View Full Version : First dates, sweet kisses... and parents
coke_with_lime
09/19/04, 04:31 PM
Okay, before I even ask the question here's the story...
I'm a girl btw... well anyway This summer I met a guy whom I fell in love with the first time I saw him. I would seriously do anything for him and he'd do anything for me. And for a while we went on "dates" with our parents not knowing jack. (Our moms had been friends since college and they just moved down here from Maryland.) So anyway, our first date was to an amusement park and I had told his little brother that my little fairy tale was to have my first kiss on the ferris wheel. Well, I had my first kiss with him on the ferris wheel. And we later go to movies and holds hands and kiss and sorta make out. :smlove2: How sweet right? Well, our parents find out. Bad news. So I'm not grounded and he's not either but we can't go on "dates" anymore. Some adult always has to be there or something. So no physical love to each other at all. But I feel bad about it. Because I love him so much and I want to express the way I feel toward him and I want to be with him. :( I don't know what to do and I'm confused. I already went behind my parents backs and got caught and now I really can't see him anymore without someone else there.
I would like some help. I love him but now we can't be together all the time. My parents like him and all they just think I'm too young. :smilie_au I'M FREAKIN' 14!! And he is too. I know I can handle this but they think I can't. They said I didn't have to stop loving him, I just just couldn't have a boyfriend quite yet. Even his parents say the same thing about him and they all agreed to this little deal. What do I do? I'm really confrused!
Mercy Medical
09/19/04, 04:37 PM
Okay, before I even ask the question here's the story...
I'm a girl btw... well anyway This summer I met a guy whom I fell in love with the first time I saw him. I would seriously do anything for him and he'd do anything for me. And for a while we went on "dates" with our parents not knowing jack. (Our moms had been friends since college and they just moved down here from Maryland.) So anyway, our first date was to an amusement park and I had told his little brother that my little fairy tale was to have my first kiss on the ferris wheel. Well, I had my first kiss with him on the ferris wheel. And we later go to movies and holds hands and kiss and sorta make out. :smlove2: How sweet right? Well, our parents find out. Bad news. So I'm not grounded and he's not either but we can't go on "dates" anymore. Some adult always has to be there or something. So no physical love to each other at all. But I feel bad about it. Because I love him so much and I want to express the way I feel toward him and I want to be with him. :( I don't know what to do and I'm confused. I already went behind my parents backs and got caught and now I really can't see him anymore without someone else there.
I would like some help. I love him but now we can't be together all the time. My parents like him and all they just think I'm too young. :smilie_au I'M FREAKIN' 14!! And he is too. I know I can handle this but they think I can't. They said I didn't have to stop loving him, I just just couldn't have a boyfriend quite yet. Even his parents say the same thing about him and they all agreed to this little deal. What do I do? I'm really confrused!
You're only 14, why be so concerned about something and the truth of the matter is it's probably not going to last all but at most a few months and then it'll be over with. You're only 14, don't try to be so incredibly serious about these things...I dunno, kids today are growing up WAY too fast...especially when you see 10 year old girls dressing like sluts. Way to go Britney Spears! Way to be a role model for today's youth. :P
Oh, and making out at a theater isn't sweet, it's sick...thing about the people around you who have to subject themselves to your PDA. Bleh, PDA. :P
coke_with_lime
09/19/04, 04:40 PM
Oh, and making out at a theater isn't sweet, it's sick...thing about the people around you who have to subject themselves to your PDA. Bleh, PDA. :P
Well, technically with that I probably shudda just kept with the kiss, because it was kinda sorta not really making out... argh it's hard to explain nvm let's just say it was a kiss.
13th hour
09/19/04, 04:43 PM
I got my first blow job on a ferris wheel in ninth grade, when I was 15.
dont say shit like you love him by the way, thats absolutely retarted. Its cool if you want to think that, but if you think that the rest of us are going to believe that you actually love this guy, youre wrong.
coke_with_lime
09/19/04, 04:45 PM
I got my first blow job on a ferris wheel in ninth grade, when I was 15.
dont say shit like you love him by the way, thats absolutely retarted. Its cool if you want to think that, but if you think that the rest of us are going to believe that you actually love this guy, youre wrong.
Why do you say that?
