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BringPunkback
09/22/04, 12:42 PM
Hey guys...especially the guys..i dunno wat to do about this..ok hes my situation...i am truly gay..for real no joke, and i dont know how to go about and tell my friends? :lipsrseal Like i need to and i want to cause i know that the later i wait...the worse it will get and they will be dissapointed i didnt tell them soon. And im really scared on what theyll think about me after i tell them. I wonder if theyll even wanna be my friend....beat my ass...or not even care and just go about our ways. I need help and badly..someone help! :(

Coronary Parasite
09/22/04, 12:44 PM
i don't know if anyone will believe you, but i'm at least tempted to since you've been here for a while and it isn't your first post

are you in college yet?

nfgguitardude
09/22/04, 03:38 PM
Thats Because He Tried To Disguise His Identity By Making Up A Screen Name "friendguyhi" And So People Wouldnt Know It Was Him Coming Out Of The Closet... But No One Believed It, So He Used His Other Friend's Screen Name. What A Nerd!!!!! Gay!!!!

Coronary Parasite
09/22/04, 03:48 PM
Thats Because He Tried To Disguise His Identity By Making Up A Screen Name "friendguyhi" And So People Wouldnt Know It Was Him Coming Out Of The Closet... But No One Believed It, So He Used His Other Friend's Screen Name. What A Nerd!!!!! Gay!!!!
haha you think so?

LoveHate
09/22/04, 03:51 PM
Okay, so I have a couple solutions for you! Have you seen The Real World Philidelphia (MTV)? Well, on this new episode there are two gay guys in the house. One of the gay men come out and just say it, "Hey I'm (name here) and I'm gay what's your name?" So, there's one possiblity, but I don't think that this is your way of going about it. The other gay man is a more "conservative gay". He doesn't tell anyone he's gay until the time comes up where he feels comfortable or if there's a need to know. If you're friends are really true friends, and you feel the time is right to bring it up on a conversation, they'll respect you because they're your friends, if they don't, they never were your friends. Hope this helps!

_astheruinfalls
09/22/04, 03:53 PM
Just be truthful. But it would probably be best to tell them each by themselves.

Good luck.

x LP fan x
09/24/04, 03:00 PM
Hey guys...especially the guys..i dunno wat to do about this..ok hes my situation...i am truly gay..for real no joke, and i dont know how to go about and tell my friends? :lipsrseal Like i need to and i want to cause i know that the later i wait...the worse it will get and they will be dissapointed i didnt tell them soon. And im really scared on what theyll think about me after i tell them. I wonder if theyll even wanna be my friend....beat my ass...or not even care and just go about our ways. I need help and badly..someone help! :(

my friend told me he was gay last year..and i was a little shocked at first...but then it became ok..and some of his guy friends turned on him but they cam back in a week and appoliged and were totally suppoertive of him. It went around the whole school for a week or so...then it became old news...when you come out give it time and people will soon accept u for who u r!

fractions
09/26/04, 02:07 AM
my friend told me he was gay last year..and i was a little shocked at first...but then it became ok..and some of his guy friends turned on him but they cam back in a week and appoliged and were totally suppoertive of him. It went around the whole school for a week or so...then it became old news...when you come out give it time and people will soon accept u for who u r!

Such a fucked up world.

blink182tomchik
10/24/04, 03:01 PM
Thats Because He Tried To Disguise His Identity By Making Up A Screen Name "friendguyhi" And So People Wouldnt Know It Was Him Coming Out Of The Closet... But No One Believed It, So He Used His Other Friend's Screen Name. What A Nerd!!!!! Gay!!!!

hahaha... then suddenly sum1 posts a topic here named "friendhiguy" and says "u bitch i wasnt gonna come out of the closet until i was a 40-year-old perverted man!" hahahaha lmfao
:lol2: :lol2: :lol2: :lol2:

Lets Deja Vu
10/24/04, 04:25 PM
If one of my friends were gay and I didnt know it, I would be pissed. Not that I dont hate gay people or anything, its just the point that he didnt tell me.

Tyler Revolution
10/24/04, 04:35 PM
hahaha... then suddenly sum1 posts a topic here named "friendhiguy" and says "u bitch i wasnt gonna come out of the closet until i was a 40-year-old perverted man!" hahahaha lmfao
:lol2: :lol2: :lol2: :lol2:


Shutup.

Juliet R Delta
10/25/04, 12:37 AM
if you're that worried about telling anyone it prolly goes without saying that you're not fully comfortable with being gay yet... i'd confide in your closest friend maybe, cos you're gonna need someone to talk to... or find someone on the net to talk to (in depth, and preferably someone gay), then, when you're more assured with your sexuality you should come out like mad.

you're a punk, right? just pull up your fuckin' jocks and get some attitude - if they're your friends they'll stick around.

Touched
10/25/04, 09:00 AM
If they are your friends, as in friends for real then it shouldn't make a difference to them, it wouldn't to me.