how long should i wait [Archive]

ursolastsum3r

10/08/04, 08:11 PM

alright i just asked out a girl like 2 weeks ago and she said she thinks we are better off as friends 4 NOW so how long should i wait to ask her again?

Clarett'sGreyGoose

10/08/04, 08:52 PM

she's being nice. don't ask her again. "we're better off as friends for now" means "we're better off if we don't talk again. ever."

sorry man.

ATFEH4President

10/08/04, 08:55 PM

she's being nice. don't ask her again. "we're better off as friends for now" means "we're better off if we don't talk again. ever."

sorry man.

Not always...at least for me it didn't. I only had to wait like a month, lucky me

Clarett'sGreyGoose

10/08/04, 09:01 PM

Not always...at least for me it didn't. I only had to wait like a month, lucky me
you got lucky

Juliet R Delta

10/08/04, 11:32 PM

absolutely, nine times out of ten, when a girl says 'lets just be friends' it means she has no interest past that but still values you as a friend... don't ask again unless it seems like you have a shot, REALLY seems like you have a shot.

BloodTornTears

10/09/04, 12:19 AM

Dont ask her out again. Just hang out with her and talk with her. Be friends. Then if she really did like you, she should say something. You will know when the time is right. Just wait it out.

ursolastsum3r

10/09/04, 07:02 AM

well one of the reasons she said no is because shes only known me for a month and she still wants to know me more and the other she just got out of a big break up like 3 or 4 weeks ago

venus/bacchus

10/09/04, 10:00 AM

well one of the reasons she said no is because shes only known me for a month and she still wants to know me more and the other she just got out of a big break up like 3 or 4 weeks ago
If that's the case, then you might still have a shot. Still wait a good while though. You've only known the girl for a month, just let the relationship happen if it happens.

BloodTornTears

10/09/04, 11:35 AM

well one of the reasons she said no is because shes only known me for a month and she still wants to know me more and the other she just got out of a big break up like 3 or 4 weeks ago
yea asking her right after the break up wasnt a good idea, could of ruin your chances. You should learn when you are gunna ask a girl out, wait and see what she says about everything. Hang out with her alot. Get to know her, feel comfortable around her.

PunkDrums182

10/09/04, 12:07 PM

drugs are bad mmkay

IfuDieiDieToo

10/09/04, 09:30 PM

dont do it...if she says that let her ask you dude.......

ursolastsum3r

10/10/04, 09:18 AM

none of the girls around in my town ask out guys

SingleDoubt

10/10/04, 11:44 AM

alright i just asked out a girl like 2 weeks ago and she said she thinks we are better off as friends 4 NOW so how long should i wait to ask her again?
stop being such a little bitch and get over it

Mercy Medical

10/10/04, 11:54 AM

charly horse

10/10/04, 12:42 PM

i agree with everyone else.

kimosabe

10/10/04, 03:24 PM

i agree with everyone else.
CONFORMIST!

ursolastsum3r

10/11/04, 09:03 AM

I'd say just become better friends and feel out the whole situation. Give it some time, but I don't think there's any specific time that will be best.

No one can sit here and say, "ask her out in 2 more weeks"...

i know what you mean but i dont want to ask her to early

Mercy Medical

10/11/04, 09:04 AM

i know what you mean but i dont want to ask her to early
Just feel out the whole situation and like I said become good friends and just asking when it feels right...

Bethiscool

10/11/04, 09:23 AM

I say GIVE IT UP...there's a million fish in the sea.

Tyler Revolution

10/11/04, 09:36 AM

I say GIVE IT UP...there's a million fish in the sea.

Yes, give up... nothing is worth fighting for. Don't listen to Beth.

ursolastsum3r

10/11/04, 01:24 PM

I say GIVE IT UP...there's a million fish in the sea.

she's worth fighting for ya there might be a million fish but you only get 1

Mercy Medical

10/11/04, 01:31 PM

she's worth fighting for ya there might be a million fish but you only get 1
Yea, but how old are you? If you're young mostly likely that isn't going to be the one...

ursolastsum3r

10/11/04, 03:03 PM

Yea, but how old are you? If you're young mostly likely that isn't going to be the one...

haha yes i am young im turnin 14 soon but the case is im not the one to like every girl in the school i like 2 look for the right 1 and ive only liked 1 other person than this person

ursolastsum3r

10/11/04, 06:45 PM

also it doesnt matter how old you are you can find that certain someone at any age

BloodTornTears

10/12/04, 02:34 PM

I'd say just become better friends and feel out the whole situation. Give it some time, but I don't think there's any specific time that will be best.

No one can sit here and say, "ask her out in 2 more weeks"...
You could of ruined your chances asking her out right after a break up. Never ever try to date someone after they have broken up with someone.

Mercy Medical

10/12/04, 03:14 PM

You could of ruined your chances asking her out right after a break up. Never ever try to date someone after they have broken up with someone.
Wait, why are you quoting me? What are you talking about?

ursolastsum3r

10/12/04, 04:29 PM

im not an idiot i didnt ask her out rite after i waited until i knew she was over the breakup

ursolastsum3r

10/12/04, 05:14 PM

i actually got the message that needed 2 be sent to me i was going to ask out the girl in like december i thought that be good enough time but rite now im listening 2 an underoath song lookin at the lyrics and it's hitting on me i need 2 chill with her and feel comfortable and close then i should ask her out