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asteria
08/19/08, 09:54 AM
it's been a horrible day for me.

my girlfriend went away to college, far far far away.

I can't stop thinking about her.

Like i try my best not to, but I just miss her soo much. I'm in class right now, and I just can't focus because i can't get her out of my mind.

It's effecting everything i do. Like i've never felt this way about a girl before.

Hell, i'll even admit it, I'm on the verge of letting out a tear or two.

i'm really not sure how to handle this.

can someone help me out?

advice? experiences? please.

parallelism
08/19/08, 11:27 AM
it's been a horrible day for me.

my girlfriend went away to college, far far far away.

I can't stop thinking about her.

Like i try my best not to, but I just miss her soo much. I'm in class right now, and I just can't focus because i can't get her out of my mind.

It's effecting everything i do. Like i've never felt this way about a girl before.

Hell, i'll even admit it, I'm on the verge of letting out a tear or two.

i'm really not sure how to handle this.

can someone help me out?

advice? experiences? please.


Ahhh, the inevitable, dreaded part of the serious relationship.
Definitely not looking forward to this type of separation coming my way.

Hell, in a way I'm not even looking forward to going on tour Thursday and I'm only gonna be gone for 9 days.

chronomic
08/19/08, 11:28 AM
invest yourself into some murder on yourself

chronomic
08/19/08, 11:30 AM
Ahhh, the inevitable, dreaded part of the serious relationship.
Definitely not looking forward to this type of separation coming my way.

Hell, in a way I'm not even looking forward to going on tour Thursday and I'm only gonna be gone for 9 days.

you too

Kassie09
08/19/08, 11:31 AM
Get some balls and deal with it.

brentkid
08/19/08, 11:33 AM
You're in for an awful ordeal.

thespearkid
08/19/08, 11:33 AM
Please take me by the hand
It's so cold out tonight
I'll put blankets on the bed
I won't turn out the light
Just don't forget to think about me
And I won't forget you
I'll write you once a week she said

Why does it feel the same
To fall in love or break it off
And if young love is just a game
Then I must have missed the kick off
Don't depend on me to ever follow through on anything
But I'd go through hell for you and

[Chorus:]
I haven't been this scared in a long time
And I'm so unprepared so here's your valentine
Bouquet of clumsy words, a simple melody
This world's an ugly place, but you're so beautiful to me

I'll think about the times
She kissed me after class
And she put up with my friends
I acted like an ass
I'd ditch my lecture to watch the girls play soccer
Is my picture still hanging in her locker?

[Chorus x2]

parallelism
08/19/08, 11:35 AM
Get some balls and deal with it.

Get some balls and become a man.

Kassie09
08/19/08, 11:35 AM
Get some balls and become a man.
Pretty much!

Even though that was mean of me and I do feel bad for him.

parallelism
08/19/08, 11:37 AM
Pretty much!

Even though that was mean of me and I do feel bad for him.

I meant you.

Burning Star IV
08/19/08, 11:38 AM
Suck it up, buttercup.

Kassie09
08/19/08, 11:38 AM
I meant you.
Oh,
I'd like to.

DaveZeroZero
08/19/08, 11:49 AM
it's been a horrible day for me.

my girlfriend went away to college, far far far away.

I can't stop thinking about her.

Like i try my best not to, but I just miss her soo much. I'm in class right now, and I just can't focus because i can't get her out of my mind.

It's effecting everything i do. Like i've never felt this way about a girl before.

Hell, i'll even admit it, I'm on the verge of letting out a tear or two.

i'm really not sure how to handle this.

can someone help me out?

advice? experiences? please.
Go to a bar and pick up some skank.

kwsqd
08/19/08, 11:53 AM
Oh,
I'd like to.
then you could beat people up!

sandra92
08/19/08, 02:59 PM
That sucks .. But in a few days you will get used to it
Try to be occupied , that way you may not think about her ..

Tyler Revolution
08/19/08, 03:14 PM
How long have you been dating?

anamericangod
08/19/08, 03:16 PM
The facts of life, the facts of life.

Neo Cassady
08/19/08, 03:32 PM
I've been in a long-distance relationship for almost 4 years. It's not impossible; just talk on the phone a lot. And it makes the times you are together even more special.

Giant Broccoli
08/19/08, 03:58 PM
Get out go do something, she's gonna fuckin cheat on you cause you're dependent of her

remedyeli
08/19/08, 04:19 PM
have sex with a hot girl, record it and then 'accidentally' send it to her.

