Two faced

[SingleDoubt]

there's a girl i've been into for a while and she's usually really nice except that she does cocaine and this makes her two-faced and gives her mood swings. today i ran into her during one of her worse times and she was just... horrible. we're supposed to go out on sunday. any idea of what i should do? ive liked her for a while and this is the best shot i've ever had... should i just forget her or what?

oh yeah, and if this seems like just one of those lame "douche" threads, then just ignore it.

[MrChainsaw389]

Eh....anyone who is into hard drugs like that is usually bad news. When you say she "does" coke, do you mean like habitually, or every so often?

[SingleDoubt]

im not sure, she told me that she snorted some caffeine pills the other day and then a few people told me she does coke

[Tyler Revolution]

I'd drop her for sure... but I'm not into girls that do drugs.

[im_random]

I'm a girl, but if it were me in your position I wouldn't go out with her..mostly because of the drug thing.

[PunkDrums182]

i dont date girls that do drugs or anything so obviously you know what i would do, but cocaine? i'd try to forget her, or ask her to stop doing such hard stuff

[No Control]

Honestly, you have to weigh out the pros and cons. If she is like this the majority of the time or half of the time, it is NOT worth it. I mean personally Im not into girls who do hard drugs like that, but its your decision and what you feel comfortable with, but if shes hostile and all to you, its not worth the trouble.

[SingleDoubt]

Honestly, you have to weigh out the pros and cons. If she is like this the majority of the time or half of the time, it is NOT worth it. I mean personally Im not into girls who do hard drugs like that, but its your decision and what you feel comfortable with, but if shes hostile and all to you, its not worth the trouble.
yeah, thats the thing... she's into drugs, but she's still a really sweet girl... somehow. ive just been with a girl before that had mad mood swings and it was hard to keep her happy and really stressful. i just dont want to fall into that again

[No Control]

yeah, thats the thing... she's into drugs, but she's still a really sweet girl... somehow. ive just been with a girl before that had mad mood swings and it was hard to keep her happy and really stressful. i just dont want to fall into that again



Then its not worth it my friend. Keep away from that, something else will come around. Shes not worth the trouble and the stress that Im sure she will/would bring.

[Juliet R Delta]

if she's bumming you out before you even get into a relationship with her... think what it'll be like if you do date her... feelings intensify, with that you'll care more, it'll affect you more that she's all over the place, and she's prolly not likely to change anytime soon.
sounds like she needs to get some of her shit sorted anyway... just be honest but kind with her.

[Coffee_addict]

I think it all depends how much you like her when shes not high, or craving something. Cause, well, if your like totally into her when shes not fucked, then I think I would try, but than again, if you start to fall for her and she gets worse, that would really be too much trouble. I don't know, I shouldn't have posted anything. Anyways, look at the run on sentence. Its huge.

[mirtizzle]

because i've had the pleasure dating a guy who was fucked up on xanax and coke half the time, i've learned that in a situation like that, the good never outweighs the bad, and it's not worth dealing with... i'm telling you, you will be second to their habit, and everytime something goes wrong for them they won't turn to you for help, they'll turn to whatever they're on. and you can't help them get out of it, because the thing about people with drug problems is that they can only be helped if they're willing to accept it.
so if i were you, i'd be her friend, but i wouldn't get involved. she might be a sweet girl otherwise, but you'll be setting yourself up for some major disappointment in the future.

[Bishop]

I'd do the coke with her. But I'm self destructive so don't be like me.

[FallingOut]

I would definitely just stay away from that. You will have to deal with crazy shit all the time I bet.

[Bikeage]

orrrr you can try to help her & get her off of it