The Perfect Girl

[trustmeimokay]

I have just recently begun at my new school. There are many attractive girls but there is this one.... She's perfect. I couldn't imagine a girl more perfect than she is. She's beautiful (she looks like Rachel Bilson from the O.C.), she has the most beautiful smile, she's smart, she's nice, she's easygoing, and i could go on. The only problem is she is taken, by a guy 3 years older than me. (im a freshman, he's a senior and goes to a different school, keep in mind she is a freshman too) I think about this girl constantly, my school life is soo much better when she is around and we've barely even talked. I dream about her, i write songs about her, she motivates me, and I try to do anything possible to impress her. I've never felt so envious of a guy in my entire life. I would do anything for her, and anything to be with her, but she's taken, and I just can't get over that. I barely spoke the day someone told me she had a boyfriend, I either need to know how to get over her, or what else I can do. Keep in mind I do not want to get over her, she makes my so much more optimistic about life, i just don't know what to do....

[andromeda]

hmmmm... i have felt this way as well last year, but for me, as time went on, i began to lose this feeling after about 6 months. Maby it's more strong a feeling with you, but i guess you really have to try to get to know her. Try talking to her, just as a friend.

[brandnewtbs23]

that sucks have you by any chanch been diagnosed with depression

[punklet2101]

my school life is soo much better when she is around and we've barely even talked. I dream about her, i write songs about her, she motivates me, and I try to do anything possible to impress her

It seems like you barely know her, but you're building this in your head. An infatuation.

I agree with andromeda - get to know her as a friend.

[Mercy Medical]

I'd have to agree with everyone else, get to know her as a friend and hope that she breaks up with her boyfriend. :)

[trustmeimokay]

I'd have to agree with everyone else, get to know her as a friend and hope that she breaks up with her boyfriend. :)
ooo ive been hoping that for a long time now!!!lol

[richter915]

dude fuck all of that. Kidnap her and keep her in the well in your basement and yell at her when she refuses to put the lotion on her skin.

god do you know NOTHING of women???

[BrandNew20]

dude fuck all of that. Kidnap her and keep her in the well in your basement and yell at her when she refuses to put the lotion on her skin.

god do you know NOTHING of women???

it puts the lotion on its skin, or else it gets the hose again...

[SingleDoubt]

dude fuck all of that. Kidnap her and keep her in the well in your basement and yell at her when she refuses to put the lotion on her skin.

god do you know NOTHING of women???
hahahahahahaha!!

[Juliet R Delta]

else, you can carry a dictaphone and tape her talking, get it on your comp. and edit it, chop her sentences until you get her saying 'my boyfriend is an emo robot... i've always really loved you'
*lol*
i agree, get to know her, get to know everything about her... its not stalking if she knows your name... :wink3:
eh heh heh heh heh....

[commatosa]

NO!!! You tell her how you feel and if she rejects you then move on. But you HAVE to tell her!

[Love As Arson]

Someone really should warn her about you. I'd totally do it, but I'd rather see how it plays out on the five o'clock news.

[trustmeimokay]

NO!!! You tell her how you feel and if she rejects you then move on. But you HAVE to tell her!
theres no way i can tell her, its much harder to do than you think , ive never felt like this before

[Tanooki Suit]

You are prime stalker material.

[chelz0r]

everyone agrees with everyone here, but i always like to put my two cents in.

so...yeah, i agree, too. getting to know this girl on the friendship level could help you get to know her better. this could either deepen your feelings or it could save you from a lot of trouble. who knows? maybe there is something about her that you don't know that would really irritate you once you knew it.

but, whatever you do, if mutual feelings happen between you guys, DON'T tell her about the songs you write about her and stuff. that could ruin it completely and you might just lose your dignity. wait until after you start going out...and say "hey, i wrote this for you last night!" ; )

[commatosa]

theres no way i can tell her, its much harder to do than you think , ive never felt like this before

I've been through it all. There's no reason why you should be going crazy over this girl. Face your fears. Don't try to get her to break up with her boyfriend cause that always backfires. Just tell her and let her decide. Say "I really like you and I would take really good care of you, so tell me if there's any future. Is there reason for me to keep on having feelings for you or should I move on?" Trust me, it will make your life a whole lot easier.