MidCal
08/19/08, 05:01 PM
have sex with a hot girl, record it and then 'accidentally' send it to her.
Fuck yeah. Road Trip is such an awesome movie.

brandnew741
08/19/08, 05:10 PM
I went away to college 1,000 miles away from my girlfriend so I know what you're going through. I think it gets easier as time goes by. We made it through a year alright.

asteria
08/19/08, 07:12 PM
hah. wow.

thanks everyone!

your words of wisdom (or lack there of from some of you) is very helpful.

I'm trying my best to stay occupied, and i talk to her all the time, so who knows?

and Kassie09,

wait til your balls drop, and then you can talk in this forum. =)

Fallinto_rhythm
08/19/08, 07:18 PM
my sister cried for like an hour last night cause her boyfriend left today. She woke the fuck up with her whaling sobs. I went downstairs to harass her and it was a real bitchin' time.


But for real, that sucks. Hang out with friends to get your mind off of it.

Greg
08/19/08, 07:32 PM
chances are you will break up within the next 6 weeks. just keep busy and stop being a girl about it.

holyballs
08/19/08, 08:07 PM
Please take me by the hand
It's so cold out tonight
I'll put blankets on the bed
I won't turn out the light
Just don't forget to think about me
And I won't forget you
I'll write you once a week she said

Why does it feel the same
To fall in love or break it off
And if young love is just a game
Then I must have missed the kick off
Don't depend on me to ever follow through on anything
But I'd go through hell for you and

[Chorus:]
I haven't been this scared in a long time
And I'm so unprepared so here's your valentine
Bouquet of clumsy words, a simple melody
This world's an ugly place, but you're so beautiful to me

I'll think about the times
She kissed me after class
And she put up with my friends
I acted like an ass
I'd ditch my lecture to watch the girls play soccer
Is my picture still hanging in her locker?

[Chorus x2]
one of my favourites

llwilliamsll
08/19/08, 08:24 PM
You're left or right hand is going to be your best friend these coming months...(or should I say cumming, lololol)

64 % chance
08/19/08, 09:29 PM
she's probably gonna cheat on you, so just find a new girl

thesafeword
08/19/08, 09:34 PM
Oh,
I'd like to.
I'm pretty sure that WV is primarily republican and they hate gay people, so we'd run into a little bit of an issue there.

thesafeword
08/19/08, 09:35 PM
hah. wow.

thanks everyone!

your words of wisdom (or lack there of from some of you) is very helpful.

I'm trying my best to stay occupied, and i talk to her all the time, so who knows?

and Kassie09,

wait til your balls drop, and then you can talk in this forum. =)
Oh no you didn't.

bssnplayer
08/19/08, 09:51 PM
and Kassie09,

wait til your balls drop, and then you can talk in this forum. =)

Ouch.

asteria
08/19/08, 09:55 PM
Ouch.

yeah. ouch.

haha.

it's all in good fun.

bssnplayer
08/19/08, 09:56 PM
I know...still, ouch. haha.

bobby runs
08/19/08, 10:04 PM
Wtf Pl

anal

thesafeword
08/19/08, 10:10 PM
Oh, duh.

Kassie09
08/19/08, 10:23 PM
hah. wow.

thanks everyone!

your words of wisdom (or lack there of from some of you) is very helpful.

I'm trying my best to stay occupied, and i talk to her all the time, so who knows?

and Kassie09,

wait til your balls drop, and then you can talk in this forum. =)

=) Why can you if yours haven't dropped?

Willy McFurgle
08/19/08, 10:26 PM
What? did your balls drop off?

Kassie09
08/19/08, 10:28 PM
Whos?

Willy McFurgle
08/19/08, 10:31 PM
Asteria

bssnplayer
08/19/08, 10:45 PM
What? did your balls drop off?


Wow, that must have been painful.

historymonth
08/19/08, 10:54 PM
she will cheat on you. it's science. and you're going to miserable and contemplate suicide which will only further depress you as you come to the realization that you're too much of a fucking pussy to kill yourself. so you're just going to harass her while she moves on with her life as you're stuck at home like the fucking loser that you are, which will make her resent you for being an obsessive prick and you will never, ever, for the rest of your life, have any semblance of a romantic relationship with her.
in other words, get the fuck over it and move on with your life. immediately.

