experimenting with the same sex

[amo.]

i got asked to do it (for their sake) and i'm not really sure because i'm really close with their boyfriend (yes, he's perfectly fine with it) and it's just kind of weird.

so, would you or not?

[anamericangod]

I was never really into science or chemistry. I was a terrible lab partner.

[drewziph]

do it

[drewziph]

also, i have the tshirt in ur prof pic ^^

[amo.]

nice. :-) one of my favorite bands.

[Giant Broccoli]

Sex or just makin out/finger poppin

[amo.]

Sex or just makin out/finger poppin

haha, i don't know, we haven't really talked about it. probably the second one.

[Giant Broccoli]

Pics of you+said girl for further evaluation

[amo.]

http://a570.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/13/m_47378e4186e58fe5d052ff1c447f1dd1. jpg

that's her.

[nikaidoh]

ithere's nothing wrong with experimenting, and she's not that bad looking either. so DO IT

[remedyeli]

It's a trap!

[Giant Broccoli]

She makes my dick soft, but do it nonetheless.

[amo.]

ithere's nothing wrong with experimenting, and she's not that bad looking either. so DO IT

haha, i'm still measuring the pros and cons.

It's a trap!

why don't you have a seat over there...

She looks horrible

hahahah that's terrible! i don't think she's HORRIBLE. she looks good for a susquehanna valley girl.

[amo.]

I was never really into science or chemistry. I was a terrible lab partner.

:-d

[anamericangod]

She makes my dick soft, but do it nonetheless.

Please post more.

[Giant Broccoli]

:-0
I donwannaknow what the run of the mill SV chicks look like

[Chris Fallon]

Don't make the mistake of doing things like this at 16. You're too young for experimentation like that - things like this should hopefully not even cross your mind in checking the "yes" box.

[theskyisfalling]

You're clearly not attracted to her, so why would you? Because she wants it? Would you do it if she were a male friend to whom you weren't attracted? There's absolutely nothing wrong with experimenting, but don't do it just to have done it.

[amo.]

Don't make the mistake of doing things like this at 16. You're too young for experimentation like that - things like this should hopefully not even cross your mind in checking the "yes" box.

You're clearly not attracted to her, so why would you? Because she wants it? Would you do it if she were a male friend to whom you weren't attracted? There's absolutely nothing wrong with experimenting, but don't do it just to have done it.

hmm, you both make very good points.

[argg_xo]

i smell a katy perry song.....

[amo.]

hahaha, that song gives me a headache.

[booyah.achieved]

she looks like one of my exes kinda

and the ex im talking about was batshit nuts so based on that stay the fuck awayyyyyyyy

[argg_xo]

hahaha, that song gives me a headache.
i hate that song. i was surprised no one referenced it yet.

[MADSTA]

i smell a katy perry song.....
I thought this immediately after reading the thread title.

[amo.]

she looks like one of my exes kinda

and the ex im talking about was batshit nuts so based on that stay the fuck awayyyyyyyy

hahaha i laughed out loud. that's ridic.

i hate that song. i was surprised no one referenced it yet.

haha, i'm still wondering how it's such a huge hit.

[argg_xo]

hahaha i laughed out loud. that's ridic.



haha, i'm still wondering how it's such a huge hit.
they play it on the radio over here 24/7 and then my sister put it on her mp3 player so now she plays it in her car. i'm going to throw it out the window next time she plays it!

[amo.]

they play it on the radio over here 24/7 and then my sister put it on her mp3 player so now she plays it in her car. i'm going to throw it out the window next time she plays it!

please, please do. you'd be doing her a big favor.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

I can't take it anymore!

[argg_xo]

please, please do. you'd be doing her a big favor.
i threaten her everytime i get in the car with her. she now knows to not play it when i am present.

[amo.]

I can't take it anymore!

:-|

i threaten her everytime i get in the car with her. she now knows to not play it when i am present.

very good start. we all need to be cleansed of that god-awful song.

[argg_xo]

:-|



very good start. we all need to be cleansed of that god-awful song.
i agree. it might take some time to get everyone else to see the light. but we'll make it work.

[punky_Punkster]

everyone is going ape shit over it because it encourages little fake drunk bisexuals to go and make out with girls to get attention.....well at least thats what its like in my town

[argg_xo]

but haven't girls been doing that for years? make out with each other for attention? i don't see why everyone is up in arms about the song, i just think its annoying and over played now.