[trustmeimokay]

I've been through it all. There's no reason why you should be going crazy over this girl. Face your fears. Don't try to get her to break up with her boyfriend cause that always backfires. Just tell her and let her decide. Say "I really like you and I would take really good care of you, so tell me if there's any future. Is there reason for me to keep on having feelings for you or should I move on?" Trust me, it will make your life a whole lot easier.
thats a good idea, i just dont know how to approach her, ive never really talked to her before, any suggestions?

[Lueda Alia]

thats a good idea, i just dont know how to approach her, ive never really talked to her before, any suggestions?
just say something random to her when you're around her.. or just say hey or whatever.. it doesn't matter really. if she's nice like you said she is, she'll talk back.. and yeah.

[trustmeimokay]

just say something random to her when you're around her.. or just say hey or whatever.. it doesn't matter really. if she's nice like you said she is, she'll talk back.. and yeah.
i should say "hi" to her, all i have said to her my entire life is "st. therese" and "yeah", so i need to add something else, im pathetic

[Tyler Revolution]

I have just recently begun at my new school. There are many attractive girls but there is this one.... She's perfect. I couldn't imagine a girl more perfect than she is. She's beautiful (she looks like Rachel Bilson from the O.C.), she has the most beautiful smile, she's smart, she's nice, she's easygoing, and i could go on. The only problem is she is taken, by a guy 3 years older than me. (im a freshman, he's a senior and goes to a different school, keep in mind she is a freshman too) I think about this girl constantly, my school life is soo much better when she is around and we've barely even talked. I dream about her, i write songs about her, she motivates me, and I try to do anything possible to impress her. I've never felt so envious of a guy in my entire life. I would do anything for her, and anything to be with her, but she's taken, and I just can't get over that. I barely spoke the day someone told me she had a boyfriend, I either need to know how to get over her, or what else I can do. Keep in mind I do not want to get over her, she makes my so much more optimistic about life, i just don't know what to do....

Dude, speak for yourself, my "perfect girl" has to be fat, hairy, and smelly.

[loser 101]

I have just recently begun at my new school. There are many attractive girls but there is this one.... She's perfect. I couldn't imagine a girl more perfect than she is. She's beautiful (she looks like Rachel Bilson from the O.C.), she has the most beautiful smile, she's smart, she's nice, she's easygoing, and i could go on. The only problem is she is taken, by a guy 3 years older than me. (im a freshman, he's a senior and goes to a different school, keep in mind she is a freshman too) I think about this girl constantly, my school life is soo much better when she is around and we've barely even talked. I dream about her, i write songs about her, she motivates me, and I try to do anything possible to impress her. I've never felt so envious of a guy in my entire life. I would do anything for her, and anything to be with her, but she's taken, and I just can't get over that. I barely spoke the day someone told me she had a boyfriend, I either need to know how to get over her, or what else I can do. Keep in mind I do not want to get over her, she makes my so much more optimistic about life, i just don't know what to do....


no one is perfect. i thought i met the perfect guy of my dreams... it was false. nothing is perfect, no one is perfect. u dont see that at first. in the end, u wont be blind. and u will see what im talking about.

[Greg]

yea... sometimes theres just nothing you can do. this girl i started to like last nov has had a boyfriend (at the time) 3 and a half years. so trying not to be a dick i just stayed friends with her and pushed all my stronger feelings aside. and it worked for a while. then new years came around... long story short. she wanted to kiss me. so i went for it and we made out for a few minutes at midnight. then that was it. and i thought maybe that meant she was gonna break up with her bf. nope. i found out later (june of this year) it was just supposed to be a peck kiss. i never really brought it up cause i felt like the biggest dick. but right after new years people made a big deal out of it like the teenage fucks we all are. people told her that she liked me. when neither i or she had said so. so that way really gay we had to talk about it and how if she wasnt with her bf maybe there could be something but right now no. so months go by and like i said i ended up finding out it was my fault for going for more than a peck. but it was still her idea to even kiss at all. eh whatever.... it only sucks when i see her with him and they kiss or something.

