you can't tear your eyes away from a football game for two seconds, and why you think it's cool to not call for a week after you go on a date among other things.

[radiogirl]

This question could be directed to both genders really :-p

Thank you!

why are girls afraid of commitment, for starters?

Where have you met a woman who is afraid of commitment? It must have been on another planet.

[Foxholes]

I can explain lots of things to you if you can also explain to me why the first thing you look at on a girl is her boobs, why you can't tear your eyes away from a football game for two seconds, and why you think it's cool to not call for a week after you go on a date among other things.

I give hardcore eye contact that kinda creeps girls out, I don't like football, and I usually call ASAP to apologize for being so awkward. So now what?

[radiogirl]

I give hardcore eye contact that kinda creeps girls out, I don't like football, and I usually call ASAP to apologize for being so awkward. So now what?

You said it, it creeps them out.

You don't have to go to extremes. You just have to give a little

[Renee]

all women are incredibly stupid all of the time.
all men are incredibly stupid all of the time.
all of humanity is incredibly stupid all of the time.
It's a fact of life.
Nice save.

[DaveZeroZero]

Nice save.
I did once keep goal for my school's soccer team, which may explain it.

[matt_bergeron]

why are girls afraid of commitment, for starters?

tsh, ive been with my girlfriend for 4 years.

[Renee]

Any other drama can and will be attributed to one's menstrual cycle. You try dealing with that every month without getting bitchy and over reacting :-p
My favorite excuse!

[bobby runs]

All my relationships have been under two months. So I actually find it harder being in the relationship than liking the girl. i guess you could say that I only like the chase and nothing else.

[amysaurus]

Wait... are there really guys in here that are saying women are are afraid of commitment? ...I'm pretty sure it's the other way around.

[Renee]

Wait... are there really guys in here that are saying women are are afraid of commitment? ...I'm pretty sure it's the other way around.
:nod:
I know some girls that never want to get married, but none that are afraid of commitment.

[DaveZeroZero]

Wait... are there really guys in here that are saying women are are afraid of commitment? ...I'm pretty sure it's the other way around.
Yeah, that's what I thought too.

[DickfaceChillah]

Girls should be afraid of commitment. No matter how long you know someone, or how well you do, whether they're a great person or a bad person, they'll always do something to hurt you. Maybe not intentionally, but it's inevitable. It's either the boy or the girl, it all just depends on who first.

Fucking girls, what the fuck!? Dudes too. What the fuck?

[DaveZeroZero]

PERSONAL LIFE FORUM ORGY!!!
lowercase

[immorehxcthanu]

We're not all like that.

[DaveZeroZero]

This is the internet. According to rule #30, you don't even exist.

[Neo Cassady]

This is the internet. According to rule #30, you don't even exist.

I've never seen anyone reference any rules besides 1, 2, and 34 by their numbers.

[spansen]

I can explain lots of things to you if you can also explain to me why the first thing you look at on a girl is her boobs, why you can't tear your eyes away from a football game for two seconds, and why you think it's cool to not call for a week after you go on a date among other things.
I'm not one to stare at hoo-hahs over eyes, ever. Regardless of size, shape, color.. or whatever other adjective you can think of. When you talk to someone you look them in the eyes. I never stared at my ex's chest, not even when she was nude... And she said I was the first who didn't just eye down her goods.. When we had sex I looked her in the eyes, or looked past her if I was caught up in the moment that much.

Where have you met a woman who is afraid of commitment? It must have been on another planet.
Here. When we broke up one of the things she said is she doesn't want to settle down just yet, and she wants to be with a lot more men before she finally marries, starts a family, all of that stuff. I don't get it.

tsh, ive been with my girlfriend for 4 years.
Lucky you.

[AP_Punk]

Guys suck.

[HelpMeSleep]

Guys suck.
True fact.

[radiogirl]

I'm not one to stare at hoo-hahs over eyes, ever. Regardless of size, shape, color.. or whatever other adjective you can think of. When you talk to someone you look them in the eyes. I never stared at my ex's chest, not even when she was nude... And she said I was the first who didn't just eye down her goods.. When we had sex I looked her in the eyes, or looked past her if I was caught up in the moment that much.


