is it so bad

[theguy77]

for an 18 year old to date a 16 year old? she just turned 16 btw. im weighing my options.

EDIT: fucking laptops and their incompetency with javascript.

[thesafeword]

Well, if it's legal I don't see a problem with it, just don't get in a messy break up and have her accuse you of rape. They always believe the girl.

[MyWorldEntire]

One of my best friends (who is my age) went out with a 15 year old girl, and no one ever thought it was that big of a deal.

[theguy77]

Well, if it's legal I don't see a problem with it, just don't get in a messy break up and have her accuse you of rape. They always believe the girl.

it's what im afraid of. dont they have to prove it though?

if we even come close to lasting that long, im definitely willing to wait until shes of age before sex.

[theguy77]

One of my best friends went out with a 15 year old girl, and no one ever thought it was that big of a deal.

its also weird me being past my freshman year in college. i skipped a grade, AND she had the late birthday which made her stay another year in preschool, so we're loads of grades apart. its kind of a creepish perspective when you look at it that way. plus the fact that this girl is one of my cousin's best friends and my cousin is creeped out by the fact i even talk to her.

[failingwithease]

it's what im afraid of. dont they have to prove it though?

if we even come close to lasting that long, im definitely willing to wait until shes of age before sex.

I don't think you need to worry about the rape charges.

[HelpMeSleep]

Nah. I don't think it's that bad. But only if you actually like her, messing with a girl who isn't legal would not be smart. If she's worth it, go for it. Just don't do anything stupid that might get you in trouble.

[failingwithease]

its also weird me being past my freshman year in college. i skipped a grade, AND she had the late birthday which made her stay another year in preschool, so we're loads of grades apart. its kind of a creepish perspective when you look at it that way. plus the fact that this girl is one of my cousin's best friends and my cousin is creeped out by the fact i even talk to her.

Do you like each other? Then who gives a fuck.

[thesafeword]

I mean you can try and make it work and if it's a big deal then you'll just have to stop it.

[morgz]

are you serious? 2 years? that's not a big deal at all. my ex boyf was 20 and i was 16

[The Personist]

IF you like her, fuckin' go for it.

[thesafeword]

are you serious? 2 years? that's not a big deal at all. my ex boyf was 20 and i was 16
Edgy.

[thesafeword]

And you should probably change your headline.

[morgz]

my headlines a joke, i think that girl is the most obnoxious poster on this whole site.

[morgz]

although now that i'm thinkin about it, people will probably misconstrue its meaning. i probably should.

[thesafeword]

Good idea.

[spansen]

... two years isn't much of a difference.

[thesafeword]

It's the whole 18 thing though.

[theguy77]

Nah. I don't think it's that bad. But only if you actually like her, messing with a girl who isn't legal would not be smart. If she's worth it, go for it. Just don't do anything stupid that might get you in trouble.

oh yeah haha lets just say my intentions arent in line with the typical college guy. i legitimately like her. but its like, i dont necessarily think it's a perfect lasting relationship, but we can hold a conversation and have the same sense of humor and love hanging out and stuff, so i feel like it'd be fun in an honest way. plus the fact theres really no other girl for me here and i dont think there will be one until i move back to florida.

[theguy77]

im glad you guys and the friends ive asked on AIM agree with me because i talked to my dad about it and he blew it way out of proportion saying im gonna ruin my life and its wrong for an adult to date a child and warning me not to go see this girl etc etc. and it made me feel like "wtf is there something wrong with me psychologically if i like her?"

[thesafeword]

I don't see anything wrong with it, but you on the otherhand...

[swt_catastrophe]

am i the only person who thinks this is gross?
whatever. its your choice, and if its not bothering you, it really doesn't matter..
that being said,
you're in college. she's in high school.
besides the whole "being at different places in your life" stuff..
she JUST turned sixteen.
sketch, imo
why not just date a girl your age?

[DannySniper]

I would say 18 - 16 is as far as you wanna go.

Sure, when your older, 2 years isn't that big of a difference.

But when you're teenagers, maturity is a factor, and people generally tend to look down on it anyway.

Either way, I've never had a girlfriend who was younger then me, so I wouldn't know.

[theguy77]

I would say 18 - 16 is as far as you wanna go.

Sure, when your older, 2 years isn't that big of a difference.

But when you're teenagers, maturity is a factor, and people generally tend to look down on it anyway.

Either way, I've never had a girlfriend who was younger then me, so I wouldn't know.

funnily enough i havent either.

shes a bit immature but not enough to be an issue.

[DannySniper]

funnily enough i havent either.

shes a bit immature but not enough to be an issue.

Older GF's for the win.

[theguy77]

am i the only person who thinks this is gross?
whatever. its your choice, and if its not bothering you, it really doesn't matter..
that being said,
you're in college. she's in high school.
besides the whole "being at different places in your life" stuff..
she JUST turned sixteen.
sketch, imo
why not just date a girl your age?

would if i had more options of girls that i connect with, id probably choose one of the girls my age i met on my visit to florida this summer before the girl here, but frankly people are so different up here and shes the only single choice for a relationship that would have any value. ive been single for 2 and a long years because of it.

[theguy77]

Older GF's for the win.

haha i dated an 18 year old when i was 16 but according to pretty much everyone i knew at the time i had the dating maturity of someone much older at the time.

[swt_catastrophe]

would if i had more options of girls that i connect with, id probably choose one of the girls my age i met on my visit to florida this summer before the girl here, but frankly people are so different up here and shes the only single choice for a relationship that would have any value. ive been single for 2 and a long years because of it.

that does suck.
just be careful..
remember she's young.

[failingwithease]

Your fucking avatar always makes me want an oreo and immediately causes me to curse myself for not having any.

But on topic, I think you just need to judge it for yourself. It could either be perfectly normal or entirely sketchy. I think your dad is completely overreacting, but none of us really have the ability to properly assess the situation.

[swt_catastrophe]

Your fucking avatar always makes me want an oreo and immediately causes me to curse myself for not having any.

But on topic, I think you just need to judge it for yourself. It could either be perfectly normal or entirely sketchy. I think your dad is completely overreacting, but none of us really have the ability to properly assess the situation.
glad to know i'm not the only one.
i actually have some double-stuf.
i'm trying not to give into the craving.



damn you oreo avatar!

[DannySniper]

haha i dated an 18 year old when i was 16 but according to pretty much everyone i knew at the time i had the dating maturity of someone much older at the time.

Samezies. Everyone though it was so sweet.

She was hot too.

[#WhiteFender#]

not at all

[failingwithease]

glad to know i'm not the only one.
i actually have some double-stuf.
i'm trying not to give into the craving.



damn you oreo avatar!

Send that shit to me if you're not going to take advantage of it. Double-stuf is the ultimate win.

[theguy77]

Your fucking avatar always makes me want an oreo and immediately causes me to curse myself for not having any.

haha as it does to everybody. it sucks because no one ever takes it in its racial implications, it was meant to be a joke because thats my niche im the token black guy in the music forum, but everyone sees it and is just like "mmm oreos" and im like "you missed the point!" hahaha.

But on topic, I think you just need to judge it for yourself. It could either be perfectly normal or entirely sketchy. I think your dad is completely overreacting, but none of us really have the ability to properly assess the situation.

yeah meh if i wasnt so lonely i might just judge that it wasnt worth it. but i really want a girlfriend right now, and i wouldnt have said anything but since SHE told ME she had feelings you know it got me into her.

[failingwithease]

haha as it does to everybody. it sucks because no one ever takes it in its racial implications, it was meant to be a joke because thats my niche im the token black guy in the music forum, but everyone sees it and is just like "mmm oreos" and im like "you missed the point!" hahaha.

yeah meh if i wasnt so lonely i might just judge that it wasnt worth it. but i really want a girlfriend right now, and i wouldnt have said anything but since SHE told ME she had feelings you know it got me into her.

Haha, I got the racial implications, but it still makes me want an oreo.

And I've changed my mind. If you want her because she likes you and you're lonely, that's just never a good situation. You really don't need a relationship. Wait for someone you really like. Maybe you'll find someone at college this year.

