Am I an asshole?

[dretti]

Ok, here is my situation:


Me and my last girlfriend broke up about three months ago, and since then everything has be great. But within the last week or so, me and her bestfriend have been kind of getting to know eachother, and as of last night, We are really really close to being together.

So I guess my question is...Is this a total asshole move? I'm not trying to be mean or anything. I had no intention of revenge or anything. It just sort of happened, and yeah I want this girl.

So asshole or not?

[SonEric84]

This situation is like a timebomb...I wouldn't say you're an asshole, but obviously you getting with her bestfriend will cause a problem, if you really like her she will probably lose her friendship over you...unless of course your relationship with your ex wasn't that serious.

[dretti]

This situation is like a timebomb...I wouldn't say you're an asshole, but obviously you getting with her bestfriend will cause a problem, if you really like her she will probably lose her friendship over you...unless of course your relationship with your ex wasn't that serious.



Well.....the ex is still really bitter. She kind of scares me, because she will like never let it go. But I guess they aren't good friends anymore anyways, the girl i'm after says they barely talk anymore. But I'm going to see her tonight so I was hoping for some advice first...

[The Bled 13]

I've never been in that situation.

[The Bled 13]

Wait, yeah I have. But I don't know really what to say.

[SonEric84]

Well.....the ex is still really bitter. She kind of scares me, because she will like never let it go. But I guess they aren't good friends anymore anyways, the girl i'm after says they barely talk anymore. But I'm going to see her tonight so I was hoping for some advice first...


Hmm...Well if they don't really talk I don't see what the problem is. I wouldn't worry about it if that was the case, I thought since you said best friends they were still really close...if you like her a lot and think she's worth it might as well go for it.

[SC0926]

yeah if they dont talk much..whatever. plus if this new chick says its ok..than id say go for it. if the ex has a big problem..just say that the new one said she thought it would be ok. it would mostly be between the ex and the new one anyways. my best friend went out with a guy i dated...but it wasnt that serious. i didnt mind..but than again...thats not how all chicks work so..

[fractions]

yey, go for it!

[im_random]

yeah if they dont talk much..whatever. plus if this new chick says its ok..than id say go for it. if the ex has a big problem..just say that the new one said she thought it would be ok. it would mostly be between the ex and the new one anyways. my best friend went out with a guy i dated...but it wasnt that serious. i didnt mind..but than again...thats not how all chicks work so..

what she said..if they don't really talk anymore then if your ex gets pissed..that's pretty stupid

[The Bled 13]

Yeah I agree.

[Juliet R Delta]

just make sure you want this girl for the right reasons... no rebounds, not out of habit of being with someone. the fact that you're thinking this out shows you're not an asshole - if you were, you wouldn't have started this thread but just disregarded either of the girl's feelings and went for what YOU wanted...

[mondeoman]

just make sure you want this girl for the right reasons... no rebounds, not out of habit of being with someone. the fact that you're thinking this out shows you're not an asshole - if you were, you wouldn't have started this thread but just disregarded either of the girl's feelings and went for what YOU wanted...
exactly and besides we all know you're a good guy.

[BrandNew20]

go for it man.

[Bikeage]

if they're best friends though & you do it = fucked up

but if they're not talking go fer it

[13th hour]

go for it hombre.

[_astheruinfalls]

I wouldn't worry about what your ex will think. Just do what you want.

[Love As Arson]

Go for it. If it doesn't work out, then at least you know you stuck it to your ex while being involved in the failed relationship.

[bl00dy_r0mance]

I'd say go for it, but u know what they say... u never go out with ya ex's best friend or ya best friend's ex

hope all works out for you :lol2: