guy falls for friend problems

[PunkDrums182]

okay well, i have thought about posting this here for a while but i feel like i need to talk about it or something because it sucks..

basically i like one of my friends and i have liked her for like 2 years now and it sucks, i asked her out once and she said no because i had gone out with her friend and then last year i asked her and she said she doesnt see me like that, and i know there is nothing i can do to change that.. but it seems like the more i think about it the more i like her and it just really sucks i dont know what to do about it i talk to her like every day and we're still pretty good friends, and i mean i love being friends with her but i just wish it could be more.. yea thats it, i dont know if anyone can help i just had to talk about it

[kimosabe]

I like your signature.
It's so true.

[vivid_thought]

If she's not willing, there's no way you can change that. The only solution I see is to get over her and move on. It'll be hard but better than dwelling on some chick.

[SingleDoubt]

I like your signature.
It's so true.
hahahaha! that was damn funny

[x LP fan x]

i she only sees you as a freind keep it that way..because if you have a really good freindship you dont wanna mess it up. I has this really good guy friend that i could talk to anything about..and we went out and it ruined our friendship and we dont even talk anymore...trust me, you dont want that to happen

[Joling]

i she only sees you as a freind keep it that way..because if you have a really good freindship you dont wanna mess it up. I has this really good guy friend that i could talk to anything about..and we went out and it ruined our friendship and we dont even talk anymore...trust me, you dont want that to happen

I'm in sort of the same situation... But I agree with LP Fan, your friendship is more important then "having" her...

so it's probably best that you get someone else in your life, so you can get over her...

[(FallFrom)Grace]

its always a tricky situation, and there isnt any kind of quick fix, you cant make someone feel something they dont. but i know how you feel. i just realised i'm in love with one of my best male friends, and now he's moved away to university and i wont see him for months at a time, serves me right for not realising till now (i know it sounds stupid). so i empathise.

[OCNickLTJ13]

if your friendship is always gonna be hard for you then you just need to make a play for her and hope that it works out. i've been "friends" with someone for a long time and i liked them too and in the end it ate away at me too much and i ended the friendship because i was stressed out. you need to figure out what the hell she wants and if it isn't you then you need to move on, because otherwise you'll keep giving yourself hope that if you wait another month or two, she'll come around, that probably won't happen though and you'll be stuck in this cycle. if you are a good person there is someone out there for you and they'll come along eventually, but if you are still around this "friend" all of the time you might miss them. that is how it happened for me, i got rid of my "friend" and then i found a girlfriend. of course she turned out to be crazy, but my new girlfriend is awesome. i hate to say it, but as much as you like the friendship you have to lose this girl.

[nfgguitardude]

Look at it this way... Love is mutual. It takes two to tango. Think of it this way... lets say she did go out with you to make you feel better.. well, as much as you would want it to - it most likely wouldnt last cus you guys are so used to being friends that being bf/gf is like starting all over and theres that uncomfortable awkwardness only because you guys have been friends for a long time. But hearts will be broken and you'll walk away from each other without even a friendship. So why ruin what you have? I know this isnt what you wanna hear.. but its the truth.