[swt_catastrophe]

Send that shit to me if you're not going to take advantage of it. Double-stuf is the ultimate win.
i'm UPS-ing them right now.
haha as it does to everybody. it sucks because no one ever takes it in its racial implications, it was meant to be a joke because thats my niche im the token black guy in the music forum, but everyone sees it and is just like "mmm oreos" and im like "you missed the point!" hahaha.



yeah meh if i wasnt so lonely i might just judge that it wasnt worth it. but i really want a girlfriend right now, and i wouldnt have said anything but since SHE told ME she had feelings you know it got me into her.
yeah, i don't think anyone ever gets that.
its all about the oreos.
mmmmm. cookies. <3

[theguy77]

And I've changed my mind. If you want her because she likes you and you're lonely, that's just never a good situation. You really don't need a relationship. Wait for someone you really like. Maybe you'll find someone at college this year.

well its not quite like that i mean i do like her, not in a way that says "oh our connection is perfect" but in a way that does at least make me feel partial to her. like its not like she could just be any other girl who likes me you know i like her for her, and part of the reason ive been single for this two years is because ive constantly been looking for a girl with as good a connection as i had with my last girlfriend, the kind where you talk for hours and hours daily and never run out of things to say. and while this place is a desert as far as thats concerned i still cant help but to blame myself partially and that mindset i had. so its like this time im going on a whim of how i feel because at this age i dont quite need a perfect relationship i just need experience with lots of types of girls so i know better what im looking for.

[thesafeword]

Double-stuffed Oreos are the best thing to happen to this world since Say Anything.

[failingwithease]

well its not quite like that i mean i do like her, not in a way that says "oh our connection is perfect" but in a way that does at least make me feel partial to her. like its not like she could just be any other girl who likes me you know i like her for her, and part of the reason ive been single for this two years is because ive constantly been looking for a girl with as good a connection as i had with my last girlfriend, the kind where you talk for hours and hours daily and never run out of things to say. and while this place is a desert as far as thats concerned i still cant help but to blame myself partially and that mindset i had. so its like this time im going on a whim of how i feel because at this age i dont quite need a perfect relationship i just need experience with lots of types of girls so i know better what im looking for.

Ehh. I get what you're saying, but I don't know. If you have the kind of connection with her that you want, then go for it, or at least see how it plays out. If you feel like you need to experiment, that's up to you, but if you know what you want, don't settle for someone you don't feel right about.

[theguy77]

theres also the issue of her parents, i dont know what they think about it yet, when i meet them im gonna do my best to show them im a nice guy with different intentions than most my age but thats another thing that would need to be worked out. they'll especially freak when they find ive already done one year of college because i skipped a grade.

[swt_catastrophe]

Double-stuffed Oreos are the best thing to happen to this world since Say Anything.
WIN.

[Giant Broccoli]

You're playing with fire, gtfo. You're in college and will be knee deep in cooter...assuming you're not a simp. I'm a firm believer in not giving a fuck about what society thinks but if you stay you're declaring your eligibility for Dateline NBC

[morgz]

You're playing with fire, gtfo. You're in college and will be knee deep in cooter...assuming you're not a simp. I'm a firm believer in not giving a fuck about what society thinks but if you stay you're declaring your eligibility for Dateline NBC


knee deep in cooter?

[swt_catastrophe]

You're playing with fire, gtfo. You're in college and will be knee deep in cooter...assuming you're not a simp. I'm a firm believer in not giving a fuck about what society thinks but if you stay you're declaring your eligibility for Dateline NBC
apparently someone does agree with me.

[theguy77]

You're playing with fire, gtfo. You're in college and will be knee deep in cooter...assuming you're not a simp. I'm a firm believer in not giving a fuck about what society thinks but if you stay you're declaring your eligibility for Dateline NBC

never, ever heard these terms in my life, kudos they're impressive :clap:

[theguy77]

oh i should point out that, i asked a cop, and by maryland law, you're allowed to date a 16 year old when you're 18 (no younger though), but you're just not allowed "sexual relations" with her. however the implications of the term "sexual relations" can be bent, and depending on the judge could apply to several things less than sex i bet.

[failingwithease]

Jesus, you really are investigating this to the fullest. You're going to find out that it's perfectly acceptable to be with this girl and then you're going to decide you don't want to. After four months of research.

[Giant Broccoli]

knee deep in cooter?

I was gonna give a smart alek response but I digress. I'll bless you with my knowledge.

it means there are an abundance of females.




how can I multiple quote on this forum??

[morgz]

lolz. i mean it's obvious what you meant. it was just a weird fucking phrase

[theguy77]

Jesus, you really are investigating this to the fullest. You're going to find out that it's perfectly acceptable to be with this girl and then you're going to decide you don't want to. After four months of research.

hahah i go into my lab and get a patented theory about the relationship between age and dating chemistry and shit hahah

if theres ever any doubt my solution is always to explain it all out. im going to her house tomorrow though so i'll figure something out.

[Giant Broccoli]

lolz. i mean it's obvious what you meant. it was just a weird fucking phrase

liar you had no clue

[lo0serkid1118]

Yeah I dated this 16 year old when I was 18 and she was a total bitch whore, I hated her and I still do more then ever. Maybe one of my worst regrets

[swt_catastrophe]

I was gonna give a smart alek response but I digress. I'll bless you with my knowledge.

it means there are an abundance of females.




how can I multiple quote on this forum??
lol. see the little button to the right of the "quote" button?
its multi-quote.
go through and click that on all the ones you want to quote.

[hockeycoshow1]

I was knee deep in your mom's cooter.

[DannySniper]

I was knee deep in your mom's cooter.

Hawt.

[disco.tetris]

Focus on the personality, Ryan. The personality. ;-)

[TK]

Well, what's statutory rape in your state? If she can have anal at 16, yes, it's fine.

[DaveZeroZero]

for an 18 year old to date a 16 year old? she just turned 16 btw. im weighing my options.

EDIT: fucking laptops and their incompetency with javascript.
Over here, I'm down with it.

But that's because it's legal here.

[Blacking_out]

I know you said this was not your intention, but a lot of states have what are deemed Romeo and Juliet laws that differeniate 18 and 19 year olds from actual adults. At 18 and 19 people have not fully matured and are still kids. The point of statutory rape was to prevent 40 year olds from having sex with 16 year olds. Also, states have ages set that kids can legally decide to have sex without repercussions to either party. Just a little knowledge for you.

[Burning Star IV]

http://upload.wikimedia.org/math/a/b/d/abd87da1500b475abc569df97d51a6c6.pn ghttp://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/b/be/Half_Plus_Seven_Graph_2.JPG

[hockeycoshow1]

Hawt.
Mhm

[Fallinto_rhythm]

I dated a 20 year old when I was 16 and slept with him. It was a bad break up, and the thought of pressing charges for rape didn't even cross my mind. Besides she's at the age of consent and you're within two years of age so you're safe.

[scmaley]

http://upload.wikimedia.org/math/a/b/d/abd87da1500b475abc569df97d51a6c6.pn ghttp://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/b/be/Half_Plus_Seven_Graph_2.JPG

Exactly! These guys I worked with this summer (I was interning at a place where almost everyone was over 30) tried to get me to go on a date with a 32 year old guy and I told them about this little rule. They thought it was the funniest thing ever.

[drewziph]

its fine.

[HelpMeSleep]

oh yeah haha lets just say my intentions arent in line with the typical college guy. i legitimately like her. but its like, i dont necessarily think it's a perfect lasting relationship, but we can hold a conversation and have the same sense of humor and love hanging out and stuff, so i feel like it'd be fun in an honest way. plus the fact theres really no other girl for me here and i dont think there will be one until i move back to florida.
Yeah, I really don't think it's a big deal at all if your intentions are good. And I don't think it's remotely creepy age difference, that's the smallest age difference of any guy I've had a thing with.

im glad you guys and the friends ive asked on AIM agree with me because i talked to my dad about it and he blew it way out of proportion saying im gonna ruin my life and its wrong for an adult to date a child and warning me not to go see this girl etc etc. and it made me feel like "wtf is there something wrong with me psychologically if i like her?"
There isn't. He's totally blowing it out of proportion.

[KISS MY SASS..]

thats not a big deal at all!! i dated an 18 year old when i was 14... i know it sounds wayy creepy but he never asked how old i was, and i looked wayy older! if you reallyy like the girl, who gives a fuck what other ppl think?!

[lovely864md]

I'm dating an 18 year old and I see nothing wrong with it. My dad isn't happy about it though.

[Mirrorsandfevers]

Go for it, I am.

[lovely864md]

im glad you guys and the friends ive asked on AIM agree with me because i talked to my dad about it and he blew it way out of proportion saying im gonna ruin my life and its wrong for an adult to date a child and warning me not to go see this girl etc etc. and it made me feel like "wtf is there something wrong with me psychologically if i like her?"