Mercy Medical
09/19/04, 04:46 PM
I had a relationship that went from the end of my 8th grade year to the beginning of my freshman year and I thought I seriously loved the kid, for as much as a middle/high schooler could love someone, but the difference with that situation is that we were best friends all through high school even after we broke up. It wasn't just a date and dump kind of thing...I dunno, maybe I didn't make any sense.
Mercy Medical
09/19/04, 04:48 PM
Why do you say that?
Because you're only 14 years old and it's the first relationship you've ever had....honestly, you are too young.
13th hour
09/19/04, 04:49 PM
Why do you say that?
because youre not mature enough to experience love, and when you say you guys would do anything for each other, you kids havent seen enough of the world to know what "anything" entails. just say that you like him alot. You dont have to say that you love him.
coke_with_lime
09/19/04, 04:58 PM
because youre not mature enough to experience love, and when you say you guys would do anything for each other, you kids havent seen enough of the world to know what "anything" entails. just say that you like him alot. You dont have to say that you love him.
Okay so I like him a lot. And no this isn't my first experience. The last one was with some guy who was a little abusive, so I quickly ended that. But I am going to obey my parents and stuff, so I'm in the clear it's just, I don't know, all of this happend this weekend so it's all a little hard to grip.
13th hour
09/19/04, 05:02 PM
youd do anything fgor him, but you wont disobey your parents? see what I mean?
mirtizzle
09/19/04, 05:09 PM
maybe the fact that you say things like "i want to express the way i feel towards him" is the reason why you guys shouldn't be left alone. if my 14 year old kid was telling me she or he were in love with someone, i'd probably be afraid they were going to have sex and get pregnant, or run off together or something stupid like that... maybe that's not your intention, but parents don't truly trust their kids, even if they think they're good - my parents were convinced i was an angel in high school, but as my dad used to tell me, they didn't trust me further than they could throw me. they're just looking out for you guys.
besides, you have a whole life ahead of you, don't waste the good years worrying about guys.. they all suck anyway :p
SingleDoubt
09/19/04, 05:37 PM
Okay, before I even ask the question here's the story...
I'm a girl btw... well anyway This summer I met a guy whom I fell in love with the first time I saw him. I would seriously do anything for him and he'd do anything for me. And for a while we went on "dates" with our parents not knowing jack. (Our moms had been friends since college and they just moved down here from Maryland.) So anyway, our first date was to an amusement park and I had told his little brother that my little fairy tale was to have my first kiss on the ferris wheel. Well, I had my first kiss with him on the ferris wheel. And we later go to movies and holds hands and kiss and sorta make out. :smlove2: How sweet right? Well, our parents find out. Bad news. So I'm not grounded and he's not either but we can't go on "dates" anymore. Some adult always has to be there or something. So no physical love to each other at all. But I feel bad about it. Because I love him so much and I want to express the way I feel toward him and I want to be with him. :( I don't know what to do and I'm confused. I already went behind my parents backs and got caught and now I really can't see him anymore without someone else there.
I would like some help. I love him but now we can't be together all the time. My parents like him and all they just think I'm too young. :smilie_au I'M FREAKIN' 14!! And he is too. I know I can handle this but they think I can't. They said I didn't have to stop loving him, I just just couldn't have a boyfriend quite yet. Even his parents say the same thing about him and they all agreed to this little deal. What do I do? I'm really confrused!those smilies piss me off... you use too many of them, we dont need your story illustrated
Mercy Medical
09/19/04, 05:40 PM
those smilies piss me off... you use too many of them, we dont need your story illustrated
What are you talking about? It gave me a wonderful visual image of everything... :)
coke_with_lime
09/19/04, 05:51 PM
Maybe you guys are right. I screwed up. But I still do like him. You guys are right I shud change the way I look on him. Oh, and don't worry I wil not have sex! AH! That's real scary to me! REAL SCARY~! Don't worry bout that. Part of this screw up was b/c I didn't word everything right. Sorry to bother you guys.
coke_with_lime
09/19/04, 05:54 PM
those smilies piss me off... you use too many of them, we dont need your story illustrated
Hey those smilies are there for a purpose you know? :lol2:
Mercy Medical
09/19/04, 05:58 PM
Hey those smilies are there for a purpose you know? :lol2:
A pointless purpose...
