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punklet2101
08/08/04, 03:02 AM
Okay.

There's this guy, who I only want to be friends with. He's cool and everything as a friend, but he's definately not for me.

The thing is, i'm in a band with him that just started up. And he's way clingy, and way sensitive. He said to me "I really wanna be with you" and he keeps asking me out .. and every time, I try to delicately tell him that I appreciate it, but I just want to be friends. And then he says "You know, if you hurt me I won't be able to do the band with you anymore".

That's fucked.

Now, I want to do this band more than anything. It's my dream to do this .. we've already been offered to tour australia next year which is going to be sponsored by Macbeth and Hurley. This could be what i've been waiting for. My chance to do something I love.

And if I say no to this guy .. he'll say "omg im such a loser you hate me im sorry you've really hurt me now I can't do the band with you" ..

What the fuck am I supposed to do?

It's come to me blocking him when he asks me out over msn just so I can put it off a while longer until I can figure this out!!!

Please help!!!!

Bishop
08/08/04, 07:06 AM
Find somebody else to take his place.

Edit: Tell him your a lesbian!

CROMagnon
08/08/04, 08:20 AM
if he holds you to that kind of ultimatum, he's no man...replace him

Hilikus
08/09/04, 08:23 AM
Find somebody else to take his place.

Edit: Tell him your a lesbian!


Telling him your a lesbian could actualy work. You could replace him though depending on how soon the tour is coming up. If the tour is coming up soon though then tell him your a lesbain. After the tours over tell him your not and find someone else to replace him.


What does he play? If he plays guitar then he should be really easy to replace.

Wait what do you play?


Whats the name of your band ill keep an eye out for you.

Coronary Parasite
08/09/04, 03:26 PM
i say replace him, he seems like a dick...

punklet2101
08/09/04, 07:28 PM
Telling him your a lesbian could actualy work. You could replace him though depending on how soon the tour is coming up. If the tour is coming up soon though then tell him your a lesbain. After the tours over tell him your not and find someone else to replace him.


What does he play? If he plays guitar then he should be really easy to replace.

Wait what do you play?


Whats the name of your band ill keep an eye out for you.


haha thanks

he plays drums. i play guitar. we're called "touch of fate"

ursolastsum3r
08/09/04, 07:52 PM
i agree tell him ur a lezbian