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Im 20, and I have a wonderful boyfriend whos 24. Hes the type of guy that doesnt give things up easily though.(as in hes a pretty private person, but hes opened up to me quite a lot, we tell each other anything and everything). Weve been dating for a little over 6 months now..and today he wanted me to look up something for him on yahoo. So he gave me his name and password. Well, i looked it up, and kinda started looking around. And I know I shouldnt have, cuse he trusted me with it. Anyways, I went to his personal dating page...and apparently last month(it says on the page), he put like a few girls on some kind of 'hot list' or some crap like that. hes got no mail from any of them, and his profile hasnt been updated since he was 22 but it still kinda weirds me out. What should I do, or should I do nothing, am i being to crazy? Thanks..
SonEric84
10/04/04, 10:48 PM
Well I'm the paranoid type so I would probably be really worried if I were in your shoes....don't freak out though it may be nothing, but I think you should definitely ask.
If he hasn't updated since he was 22. That would be 2 years... I think that your worrying just a little to much. But if you really trust each other, ask him about it.
13th hour
10/04/04, 10:55 PM
yea, totally
punklet2101
10/05/04, 02:33 AM
If he hasn't updated since he was 22. That would be 2 years... I think that your worrying just a little to much. But if you really trust each other, ask him about it.
What he/she said.
rock4life
10/05/04, 07:28 AM
its the internet what could happen :wink3: no really if you love echother you have nothing to worry about yeah hes a guy he going to look at other girls i bet you look at other guys /and they havent sent him anything so you have nothing to worry about
im sure if he found out your asking compleat strangers for relationship advice on the net he would be weirded out to
Mercy Medical
10/05/04, 09:49 AM
If he hasn't updated since he was 22. That would be 2 years... I think that your worrying just a little to much. But if you really trust each other, ask him about it.
I'd type out my opinion, but this pretty much states it...
yeah i guess im not really gonna worry about it. i think its just him looking at other chicks and not doing anything about it. like to me, it wouldnt be such a big deal if he couldnt get a hold of these chicks...but if he wanted to he could. just kinda weirds me out i guess. i wouldnt care if there were just random pics of chicks from the internet, cuse than i know he would have no way of getting in contact with them...but.....ah well..im not really gonna worry about it i guess. if something comes up, than ill ask.
No Control
10/05/04, 02:55 PM
If he hasn't updated since he was 22. That would be 2 years... I think that your worrying just a little to much. But if you really trust each other, ask him about it.
Exactly what I was going to say. You shouldnt worry about stuff like that, that happened 2 years ago.
he hasnt updated his profile in 2 years...he hasnt visited/looked at chicks in a month. but yes...i think i am also being too worried
OCNickLTJ13
10/06/04, 04:37 PM
still though, that is a shady thing to be doing, like i don't want to be giving bad news, but who's to say that if one of these girls saw this list and then sent him a message he wouldn't talk back, assuming you want this to be a serious relationship you have to ask him about it, he should be less worried about you snooping around and more worried about making this up to you...
kimosabe
10/07/04, 03:52 AM
if you have to ask stragers on the net if you should trust him or not, then obviously you don't.
richter915
10/07/04, 01:01 PM
Im 20, and I have a wonderful boyfriend whos 24. Hes the type of guy that doesnt give things up easily though.(as in hes a pretty private person, but hes opened up to me quite a lot, we tell each other anything and everything). Weve been dating for a little over 6 months now..and today he wanted me to look up something for him on yahoo. So he gave me his name and password. Well, i looked it up, and kinda started looking around. And I know I shouldnt have, cuse he trusted me with it. Anyways, I went to his personal dating page...and apparently last month(it says on the page), he put like a few girls on some kind of 'hot list' or some crap like that. hes got no mail from any of them, and his profile hasnt been updated since he was 22 but it still kinda weirds me out. What should I do, or should I do nothing, am i being to crazy? Thanks..
don't be a sneaky shit?
ignorance is bliss...live by that.
PunkDrums182
10/07/04, 01:28 PM
Im 20, and I have a wonderful boyfriend whos 24. Hes the type of guy that doesnt give things up easily though.(as in hes a pretty private person, but hes opened up to me quite a lot, we tell each other anything and everything). Weve been dating for a little over 6 months now..and today he wanted me to look up something for him on yahoo. So he gave me his name and password. Well, i looked it up, and kinda started looking around. And I know I shouldnt have, cuse he trusted me with it. Anyways, I went to his personal dating page...and apparently last month(it says on the page), he put like a few girls on some kind of 'hot list' or some crap like that. hes got no mail from any of them, and his profile hasnt been updated since he was 22 but it still kinda weirds me out. What should I do, or should I do nothing, am i being to crazy? Thanks..
dont do anything, you shouldnt have looked and you could really mess stuff up if you say something, so he thinks they're hot..?
PunkDrums182
10/07/04, 01:30 PM
don't be a sneaky shit?
ignorance is bliss...live by that.
you know it.
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