SingleDoubt
09/19/04, 06:06 PM
A pointless purpose...
points for that
to say we End
09/19/04, 07:36 PM
don't waste the good years worrying about guys.. they all suck anyway :p
this is very true
13th hour
09/19/04, 08:00 PM
A pointless purpose...
I think that theyre there to annoy me
punklet2101
09/20/04, 01:52 AM
maybe the fact that you say things like "i want to express the way i feel towards him" is the reason why you guys shouldn't be left alone. if my 14 year old kid was telling me she or he were in love with someone, i'd probably be afraid they were going to have sex and get pregnant, or run off together or something stupid like that... maybe that's not your intention, but parents don't truly trust their kids, even if they think they're good - my parents were convinced i was an angel in high school, but as my dad used to tell me, they didn't trust me further than they could throw me. they're just looking out for you guys.
besides, you have a whole life ahead of you, don't waste the good years worrying about guys.. they all suck anyway :p
Well said.
coke_with_lime
09/20/04, 05:23 PM
Okay, before I even ask the question here's the story...
I'm a girl btw... well anyway This summer I met a guy whom I fell in love with the first time I saw him. I would seriously do anything for him and he'd do anything for me. And for a while we went on "dates" with our parents not knowing jack. (Our moms had been friends since college and they just moved down here from Maryland.) So anyway, our first date was to an amusement park and I had told his little brother that my little fairy tale was to have my first kiss on the ferris wheel. Well, I had my first kiss with him on the ferris wheel. And we later go to movies and holds hands and kiss and sorta make out. :smlove2: How sweet right? Well, our parents find out. Bad news. So I'm not grounded and he's not either but we can't go on "dates" anymore. Some adult always has to be there or something. So no physical love to each other at all. But I feel bad about it. Because I love him so much and I want to express the way I feel toward him and I want to be with him. :( I don't know what to do and I'm confused. I already went behind my parents backs and got caught and now I really can't see him anymore without someone else there.
I would like some help. I love him but now we can't be together all the time. My parents like him and all they just think I'm too young. :smilie_au I'M FREAKIN' 14!! And he is too. I know I can handle this but they think I can't. They said I didn't have to stop loving him, I just just couldn't have a boyfriend quite yet. Even his parents say the same thing about him and they all agreed to this little deal. What do I do? I'm really confrused!
wtf... WTF!!!!! What the crap that wasn't me! I never said that! That's never happend to me that's... Kristin. Ah, I'm gonna kill that preppy slut!
Alright, lemme explain, coz I think I know what happend. I went to my cousin's house and I showed her around this site and she had no interest in it. So it was time to leave so I left her with my account. I knew she'd screw me up somehow. God, sorry for all that I'm gonna kill my idiot cousin now. Just know that I'm not that gay like she is... alright later.
Mercy Medical
09/20/04, 05:24 PM
wtf... WTF!!!!! What the crap that wasn't me! I never said that! That's never happend to me that's... Kristin. Ah, I'm gonna kill that preppy slut!
Alright, lemme explain, coz I think I know what happend. I went to my cousin's house and I showed her around this site and she had no interest in it. So it was time to leave so I left her with my account. I knew she'd screw me up somehow. God, sorry for all that I'm gonna kill my idiot cousin now. Just know that I'm not that gay like she is... alright later.
Sure...a lame ass attempt to not seem lame anymore...*sigh*
Coronary Parasite
09/20/04, 05:26 PM
wtf... WTF!!!!! What the crap that wasn't me! I never said that! That's never happend to me that's... Kristin. Ah, I'm gonna kill that preppy slut!
Alright, lemme explain, coz I think I know what happend. I went to my cousin's house and I showed her around this site and she had no interest in it. So it was time to leave so I left her with my account. I knew she'd screw me up somehow. God, sorry for all that I'm gonna kill my idiot cousin now. Just know that I'm not that gay like she is... alright later.
yeah right....
coke_with_lime
09/20/04, 05:27 PM
Sure...a lame ass attempt to not seem lame anymore...*sigh*
Obviously you don't know my cousin. She's done this before to people in chat rooms and on MSN. Trust me I'm not lying, she does this all the time.
Do you really think I would put... "First Dates, Sweet Kisses" on freakin anything?
Mercy Medical
09/20/04, 05:27 PM
The fact that I noticed her user title changed while she was having a convo in this thread makes me SERIOUSLY doubt this...lol I don't think her cousin who she just showed around would have figured out how to do that...