This seems to be a common reaction, my boyfriend's dad blew up on him a few days ago for exactly the same thing. I haven't met him yet so I'm planning on just meeting him and showing him that I'm a mature, intelligent individual and that he doesn't have to worry. He's also really concerned about statutory rape since the age of consent in 17 in NY, and he doesn't want his son to go to jail.

haha as it does to everybody. it sucks because no one ever takes it in its racial implications, it was meant to be a joke because thats my niche im the token black guy in the music forum, but everyone sees it and is just like "mmm oreos" and im like "you missed the point!" hahaha.



yeah meh if i wasnt so lonely i might just judge that it wasnt worth it. but i really want a girlfriend right now, and i wouldnt have said anything but since SHE told ME she had feelings you know it got me into her.

Mmmmmm, oreos. Wouldn't an Uh Oh Oreo make more sense?

It definitely helps that she was the one to initiate it instead of you, that eliminates a lot of the creepy since it's not like you're searching for underage girls. If you're not looking for sex I don't think there's anything wrong with looking for an emotional connection.

Yeah I dated this 16 year old when I was 18 and she was a total bitch whore, I hated her and I still do more then ever. Maybe one of my worst regrets

Totally!

[brandnew=love]

Five words: Hit it and quit it... isn't that the answer for everything?

No, but really there's nothing wrong with it...
I dated a 14 year old when I was 17... but she was "a total bitch whore" and that's understating it...

[updownleftright]

i agree that it's fine but i'm extremely skeptical on the differing maturity levels. if you're about to go off to college then strongly reevaluate this because i've learned through already being in your shoes that yes, age does come with maturity.

[IAmAmazing]

I say no, that's creepy.

[kaycey]

does she look older

[punkaholic314]

2 years?! big whoop!:-d go for it!

[punkaholic314]

2 years?! big whoop!:-d go for it!

[MorningWillCome]

i don't see a problem with it. her parents might, though.

[DaveZeroZero]

I haven't met him yet so I'm planning on just meeting him and showing him that I'm a mature, intelligent individual and that he doesn't have to worry. He's also really concerned about statutory rape since the age of consent in 17 in NY, and he doesn't want his son to go to jail.
With you being the original PL queen and all, I really don't think that you can say that.

Five words: Hit it and quit it... isn't that the answer for everything?
Well said.

[theguy77]

This seems to be a common reaction, my boyfriend's dad blew up on him a few days ago for exactly the same thing. I haven't met him yet so I'm planning on just meeting him and showing him that I'm a mature, intelligent individual and that he doesn't have to worry. He's also really concerned about statutory rape since the age of consent in 17 in NY, and he doesn't want his son to go to jail.

yeah i figured he was being overprotective and his rhetoric is always geared to scare me or something when he really wants to get something through my head.

Mmmmmm, oreos. Wouldn't an Uh Oh Oreo make more sense?

no? im brown on the outside but white on the inside.

It definitely helps that she was the one to initiate it instead of you, that eliminates a lot of the creepy since it's not like you're searching for underage girls. If you're not looking for sex I don't think there's anything wrong with looking for an emotional connection.

yeah exactly my point, it would definitely be creepy if i was just looking to screw a girl who was 16.

[llwilliamsll]

Not really a big deal.

[sandra92]

no , it isn't bad

[bung]

it's what im afraid of. dont they have to prove it though?

if we even come close to lasting that long, im definitely willing to wait until shes of age before sex.

If you're gonna wait until she's of age before having sex, just get rid of her now. Chances are that you probability won't enter into any kind of serious relationship with her, and in the end either she will dump you and you'll feel like shit for a few days, or you'll dump her and feel as if she has been a complete waste of your time. So if you can't have any fun with her (though I don't know if BJ's and whatnot are out of the question), just save yourself the trouble of having to live up to another person's expectations.

Or you could enter the relationship and be with her for the simple reason that you think you'll grow as a person because of it or some of that Nickelodeon silliness, but if that's the case then you'd probably be better off just reading some acclaimed novel that supposedly examines the human self in profound ways or something like that.

[thespearkid]

for an 18 year old to date a 16 year old? she just turned 16 btw. im weighing my options.

EDIT: fucking laptops and their incompetency with javascript.
My lady friend is 16 and the last girl I seriously dated was 15 (although her and I had been together for years before that). I don't see any problem with it. The consent age in NC is 16 so it's fine here.

[AP_Punk]

for an 18 year old to date a 16 year old? she just turned 16 btw. im weighing my options.

EDIT: fucking laptops and their incompetency with javascript.

She's too old!!

[ablueskytragedy]

No worse than at my school: Freshman girls dating Senior guys.

[DaveZeroZero]

She's too old!!
:highfive:

[x0sosahley]

Honestly, I don't think there's any real problem with it.
It's not like it's a seven year difference or something like that.

[Freud]

pics

[sandra92]

She's too old!!

lol

[Kid B]

If she's hot then there is only one obvious answer.

[theguy77]

pics

her a couple months ago on the left JK JK THE RIGHT

http://a851.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/25/l_c4c7e9369c7c008dcad98e0db36e9562. jpg

She's too old!!

bahahahahahha. i love you kirbie.

[xXaLLiOo]

for an 18 year old to date a 16 year old? she just turned 16 btw. im weighing my options.

EDIT: fucking laptops and their incompetency with javascript.

I don't think it's too much of an age difference if you guys get along really well, but the thing is most people grow up a lot throughout highschool. If you don't see a maturity difference its probably not because she's mature, it's probably because you haven't done enough of that high school growing up yet.

[AP_Punk]

Just pretend she's my, Ryan. Then it won't be so bad.

Works all the time.

[fadedmemories]

for an 18 year old to date a 16 year old? she just turned 16 btw. im weighing my options.

EDIT: fucking laptops and their incompetency with javascript.

no big deal, I used to be in a similar situation, but the girl I used to date was 18 and I was 16

[fadedmemories]

Five words: Hit it and quit it... isn't that the answer for everything?

:-d

[brandnew=love]

Well said.

Thanks... I wish I could take credit for it but it was once said by a great philosopher...

[DaveZeroZero]

Thanks... I wish I could take credit for it but it was once said by a great philosopher...
Confucius say: Man who drop watch in toilet have shitty time.

[caress me down]

i'm 16 and i'm in a relationship with an 18 year old. for 6 months of our relationship i was 15 and he was 18. It's really not a big deal... the only problem is his parents are always nervous that he's "spoiling my innocence." ha.

[Burning Star IV]

Clearly he is.

[brandnew=love]

Confucius say: Man who drop watch in toilet have shitty time.
haha :-d

[pilot_light_out]

i'm 16 and i'm in a relationship with an 18 year old. for 6 months of our relationship i was 15 and he was 18. It's really not a big deal... the only problem is his parents are always nervous that he's "spoiling my innocence." ha.

your avatar wins

[caress me down]

your avatar wins
oldschool nickelodeon is the way to go

[AP_Punk]

Crumb!

[brandnew=love]

haha gosh those really were the days... now cartoons are mostly all crappy japanese shows that are all the same...

[Richard Maxim]

I don't think so at all, there is always a common misconception about these things.

[brandnew=love]

it's true, they all have super crazy huge hair dues and huge eyes... they all have either crazy huge machines that fight or are ninjas...

[caress me down]

Crumb!
*krum

[atticus1492]

I did it. You will mature faster after you are out of high school, and she will begin to seem ridiculous.

I might just be a dick though.

Well, I am a dick.

[AP_Punk]

I missed you, atticus.

[atticus1492]

I missed you, atticus.

Actually, that is awesome. Haha. My computer was fucked.

[AP_Punk]

Actually, that is awesome. Haha. My computer was fucked.

:highfive:

Don't let it happen again!

[atticus1492]

Just look at that enormous rabbit. So much has changed. I can troll the MO forum now.

[sjb2k1]

Just look at that enormous rabbit. So much has changed. I can troll the MO forum now.you need a higher resolution rabbit.

[concernedparent]

Not at all. I think the age of consent should be lowered to at least 16 anyways.

[atticus1492]

you need a higher resolution rabbit.

Maybe. I just enlarged my old avatar when I realized that I could.

[AP_Punk]

fuzzy rabbit.

[HelpMeSleep]

Maybe. I just enlarged my old avatar when I realized that I could.

fuzzy rabbit.
you guys both have cute and fuzzy avatars.

[AP_Punk]

He completes me.

[HelpMeSleep]

how romantic.

[theguy77]

Actually, that is awesome. Haha. My computer was fucked.

best troll on this site ftw

[wroteurname]

I'm 25 and my girlfriend is 18.

[YeahRiight]

I think it is a bit different in the fact that you are away at college and she is still in high school. If you were both still in high school, it might be more manageable, but do you really wanna be THAT GUY. The guy who has to come back to high school to go to prom and shit with your gf?