[trustmeimokay]

no one is perfect. i thought i met the perfect guy of my dreams... it was false. nothing is perfect, no one is perfect. u dont see that at first. in the end, u wont be blind. and u will see what im talking about.
i dont really mean she's perfect, its kind of a figure of speech

[trustmeimokay]

yea... sometimes theres just nothing you can do. this girl i started to like last nov has had a boyfriend (at the time) 3 and a half years. so trying not to be a dick i just stayed friends with her and pushed all my stronger feelings aside. and it worked for a while. then new years came around... long story short. she wanted to kiss me. so i went for it and we made out for a few minutes at midnight. then that was it. and i thought maybe that meant she was gonna break up with her bf. nope. i found out later (june of this year) it was just supposed to be a peck kiss. i never really brought it up cause i felt like the biggest dick. but right after new years people made a big deal out of it like the teenage fucks we all are. people told her that she liked me. when neither i or she had said so. so that way really gay we had to talk about it and how if she wasnt with her bf maybe there could be something but right now no. so months go by and like i said i ended up finding out it was my fault for going for more than a peck. but it was still her idea to even kiss at all. eh whatever.... it only sucks when i see her with him and they kiss or something.
i hate it when girls give the wrong signals...

[loser 101]

i dont really mean she's perfect, its kind of a figure of speech

k cool! as long as u know that. sum guys are blind like that, realizing there isnt a thing like perfect. and it sux for them

[Tyler Revolution]

k cool! as long as u know that. sum guys are blind like that, realizing there isnt a thing like perfect. and it sux for them

I think girls are more like that than guys, just my opinion though.

[PunkDrums182]

dude fuck all of that. Kidnap her and keep her in the well in your basement and yell at her when she refuses to put the lotion on her skin.

god do you know NOTHING of women???
thats so weird, i said that earlier today.. lol

[loser 101]

I think girls are more like that than guys, just my opinion though.

true. but i know a lot of guys like that. they do everything to impress girls, its sad.

[trustmeimokay]

true. but i know a lot of guys like that. they do everything to impress girls, its sad.
yeah i do that, ill do anything to impress her, im quite pathetic

[Raistlin]

Yeah, well.....same story, sadder ending....
I just moved state, lost her address, lost her e-mail
address, moved on (sorta)...

You should just be friends.....Afterall, what happens even if
you do get to be her boyfriend?
Marriage?
Before 25?
Divorce?
Before 26?

I don't know, I just kinda wouldn't wanna be tied down
at all, besides, suppose you DO move away or something,
it will hurt.

[ShoeSh1ne]

Odds are the guy she is with now will drop her when/if he goes to college. Stick around, be a friend and maybe you'll get your shot.

[trustmeimokay]

Odds are the guy she is with now will drop her when/if he goes to college. Stick around, be a friend and maybe you'll get your shot.
i hope to god ur right

[xoxjessxox]

we've barely even talked.

if you ask me.. you sound very obsessed with her.. its very stalkerish and creepy

[tbag311]

you sound like me when i was a sophmore (i'm a senior now)
just take heart in knowing that she won't be going out with that guy much longer, 'cause he must be a fuckin loser if he's 3 years older than her AND goes to another school.