Mercy Medical
09/20/04, 05:28 PM
Obviously you don't know my cousin. She's done this before to people in chat rooms and on MSN. Trust me I'm not lying, she does this all the time.
You realize you're making yourself just seem like more of an idiot don't you? Just stop, you should've left it before when we thought you were stupid for using excessive smilies and were in love at 14, now you're just making things worse.
haha this is all very very funny to me.
SingleDoubt
09/20/04, 06:14 PM
Obviously you don't know my cousin. She's done this before to people in chat rooms and on MSN. Trust me I'm not lying, she does this all the time.
Do you really think I would put... "First Dates, Sweet Kisses" on freakin anything?
no, i guess not... you seem too hardcore for that
Mercy Medical
09/20/04, 06:15 PM
no, i guess not... you seem too hardcore for that
lmfao
Coronary Parasite
09/20/04, 06:21 PM
Obviously you don't know my cousin. She's done this before to people in chat rooms and on MSN. Trust me I'm not lying, she does this all the time.
Do you really think I would put... "First Dates, Sweet Kisses" on freakin anything?
i have no fucking clue who you are, how would i know if you would?
and why did you keep the colored print?
Mercy Medical
09/20/04, 06:24 PM
Because it's the cool thing to do! Didn't you know that CJ?!
Coronary Parasite
09/20/04, 06:30 PM
Because it's the cool thing to do! Didn't you know that CJ?!
one more reason that i'm not cool oh well
haha
Mercy Medical
09/20/04, 06:31 PM
one more reason that i'm not cool oh well
haha
No worries...you're cool CJ. :)
I honestly want to fly to New York (or drive) sometime and meet you!
13th hour
09/20/04, 06:32 PM
laaaaame.
Coronary Parasite
09/20/04, 06:36 PM
No worries...you're cool CJ. :)
I honestly want to fly to New York (or drive) sometime and meet you!
yey that would be cool :)
Mercy Medical
09/20/04, 06:37 PM
yey that would be cool :)
I'll have to find time/money...however I'm sure a certain someone wouldn't be too happy. :(
SingleDoubt
09/20/04, 06:48 PM
Because it's the cool thing to do! Didn't you know that CJ?!
werd
Coronary Parasite
09/20/04, 06:52 PM
I'll have to find time/money...however I'm sure a certain someone wouldn't be too happy. :(
aww she'd mind that?
but i'm not a threat :(
Mercy Medical
09/20/04, 07:15 PM
aww she'd mind that?
but i'm not a threat :(
I know...it's weird, it doesn't bother me so much when people talk to her as long as I know they're not interested in her as more then a friend, but I think she's worried that I'm going to leave her as my best friend if I find someone else...
MrChainsaw389
09/20/04, 08:07 PM
Mreh, I dunno. I'm not even 16 yet but I was in a "serious" relationship when I was 14. I'm a lot more mature now but I still to this day think that I really did love the girl I was with. The 14 year olds I see at school now are nothing like I was a year and a half ago. I dated this girl at the end of 8th grade through to the beginning of 9th, for about 5 and a half months. I spent just about every single day with her over the summer and we were really sexual. We didn't ever actually screw but we did oral sex stuff almost every single day. I dunno, I feel like I'm posting a 12 year old newb post right now but this thing really pricked a nerve for me. :shrug:
Bikeage
09/20/04, 08:13 PM
if they all serve a purpose, where's the blowjob smiley?
this must be it: 8======D :eek:
MrChainsaw389
09/20/04, 08:14 PM
if they all serve a purpose, where's the blowjob smiley?
this must be it: 8======D :eek:
It's close enough
Mercy Medical
09/20/04, 09:08 PM
We didn't ever actually screw but we did oral sex stuff almost every single day.
So what, are you considering your relationship "serious" because of the fact that you had oral sex almost every single day? If that's the case, that's a stupid fuckin' reason to consider it a "serious" relationship. I'm sick and tired of today's oversexualized youth. I have no sympathy for any female that gets pregnant at such a young age.
13th hour
09/20/04, 09:21 PM
damn dude, I didnt get my first blow job till I was 15. Congrats to you. But, then again, it was a totally random girl. Im sure I could have dated someone and got my nards nibbled on. And to whoever is flipping out about oversexualized youth... chill out. Go get laid, itll calm you down.