Giant Broccoli
08/19/08, 11:21 PM
she will cheat on you. it's science. and you're going to miserable and contemplate suicide which will only further depress you as you come to the realization that you're too much of a fucking pussy to kill yourself. so you're just going to harass her while she moves on with her life as you're stuck at home like the fucking loser that you are, which will make her resent you for being an obsessive prick and you will never, ever, for the rest of your life, have any semblance of a romantic relationship with her.
in other words, get the fuck over it and move on with your life. immediately.


hahahahahahaha i applaud you

asteria
08/20/08, 10:53 AM
she will cheat on you. it's science. and you're going to miserable and contemplate suicide which will only further depress you as you come to the realization that you're too much of a fucking pussy to kill yourself. so you're just going to harass her while she moves on with her life as you're stuck at home like the fucking loser that you are, which will make her resent you for being an obsessive prick and you will never, ever, for the rest of your life, have any semblance of a romantic relationship with her.
in other words, get the fuck over it and move on with your life. immediately.

haha wow.

you must of have had a lot of experience, if you can go into so much detail like that.

historymonth
08/20/08, 10:58 AM
hahahahahahaha i applaud you
i speak only the truth

asteria
08/20/08, 11:01 AM
haha. well thanks everyone.

I'm feeling better now. Deffinately helped clear my mind a bit.

historymonth
08/20/08, 11:02 AM
haha. well thanks everyone.

I'm feeling better now. Deffinately helped clear my mind a bit.
so are you gonna grow a pair and toss the trick or what

morgz
08/20/08, 11:04 AM
it really depends on how you handle things. i moved 7 hours away for college last summer and my boyfriend and i stayed together the whole time. we had some huge problems and broke up once or twice but when i got home we ended up being happier then we ever had been. i did drop out of that school though =/

DaveZeroZero
08/20/08, 11:26 AM
haha. well thanks everyone.

I'm feeling better now. Deffinately helped clear my mind a bit.
*definitely

brentkid
08/20/08, 11:32 AM
What? did your balls drop off?
Nice Joker reference.

she will cheat on you. it's science. and you're going to miserable and contemplate suicide which will only further depress you as you come to the realization that you're too much of a fucking pussy to kill yourself. so you're just going to harass her while she moves on with her life as you're stuck at home like the fucking loser that you are, which will make her resent you for being an obsessive prick and you will never, ever, for the rest of your life, have any semblance of a romantic relationship with her.
in other words, get the fuck over it and move on with your life. immediately.
Basically what happened to me last year when my girlfriend of three years at the time broke up with me after she left for school. This kid is going to have an awful realization soon.

Richard Maxim
08/21/08, 06:59 PM
Cry your heart out, that's what I'm going to do.

hellogorgeous
08/21/08, 07:17 PM
The facts of life, the facts of life.


I love you.

/creepyness

hellogorgeous
08/21/08, 07:18 PM
Pick up a crack cocaine habit. It will be useful to have something to fall back on once you break up.

TK
08/21/08, 07:21 PM
Get a new bitch with a fat ass

caress me down
08/21/08, 07:28 PM
i know EXACTLY how you feel...
my boyfriend left 9 days ago to go to college 2,000 miles away. it's the worst fucking feeling in the world. if you feel like me, the best way to describe how you feel is as hollow.

it's like someone shoveled your insides out.

the only advice i can possibly give you is start a journal. i started one 4 days ago and already filled up 27 pages. i don't know if it makes me feel any better, but its the only place i let my sadness out and keeping it bottled up inside is bad bad bad.

i'm like you in the sense i cannot stop thinking about him. i feel forgotten. i can't forget him, and i'm scared he's forgetting to think about me.

this is my first love, and the hardest thing i've ever had to deal with. i wish you luck, and hope you can be happier than i am at the moment.

DaveZeroZero
08/22/08, 04:14 AM
i know EXACTLY how you feel...
my boyfriend left 9 days ago to go to college 2,000 miles away. it's the worst fucking feeling in the world. if you feel like me, the best way to describe how you feel is as hollow.

it's like someone shoveled your insides out.

the only advice i can possibly give you is start a journal. i started one 4 days ago and already filled up 27 pages. i don't know if it makes me feel any better, but its the only place i let my sadness out and keeping it bottled up inside is bad bad bad.

i'm like you in the sense i cannot stop thinking about him. i feel forgotten. i can't forget him, and i'm scared he's forgetting to think about me.

this is my first love, and the hardest thing i've ever had to deal with. i wish you luck, and hope you can be happier than i am at the moment.
Don't worry, he looked like Carrot Top anyway.

DannySniper
08/22/08, 04:19 AM
Cry your heart out, that's what I'm going to do.