High school girls have drama, leave it behind and enjoy college.

[Neo Cassady]

My current girlfriend and I are 2 years apart; we started dating when she was 16 and I was 18. I was a freshman in college, she was a junior in high school. Nothing weird about it.

[wroteurname]

I think it is a bit different in the fact that you are away at college and she is still in high school. If you were both still in high school, it might be more manageable, but do you really wanna be THAT GUY. The guy who has to come back to high school to go to prom and shit with your gf?

High school girls have drama, leave it behind and enjoy college.
This.

[TK]

I'm 25 and my girlfriend is 18.

Was that a typo?

[theguy77]

I think it is a bit different in the fact that you are away at college and she is still in high school. If you were both still in high school, it might be more manageable, but do you really wanna be THAT GUY. The guy who has to come back to high school to go to prom and shit with your gf?

High school girls have drama, leave it behind and enjoy college.

the same girls who were drama queens in high school are the ones having empty party sex weekly and view the dating scene as a competition between other girls in college. they're the ones who treat their social lives like a giant game without much regard to how it affects their friends and even the importance of the relationships they cultivate with other people. and they're the same kinds who are DO NOT WANT on my list regardless of whether they are college or high school. ellie is not one of those kinds.

but the schooling does create an uncomfortable gap in other ways. maybe it wont be an issue just regarding her, but the groups of high school people i'll be associated with by being her boyfriend may not be the kind i'll really want to hang out with.

[DaveZeroZero]

the same girls who were drama queens in high school are the ones having empty party sex weekly and view the dating scene as a competition between other girls in college. they're the ones who treat their social lives like a giant game without much regard to how it affects their friends and even the importance of the relationships they cultivate with other people. and they're the same kinds who are DO NOT WANT on my list regardless of whether they are college or high school. ellie is not one of those kinds.

but the schooling does create an uncomfortable gap in other ways. maybe it wont be an issue just regarding her, but the groups of high school people i'll be associated with by being her boyfriend may not be the kind i'll really want to hang out with.
EMPTY PARTY SEX?

omg, I'm so missing out.

[JJJ]

I'm missing out too Dave.

[DaveZeroZero]

I'm missing out too Dave.
:beerbros:

[Anne.Frank]

for an 18 year old to date a 16 year old? she just turned 16 btw. im weighing my options.

EDIT: fucking laptops and their incompetency with javascript.

It's not a big deal. It's only two years and girls always want older guys

[wroteurname]

Was that a typo?
Its from Pineapple Express.

[TK]

Its from Pineapple Express.

I sadly haven't seen it, because apparently I am a cave man:-(

[DaveZeroZero]

I sadly haven't seen it, because apparently I am a cave man:-(
Goddamn cave man.

[Chancetobe]

Along the same lines, at this age, is 6 years too much of an age difference? I've always throught that 3 years was my limit, but, I recently met a guy who is 26, and really awesome. For once a guy I like actually likes me as well, but, I'm worried that we'll just be at different places in life. Plus, he's moving to Nevada in November. Which essencially means I shouldn't even bother right? Since we'll get to spend hardly any time together?

Wow, look at me actually asking for advice in the PL forum. Insane, never thought I'd do that.

[DaveZeroZero]

Along the same lines, at this age, is 6 years too much of an age difference? I've always throught that 3 years was my limit, but, I recently met a guy who is 26, and really awesome. For once a guy I like actually likes me as well, but, I'm worried that we'll just be at different places in life. Plus, he's moving to Nevada in November. Which essentially means I shouldn't even bother right? Since we'll get to spend hardly any time together?

Wow, look at me actually asking for advice in the PL forum. Insane, never thought I'd do that.
If you do end up with him, I think that your brother will start up an account with him in an attempt to get you permabanned.

[Chancetobe]

If you do end up with him, I think that your brother will start up an account with him in an attempt to get you permabanned.

Honestly, I don't think anyone on the ap.net staff is mean enough to do that to me. It's not like it's my account. And I don't actually live with my brother, so, it's not like I can physically take the computer away from him. I've just used the computers he's on from time to time, obviously. So, I mean, i don't know. The whole thing with my brother is sort of dumb. But, he thinks it's funny, so, what am I going to do?

[DaveZeroZero]

Honestly, I don't think anyone on the ap.net staff is mean enough to do that to me. It's not like it's my account. And I don't actually live with my brother, so, it's not like I can physically take the computer away from him. I've just used the computers he's on from time to time, obviously. So, I mean, i don't know. The whole thing with my brother is sort of dumb. But, he thinks it's funny, so, what am I going to do?
haha, I know that you won't get banned, but I thought that it was an amusing idea that he might try and transfer it to guys you like =]

If anyone deserves to be banned, it's me.

I don't even deserved to be banned.

[Chancetobe]

haha, I know that you won't get banned, but I thought that it was an amusing idea that he might try and transfer it to guys you like =]

If anyone deserves to be banned, it's me.

I don't even deserved to be banned.

Well, if this guy actually likes me like he says he does, then he wouldn't do that to me. Hopefully.

[DaveZeroZero]

Well, if this guy actually likes me like he says he does, then he wouldn't do that to me. Hopefully.
The internet likes you like you like the internet - why's he doing it to you now?

Yeah, you think about that!

[Chancetobe]

The internet likes you like you like the internet - why's he doing it to you now?

Yeah, you think about that!

I don't think he's doing it to go met banned so much as that would just be a bonus. He's just bored before going back to school, and wants to annoy people as much as he can. From what I've told him about the site, he knows he can do that through bright colored fonts, bad spelling, liking "bad" bands, and being a fan of McCain (which he actually is in real life). He's like, humm, I have nothing to do, i should try to get banned on AP. Luckily, I didn't tell him how to actually get banned (like what sort of stuff people are usually banned for), he just knows how to annoy people. Honestly though, he's a cool kid when he isn't being an asshole in the internet. Even though I know he deserves all the shit he's getting, it's still hard for an older sister to see people treat her younger brother like that.

[DaveZeroZero]

I don't think he's doing it to go met banned so much as that would just be a bonus. He's just bored before going back to school, and wants to annoy people as much as he can. From what I've told him about the site, he knows he can do that through bright colored fonts, bad spelling, liking "bad" bands, and being a fan of McCain (which he actually is in real life). He's like, humm, I have nothing to do, i should try to get banned on AP. Luckily, I didn't tell him how to actually get banned (like what sort of stuff people are usually banned for), he just knows how to annoy people. Honestly though, he's a cool kid when he isn't being an asshole in the internet. Even though I know he deserves all the shit he's getting, it's still hard for an older sister to see people treat her younger brother like that.
Mmm... I'm here because I'm bored - but that's less "oh, it's summer" and more "I have no life - how can I appear to have one on the internet?"

And so I'm here and managing not to get banned (as much as a couple of users might like to see that happen), somehow maintaining an insane rate of posting. It really doesn't feel like that much to me.

As for all the shit your brother's getting, he knows that it's because he's not being serious, so what people are saying is no real reflection upon him. Because of this, he'll learn to accept and laugh off negative things being said about him and it will be character building.

I get a lot of stuff like that both here and IRL, but it's fine with me because I can laugh at myself better than most people can laugh at me, so it's great. Well, not great, but it's easy to deal with.

[Chancetobe]

Mmm... I'm here because I'm bored - but that's less "oh, it's summer" and more "I have no life - how can I appear to have one on the internet?"

And so I'm here and managing not to get banned (as much as a couple of users might like to see that happen), somehow maintaining an insane rate of posting. It really doesn't feel like that much to me.

As for all the shit your brother's getting, he knows that it's because he's not being serious, so what people are saying is no real reflection upon him. Because of this, he'll learn to accept and laugh off negative things being said about him and it will be character building.

I get a lot of stuff like that both here and IRL, but it's fine with me because I can laugh at myself better than most people can laugh at me, so it's great. Well, not great, but it's easy to deal with.

Honestly, I was in your same boat a few years ago. I had just started college, and had basically no life. So, I resorted to posting here, and began posting an insane amount pretty quickly. Before long I was addicted, and posted every chance I got. It went on like that for about a year or so, but, then my life sort of fell into place, and I relied less upon this place. I still post here all the time, but, I'm sure soon enough life will start working out for you too.

And, yes, it's the internet. People like to be mean. You can't take stuff like that seriously, because most of the time, they have no basis for what they are saying. People don't know you, and probably never will. Not that it doesn't still hurt sometimes, even if you know it's false, but, it's good i guess in that you build a thick skin.