Mercy Medical
09/20/04, 09:27 PM
Doesn't anyone hold anything sacred anymore?
_astheruinfalls
09/20/04, 10:07 PM
What kind of name is coke with lime anyways?
Mercy Medical
09/20/04, 10:19 PM
What kind of name is coke with lime anyways?
A skanks name...lol
Coronary Parasite
09/20/04, 11:28 PM
Doesn't anyone hold anything sacred anymore?
jesus i still do thank god, and i think i found the one guy who actually respects the words "i'm not ready yet"
13th hour
09/20/04, 11:43 PM
Doesn't anyone hold anything sacred anymore?
It was a joke, seriously chill out.
Personally, Ive turned down sex several times because it would have been with people that I didnt care at all about. Yes, I hold things sacred. I guarantee you, if you dont take me so seriously, youll find that Im a pretty funny guy. Im usually just having fun on here, unless someone pisses me off and I rip into them, and youll know when that happen. But see, it was a joke, laugh, cause it was pretty funny. Admit it... cmon, ok, good.
_astheruinfalls
09/20/04, 11:43 PM
jesus i still do thank god, and i think i found the one guy who actually respects the words "i'm not ready yet"
Since when were we going out?
13th hour
09/20/04, 11:44 PM
jesus i still do thank god, and i think i found the one guy who actually respects the words "i'm not ready yet"
Im glad for you. I know so many guys who just try to get laid no matter what, and they dont care about the girl at all. Its good you found someone who isnt like that.
_astheruinfalls
09/20/04, 11:46 PM
Seriously, it isn't that hard to find a good guy.
Girls are just too focused on things that are found in guys that want sex.
SingleDoubt
09/21/04, 04:12 AM
So what, are you considering your relationship "serious" because of the fact that you had oral sex almost every single day? If that's the case, that's a stupid fuckin' reason to consider it a "serious" relationship. I'm sick and tired of today's oversexualized youth. I have no sympathy for any female that gets pregnant at such a young age.
yeah, that's a pretty stupid way to judge love
MaybeOneDay
09/21/04, 10:57 AM
Okay, before I even ask the question here's the story...
I'm a girl btw... well anyway This summer I met a guy whom I fell in love with the first time I saw him. I would seriously do anything for him and he'd do anything for me. And for a while we went on "dates" with our parents not knowing jack. (Our moms had been friends since college and they just moved down here from Maryland.) So anyway, our first date was to an amusement park and I had told his little brother that my little fairy tale was to have my first kiss on the ferris wheel. Well, I had my first kiss with him on the ferris wheel. And we later go to movies and holds hands and kiss and sorta make out. :smlove2: How sweet right? Well, our parents find out. Bad news. So I'm not grounded and he's not either but we can't go on "dates" anymore. Some adult always has to be there or something. So no physical love to each other at all. But I feel bad about it. Because I love him so much and I want to express the way I feel toward him and I want to be with him. :( I don't know what to do and I'm confused. I already went behind my parents backs and got caught and now I really can't see him anymore without someone else there.
I would like some help. I love him but now we can't be together all the time. My parents like him and all they just think I'm too young. :smilie_au I'M FREAKIN' 14!! And he is too. I know I can handle this but they think I can't. They said I didn't have to stop loving him, I just just couldn't have a boyfriend quite yet. Even his parents say the same thing about him and they all agreed to this little deal. What do I do? I'm really confrused!
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Mercy Medical
09/21/04, 11:17 AM
It was a joke, seriously chill out.
Personally, Ive turned down sex several times because it would have been with people that I didnt care at all about. Yes, I hold things sacred. I guarantee you, if you dont take me so seriously, youll find that Im a pretty funny guy. Im usually just having fun on here, unless someone pisses me off and I rip into them, and youll know when that happen. But see, it was a joke, laugh, cause it was pretty funny. Admit it... cmon, ok, good.
Sorry, it just seemed serious...I sensed some sarcasm in it, but I didn't get it all the way. It's so damn hard to tell when people are joking or not on the net, that's why I usually add smilies or something to the end...
