What to do with a broken heart?

[ticklemepink]

do you guys have any suggestions? i feel like this is never going to get better. breaking up freakin sucks

[still-life]

hello, sorry so sad. i 've been there, and even worse i'd that person every day at school walk right by me. it hurt a little more every time, but later it soon became numb. maybe time healed it but it takes too long. it makes me wonder if it "is better to have lost love than to have ever to have loved at all." does the pain seem worth the feeling you had in the begining? its part of life... you live you learn. it will get better soon. if you're down now than it can only get better. friends might be able to get ur mind off it. in a year you'll say, "what broken heart?"

ps
sorry if i didnt help.
glasseater's "everything is better when u dont look down"was the story of my break up................................. .<3

[Tyler Revolution]

hello, sorry so sad. i 've been there, and even worse i'd that person every day at school walk right by me. it hurt a little more every time, but later it soon became numb. maybe time healed it but it takes too long. it makes me wonder if it "is better to have lost love than to have ever to have loved at all." does the pain seem worth the feeling you had in the begining? its part of life... you live you learn. it will get better soon. if you're down now than it can only get better. friends might be able to get ur mind off it. in a year you'll say, "what broken heart?"

ps
sorry if i didnt help.
glasseater's "everything is better when u dont look down"was the story of my break up................................. .<3

I agree... I've been there too, many times... and it sucks, it takes forever to get over... but the best advice i can give is to hang out with friends.. friends can help you and make you get over it, and they are there for you to talk to... go out and have fun, and just try to get your mind off of your loss. It'll take time, but you will move on. good luck.

[kimosabe]

Go take a nice hot bath. Take a razor blade. cut yourself.

[still-life]

Go take a nice hot bath. Take a razor blade. cut yourself.
does someone not have friends?
or are u too weak to fight it?

[Hilikus]

kimosabe is a loser

[SonEric84]

People that think they are funny or cool for making rude comments when someone is honestly asking for advice usually aren't.

[sweethypocrisy]

quit being an emo bitch

[Tyler Revolution]

quit being an emo bitch

Quit being a "hardcore punk", bitch.

[Brit_Ben]

remady for a broken heart is 2 bottles of merrydown, a punk gig and then a back ally shag ooooo nice :wink3:

[kimosabe]

kimosabe is a loser
Atleast i don't suck cock.

[still-life]

Atleast i don't suck cock.

well thats healthy.

[dretti]

well thats healthy.


you need to change your name, I keep confusing you with the real still life. At first i was like still life with an acceptance avatar? What the fuck...

[richter915]

just masturbate a lot.

[zach]

do you guys have any suggestions? i feel like this is never going to get better. breaking up freakin sucks
Drink.

[OnLegendary21]

Another Still Life? Geez, you got some big shoes to fill.

[punklet2101]

Another Still Life? Geez, you got some big shoes to fill.

hahaha. I love Still_Life, I think he's great.


Anyway, back to the thread... listen to happy, happy music... Spend time with your friends, let them know you really need them to help you. Have them stay over, eat pizza and watch movies, walk to the shops at 3am and find a trolley... take pretty photographs and smell the roses.

[kimosabe]

Drink.
alot

[still-life]

opps, i didn't realize that there was another Still Life. sorry but i dont want change and DAMN i that i was something different.
At least mine has a dash...?

[punklet2101]

opps, i didn't realize that there was another Still Life. sorry but i dont want change and DAMN i that i was something different.
At least mine has a dash...?

no :)

[skagal]

kimosabe is a loser

yes he is, he should be shot

[Riverwings]

do you guys have any suggestions? i feel like this is never going to get better. breaking up freakin sucks

Just listen to "time to break up" by blink-182 over and over...

[MaybeOneDay]

I've been there, and this is how I dealt with it, so follow these steps:

1. Stop talking to/seeing him/her until you feel better and the feeling for that person are gone.
2. Listen to happy music. Don't try to find comfort in sad/angry/depressing music, it only makes it worse, and takes more time to get over it.
3. Spend ALOT of time with your friends. The more of your time that is occupied is the less time you have to spend thinking about what happened.
4. Try to find another person of the opposite sex to talk to. If you have one already, spend time with them. It makes things easier.

and lastly, the most important one:

5. Do everything in your power NOT to dwell on the breakup. That will only make you hurt more for a longer period of time, trust me, i've learnt from my mistakes. Keep your mind off of it, and keep yourself busy, as much as possible. I know all this is easier said than done, but if you want to get over it, it's what you have to do.