[trustmeimokay]

if you ask me.. you sound very obsessed with her.. its very stalkerish and creepy
oo yeah, u can say that seeing as though u know maybe one-eighth of the details...asshole

[commatosa]

oo yeah, u can say that seeing as though u know maybe one-eighth of the details...asshole

haha. Anyway, back to what I was saying... You need to figure out a way to get her to hang out with you. Possibly getting involved with a school activity. Something cool that you would need to promote, and get her to come. Also, if she has friends make them come, and get really buddy buddy with her friends. Chicks need the approval of their friends. If she comes, great you can talk to her. If she doesn't come you can playfully guilt trip her. Anyway, make reasons to approach her. Or, invite her to a party. Or ask her if she knows of any parties. Girls LOVE outgoing guys who socialize. But remember, never let the girl know that you like her more than she likes you. It's natural instinct for girls to have a challenge. So I guess you could disregard what I was saying before. First you need to make her think you're badass. It will come to you. But don't overdo it, cause then she'll catch on. Man, I sure went off.

[trustmeimokay]

haha. Anyway, back to what I was saying... You need to figure out a way to get her to hang out with you. Possibly getting involved with a school activity. Something cool that you would need to promote, and get her to come. Also, if she has friends make them come, and get really buddy buddy with her friends. Chicks need the approval of their friends. If she comes, great you can talk to her. If she doesn't come you can playfully guilt trip her. Anyway, make reasons to approach her. Or, invite her to a party. Or ask her if she knows of any parties. Girls LOVE outgoing guys who socialize. But remember, never let the girl know that you like her more than she likes you. It's natural instinct for girls to have a challenge. So I guess you could disregard what I was saying before. First you need to make her think you're badass. It will come to you. But don't overdo it, cause then she'll catch on. Man, I sure went off.
best advice in this thread, thanx

[Carbanna]

Hey! I went and posted very random comments on your livejournal a couple of days ago! Wierd...Anywho, I still say that she is forever damned due to her name. (Abby's are usually bitches...Wait, this is the same girl that you were talking about on your livejournal, right?) but yeah, you should seriously talk to her. You can always use some school related topic to break the ice and then you can just bring something up that you're both interested in. I agree with the last piece of advice too...although don't go too over the top with the whole badass plan. lol.

[ohlookitspaul]

just go and whip out your wang in front of her. if you can poke her in the eye, she'll immediately fall in love with you. if not, i'm sorry.

[commatosa]

best advice in this thread, thanx

So in other words. You have to play it careful and precise. It will work out. You have the power. And remember, if all else fails, do the urkel.

[as night falls]

Yeah, well.....same story, sadder ending....
I just moved state, lost her address, lost her e-mail
address, moved on (sorta)...

You should just be friends.....Afterall, what happens even if
you do get to be her boyfriend?
Marriage?
Before 25?
Divorce?
Before 26?

I don't know, I just kinda wouldn't wanna be tied down
at all, besides, suppose you DO move away or something,
it will hurt.

That what I say to my friends too. I think dating is pointless when your in high school. It really is. This is sad, but true, there is always someone better than you, in your boyfriend/girlfriend eyes.

Just forget about her dood, believe me. Something like this happened to me, I'm still hurt, and I'm recovering each day, but its not quick. So the best thing to do would be what Raistlin said. In the end, it always hurts. Thats something no human can avoid, unless you don't have a heart.

[xKissMeDeadlyx]

hmm. Sounds almost 'stalker-ish'..

[QUOTE=trustmeimokay]I think about this girl constantly, my school life is soo much better when she is around and we've barely even talked. I dream about her, i write songs about her, she motivates me, and I try to do anything possible to impress her. I've never felt so envious of a guy in my entire life. I would do anything for her, and anything to be with her, but she's taken, and I just can't get over that. QUOTE]

[as night falls]

hmm. Sounds almost 'stalker-ish'..

[QUOTE=trustmeimokay]I think about this girl constantly, my school life is soo much better when she is around and we've barely even talked. I dream about her, i write songs about her, she motivates me, and I try to do anything possible to impress her. I've never felt so envious of a guy in my entire life. I would do anything for her, and anything to be with her, but she's taken, and I just can't get over that. [QUOTE]

Correct.

[xoxjessxox]

hmm. Sounds almost 'stalker-ish'..