Coronary Parasite
09/21/04, 11:45 AM
Since when were we going out?
haha you missed out dear, i couldn't wait until you were 18 anymore
Tyler Revolution
09/21/04, 11:51 AM
Seriously, it isn't that hard to find a good guy.
Girls are just too focused on things that are found in guys that want sex.
I agree.
I<3mxpx
09/21/04, 03:25 PM
ha ha im with this guy...lol...seriously your sooo young...middle schoolers have the dumbest relationships ever
SingleDoubt
09/21/04, 03:28 PM
ha ha im with this guy...lol...seriously your sooo young...middle schoolers have the dumbest relationships ever
good call, i hate when my sister and her friends say shit like "oh my god, i so need to dump him, he didnt call me" really lame.
Tyler Revolution
09/21/04, 03:57 PM
good call, i hate when my sister and her friends say shit like "oh my god, i so need to dump him, he didnt call me" really lame.
haha.
MrChainsaw389
09/21/04, 04:22 PM
Uh..I'ma go back to the last thing directed towards me. No I don't concider it serious because of that. I'm not that shallow. We didn't have sex because didn't think we were ready. If anything all the sexual crap is part of the reason we broke up. I concidered it serious because I spent all the time I could with her and I cared about her a lot. I spent nearly every waking minute for three weeks at her house over the summer because she had back surgery. Don't jump to conclusions
Mercy Medical
09/21/04, 04:56 PM
Uh..I'ma go back to the last thing directed towards me. No I don't concider it serious because of that. I'm not that shallow. We didn't have sex because didn't think we were ready. If anything all the sexual crap is part of the reason we broke up. I concidered it serious because I spent all the time I could with her and I cared about her a lot. I spent nearly every waking minute for three weeks at her house over the summer because she had back surgery. Don't jump to conclusions
I just don't understand if that had no pertinance to what you were trying to say, why it had to be said at all....
MaybeOneDay
09/21/04, 05:08 PM
I can't stop laughing.
MrChainsaw389
09/21/04, 05:12 PM
I just don't understand if that had no pertinance to what you were trying to say, why it had to be said at all....
I think I had a point at the time, but now I don't remember what it was. Oh well
Mercy Medical
09/21/04, 05:14 PM
I think I had a point at the time, but now I don't remember what it was. Oh well
I dunno, it just pisses me off because I feel like kids your age, or even my age use those things as such a plow to be able to brag about it and somehow seem cool. It really pisses me off when people do stuff in an attempt just to seem cool.
MrChainsaw389
09/21/04, 05:21 PM
I dunno, it just pisses me off because I feel like kids your age, or even my age use those things as such a plow to be able to brag about it and somehow seem cool. It really pisses me off when people do stuff in an attempt just to seem cool.
I is sorry.
Mercy Medical
09/21/04, 05:22 PM
I is sorry.
It's fine...
My, you're surprising me, most other people would yell and scream and fight in a situation like this, not that it's what I was looking for, it was just what I was expecting. :)
MaybeOneDay
09/21/04, 05:29 PM
*Key yelling and screaming*
13th hour
09/21/04, 05:31 PM
I dunno, it just pisses me off because I feel like kids your age, or even my age use those things as such a plow to be able to brag about it and somehow seem cool. It really pisses me off when people do stuff in an attempt just to seem cool.
I think that some kids experiment with sex at a younger age to be cool, but i think alot of them are just curious, and not doing it to be cool. You have to admit that youve wondered what its like to have sex before, some of these kids just say "what the hell" and go for it. Im not going to say if that is good or bad, its just the reality of the situation.
Oh, and by the way, anytime I say something on here that could be deemed offensive, its probably sarcasm. If its not, its because someone said something really stupid that pissed me off, and youll be able to recognize those posts... theyre kinda ranting and raving.
MrChainsaw389
09/21/04, 05:31 PM
It's fine...
My, you're surprising me, most other people would yell and scream and fight in a situation like this, not that it's what I was looking for, it was just what I was expecting. :)
Well, you should know by now that I'm not like most of the douchebags around here, I've been here as long as you! You know, when the ap. forum was cool..
But anyway, I think you misunderstood what I was saying, or I didn't explain myself enough or whatever and now I don't even remember the point I was making by saying that, so I thought it meritted an appology. As for the post of the people my age or our age or whatever using sex as a way to be cool, In all honestly I like to do sexual stuff because it's fun. I stopped telling my friends, " dude I got head from so and so" when I was still 14.