[DaveZeroZero]

Honestly, I was in your same boat a few years ago. I had just started college, and had basically no life. So, I resorted to posting here, and began posting an insane amount pretty quickly. Before long I was addicted, and posted every chance I got. It went on like that for about a year or so, but, then my life sort of fell into place, and I relied less upon this place. I still post here all the time, but, I'm sure soon enough life will start working out for you too.

And, yes, it's the internet. People like to be mean. You can't take stuff like that seriously, because most of the time, they have no basis for what they are saying. People don't know you, and probably never will. Not that it doesn't still hurt sometimes, even if you know it's false, but, it's good i guess in that you build a thick skin.
Hell, I'm mean on the internet too - that's the point right? Well, actually, I do it because I like making quips at every opportunity. I slowed down a lot once I hit 10k the other week, but I'm still maintaining my posts per day (which, whilst still being high by most standards, is still a long way down from the 400+ per day I was doing in the week leading up to my 10k) and managing to find some other things to do with my time.

I can't wait for college though - a new start - it'll be great. Oh, that and the learning, of course =P But I really do think that I'll be much better suited to college than to regular school life.

[victoriasdf]

i'm having this same problem right now.

[DaveZeroZero]

i'm having this same problem right now.
Let's make sweet, sweet outcast babies =]

[victoriasdf]

Let's make sweet, sweet outcast babies =]

not with you silly!

but ok ;-)

[lovely864md]

Slight update to my status on this situation: I have since ended my relationship with the 18 year old guy. It was a little too much for me, he was way too serious about it and I felt like I was too young for exactly what he wanted.

[Smash Adams]

Slight update to my status on this situation: I have since ended my relationship with the 18 year old guy. It was a little too much for me, he was way too serious about it and I felt like I was too young for exactly what he wanted.

he was 18? hahahahahahahaha
hey now you can date Adam Duritz from Idaho

[lovely864md]

he was 18? hahahahahahahaha
hey now you can date Adam Duritz from Idaho

Yeah and the fucker is going to community college so instead of going away and boning sorority chicks he gets to stay at home and call and text me constantly. I no longer tell him where I am because...he shows up there.

[Smash Adams]

Yeah and the fucker is going to community college so instead of going away and boning sorority chicks he gets to stay at home and call and text me constantly. I no longer tell him where I am because...he shows up there.

at least he isn't smart enough to do a good job of stalking you, you know if I did that shit I could do it for years without getting caught Jay Gatsby style

[lovely864md]

at least he isn't smart enough to do a good job of stalking you, you know if I did that shit I could do it for years without getting caught Jay Gatsby style

I see you outside my window.

[Smash Adams]

I see you outside my window.
http://www.cbc.ca/arts/images/pics/cusack2.jpg
look something like this?

[lovely864md]

http://www.cbc.ca/arts/images/pics/cusack2.jpg
look something like this?

Yup and really, Mariah Carey? You thought that would win me over?

[Smash Adams]

Yup and really, Mariah Carey? You thought that would win me over?

the song says you'll always be a part of me
how sweet is that?

[lovely864md]

the song says you'll always be a part of me
how sweet is that?

Mmmmmm I love cannibals!

[DaveZeroZero]

Slight update to my status on this situation: I have since ended my relationship with the 18 year old guy. It was a little too much for me, he was way too serious about it and I felt like I was too young for exactly what he wanted.
you mean sex, right?

because that's pretty much what all 18-year-old guys should want, of course.

Mmmmmm I love cannibals!
is it progression if a cannibal uses a fork?

[lovely864md]

you mean sex, right?

because that's pretty much what all 18-year-old guys should want, of course.


is it progression if a cannibal uses a fork?

No, although sex was a part of it. He wanted a full on 24/7 madly in love relationship which I neither want nor am ready for especially after not dating for very long.

[DaveZeroZero]

No, although sex was a part of it. He wanted a full on 24/7 madly in love relationship which I neither want nor am ready for especially after not dating for very long.
Now that's my kind of girl!

I just don't have the attention span or need for a committed relationship, really.

Oh, and there's the whole bit about me being completely and utterly immature.

[lovely864md]

Now that's my kind of girl!

I just don't have the attention span or need for a committed relationship, really.

Oh, and there's the whole bit about me being completely and utterly immature.

I don't have a problem with that type of relationship, it's just not for me right now. I would frankly just rather spend time with my best friends and not resent the person I'm spending all my time with.

No, I don't really see you being able to maintain a relationship. But that's because I don't like you and I just imagine that most people share the same sentiment.

[TheSkyline]

I don't have a problem with that type of relationship, it's just not for me right now. I would frankly just rather spend time with my best friends and not resent the person I'm spending all my time with.

No, I don't really see you being able to maintain a relationship. But that's because I don't like you and I just imagine that most people share the same sentiment.

I think he's pretty cool? :shrug:

[DaveZeroZero]

No, I don't really see you being able to maintain a relationship. But that's because I don't like you and I just imagine that most people share the same sentiment.
haha, yeah, well, that and the reasons I outlined above.

[DaveZeroZero]

I think he's pretty cool? :shrug:
:highfive:

how's your guitar coming?

[TheSkyline]

:highfive:

how's your guitar coming?

It's going great, I'm in the middle of shaping the body and it's looking awesome. I'll have pics of the body on that thread I started like tomorrow or Tuesday.

How's that life of yours going?

[Cuddleworthy]

i don't think it's that bad, just something i would personally try to stay away from since i've realized younger girls are so immature and have no idea what they want. they may not come across this way at first but in the end it shows

[b3c00l_0ldSk00l]

nahh i dont think it's bad
I'm 17 dating a 20 year old. It's not a big deal
my friend on the other hand is 16 and dating a 25 year old... Now THAT is bad
or what I could call a pedo.. :)

[DaveZeroZero]

It's going great, I'm in the middle of shaping the body and it's looking awesome. I'll have pics of the body on that thread I started like tomorrow or Tuesday.

How's that life of yours going?
Awesome (Y)

But my life's not so bad, though my french exchange is beginning to get on my nerves a bit. We're seeing All Time Low tomorrow though =]

How's your life, guitar aside?

[TheSkyline]

Awesome (Y)

But my life's not so bad, though my french exchange is beginning to get on my nerves a bit. We're seeing All Time Low tomorrow though =]

How's your life, guitar aside?

Dude that's so wierd, I was looking at ATL's tour scheduale on myspace, and saw they were in London tomorrow. I actually thought to myself "I wonder if Dave is going to that?" haha

That's awesome though, I really want to see them live, but decent bands never come to memphis.

My life's going pretty awesome. Started highschool last week, so far I'm digging it. My band is just about done with our first CD, and we've been working on it since like May, so that's good. haha

[DaveZeroZero]

Dude that's so wierd, I was looking at ATL's tour scheduale on myspace, and saw they were in London tomorrow. I actually thought to myself "I wonder if Dave is going to that?" haha

That's awesome though, I really want to see them live, but decent bands never come to memphis.

My life's going pretty awesome. Started highschool last week, so far I'm digging it. My band is just about done with our first CD, and we've been working on it since like May, so that's good. haha
:woot: let me guess; your band's called The Skyline, right? =]

and look on the bright side - at least you get good jazz & bluegrass in memphis ;-)

[HelpMeSleep]

Dude that's so wierd, I was looking at ATL's tour scheduale on myspace, and saw they were in London tomorrow. I actually thought to myself "I wonder if Dave is going to that?" haha

That's awesome though, I really want to see them live, but decent bands never come to memphis.

My life's going pretty awesome. Started highschool last week, so far I'm digging it. My band is just about done with our first CD, and we've been working on it since like May, so that's good. haha
not to randomly butt into the conversation, but I can't resist. do bands really never come play in Tennessee?

because the school I really want to transfer to is in Nashville. but I never it see on a lot of bands' tour dates and I know it's never on my favorite band's tours. and I feel like I would really miss going to shows if I went to school there, but I really want to go. :shrug:

[HelpMeSleep]

Awesome (Y)

But my life's not so bad, though my french exchange is beginning to get on my nerves a bit. We're seeing All Time Low tomorrow though =]

How's your life, guitar aside?
hi Dave! you excited to see ATL?

and is your exchange a girl or a boy? for some reason I always imagined them as a girl.

[eHaMpToN]

sick fuck.

[theguy77]

i don't think it's that bad, just something i would personally try to stay away from since i've realized younger girls are so immature and have no idea what they want. they may not come across this way at first but in the end it shows

this, i know, and am ready for. but right now she wants me, i dont want to be single, and we have a lot of fun together, so im gonna go for it.