Good luck.

[Timberwolf]

opps, i didn't realize that there was another Still Life. sorry but i dont want change and DAMN i that i was something different.
At least mine has a dash...?

the real still_lifes gonna rip you apart.

[kimosabe]

yes he is, he should be shot
BWAHAHA! i think it's funny that you care so much...my work here is done..

[yc04]

BWAHAHA! i think it's funny that you care so much...my work here is done..
your work is done here?, or you're just mad because she/he made you feel small and stupid? the same thing you try to make other people feel like with your sarcastic, dickhole remarks.....

[kimosabe]

your work is done here?, or you're just mad because she/he made you feel small and stupid? the same thing you try to make other people feel like with your sarcastic, dickhole remarks.....
"yes he is, he should be shot" is supposed to make me feel small? WTF? If you would feel small by that remark you must have a very little dick.
I pity you.

[MaybeOneDay]

"yes he is, he should be shot" is supposed to make me feel small? WTF? If you would feel small by that remark you must have a very little dick.
I pity you.
Hahaha.

[Mercy Medical]

quit being an emo bitch
Daniel, why are you such a fuckin' asshole lately? I'm really starting to get sick of your lame ass attempts to be such a badass by tearing everyone down all the time, it's getting old.

[nards228]

do you guys have any suggestions? i feel like this is never going to get better. breaking up freakin sucks
Broke up with my girlfriend of three years two weeks ago. You'll never get over it, you'll just get used to it. Recommend large amounts of alcohol and younger girls.



Rennard

[pjtunes91]

Alcohol and Elliott Smith... take it all in.

[Tyler Revolution]

Daniel, why are you such a fuckin' asshole lately? I'm really starting to get sick of your lame ass attempts to be such a badass by tearing everyone down all the time, it's getting old.

Exactly... if someone new comes to this site and makes a thread about something, he always says "shutup, this has been done, get the fuck out of here and never come back. stop breathing" or something usually equally "clever and witty" as that... Its fucking ignorant and annoying, people are new here, and so they don't know what threads have been made before, so they are curious or they want to voice their opinion or thoughts. I wish half of the people that have been here for a while or the "older and really cool" people would leave this site. Anyways daniel, stop telling people to leave, and stop being immature.

[Mercy Medical]

Exactly... if someone new comes to this site and makes a thread about something, he always says "shutup, this has been done, get the fuck out of here and never come back. stop breathing" or something usually equally "clever and witty" as that... Its fucking ignorant and annoying, people are new here, and so they don't know what threads have been made before, so they are curious or they want to voice their opinion or thoughts. I wish half of the people that have been here for a while or the "older and really cool" people would leave this site. Anyways daniel, stop telling people to leave, and stop being immature.
I dunno, he seemed like such a sweet boy before he got banned and became some kind of "rebel"...but I just sit and continue to remind myself that he isn't only 13 years old. :) Now I'm sitting here waiting for him to get back from school and reply to my post. :)

[SonEric84]

I've been there, and this is how I dealt with it, so follow these steps:

1. Stop talking to/seeing him/her until you feel better and the feeling for that person are gone.
2. Listen to happy music. Don't try to find comfort in sad/angry/depressing music, it only makes it worse, and takes more time to get over it.
3. Spend ALOT of time with your friends. The more of your time that is occupied is the less time you have to spend thinking about what happened.
4. Try to find another person of the opposite sex to talk to. If you have one already, spend time with them. It makes things easier.

and lastly, the most important one:

5. Do everything in your power NOT to dwell on the breakup. That will only make you hurt more for a longer period of time, trust me, i've learnt from my mistakes. Keep your mind off of it, and keep yourself busy, as much as possible. I know all this is easier said than done, but if you want to get over it, it's what you have to do.

Good luck.