'Cause all of the stars,
Have faded away,
Just try not to worry,
You'll see them someday,
Take what you need,
And be on your way,
And stop crying your heart ooouuuttt...

caress me down
08/22/08, 06:22 PM
Don't worry, he looked like Carrot Top anyway.
hahaha!
nono, i can assure you he was much more attractive than carrot top

swt_catastrophe
08/22/08, 06:29 PM
carrot top is probably the least attractive person ever..
plus, his arms are oddly buff.

brandnew741
08/22/08, 07:28 PM
carrot top is probably the least attractive person ever..
plus, his arms are oddly buff.
Yeah, one of my friends saw him at the gym I go to. He looks ridiculous.

becauseyouwant2
08/22/08, 08:03 PM
carrot top is probably the least attractive person ever..
plus, his arms are oddly buff.

I don't know why but Carrot Top has always scared the ever loving shit out of me. He must build those arms from lugging all those shitty props around. Gallagher was pretty buff back in the day, too.

As for the problem at hand, if it is meant to be, it is meant to be. Your emotions will be fucked with completely. You are in for hell. Blah. Blah. Blah. And there is nothing anyone one here can say to make anything better or worse. I've been through it, but brother, are you in the wrong place to be looking for support.

Richard Maxim
08/23/08, 07:54 PM
'Cause all of the stars,
Have faded away,
Just try not to worry,
You'll see them someday,
Take what you need,
And be on your way,
And stop crying your heart ooouuuttt...

good song and crying is great, always feel ten times better after crying my brains out.
i might just cry right now

caress me down
08/23/08, 07:59 PM
carrot top is probably the least attractive person ever..
plus, his arms are oddly buff.
hgaohgoagh is face is gross. shaun white isnt good looking either

DaveZeroZero
08/24/08, 02:44 AM
good song and crying is great, always feel ten times better after crying my brains out.
i might just cry right now
Pussy.

DannySniper
08/24/08, 03:17 AM
good song and crying is great, always feel ten times better after crying my heart out.
i might just cry right now

Fixed.

WFUJerseyJon
08/24/08, 12:45 PM
The facts of life, the facts of life.

you take the good
you take the bad
you take them both
and then you have...

anamericangod
08/24/08, 12:47 PM
I love you.

/creepyness

It's only creepy if you're unattractive, babygurl.

Pick up a crack cocaine habit. It will be useful to have something to fall back on once you break up.

True words of wisdom.

paigen
08/24/08, 01:46 PM
it doesn't get much easier.

eHaMpToN
08/24/08, 01:46 PM
Please take me by the hand
It's so cold out tonight
I'll put blankets on the bed
I won't turn out the light
Just don't forget to think about me
And I won't forget you
I'll write you once a week she said

Why does it feel the same
To fall in love or break it off
And if young love is just a game
Then I must have missed the kick off
Don't depend on me to ever follow through on anything
But I'd go through hell for you and

[Chorus:]
I haven't been this scared in a long time
And I'm so unprepared so here's your valentine
Bouquet of clumsy words, a simple melody
This world's an ugly place, but you're so beautiful to me

I'll think about the times
She kissed me after class
And she put up with my friends
I acted like an ass
I'd ditch my lecture to watch the girls play soccer
Is my picture still hanging in her locker?

[Chorus x2]



iz dat sum liek party song or sumthinz i think i no de band but i can00t be curtain

eHaMpToN
08/24/08, 01:49 PM
ps- this is awful my ex girlfriend live pretty far and it used to get me so devastated when i couldnt see her, i can imagine if she was away at school. im so sorry dude, cell phones are a gift right now

YeahRiight
08/24/08, 02:19 PM
It's really tough, but certainly not impossible. If you guys have a strong enough connection, it can work out. My girlfriend goes to school in Washington and I go to school in Southern California so we are about 1,000 miles away from each other when we are both away at school.

Talk on the phone a lot, send each other stuff, visit whenever you can. It seems tough, but you can do it. Instead of being sad about her being gone, use the time you guys are apart to catch up with your friends that you don't get to see as much when your gf is in town. Long distance relationships are possible, stick to it brah.

thesafeword
08/24/08, 02:29 PM
She's cheating on you with me.

DaveZeroZero
08/25/08, 03:32 AM
buy webcams.

get nekkid.

record what she does for posterity selling on once you two break up.

Richard Maxim
08/25/08, 08:42 AM
Pussy.

Its pansy, get it right.