Here. When we broke up one of the things she said is she doesn't want to settle down just yet, and she wants to be with a lot more men before she finally marries, starts a family, all of that stuff. I don't get it.


I'm just trying to point out that many of you men who are confused about women are generalizing. This is something as a woman, I hate more than most things men do. It's extremely frustrating.

We don't all fear commitment, we don't all have drama, we aren't all confusing. Just like men don't all watch sports, look at boobs constantly or never call back.

[spansen]

I'm a good guy. Ha... I just fell for the wrong girl, obviously.

[coryatlarge]

these are all just excuses..... i want explanations!

[spansen]

This are all excuses, huh? Ha..

[failingwithease]

Here. When we broke up one of the things she said is she doesn't want to settle down just yet, and she wants to be with a lot more men before she finally marries, starts a family, all of that stuff. I don't get it.


This could have just been an excuse - maybe her way of letting you down "easy." There's no logic to letting someone go that you love being with. If she thinks there's something more out there then it probably just means you weren't right for her.

[hellogorgeous]

I think this is stupid. It's not just girls, it's people in general.

[hellogorgeous]

Is it just me or also is it that 99% of the women out there can't commit to anything for the sake of a relationship...

I want answers.


Why shoud we have to commit to anything? I'm only 21 years old, the only thing I want to commit to is my starbucks drink, and even that is thrown around once in awhile. I'm not scared of commitment, I just don't want it.

[failingwithease]

Oh god.

[allthruwinter]

Women who drag out drama are insecure and like starting trouble for no apparent reason. And dating a jerk will just bring that out even more.

[coryatlarge]

This are all excuses, huh? Ha..
damn...... i have auto correct spelling and i didnt catch it.....

[Roboman]

I'm not really going off of a lot of personal experience here, just from what I've heard...but it seems that a lot of girls do things so as to not "hurt" the guy. Like not giving truthful explanations for break-ups and trying to hide from things. I personally wish that those girls would man up and be honest, as the guy is going to be "hurt" regardless of the outcome, but a lot of drama (a word thrown around a lot these days) can be avoided by doing so.

[hellogorgeous]

I'm not really going off of a lot of personal experience here, just from what I've heard...but it seems that a lot of girls do things so as to not "hurt" the guy. Like not giving truthful explanations for break-ups and trying to hide from things. I personally wish that those girls would man up and be honest, as the guy is going to be "hurt" regardless of the outcome, but a lot of drama (a word thrown around a lot these days) can be avoided by doing so.


Guys are guilty of that as well.

[coryatlarge]

I'm not really going off of a lot of personal experience here, just from what I've heard...but it seems that a lot of girls do things so as to not "hurt" the guy. Like not giving truthful explanations for break-ups and trying to hide from things. I personally wish that those girls would man up and be honest, as the guy is going to be "hurt" regardless of the outcome, but a lot of drama (a word thrown around a lot these days) can be avoided by doing so.
lol on girls needing to man up

[failingwithease]

I'm not really going off of a lot of personal experience here, just from what I've heard...but it seems that a lot of girls do things so as to not "hurt" the guy. Like not giving truthful explanations for break-ups and trying to hide from things. I personally wish that those girls would man up and be honest, as the guy is going to be "hurt" regardless of the outcome, but a lot of drama (a word thrown around a lot these days) can be avoided by doing so.

This is true. But not wanting to hurt them goes hand in hand with being scared to admit the truth. The truth makes people feel shitty.

[WakeUpBlondie]

I think it's just maturity. I mean you don't see 30/40 yr olds posting endless shit on facebook.

[spansen]

This could have just been an excuse - maybe her way of letting you down "easy." There's no logic to letting someone go that you love being with. If she thinks there's something more out there then it probably just means you weren't right for her... That was one of the things she told me after we broke up (like, a week or more after).. Not really a reason as to why we broke up. Just something that worries her in general.