I think that is some of the best advice I have seen for this thread. I learned the hard way about this too and I think that spending time with friends and keeping your eyes open to people of the opposite sex are the best ways to deal with this. It's hard but you get through....and sometimes you'll find yourself wondering why it was ever such a big deal in the first place.

[nfgguitardude]

Yeah, breakups definitely ARENT easy. Especially long term ones. Yeah its easy to get over a 2 week relationship. But getting out of my 8 month relationship was hard. I was so emotionally drained. For a while I thought I could drown my overwhelming feelings with sad, slow, emo music. It definitely didn't work. I remember listening to Boxcar Racer's "There Is" about 20 billion times on a road trip right after she broke up with me. Wow, that made it sooo much worse. Eventually, I started getting into playing guitar much much more and wrote my own, poppy happy riffs and awesome melodies. I got used to it. The break up day was August 11, 2003. I remember this not only cus it was my best friend's 16th birthday.. but a tragic day at that. Now, a year and month or so later... to this day, she still wants me back. But the one thing I WONT do is take her back. That's giving in to all those months trying to get her out of my head. I'm not willing to get my heart broken again by her. Yeah I'll be willing to put my heart out on the line for someone else to handle it with care... but this girl has proven to me exactly what she would do with it again. I don't care how much she regrets it, how much she says it was the biggest mistake of her life, or how much she wants me back. It took me tooooo long to get over it just to take her back.

Jus thought I'd put in my two cents and a story behind it. Bottom line... girls are heart-breakers. Not ALL of them, but a good share.

[LoveHate]

To add to this message...#6. Cut off all relations with them (e-mails, phone numbers, im's, anything and everything so you won't remind yourself of them) Good luck and I'm sorry :( Best of wishes to ya! And don't worry, you'll get through it, we've all been there and know exactly what you're going through!

[LoveHate]

Sorry that was to add to MaybeOneDay's post, I f-ed it up...sorry bout that :(

[kimosabe]

Now what would the emo solution be?

[punklet2101]

Jus thought I'd put in my two cents and a story behind it. Bottom line... girls are heart-breakers. Not ALL of them, but a good share.


We could definately say the same about some guys, too. I'm living proof.

Both girls and guys break hearts.. it's not really fair to victimise all guys and make girls look pure evil.

[Coffee_addict]

You know what you should do, wait for a stormy night, then pull a john Cusack, and like stand in the rain, yelling her name. And than when she tells you to go away, just be like I love you, I love you, I fucking love you. And than when her dad comes down to kick your ass, run away. But that could work, in magical fairytale land of High Fidelity.

[punklet2101]

You know what you should do, wait for a stormy night, then pull a john Cusack, and like stand in the rain, yelling her name. And than when she tells you to go away, just be like I love you, I love you, I fucking love you. And than when her dad comes down to kick your ass, run away. But that could work, in magical fairytale land of High Fidelity.

heh

[xmicandmoshpitx]

I've been there, and this is how I dealt with it, so follow these steps:

1. Stop talking to/seeing him/her until you feel better and the feeling for that person are gone.
2. Listen to happy music. Don't try to find comfort in sad/angry/depressing music, it only makes it worse, and takes more time to get over it.
3. Spend ALOT of time with your friends. The more of your time that is occupied is the less time you have to spend thinking about what happened.
4. Try to find another person of the opposite sex to talk to. If you have one already, spend time with them. It makes things easier.

and lastly, the most important one:

5. Do everything in your power NOT to dwell on the breakup. That will only make you hurt more for a longer period of time, trust me, i've learnt from my mistakes. Keep your mind off of it, and keep yourself busy, as much as possible. I know all this is easier said than done, but if you want to get over it, it's what you have to do.

Good luck.

i recently went through this. i couldn't agree more with brandon. i did these steps, however, not in this order. make SURE you do steps 1, 3, and 5 (preferably in the order 1, 2, and 3.) trust me, if you do it that way it will get better quicker. i should have done what i'm doing now a long time ago, then it wouldn't have taken me 4 months to realize how detrimental this has been. the best advice i've gotten on break-ups and broken hearts has been from rennard.

[brandnewtbs23]

kimosabe is a loser
i agree fuck you kimosabe