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YearsGoneBy
09/23/04, 06:02 PM
i dont wanna be rude nd lead u on in anyway nd if i have i appologize.... i use to like u like during the summer but then i got to really no u nd u like became one of my best friends nd i cant see u any differently then that
that was an IM from the girl i liked. that basically sums up my life. im the friend. wow, high school sucks.
LoserlyFirefly
09/23/04, 06:30 PM
ah same here. i'd like to be the girlfriend once in awhile instead of just the friend.
ATFEH4President
09/23/04, 06:38 PM
heh my friend said the same thing to me...she is now my girlfriend, so just hang in there
I'm often the friend...but it also allows me to meet my friends friends who don't see me as friend...if ya get what I'm sayin. So it all evens out.
SonEric84
09/23/04, 07:32 PM
Being the friend can suck, but like Zach said it has it's advantages.
edit: by the way...the only thing I don't understand about what your friend said is she got to know you really well and then can't see you any differently than a friend...well my question is what are you supposed to do just date someone you don't know that well? kinda retarded if you ask me...
Bikeage
09/23/04, 07:50 PM
rofl you crossed the friend line, good luck gettin back!!
nards228
09/23/04, 10:50 PM
Crossing the friend line = death. You will never cross back over.
...except in the case of me and my ex-girlfriend. We were friends, then we dated for three years. I think the only way you cross over is for a hardcore relationship. Otherwise, death.
Rennard
catastrophe13
09/23/04, 10:58 PM
I hate being the friend, but it is the story of my life. I get told that I'm "just one of the guys" about 50 times a day.
Coronary Parasite
09/24/04, 12:10 PM
aww flann i'm sorry :(
high school sucks for that shit, once you get out, it's a whole different ball game
Mercy Medical
09/24/04, 01:13 PM
i dont wanna be rude nd lead u on in anyway nd if i have i appologize.... i use to like u like during the summer but then i got to really no u nd u like became one of my best friends nd i cant see u any differently then that
that was an IM from the girl i liked. that basically sums up my life. im the friend. wow, high school sucks.
I'm sorry, but your friend has HORRIFIC grammar. It hurt my brain to read that... :P
Mercy Medical
09/24/04, 01:14 PM
aww flann i'm sorry :(
high school sucks for that shit, once you get out, it's a whole different ball game
And then it REALLY starts to hurt. :)
Coronary Parasite
09/24/04, 03:14 PM
I'm sorry, but your friend has HORRIFIC grammar. It hurt my brain to read that... :P
hahaha
that was my first thought too
13th hour
09/24/04, 04:01 PM
I'm sorry, but your friend has HORRIFIC grammar. It hurt my brain to read that... :P
yea dude, trust me, you dont want to be with someone who has that little of a grasp on the written English language.
crashcrash
09/24/04, 07:54 PM
i dont want to be an asshole but is it so hard just to type out 'you'?
Mercy Medical
09/24/04, 07:57 PM
i dont want to be an asshole but is it so hard just to type out 'you'?
Or 'and'....
crashcrash
09/24/04, 07:58 PM
i didn't even catch that.. haha.
YearsGoneBy
09/25/04, 07:28 AM
I'm sorry, but your friend has HORRIFIC grammar. It hurt my brain to read that... :P
i know..i ask her all the time why she types like that
YearsGoneBy
09/25/04, 07:30 AM
heh my friend said the same thing to me...she is now my girlfriend, so just hang in there
that gives me hope..thanks
lewsuheee
12/26/04, 08:49 AM
Or 'and'....
hmm i see what you guys mean but when i type, i use " u " and "n" because i send text messages all the time off my mobile or cell or whatever you call it in usa and you type out abreviated words so yea.. then having said that i know its annoying so i dont know y i do it.. im lazy i guess.. but it doesnt mean im stupid.. it mearly means... i ... lack grammer but by choice ;D
- spell checks every damn word -
lewsuheee
12/26/04, 08:52 AM
i dont wanna be rude nd lead u on in anyway nd if i have i appologize.... i use to like u like during the summer but then i got to really no u nd u like became one of my best friends nd i cant see u any differently then that
that was an IM from the girl i liked. that basically sums up my life. im the friend. wow, high school sucks.
hmm so it didnt work out ;] keep smiling and just dont cancel out all hope of ever finding someone. think of it this way... it takes a couple of bad people in your life,for u to know who the good people are ;] .. u gotta pass some bad people along the way or u will never know when a good one is right infrount of u ;]
so dont give up and hang in there mike
remember... it will be okay in the end... and.. if its not okay... its not the end!
LoyalSubject
12/27/04, 02:11 PM
I've done the friend thing before, it sucks ass. But then she broke up with her b/f and who do you think she came running to? thats right, ME. So you never know what could happen regardless if you like the girl or not I think everyone should have friends of the opposite sex that are strictly platonic.
Tyler Revolution
12/27/04, 02:55 PM
This thread is old.
popdisaster00
12/31/04, 02:10 AM
dude that is the fucking WORST. i've been there. you like the girl...get to know her...then they are just like, "i don't wanna possibly ruin a great friendship" and you are just like..... Fuck. This. Cause I mean, you being the male, still wanna date her.
at least, that's me.
ah same here. i'd like to be the girlfriend once in awhile instead of just the friend.
Oh, yes. I know that feeling all too well! :( The guy just wants to be friends, but he always puts his arms around me and holds my hand and shit. Then I can't pull myself away and I get sucked into everything again. (sigh)
Personally, I'd love to have a boyfriend that was my best friend before. Apparently, that's just wishful thinking.
phil-the-mick
01/03/05, 08:24 PM
yeah dude it really sucks just being the friend because thats my life as well and when i finally do get up the courage they either are dating someone or i get turned down so i see were your coming from with that
r0flc0pt3rz
01/19/05, 11:39 PM
i dont wanna be rude nd lead u on in anyway nd if i have i appologize.... i use to like u like during the summer but then i got to really no u nd u like became one of my best friends nd i cant see u any differently then that
that was an IM from the girl i liked. that basically sums up my life. im the friend. wow, high school sucks.
she doesnt even have a basic grasp of spelling, grammar, or punctuation. you're better off.
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