help...

[vivid_thought]

Alright well I'd just like some advice(well obviously). So yeah, anywho, I sort of am falling for somebody I absolutely can't have. I know that for a fact, and I really don't want to be in this situation. I mean he's way older. What do you recommend to erase this emotional attachment I'm making? I'd appreciate your input and please no insults.

[zach]

I'm ink inda the same perdicament, except instead of age being the hindering factor its that the girl is one of my best friends and her boyfriend is another one of my best friends. Anyway, you could always do what I did and drink, but if thats not your thing then I just suggest looking for sombody else.

[vivid_thought]

Um..yeah I'm not a drinking or drugs type person. I don't think those type of things solve problems.

[SonEric84]

They don't....well except for maybe during the time you are under the influence because you don't think about it or whatever...but anyway you should probably stay away from this guy and just surround yourself with friends and things you enjoy doing and try to spend time with guys around your age and maybe in time you'll find someone that things can work out with...hope that helps some because I understand just what it's like to care for someone you can't have.

[zach]

Um..yeah I'm not a drinking or drugs type person. I don't think those type of things solve problems.
They don't solve any problems what so ever. But they certainly are a nice distraction.

[Tyler Revolution]

Alright well I'd just like some advice(well obviously). So yeah, anywho, I sort of am falling for somebody I absolutely can't have. I know that for a fact, and I really don't want to be in this situation. I mean he's way older. What do you recommend to erase this emotional attachment I'm making? I'd appreciate your input and please no insults.

Explain the situation more... why can't you be with him? what is the age difference?

[nards228]

Alright well I'd just like some advice(well obviously). So yeah, anywho, I sort of am falling for somebody I absolutely can't have. I know that for a fact, and I really don't want to be in this situation. I mean he's way older. What do you recommend to erase this emotional attachment I'm making? I'd appreciate your input and please no insults.
Older guys seem better because they seem more mature, more intelligent, less concerned with the trivial stuff guys your age are probably concerned with. But the truth is that all guys of all ages are all concerned with the same things: sex and selfishness. I can say this as an aging guy (currently 19) who would probably be admired by high school girls (which I'm assuming you are) as mature, intelligent, and unconcerned with trivial stuff.

The truth is that older guys are infinitely more dangerous than guys your own age, because if they ever become interested in you, it will almost always be for sexual reasons. Do yourself a favor, even if it's hard, and just avoid him at all costs.



Rennard

[vivid_thought]

Alright thank you people. And um...I'd rather not go into detail, it's just too...embarassing, sorry...

[fractions]

They don't solve any problems what so ever. But they certainly are a nice distraction.

Indeed so.

[vivid_thought]

Well actually getting over this person wasn't as hard as I thought it would be so sorry to have bothered you all. Thanks anyway!