more than a crush...!!?

[TickleMeEmo]

I'm basically shit out of luck when it comes to guys. I liked this kid and my best friend ended up dating him. I liked this other kid, he liked my other best friend.

So I'm in school one day and I'm sitting behind the teachers like big ass science counter in the front of the class room and I just look at this kid(Who was going out with ANOTHER best friend of mine..thats three different best friends...) And I realized that he's really cute.

So I never told anyone I thought or felt this. But after we got to know each other, we had a lot in common. But I never thought anything else because he was with my best friend.

Towards the end of the school year their relationship got really rocky. They held on and it got worse. So during the summer whenever they'd get into a fight he'd come to me and talk to me. And as this was happening I grew apart from her.

So finally they broke up and at that time I completely despised her because she cheated on him. And he was the type of boyfriend who was always there, always cared and never really ever did anything wrong.

So I've been hanging out with him a lot. And yesterday I went to his house because he was leaving for college that night and I had to go to wrok. So we went there and I gave him a huge hug goodbye and got really upset.

And at work I just figured it out. It wasn't just a crush like "ooo i like him, he's cute." I really like this kid. He's smart, has a voice on everything, is understanding and he's just that all around guy. And I don't know if I should tell him considering he's away now. And I don't want to tell him that I feel anything for him because I just ended my friendship with his ex, and because I'm afraid he won't want to stay such good friends.

Any suggestions? Help is desperately needed.

[Andy]

And I don't know if I should tell him considering he's away now. And I don't want to tell him that I feel anything for him because I just ended my friendship with his ex, and because I'm afraid he won't want to stay such good friends.

Err, ask him out when he gets back? Why make it harder than it really is...

[TickleMeEmo]

Err, ask him out when he gets back? Why make it harder than it really is...
yes but how would you like it if a girl asked you out? Im assuming you're a guy.

[Andy]

I'd love it, nothing better than an girl with initiative.

[punklet2101]

i'm a girl, and i agree that it's alright for you to ask first!

[Lueda Alia]

I'd never have the guts to ask out a guy but go for it!!

[Mercy Medical]

I'd say go for it...who cares if the girl asks the guy out, if it something you want you gotta go for it or it may never happen.

[cloud77]

I'm basically shit out of luck when it comes to guys. I liked this kid and my best friend ended up dating him. I liked this other kid, he liked my other best friend.

So I'm in school one day and I'm sitting behind the teachers like big ass science counter in the front of the class room and I just look at this kid(Who was going out with ANOTHER best friend of mine..thats three different best friends...) And I realized that he's really cute.

So I never told anyone I thought or felt this. But after we got to know each other, we had a lot in common. But I never thought anything else because he was with my best friend.

Towards the end of the school year their relationship got really rocky. They held on and it got worse. So during the summer whenever they'd get into a fight he'd come to me and talk to me. And as this was happening I grew apart from her.

So finally they broke up and at that time I completely despised her because she cheated on him. And he was the type of boyfriend who was always there, always cared and never really ever did anything wrong.

So I've been hanging out with him a lot. And yesterday I went to his house because he was leaving for college that night and I had to go to wrok. So we went there and I gave him a huge hug goodbye and got really upset.

And at work I just figured it out. It wasn't just a crush like "ooo i like him, he's cute." I really like this kid. He's smart, has a voice on everything, is understanding and he's just that all around guy. And I don't know if I should tell him considering he's away now. And I don't want to tell him that I feel anything for him because I just ended my friendship with his ex, and because I'm afraid he won't want to stay such good friends.

Any suggestions? Help is desperately needed.
How far away is he?

[TickleMeEmo]

How far away is he?
I'm in jersey and he goes to Quinnipiac. Which is like 2 and a half hours away.

[mambogangsta]

I'm basically shit out of luck when it comes to guys. I liked this kid and my best friend ended up dating him. I liked this other kid, he liked my other best friend.

So I'm in school one day and I'm sitting behind the teachers like big ass science counter in the front of the class room and I just look at this kid(Who was going out with ANOTHER best friend of mine..thats three different best friends...) And I realized that he's really cute.

So I never told anyone I thought or felt this. But after we got to know each other, we had a lot in common. But I never thought anything else because he was with my best friend.

Towards the end of the school year their relationship got really rocky. They held on and it got worse. So during the summer whenever they'd get into a fight he'd come to me and talk to me. And as this was happening I grew apart from her.

So finally they broke up and at that time I completely despised her because she cheated on him. And he was the type of boyfriend who was always there, always cared and never really ever did anything wrong.

So I've been hanging out with him a lot. And yesterday I went to his house because he was leaving for college that night and I had to go to wrok. So we went there and I gave him a huge hug goodbye and got really upset.

And at work I just figured it out. It wasn't just a crush like "ooo i like him, he's cute." I really like this kid. He's smart, has a voice on everything, is understanding and he's just that all around guy. And I don't know if I should tell him considering he's away now. And I don't want to tell him that I feel anything for him because I just ended my friendship with his ex, and because I'm afraid he won't want to stay such good friends.

Any suggestions? Help is desperately needed.


Go for it.
If you just ended a friendship with his ex then it shouldn't matter so much. But if she is still your friend then I would wait a bit.

[TickleMeEmo]

Go for it.
If you just ended a friendship with his ex then it shouldn't matter so much. But if she is still your friend then I would wait a bit.
Yeah we're not friends but hey...

i did it.

oy.

"that was really flattering and i def have to say that i admire u for telling me the truth cauase i wouldnt have been able to do it like that, and that sucks that u have to deal with this since im gone now but i really felt like we got closer recently too and that was awesome, i value your friendship very much, you're an awesome person, always great to talk to, u always make me laugh or make me feel better when im down and those are all very special and important qualities so please stay that way, and i promise that we will def stay close even while im here, u know me, i love to talk on aol haha"

i feel better. a lot better.

[Andy]

Sounds like that went well. Man, I gave good advice, thats like the first time ever :D

[TickleMeEmo]

Sounds like that went well. Man, I gave good advice, thats like the first time ever :D
Haha you should give advice more often. It seems to help.

[to say we End]

guys are assholes...

[Andy]

Of course we are. Imagine how dull the world would be if everyone was nice and sweet.

[FalloutGuy]

You need us. :lol2:

[PunkDrums182]

yes but how would you like it if a girl asked you out? Im assuming you're a guy.
i wish a girl would ask me out, i wouldnt care, i'd be happy, easier then me asking.. lol

[PunkDrums182]

guys are assholes...
where did that come from, i hate when people say that, not all guys are assholes, alot are but not all of them...

[Lueda Alia]

Of course we are. Imagine how dull the world would be if everyone was nice and sweet.
you're a guy?!!?!?!!!




and I hate it when girls say that guys are assholes. sure some are, just like some girls are bitches... but that doesn't mean that all are.

[Andy]

Err, yes I am. I thought 'Andy' was a pretty good hint...

[Lueda Alia]

lol one of my old friend's name was "Andy" and she was a girl... =\

I think it was spelled "Andie" though but still..