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YearsGoneBy
09/23/04, 06:02 PM
i dont wanna be rude nd lead u on in anyway nd if i have i appologize.... i use to like u like during the summer but then i got to really no u nd u like became one of my best friends nd i cant see u any differently then that


that was an IM from the girl i liked. that basically sums up my life. im the friend. wow, high school sucks.

LoserlyFirefly
09/23/04, 06:30 PM
ah same here. i'd like to be the girlfriend once in awhile instead of just the friend.

ATFEH4President
09/23/04, 06:38 PM
heh my friend said the same thing to me...she is now my girlfriend, so just hang in there

zach
09/23/04, 06:40 PM
I'm often the friend...but it also allows me to meet my friends friends who don't see me as friend...if ya get what I'm sayin. So it all evens out.

SonEric84
09/23/04, 07:32 PM
Being the friend can suck, but like Zach said it has it's advantages.



edit: by the way...the only thing I don't understand about what your friend said is she got to know you really well and then can't see you any differently than a friend...well my question is what are you supposed to do just date someone you don't know that well? kinda retarded if you ask me...

Bikeage
09/23/04, 07:50 PM
rofl you crossed the friend line, good luck gettin back!!

nards228
09/23/04, 10:50 PM
Crossing the friend line = death. You will never cross back over.

...except in the case of me and my ex-girlfriend. We were friends, then we dated for three years. I think the only way you cross over is for a hardcore relationship. Otherwise, death.



Rennard

catastrophe13
09/23/04, 10:58 PM
I hate being the friend, but it is the story of my life. I get told that I'm "just one of the guys" about 50 times a day.

Coronary Parasite
09/24/04, 12:10 PM
aww flann i'm sorry :(

high school sucks for that shit, once you get out, it's a whole different ball game

Mercy Medical
09/24/04, 01:13 PM
i dont wanna be rude nd lead u on in anyway nd if i have i appologize.... i use to like u like during the summer but then i got to really no u nd u like became one of my best friends nd i cant see u any differently then that


that was an IM from the girl i liked. that basically sums up my life. im the friend. wow, high school sucks.
I'm sorry, but your friend has HORRIFIC grammar. It hurt my brain to read that... :P

Mercy Medical
09/24/04, 01:14 PM
aww flann i'm sorry :(

high school sucks for that shit, once you get out, it's a whole different ball game
And then it REALLY starts to hurt. :)

Coronary Parasite
09/24/04, 03:14 PM
I'm sorry, but your friend has HORRIFIC grammar. It hurt my brain to read that... :P
hahaha

that was my first thought too

13th hour
09/24/04, 04:01 PM
I'm sorry, but your friend has HORRIFIC grammar. It hurt my brain to read that... :P


yea dude, trust me, you dont want to be with someone who has that little of a grasp on the written English language.

crashcrash
09/24/04, 07:54 PM
i dont want to be an asshole but is it so hard just to type out 'you'?

Mercy Medical
09/24/04, 07:57 PM
i dont want to be an asshole but is it so hard just to type out 'you'?
Or 'and'....

crashcrash
09/24/04, 07:58 PM
i didn't even catch that.. haha.

YearsGoneBy
09/25/04, 07:28 AM
I'm sorry, but your friend has HORRIFIC grammar. It hurt my brain to read that... :P
i know..i ask her all the time why she types like that

YearsGoneBy
09/25/04, 07:30 AM
heh my friend said the same thing to me...she is now my girlfriend, so just hang in there
that gives me hope..thanks

lewsuheee
12/26/04, 08:49 AM
Or 'and'....
hmm i see what you guys mean but when i type, i use " u " and "n" because i send text messages all the time off my mobile or cell or whatever you call it in usa and you type out abreviated words so yea.. then having said that i know its annoying so i dont know y i do it.. im lazy i guess.. but it doesnt mean im stupid.. it mearly means... i ... lack grammer but by choice ;D

- spell checks every damn word -

lewsuheee
12/26/04, 08:52 AM
i dont wanna be rude nd lead u on in anyway nd if i have i appologize.... i use to like u like during the summer but then i got to really no u nd u like became one of my best friends nd i cant see u any differently then that


that was an IM from the girl i liked. that basically sums up my life. im the friend. wow, high school sucks.


hmm so it didnt work out ;] keep smiling and just dont cancel out all hope of ever finding someone. think of it this way... it takes a couple of bad people in your life,for u to know who the good people are ;] .. u gotta pass some bad people along the way or u will never know when a good one is right infrount of u ;]

so dont give up and hang in there mike

remember... it will be okay in the end... and.. if its not okay... its not the end!

LoyalSubject
12/27/04, 02:11 PM
I've done the friend thing before, it sucks ass. But then she broke up with her b/f and who do you think she came running to? thats right, ME. So you never know what could happen regardless if you like the girl or not I think everyone should have friends of the opposite sex that are strictly platonic.

Tyler Revolution
12/27/04, 02:55 PM
This thread is old.

popdisaster00
12/31/04, 02:10 AM
dude that is the fucking WORST. i've been there. you like the girl...get to know her...then they are just like, "i don't wanna possibly ruin a great friendship" and you are just like..... Fuck. This. Cause I mean, you being the male, still wanna date her.


at least, that's me.

Mouse
12/31/04, 01:07 PM
ah same here. i'd like to be the girlfriend once in awhile instead of just the friend.

Oh, yes. I know that feeling all too well! :( The guy just wants to be friends, but he always puts his arms around me and holds my hand and shit. Then I can't pull myself away and I get sucked into everything again. (sigh)

Personally, I'd love to have a boyfriend that was my best friend before. Apparently, that's just wishful thinking.

phil-the-mick
01/03/05, 08:24 PM
yeah dude it really sucks just being the friend because thats my life as well and when i finally do get up the courage they either are dating someone or i get turned down so i see were your coming from with that

r0flc0pt3rz
01/19/05, 11:39 PM
i dont wanna be rude nd lead u on in anyway nd if i have i appologize.... i use to like u like during the summer but then i got to really no u nd u like became one of my best friends nd i cant see u any differently then that


that was an IM from the girl i liked. that basically sums up my life. im the friend. wow, high school sucks.


she doesnt even have a basic grasp of spelling, grammar, or punctuation. you're better off.