[amo.]

but haven't girls been doing that for years? make out with each other for attention? i don't see why everyone is up in arms about the song, i just think its annoying and over played now.

qft

[argg_xo]

thank you!

[punky_Punkster]

i guess because someone famous made it known so it gives people more incentive to act like whores and pretend they like girls. I don't know but it seems that bisexuals are "cool" now

[Fallinto_rhythm]

i guess because someone famous made it known so it gives people more incentive to act like whores and pretend they like girls. I don't know but it seems that bisexuals are "cool" now

oh yeah?

[argg_xo]

i'm pretty sure that is just a "trend" that flairs up every so often when something or someone makes being bisexual the cool thing to be. it eventually dies down again.

[punky_Punkster]

hopefully, walking around seeing all these girls flaunting the fact that they like to get both guys and girls gives the actual bisexuals and stuff a bad name

[thespearkid]

hopefully, walking around seeing all these girls flaunting the fact that they like to get both guys and girls gives the actual bisexuals and stuff a bad name
Nothing gives bisexuals a bad name.

[Smash Adams]

whatever you do film it and give it to me

[eHaMpToN]

strap one on and do anal.

[4N6 science]

but haven't girls been doing that for years? make out with each other for attention? i don't see why everyone is up in arms about the song, i just think its annoying and over played now.

yes.. this is rampant at my school. but I will not complain.

i'm pretty sure that is just a "trend" that flairs up every so often when something or someone makes being bisexual the cool thing to be. it eventually dies down again.

I don't really pay attention to girls who say they're bi, because I know they're not.

strap one on and do anal.

qft



Alright to OP. I think you should do it, because well I don't have any good reason. But one day you might regret it.

[eHaMpToN]

I don't really pay attention to girls who say they're bi, because I know they're not.



you couldn't possibly be more correct sir.

[oh totes]

hopefully, walking around seeing all these girls flaunting the fact that they like to get both guys and girls gives the actual bisexuals and stuff a bad name

i'm pretty confused by this statement and hopefully i'm not the only one or i'll just feel stupid!
did you mean it in like a "i hope this makes people realize how stupid real bisexuals are"?
or like "all these fakes are giving the real bisexuals a bad name"?

[eHaMpToN]

i'm pretty confused by this statement and hopefully i'm not the only one or i'll just feel stupid!
did you mean it in like a "i hope this makes people realize how stupid real bisexuals are"?
or like "all these fakes are giving the real bisexuals a bad name"?

she means shes an actual bisexual (attention whore) and doesn't want to be given a bad name by other attention whores who are faux attention whores (bisexuals)

[4N6 science]

she means shes an actual bisexual (attention whore) and doesn't want to be given a bad name by other attention whores who are faux attention whores (bisexuals)

well said.

[amo.]

i'm pretty confused by this statement and hopefully i'm not the only one or i'll just feel stupid!
did you mean it in like a "i hope this makes people realize how stupid real bisexuals are"?
or like "all these fakes are giving the real bisexuals a bad name"?

haha, we've already talked about this, felicia!

[4N6 science]

did you do it yet or are you still on the fence?

[amo.]

did you do it yet or are you still on the fence?

haha, if i do it, it won't be any time soon. i haven't talked to either of them in about 4 days so i still have time to debate over it.

[4N6 science]

haha, if i do it, it won't be any time soon. i haven't talked to either of them in about 4 days so i still have time to debate over it.

gotcha. well I guess you will keep us posted then.

[amo.]

if something goes down, i'll definitely report back.

[4N6 science]

ok I won't hold my breath though.

[andrew4045]

they play it on the radio over here 24/7 and then my sister put it on her mp3 player so now she plays it in her car. i'm going to throw it out the window next time she plays it!

I call bullshit.

[failingwithease]

Um. Do you like her? Are you even remotely inclined to make out with her? Otherwise, don't do it. "Experimenting" is pointless because it's not as if kissing some girl you don't like is going to tell you whether you like girls or not.

Also, the people claiming all bisexuals are attention whores are being completely idiotic.

[argg_xo]

I call bullshit.
are you calling bullshit on the song being played 24/7 or my sister having it on her mp3 player?

[failingwithease]

are you calling bullshit on the song being played 24/7 or my sister having it on her mp3 player?