[spansen]

I think it's just maturity. I mean you don't see 30/40 yr olds posting endless shit on facebook.
Most 30/40 year olds don't have facebook.

[WakeUpBlondie]

Most 30/40 year olds don't have facebook.

Making it impossible for them to post on it, duh

[Roboman]

Guys are guilty of that as well.

Oh, I'm sure they are. In that case, they need to man up too.

[coryatlarge]

Making it impossible for them to post on it, duh
haha i like ur reasoning

[radiogirl]

these are all just excuses..... i want explanations!

Explanations to what? I haven't seen you ask any questions

I think this is stupid. It's not just girls, it's people in general.

I agree!

[open mind]

this isn't a super serious question but it's something i've noticed that i think deserves some sort of explanation.

what's with women wanting to go see the latest trainwreck of a film simply because it's got thier favorite "actor" in it having the nerve to call men shallow?

edit: actor is in quotes because much of the time said actor isn't capable of acting his way out of a paper bag.

[remedyeli]

Why shoud we have to commit to anything? I'm only 21 years old, the only thing I want to commit to is my starbucks drink, and even that is thrown around once in awhile. I'm not scared of commitment, I just don't want it.

Exactly my point.
Thank you woman.

[failingwithease]

this isn't a super serious question but it's something i've noticed that i think deserves some sort of explanation.

what's with women wanting to go see the latest trainwreck of a film simply because it's got thier favorite "actor" in it having the nerve to call men shallow?

edit: actor is in quotes because much of the time said actor isn't capable of acting his way out of a paper bag.

:uhno:

[Fallinto_rhythm]

Not all women behave in such a manner

[4N6 science]

Not all women behave in such a manner

I know you certainly don't

[Fallinto_rhythm]

I know you certainly don't

good. I'm glad you know!

[4N6 science]

good. I'm glad you know!

yeah I learned that one really quick.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

yeah I learned that one really quick.

I know, I'm a nut

[open mind]

:uhno:

that totally explains the logic behind the obvious double standard....respect.

[failingwithease]

that totally explains the logic behind the obvious double standard....respect.

What are you talking about?

[CrenshawPunch]

Exercise is for women. I mean, am I right?

[open mind]

What are you talking about?

never mind, it's not worth explaining.
like i said it wasn't a super serious question so it doesn't absolutely need a decent answer.

[pinkluv13]

guys are whats wrong with us. end of story.

[Chancetobe]

Chicks are stupid sometimes. They find drama fun. I think it's un-necessary though.

[VERSA]

Chicks are stupid sometimes. They find drama fun. I think it's un-necessary though.
OMGINORITE? Im only happy when im making others feel below me.

[Chancetobe]

OMGINORITE? Im only happy when im making others feel below me.

Drama and belittling are two different things.

[VERSA]

Drama and belittling are two different things.
/sarcasm

[FayeQC]

I think the problem with women is men, really.


:shrug: It's such a vague question, it's hard to know where to begin. Ask me about a specific thing girls do, and I'll answer lol.


Too true... I like the way you think. :-)
:-)

all women are incredibly stupid all of the time.
all men are incredibly stupid all of the time.
all of humanity is incredibly stupid all of the time.
It's a fact of life.
:clap:

[Chancetobe]

/sarcasm

With 30,000 posts you honestly think I can't recognize sarcasm? Please. Let's create some drama. Just for funsies.

[sowrongitsryan]

i have a girl stalking me right now. its kind of weird.

[swt_catastrophe]

stalkers are creepy.

[pilot_light_out]

someone's gotta make you feel wanted

[ThemChains]

i have a girl stalking me right now. its kind of weird.

Your mom is just trying to pick you up from practice, get in the fucking car.

[pilot_light_out]

nice.

[HelpMeSleep]

Your mom is just trying to pick you up from practice, get in the fucking car.
I giggled.

[pilot_light_out]

and peed a little.

[chel-c]

I just don't get it. All of it. The random drama pulled from nowhere, dating jerks, etc.

most girls are preeee fucked .