[TheSkyline]

:woot: let me guess; your band's called The Skyline, right? =]

and look on the bright side - at least you get good jazz & bluegrass in memphis ;-)

Close, my bands actually called The Skyline Lights....

myspace.com/theskylinelights We just put up a new song this morning.

Ok sorry about that. haha

Yeah, but it seems like even the local blues music is slowly dying haha. Really bad screamo bands have taken over the local music scene..

not to randomly butt into the conversation, but I can't resist. do bands really never come play in Tennessee?

because the school I really want to transfer to is in Nashville. but I never it see on a lot of bands' tour dates and I know it's never on my favorite band's tours. and I feel like I would really miss going to shows if I went to school there, but I really want to go. :shrug:

Well Nashville is a lot better than Memphis, they have this place called Rocket Town where a lot of bands play. I mean, still there are places who get way more shows that Nashville, but compared to Memphis it's awesome.

I would say go for it, there are a lot of shows in Nashville, and most bands go there, you just might have to wait a tour or two. haha

[HelpMeSleep]

Well Nashville is a lot better than Memphis, they have this place called Rocket Town where a lot of bands play. I mean, still there are places who get way more shows that Nashville, but compared to Memphis it's awesome.

I would say go for it, there are a lot of shows in Nashville, and most bands go there, you just might have to wait a tour or two. haha
sweet. that's pretty cool. I'm sure it'd be worth it anyway. and I guess if there was anyone I really wanted to see that wasn't coming around I could make a little roadtrip haha.

[spansen]

it isn't so bad.

[Anthony Lutz]

I think this kind of goes along with a maturity thing... It's one of those things where it's a gray area. If only both of you were 2 years older, then it wouldn't seem as weird.

Catch my drift?

[Anthony Lutz]

i don't think it's that bad, just something i would personally try to stay away from since i've realized younger girls are so immature and have no idea what they want. they may not come across this way at first but in the end it shows

This too. It seems like the bigger the age difference, the less one another can understand each other. I've dated people who have been 2 years older, and 2 years younger, and there's definitely a big difference in the way they handled things.

[DaveZeroZero]

hi Dave! you excited to see ATL?

and is your exchange a girl or a boy? for some reason I always imagined them as a girl.
Haha, it's a guy - and we had an awesome time at ATL.

Plus my ALL TIME BLOW ME went down a treat haha.

Not that it actually worked, but I still got attention =]

Close, my bands actually called The Skyline Lights....

myspace.com/theskylinelights We just put up a new song this morning.

Ok sorry about that. haha

Yeah, but it seems like even the local blues music is slowly dying haha. Really bad screamo bands have taken over the local music scene..
I'll check it out later, as I'm about to head into london again, methinks.

And I thought that that scene was dead? I want to go to a show of a similar band and write "DEAD SCENE IS DEAD" on my chest and it will be awesome.

[HelpMeSleep]

Haha, it's a guy - and we had an awesome time at ATL.

Plus my ALL TIME BLOW ME went down a treat haha.

Not that it actually worked, but I still got attention =]
haha so not a girl then. where's he from?

ALL TIME BLOW ME lol. I don't think I heard about that beforehand.

I wanted to see All Time Low at warped tour weekend before last but both days they played at lame times so I missed them.

[INhopewefail]

Robbin' the cradle...nice!

But seriously, who cares how old she is...there's people who marry 20 years younger than themselves, that should be a crime.

[#WhiteFender#]

not to randomly butt into the conversation, but I can't resist. do bands really never come play in Tennessee?

because the school I really want to transfer to is in Nashville. but I never it see on a lot of bands' tour dates and I know it's never on my favorite band's tours. and I feel like I would really miss going to shows if I went to school there, but I really want to go. :shrug:

there was a lot of concerts when i was visiting there. then again, no one comes to Canada, so it could just seem like a lot.

[HelpMeSleep]

there was a lot of concerts when i was visiting there. then again, no one comes to Canada, so it could just seem like a lot.
ughh that sucks that no one comes there. :-(


yeah, I mean, I know it's a really big place for music in general. I just noticed that none of my favorite bands seem to stop there.

[Burning Star IV]

there was a lot of concerts when i was visiting there. then again, no one comes to Canada, so it could just seem like a lot.
Unless you live in Van, Toronto, or Montreal, you get shafted.

[#WhiteFender#]

Unless you live in Van, Toronto, or Montreal, you get shafted.


even vancouver gets very few. mostly just toronto and montreal. it sucks, cause vancouver's only 3 hours north of seattle, but usually gets skipped. and anyways, most of our venues are 19+. there's only one small all ages venue and its the most random thing ever, in a croatian church.

[Burning Star IV]

even vancouver gets very few. mostly just toronto and montreal. it sucks, cause vancouver's only 3 hours north of seattle, but usually gets skipped. and anyways, most of our venues are 19+. there's only one small all ages venue and its the most random thing ever, in a croatian church.
Where are you from?

[HelpMeSleep]

even vancouver gets very few. mostly just toronto and montreal. it sucks, cause vancouver's only 3 hours north of seattle, but usually gets skipped. and anyways, most of our venues are 19+. there's only one small all ages venue and its the most random thing ever, in a croatian church.
haha that actually is really random because I'm half Croatian and I didn't even know they had churches. is it like Catholic?

[Burning Star IV]

haha that actually is really random because I'm half Croatian and I didn't even know they had churches. is it like Catholic?
I think she's talking about the Croatian Cultural Center in Vancouver. It's a church/convention hall. Underooth played there once.

[HelpMeSleep]

I think she's talking about the Croatian Cultural Center in Vancouver. It's a church/convention hall. Underooth played there once.
oh, that's pretty cool. it probably isn't Catholic actually now that I think about it. Catholic churches aren't usually like that. I just thought it might be because my side of the family that is Croatian is mostly Catholic I think.

[TheSkyline]

Haha, it's a guy - and we had an awesome time at ATL.

Plus my ALL TIME BLOW ME went down a treat haha.

Not that it actually worked, but I still got attention =]


I'll check it out later, as I'm about to head into london again, methinks.

And I thought that that scene was dead? I want to go to a show of a similar band and write "DEAD SCENE IS DEAD" on my chest and it will be awesome.

Note I put, "bad" and "screamo" in the same sentence.
It is dead. haha

All Time Blow Me... why didn't I think of that? haha

[theguy77]

so i guess this is the part where it gets irrelevant. thats cool i got all the adivce i'll need, im going for it.

[#WhiteFender#]

Where are you from?

I think she's talking about the Croatian Cultural Center in Vancouver. It's a church/convention hall. Underooth played there once.


near vancouver. and yeah, thats the place

[Burning Star IV]

near vancouver. and yeah, thats the place
So like Burnaby, Surrey???

[#WhiteFender#]

So like Burnaby, Surrey???

pretty much. langley.

[Burning Star IV]

pretty much. langley.
So how's that. I've only ever driven on the highway. I've never actually seen the city.

[HelpMeSleep]

so i guess this is the part where it gets irrelevant. thats cool i got all the adivce i'll need, im going for it.
good. you should.

[DaveZeroZero]

haha so not a girl then. where's he from?

ALL TIME BLOW ME lol. I don't think I heard about that beforehand.

I wanted to see All Time Low at warped tour weekend before last but both days they played at lame times so I missed them.
That's a shame - they were spot on - it was so awesome.

and I'm surprised that you didn't hear about it beforehand - where the hell have you been? :-)

Robbin' the cradle...nice!

But seriously, who cares how old she is...there's people who marry 20 years younger than themselves, that should be a crime.
It runs in my dad's side of the family, at least for 2nd wives - it's not all bad.

Note I put, "bad" and "screamo" in the same sentence.
It is dead. haha

All Time Blow Me... why didn't I think of that? haha
The real question is: why didn't JACK think of that? =]

But yeah, it's really rather stone-cold dead haha. Oh well.

[Chris Fallon]

Yeeeeeah, Ryan! I say go for it - not like you're that far in age. Two years, big deal. Not like you're in your 20's and she's 18-19. It's all good dude, no one will (or should) find it strange.

[HelpMeSleep]

That's a shame - they were spot on - it was so awesome.

and I'm surprised that you didn't hear about it beforehand - where the hell have you been? :-)
ahh I'd love to see them. I don't like the line up enough for their fall tour to go though, so Warped would have been the perfect time to see them.

haha I don't know. around? I was totally caught up in the CFOB stuff the last several days though.

[DaveZeroZero]

ahh I'd love to see them. I don't like the line up enough for their fall tour to go though, so Warped would have been the perfect time to see them.

haha I don't know. around? I was totally caught up in the CFOB stuff the last several days though.
yeah, what's up with all of that CFOB stuff, anyway? It bores me intensely tbh.