My guess is you throwing it out the window.

[argg_xo]

My guess is you throwing it out the window.
oh. yeah i guess that makes more sense.

[andrew4045]

My guess is you throwing it out the window.

ding ding ding

[amo.]

Um. Do you like her? Are you even remotely inclined to make out with her? Otherwise, don't do it. "Experimenting" is pointless because it's not as if kissing some girl you don't like is going to tell you whether you like girls or not.

Also, the people claiming all bisexuals are attention whores are being completely idiotic.

no no, the experiment isn't for me, it's for her. i already know my sexuality. SHE'S the one who wants to know if she's really bi or not. and i know that experimenting isn't a straight-up yes or no about determining your real orientation. but if someone might end up with a girl, they might as well know what it's like to kiss one first, right?

[eHaMpToN]

no no, the experimentation isn't for me, it's for her. i know my sexuality. SHE'S the one who wants to know if she's really bi or not.

so you're a lesbian...?

[amo.]

no, i'm bi.

and i know there's a handful of people on ap that'll be up in my face and be like "you're 16, you don't even know what bi is" but i know i am.

[thespearkid]

Everyone in the world is bi.

[eHaMpToN]

Everyone in the world is bi.

i thought everyone was homo.

[failingwithease]

no no, the experiment isn't for me, it's for her. i already know my sexuality. SHE'S the one who wants to know if she's really bi or not. and i know that experimenting isn't a straight-up yes or no about determining your real orientation. but if someone might end up with a girl, they might as well know what it's like to kiss one first, right?

Not really? If someone's going to end up with a girl, they're going to figure out what it's like on their own. Also, she has a boyfriend? What's this girl trying to do? But, it's entirely up to you. Personally, I wouldn't want to be one of my friend's experiments unless I had the feeling we secretly wanted each other or something. She'll find out in time. It doesn't have to happen right now, with you. That's just silly.

[amo.]

i thought everyone was homo.

qft! hahah, no i'm kidding. if you add 'phobic' on the end of that word, you've got the definition of half of the people i know.

[jawstheme]

Everyone in the world is bi.

Whatever you gotta tell yourself

[amo.]

Not really? If someone's going to end up with a girl, they're going to figure out what it's like on their own. Also, she has a boyfriend? What's this girl trying to do? But, it's entirely up to you. Personally, I wouldn't want to be one of my friend's experiments unless I had the feeling we secretly wanted each other or something. She'll find out in time. It doesn't have to happen right now, with you. That's just silly.

haha, i really couldn't get in her head and tell you her motives. again, i agree with a lot of what you said. it is kind of a weird situation but i'm still thinking it over.

[SLoT]

I would not enjoy doing this nor do I condone this behavior if it involves me, but since it's not me involved... let her pleasure the inside of you.

[JJJ]

i hate that song. i was surprised no one referenced it yet.


I kissed a girl and i liked it.

[amo.]

I kissed a girl and i liked it.

:rolleyes:

[thespearkid]

Would it ruin your friendship at all to makeout with her? Like, would things become awwwwwkward?

[amo.]

Would it ruin your friendship at all to makeout with her? Like, would things become awwwwwkward?

that's something i've been thinking of. i think it wouldn't, but if it does, i wouldn't really make a huge deal of it.

[thespearkid]

Hm, then I don't see a reason why you wouldn't... what if she's a phenomenal kisser and you fall in love with her but the experimentation makes her realize she's completely straight? Seems like a risky thing.

[failingwithease]

Hm, then I don't see a reason why you wouldn't... what if she's a phenomenal kisser and you fall in love with her but the experimentation makes her realize she's completely straight? Seems like a risky thing.

Haha. I love how you basically tell her to go for it and then lay a blow like that.

[amo.]

Haha. I love how you basically tell her to go for it and then lay a blow like that.

hahaha, tell me about it! silly boys. ;-)

[thespearkid]

I mean, I still say go for it. It's just risky, is all.

[failingwithease]

I don't know. If you didn't have your reservations about it, you would have just done it. It seems like you either know it's a bad idea or are slightly uncomfortable about it, and so you shouldn't.

[amo.]

i'm well aware it's risky. about 70% of people i've asked have said that, along with "i wouldn't" so i'm still on the fence.

[failingwithease]

What's making you want to do this?