Mercy Medical
09/21/04, 05:33 PM
I think that some kids experiment with sex at a younger age to be cool, but i think alot of them are just curious, and not doing it to be cool. You have to admit that youve wondered what its like to have sex before, some of these kids just say "what the hell" and go for it. Im not going to say if that is good or bad, its just the reality of the situation.
Oh, and by the way, anytime I say something on here that could be deemed offensive, its probably sarcasm. If its not, its because someone said something really stupid that pissed me off, and youll be able to recognize those posts... theyre kinda ranting and raving.
I don't know, I just feel like today's youth experiments with sex way too easily, but I guess I just have different views then most. I just feel like those types of things should be shared with someone you're really serious about and not just some random individual. Those types of things are really personal to me and I feel like I'm giving part of myself away when anything like that ever happens and I really don't want total strangers having that part of me. *sigh* I guess I'm just traditional. :)
MrChainsaw389
09/21/04, 05:40 PM
I don't know, I just feel like today's youth experiments with sex way too easily, but I guess I just have different views then most. I just feel like those types of things should be shared with someone you're really serious about and not just some random individual. Those types of things are really personal to me and I feel like I'm giving part of myself away when anything like that ever happens and I really don't want total strangers having that part of me. *sigh* I guess I'm just traditional. :)
old skool
Mercy Medical
09/21/04, 05:41 PM
old skool
I'm old school?
MrChainsaw389
09/21/04, 05:52 PM
I'm old school?
Who, what? I didn't say that...
Mercy Medical
09/21/04, 06:01 PM
Who, what? I didn't say that...
I'm proud to be old school....this is how I figure it. No one usually likes used goods, they're usually a lot cheaper, or broken, or something. :)
MrChainsaw389
09/21/04, 06:03 PM
I'm proud to be old school....this is how I figure it. No one usually likes used goods, they're usually a lot cheaper, or broken, or something. :)
I know what you mean. I think anything less then actual sex isn't a big deal, but I don't intend to have sex with just anyone.
Mercy Medical
09/21/04, 06:04 PM
I know what you mean. I think anything less then actual sex isn't a big deal, but I don't intend to have sex with just anyone.
I think anything less than sex is a big deal...I dunno, I think even going around kissing a ton of different people is a big deal. But I guess I'm just weird... :)
Coronary Parasite
09/21/04, 06:05 PM
I don't know, I just feel like today's youth experiments with sex way too easily, but I guess I just have different views then most. I just feel like those types of things should be shared with someone you're really serious about and not just some random individual. Those types of things are really personal to me and I feel like I'm giving part of myself away when anything like that ever happens and I really don't want total strangers having that part of me. *sigh* I guess I'm just traditional. :)
agreed, and more recently i'm happy and proud of my choices
Mercy Medical
09/21/04, 06:06 PM
agreed, and more recently i'm happy and proud of my choices
I swear to God we're the same person sometimes CJ...lol
Coronary Parasite
09/21/04, 06:11 PM
I swear to God we're the same person sometimes CJ...lol
haha i know
we're both homebodies, both into boy stuff, and both very traditional
13th hour
09/21/04, 06:14 PM
I know what you mean. I think anything less then actual sex isn't a big deal, but I don't intend to have sex with just anyone.
true that.
nards228
09/22/04, 11:56 AM
I don't know, I just feel like today's youth experiments with sex way too easily, but I guess I just have different views then most. I just feel like those types of things should be shared with someone you're really serious about and not just some random individual. Those types of things are really personal to me and I feel like I'm giving part of myself away when anything like that ever happens and I really don't want total strangers having that part of me. *sigh* I guess I'm just traditional. :)
You aren't "traditional," you're a pussy.
With love,
Rennard
SonEric84
09/22/04, 12:18 PM
Yeah, because having morals or different views from every oversexed teen in the country makes you a pussy.
Timberwolf
09/22/04, 12:32 PM
Yeah, because having morals or different views from every oversexed teen in the country makes you a pussy.
right on! :)
Mercy Medical
09/22/04, 01:36 PM
You aren't "traditional," you're a pussy.
With love,
Rennard
For one, I'm a chick...and for B....FUCK YOU! :) At least I'm not a skank like the majority of college girls I know.
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