[QUOTE=trustmeimokay]I think about this girl constantly, my school life is soo much better when she is around and we've barely even talked. I dream about her, i write songs about her, she motivates me, and I try to do anything possible to impress her. I've never felt so envious of a guy in my entire life. I would do anything for her, and anything to be with her, but she's taken, and I just can't get over that. QUOTE]

yea thats exactly wut i say n i get completely chewed out for it.. lol.. but yes i agree completely

[SonEric84]

C'mon guys it might come off as stalkerish but it does sound like he sincerely likes her....then again I could be wrong.

[Tyler Revolution]

I agree with Eric... no one really knows the whole story, and who honestly hasn't liked someone alot? I know I have. I don't think hes being "stalkerish" at all, he just likes this girl alot.

[trustmeimokay]

I agree with Eric... no one really knows the whole story, and who honestly hasn't liked someone alot? I know I have. I don't think hes being "stalkerish" at all, he just likes this girl alot.
thank you very much, you are totally right, 20,000 scene points

[Tyler Revolution]

thank you very much, you are totally right, 20,000 scene points


Damn, I'm scene.

[trustmeimokay]

Damn, I'm scene.
o you know it

[SonEric84]

haha Hey where are my scene points?































j/k

[Tyler Revolution]

haha Hey where are my scene points?


j/k


+19,999 scene points for you. I get more cause I'm cooler!

[SonEric84]

+19,999 scene points for you. I get more cause I'm cooler!


I suppose I can live with that.

[Tyler Revolution]

I suppose I can live with that.


Haha.

[trustmeimokay]

I suppose I can live with that.
a life without scene points, is like a life without a soul

[chelz0r]

trustmeimokay, i don't think you sound 'stalker-ish' at all.

'stalker-ish' is this:

"so, i sit out on her front porch at night and wait for her to change into her nightie and i take pictures of her while she does that. AND i know where she's at all the time, 24/7! isn't that so-f*cking-cool? and then, i offer to carry her books to class for her and i leave love messages in her locker!"

^that's 'stalker-ish'. what you are kinda doing is 'admiring from afar'.

[trustmeimokay]

trustmeimokay, i don't think you sound 'stalker-ish' at all.

'stalker-ish' is this:

"so, i sit out on her front porch at night and wait for her to change into her nightie and i take pictures of her while she does that. AND i know where she's at all the time, 24/7! isn't that so-f*cking-cool? and then, i offer to carry her books to class for her and i leave love messages in her locker!"

^that's 'stalker-ish'. what you are kinda doing is 'admiring from afar'.
admiring from a far....i like that, thank you very much

[chelz0r]

admiring from a far....i like that, thank you very much

you are VERY welcome. : )

[blink182tomchik]

Ok here's what you do: Get her extremely drunk, have your way with her, tape it, show her bf, he dumps her, she realizes how good you are, she dates you. Problem solved!

[_astheruinfalls]

You are such a fucking douche bag.

I hope you choke on some random guys man juice.

Fucking cock whore.

[Tyler Revolution]

You are such a fucking douche bag.

I hope you choke on some random guys man juice.

Fucking cock whore.


I think TJ pretty much nailed it on the head.

[mondeoman]

I have just recently begun at my new school. There are many attractive girls but there is this one.... She's perfect. I couldn't imagine a girl more perfect than she is. She's beautiful (she looks like Rachel Bilson from the O.C.), she has the most beautiful smile, she's smart, she's nice, she's easygoing, and i could go on. The only problem is she is taken, by a guy 3 years older than me. (im a freshman, he's a senior and goes to a different school, keep in mind she is a freshman too) I think about this girl constantly, my school life is soo much better when she is around and we've barely even talked. I dream about her, i write songs about her, she motivates me, and I try to do anything possible to impress her. I've never felt so envious of a guy in my entire life. I would do anything for her, and anything to be with her, but she's taken, and I just can't get over that. I barely spoke the day someone told me she had a boyfriend, I either need to know how to get over her, or what else I can do. Keep in mind I do not want to get over her, she makes my so much more optimistic about life, i just don't know what to do....
Wow that's pretty intense dude. But just hold on your day will come (no pun intended). She sounds wicked hot.