[amo.]

What's making you want to do this?

:shrug: couldn't really tell ya. she's not UGLY so it's not like i can say no so easily.

oh and her boyfriend thinks it would be hot; him and i are real close. but that's not a reason that i'd do it, cuz that would be, like, whoring myself up. D:

[failingwithease]

:shrug: couldn't really tell ya. she's not UGLY so it's not like i can say no so easily.

lol. So you would make out with anyone who wasn't ugly?

[amo.]

lol. So you would make out with anyone who wasn't ugly?

hahaha, no!

[argg_xo]

I kissed a girl and i liked it.
oh, you silly boy!

[&IllBeTheReason]

Hmmm, I'm not a homophobe or anything, but I can't possibly imagine ever wanting to make out with a chick. It's just fucking wierd.

[GetWellBoss]

oh and her boyfriend thinks it would be hot; him and i are real close. but that's not a reason that i'd do it, cuz that would be, like, whoring myself up. D:

and the truth comes out.

[TheSkyline]

no, i'm bi.

and i know there's a handful of people on ap that'll be up in my face and be like "you're 16, you don't even know what bi is" but i know i am.

Your going to hell.

Lulz

EDIT: Instead of doing something sexual with her, why don't you just go tell her to watch some lesbo porn or something, depending on if it turns her on or not, that should determine if she's "bi" or not. haha

[punky_Punkster]

no i meant that people who walk around flaunting someone they aren't give the people who actually are bi a bad name because there are so many fakes. and im not bi and im not an attention whore thank you very much....i just see it alot from people in my school.

[m_rue]

I have no urge to, so I wouldn't. But, if you want to, I don't see the harm...it's just a kiss.

[bassdrummer2333]

why would you do it for

a. someone else that you may/may not give a shit about
b. someone who makes their sexual decisions based on "experimenting" that's gotta be the stupidest thing, that's almost like saying, gee, well millions of people say it hurts to jump off 100 ft. cliffs into rocks but i'll experiment just to make sure. whatever happened to people knowing if they like guys or girls just by looking at people. MILLIONS of people know just by sense that there straight they don't need to prove it by having a fling with the same sex.

and as far as i'm concerned i've never met a real "bi" person so I won't even get into this until someday I meet someone who is really "bi" if that exists.

[thespearkid]

why would you do it for

I'm sorry, I hate being a grammar nazi but you can't end a sentence in a preposition like that. In fact, you could cut that "for" out completely and it'd be fine.

[bassdrummer2333]

my bad I meant to add in one of these magical things


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[thesafeword]

Do it and record it and post it.

[failingwithease]

Hmmm, I'm not a homophobe or anything, but I can't possibly imagine ever wanting to make out with a chick. It's just fucking wierd.

Yes, you are.

and as far as i'm concerned i've never met a real "bi" person so I won't even get into this until someday I meet someone who is really "bi" if that exists.

lawl. I'm not going to get into the fluidity of sexuality, but I can assure you there are many people who are attracted to both sexes. If existence is limited to the things that you've experienced firsthand, then you'd be casting a lot to the wind. Like intelligence, maybe. ;-)

[punky_Punkster]

If you are attracted ot her and you would have no problem with it, i say go for it. You have to experience different things, you might as well...

[Broken Parachute]

If you are attracted ot her and you would have no problem with it, i say go for it. You have to experience different things, you might as well...Are you related to Punky Brewster?

[Angylion Gefell]

Why is experimentation so popular among pubescent girls these days?

[eHaMpToN]

Why is experimentation so popular among pubescent girls these days?

cause 95% are attention whores.

[thesafeword]

cause 95% are attention whores.
With cameras. Thank God.

[DannySniper]

Why is experimentation so popular among pubescent girls these days?

Why shouldn't it be?

[Willy McFurgle]

Why is experimentation so popular among pubescent girls these days?

They are going through vigorous training to one day be on girls gone wild.

[The_kok]

so, would you or not?

no, because I'm not a woman, nor an attention whore

now post your tits or clit or fuck off

[eHaMpToN]

With cameras. Thank God.

oh yes.

[pilot_light_out]

i like to move it move it

[llwilliamsll]

I was never really into science or chemistry. I was a terrible lab partner.
I hope someone noticed how much win this post was.

Anyways, no care about your dilemma.