[TheSkyline]

The real question is: why didn't JACK think of that? =]

But yeah, it's really rather stone-cold dead haha. Oh well.

Haha, that whole band is pretty hilarious.

yeah, what's up with all of that CFOB stuff, anyway? It bores me intensely tbh.

Same here, it's pretty boring.

I think it all just came down to them coming out with a new album. Wasn't worth all the hype imo.
But I'll be getting the album anyways, should be interesting.

[DaveZeroZero]

Haha, that whole band is pretty hilarious.


Same here, it's pretty boring.

I think it all just came down to them coming out with a new album. Wasn't worth all the hype imo.
But I'll be getting the album anyways, should be interesting.
haha, yeah - they're like me if I were more awesome and musically talented =p

in terms of FOB's new album, the name's pretty poor. Oh well.

Actually, I bet it was Ashley's doing.

[TheSkyline]

haha, yeah - they're like me if I were more awesome and musically talented =p

in terms of FOB's new album, the name's pretty poor. Oh well.

Actually, I bet it was Ashley's doing.

I agree, I had no clue how to say it until I say that video. haha


I just thought.... what if the album has guest vocals from her? I swear I'll kill myself. haha

[HelpMeSleep]

yeah, what's up with all of that CFOB stuff, anyway? It bores me intensely tbh.
I'm into the bands so it interests me. but basically it was a pretty big viral marketing campaign from Fall Out Boy to announce their new album, and they released this pretty sweet free mixtape with exclusives and stuff to help promote it and most of the bands on the label were included in it. it's also pretty political, and it had some Midtown references in it too which got people going.

[TheSkyline]

I'm into the bands so it interests me. but basically it was a pretty big viral marketing campaign from Fall Out Boy to announce their new album, and they released this pretty sweet free mixtape with exclusives and stuff to help promote it and most of the bands on the label were included in it. it's also pretty political, and it had some Midtown references in it too which got people going.

What if Midtown came back and was signed to Decaydace?

I wouldn't be so crazy about the label, but more Midtown would make me one happy boy. haha

[Chris Fallon]

What if Midtown came back and was signed to Decaydace?

I wouldn't be so crazy about the label, but more Midtown would make me one happy boy. haha
Pleasant thought for sure, but it's not happening. As far as I know, the Midtown stuff was there to fuck with people. Petty, I know.

[TheSkyline]

Pleasant thought for sure, but it's not happening. As far as I know, the Midtown stuff was there to fuck with people. Petty, I know.

Wait, seriously? I thought it had some kind of meaning..

Man, that ruined my day. haha

[HelpMeSleep]

What if Midtown came back and was signed to Decaydace?

I wouldn't be so crazy about the label, but more Midtown would make me one happy boy. haha
that thought actually did occur to me too.

haha it would make me a pretty happy girl too. I think there'll be something though. I'm generally pretty optimistic, but if I were to be a pessimist and say there's nothing big. I'd still say the video of Rob made it sound like there's some unreleased b-sides if nothing else. and you know there will be a final show at some point at the very least.

[Renee]

One of my friends is 16 and dating an 18 year old. Another one is 19 and dating a 27 year old...

/on topic.

[brandnew=love]

the 16/18 one isn't THAT bad... 19/27... I have this gay friend who when he was 17 hooked up with a 30 year old...

[brandnew=love]

and I think that's where he got his crabs... if I'm not wrong...

[TheSkyline]

that thought actually did occur to me too.

haha it would make me a pretty happy girl too. I think there'll be something though. I'm generally pretty optimistic, but if I were to be a pessimist and say there's nothing big. I'd still say the video of Rob made it sound like there's some unreleased b-sides if nothing else. and you know there will be a final show at some point at the very least.

Yeah I hope we can at least get some b-sides.

One of my friends is 16 and dating an 18 year old. Another one is 19 and dating a 27 year old...

/on topic.

Way to go, really. I bet you feel so proud of yourself. I'm kind of having a discussion with the other members, it's very rude to interrupt.

jk :-)

[Chris Fallon]

Wait, seriously? I thought it had some kind of meaning..

Man, that ruined my day. haha
Yeah, I'm sorry. I heard from a reliable source it was meant to grab attention, but has no real meaning other than that - as far as I know, Gabe and Co. are keeping pretty busy with their respective (to some) post-Midtown work. Bummed me out too, but I figured it was too good to be true.

[HelpMeSleep]

and I think that's where he got his crabs... if I'm not wrong...
ughhh crabs. :shudder:
that really sucks though. I've never even had head lice and I don't intend to ever have it anywhere.

Wait, seriously? I thought it had some kind of meaning..

Man, that ruined my day. haha
he secretly enjoyed doing that lol.

Yeah I hope we can at least get some b-sides.
me too! I know The Starting Line talked about releasing something like that while they were on their break.

[brandnew=love]

ughhh crabs. :shudder:
that really sucks though. I've never even had head lice and I don't intend to ever have it anywhere.
Yeah, pretty sick stuff... he's like the biggest whore though so I guess he kinda deserved it? Yeah, I don't plan on getting them either... it was funny though cause he had to go see a doctor to get meds and he had to call every guy he slept with in the past 6 months...

[HelpMeSleep]

Yeah, pretty sick stuff... he's like the biggest whore though so I guess he kinda deserved it? Yeah, I don't plan on getting them either... it was funny though cause he had to go see a doctor to get meds and he had to call every guy he slept with in the past 6 months...
hahaha. that's funny. bet that took him awhile to do.

[TheSkyline]

ughhh crabs. :shudder:
that really sucks though. I've never even had head lice and I don't intend to ever have it anywhere.


he secretly enjoyed doing that lol.


me too! I know The Starting Line talked about releasing something like that while they were on their break.

Speaking of The Starting Line, have you heard two of the member's (forget their names) side project?
myspace.com/theseventysix

It's like an R&B thing, and it's actually pretty cool. The lead singer is the old singer for Capitol Risk (just some locals band I liked, I don't know if you've heard of them).

Anyways, you should check them out, they're pretty good.

And more The Starting Line songs would be awesome!

[brandnew=love]

yeah, I honestly don't think he even knew all of them... I talk to him like every two weeks and I'll be like how are things with _____ and he'll be like who? and I'm like the guy you were sleeping with and like 5 mnutes later he'll be like oh... yeah, him... and go on about how he was sleeping with one guy but this other guy came along, then he got drunk and...

[HelpMeSleep]

Speaking of The Starting Line, have you heard two of the member's (forget their names) side project?
myspace.com/theseventysix

It's like an R&B thing, and it's actually pretty cool. The lead singer is the old singer for Capitol Risk (just some locals band I liked, I don't know if you've heard of them).

Anyways, you should check them out, they're pretty good.

And more The Starting Line songs would be awesome!
I've heard of it, haven't actually heard it. that sounds really cool though. I'll definitely check it out. thanks! :-)

so if the singer's not with Capitol Risk anymore but are they still together? if they're good, it might be cool to have band that's somewhat local for me that I like when I go to TN haha.

yeah, I honestly don't think he even knew all of them... I talk to him like every two weeks and I'll be like how are things with _____ and he'll be like who? and I'm like the guy you were sleeping with and like 5 mnutes later he'll be like oh... yeah, him... and go on about how he was sleeping with one guy but this other guy came along, then he got drunk and...
haha wowww. that sort of lifestyle is so ridiculous but whatever floats his boat haha.

[brandnew=love]

haha wowww. that sort of lifestyle is so ridiculous but whatever floats his boat haha.
lawl yeah, I told him that... also that this time it was crabs next time who knows? but meh... people gotta learn somehow... and it's not like he'll get anyone prego... so?

[HelpMeSleep]

lawl yeah, I told him that... also that this time it was crabs next time who knows? but meh... people gotta learn somehow... and it's not like he'll get anyone prego... so?
haha. very true. there's a whole plethora of nasty stds out there for him to worry about catching while being a manwhore, but at least a baby isn't one of them.

[brandnew=love]

haha. very true. there's a whole plethora of nasty stds out there for him to worry about catching while being a manwhore, but at least a baby isn't one of them.
yeah, especially since he's gay it puts him like at a bigger risk, but atleast he won't ruin some kids life... oh and then he went to go tested for aids with some friends and usually they'll ask you a few questions and test you and that's it... but he was there for almost an hour with the questions and they told him that when he went to pick up the results he needed to write a three page paper about AIDS... then they gave him a bunch of condoms...

[HelpMeSleep]

yeah, especially since he's gay it puts him like at a bigger risk, but atleast he won't ruin some kids life... oh and then he went to go tested for aids with some friends and usually they'll ask you a few questions and test you and that's it... but he was there for almost an hour with the questions and they told him that when he went to pick up the results he needed to write a three page paper about AIDS... then they gave him a bunch of condoms...
see, even people who don't know him are concerned about his slutting habits haha.

[TheSkyline]

I've heard of it, haven't actually heard it. that sounds really cool though. I'll definitely check it out. thanks! :-)

so if the singer's not with Capitol Risk anymore but are they still together? if they're good, it might be cool to have band that's somewhat local for me that I like when I go to TN haha.


haha wowww. that sort of lifestyle is so ridiculous but whatever floats his boat haha.

O um, they're from Philadelphia. I meant local like, they weren't signed or anything. Haha

But yeah, they're still together, the band is called The Goodnight Anthem. Its not as good as the old band, but it's still pretty good.

[HelpMeSleep]

O um, they're from Philadelphia. I meant local like, they weren't signed or anything. Haha

But yeah, they're still together, the band is called The Goodnight Anthem. Its not as good as the old band, but it's still pretty good.
oh haha okay. that's cool. I'll check em out.

[brandnew=love]

see, even people who don't know him are concerned about his slutting habits haha.
lawl yeah, it's crazy... that's how you know how huge of a manwhore he is... that kid's got issues... meh I don't like talking to him anymore... gets too graphic in his stories...

[HelpMeSleep]

lawl yeah, it's crazy... that's how you know how huge of a manwhore he is... that kid's got issues... meh I don't like talking to him anymore... gets too graphic in his stories...
I hate when people do that

[brandnew=love]

I hate when people do that
lawl same here.. if you wanted to know about the graphic stories you'd ask them about it... your friends are the same way?

[HelpMeSleep]

lawl same here.. if you wanted to know about the graphic stories you'd ask them about it... your friends are the same way?
not most of them. theres this one guy.. my senior year of high school, his freshman year we were in leadership together. and he regularly IMs me now and he'll be like hey how are you and then he'll ask me if I have any stories and I'm usually just like nooo. and then he proceeds to tell me all his and I'm just like okay thanks. and even when I was just like oh I just got dumped it was horrible, he'd still tell me stories anyway. it was like wtf

[swt_catastrophe]

haha, yeah - they're like me if I were more awesome and musically talented =p

in terms of FOB's new album, the name's pretty poor. Oh well.

Actually, I bet it was Ashley's doing.
hah. for a second, i thought you meant me.
and then i realized you were talking about FOB
not most of them. theres this one guy.. my senior year of high school, his freshman year we were in leadership together. and he regularly IMs me now and he'll be like hey how are you and then he'll ask me if I have any stories and I'm usually just like nooo. and then he proceeds to tell me all his and I'm just like okay thanks. and even when I was just like oh I just got dumped it was horrible, he'd still tell me stories anyway. it was like wtf
ugh. i know a guy like this.
soo annoying.

[brandnew=love]

not most of them. theres this one guy.. my senior year of high school, his freshman year we were in leadership together. and he regularly IMs me now and he'll be like hey how are you and then he'll ask me if I have any stories and I'm usually just like nooo. and then he proceeds to tell me all his and I'm just like okay thanks. and even when I was just like oh I just got dumped it was horrible, he'd still tell me stories anyway. it was like wtf
lawl why don't you just block him? so it was like "my bf left me" "oh... well this one time me and my gf were..." haha wow that's messed up, why would you tell him thanks... you should have just not replied atleast... that's pretty messed up...

[HelpMeSleep]

hah. for a second, i thought you meant me.
and then i realized you were talking about FOB

ugh. i know a guy like this.
soo annoying.
haha because he spells Ashlee Simpson's name wrong too.

it IS. ugh.

lawl why don't you just block him? so it was like "my bf left me" "oh... well this one time me and my gf were..." haha wow that's messed up, why would you tell him thanks... you should have just not replied atleast... that's pretty messed up...
haha I don't know. the other night I just ignored him and he left me alone lol.

[HelpMeSleep]

random subject change I just found this article...
http://news.scotsman.com/alcoholandbingedrinking/Warning-over-alcohol-through-eye.2552924.jp

apparently people drink alcohol through their eyes and gets you drunk faster??

[swt_catastrophe]

haha because he spells Ashlee Simpson's name wrong too.

it IS. ugh.


haha I don't know. the other night I just ignored him and he left me alone lol.
oh that's nothing!
i blocked this guy [long story short, would NOT stop IMing me/stalking me in general]
he went on a different sn and was all "hey this is ... why'd you block me?"
omg. are you that stupid?

[brandnew=love]

haha I don't know. the other night I just ignored him and he left me alone lol.
lawl he probably makes them up... or maybe he just tells you cause he wants you to tell him some for his own perverted dreams haha... what a loser though... you should start making up stories haha...

[HelpMeSleep]

oh that's nothing!
i blocked this guy [long story short, would NOT stop IMing me/stalking me in general]
he went on a different sn and was all "hey this is ... why'd you block me?"
omg. are you that stupid?
hahaha. boy needs to learn how to take a hint! lol

[brandnew=love]

random subject change I just found this article...
http://news.scotsman.com/alcoholandbingedrinking/Warning-over-alcohol-through-eye.2552924.jp

apparently people drink alcohol through their eyes and gets you drunk faster??
that's crazy... the things people would do to get hammered... I heard (and this is pretty messed up but I swear it's true) that if you stuck beer up your ass you could get so drunk that you'd probably die...

[brandnew=love]

butt shot - the topical application or insertion of an alcohol-soaked sponge into the anus

[DaveZeroZero]

I agree, I had no clue how to say it until I say that video. haha


I just thought.... what if the album has guest vocals from her? I swear I'll kill myself. haha
What video?
But yeah, Ashlee guest vocals would be pretty hilarious

In fact, I'd quite like to hear that.

hah. for a second, i thought you meant me.
Pfft, you're so self-absorbed.

j/k

oh that's nothing!
i blocked this guy [long story short, would NOT stop IMing me/stalking me in general]
he went on a different sn and was all "hey this is ... why'd you block me?"
omg. are you that stupid?
I got stalked once...

[brandnew=love]

I got stalked once...
by your mom?

[Cuddleworthy]

this, i know, and am ready for. but right now she wants me, i dont want to be single, and we have a lot of fun together, so im gonna go for it.

sounds like you're doing it for the right reasons. the thing that sucks going into these relationships is that it's almost inevitable for one or both people to get hurt in the end.

[DaveZeroZero]

by your mom?
Dude, even I didn't appreciate that and I love your mom jokes, you know?

[brandnew=love]

Dude, even I didn't appreciate that and I love your mom jokes, you know?
:-( I'm sorry...

[DaveZeroZero]

:-( I'm sorry...
haha, don't worry =]

So, got any better ones?

[brandnew=love]

not at the moment...
bro you're pretty cool...
I guess I wear the Dave #2 like a badge of honor...
you?

[DaveZeroZero]

not at the moment...
bro you're pretty cool...
I guess I wear the Dave #2 like a badge of honor...
you?
I'm not so sure that that's a badge of honor, but I'm stoked that you think that it is =]

and no, I don't really have any your mom jokes at the moment - I used up my month's awesomeness yesterday haha.

[brandnew=love]

I'm not so sure that that's a badge of honor, but I'm stoked that you think that it is =]

and no, I don't really have any your mom jokes at the moment - I used up my month's awesomeness yesterday haha.
lawl welcome bro... well being Dave #2 is better than some doucher #2...

lawl well that's okay, next month is around the corner....

[FOBcareemo]

My equation



Age divided by two plus seven



I'm 20 so the youngest I can date is 17

[DaveZeroZero]

lawl welcome bro... well being Dave #2 is better than some doucher #2...

lawl well that's okay, next month is around the corner....
That's true - and then I can finally get myself some NFG to listen to =]

Oh, and I hit 11k! :woot:

[brandnew=love]

That's true - and then I can finally get myself some NFG to listen to =]

Oh, and I hit 11k! :woot:
Pretty badass... tip of the iceburg?

congrats on 11k!

[DaveZeroZero]

Pretty badass... tip of the iceburg?

congrats on 11k!
mmhmm - damn, I hate download limits.

and thanks =]

any plans for the weekend?

[brandnew=love]

where do you download? it's an okay cd btw...

lawl it's barely wednesday and you're talking about the weekend? probably go shopping for clothes... maybe new music... you? how's your french exchange?