i'm a fucking slut.

[boysdontcry]

in the past week my girlfriend left me and then i started going out with another girl. what the fuck, this week has been really fucking strange...

[_astheruinfalls]

I thought Shelly was going to be the maker of this thread.

[richter915]

I thought Shelly was going to be the maker of this thread.
ditto

but ya...don't complain...you're pretty lucky.

[MrChainsaw389]

Seriously, I wish I could find a girl to go out with me. Don't complain

[dretti]

I'm with my exgirlfriend's bestfriend, I am also a slut. :wink3:

[boysdontcry]

i will complain because i loved my ex and still do.

[dretti]

i will complain because i loved my ex and still do.

Then why are you with the other girl?

[boysdontcry]

see thread title.

[dretti]

see thread title.


hahahaha, Well, get rid of the current chick, and get your ex back.

[boysdontcry]

she doesn't want me back. i fucked up. this new girl is the reason we broke up. fuck.

[Mercy Medical]

she doesn't want me back. i fucked up. this new girl is the reason we broke up. fuck.
Ooooo, you're in a bit of a pickle there James...

[Greg]

the only girl worth going for is the one i cant go for ...... she's already taken. no one else seems worth it...

[Lueda Alia]

we need more details to help babe.

i hope you're alright. <3

[Throwback]

I still deeply love my ex.

[Mercy Medical]

I still am madly in love with my ex, but I wouldn't really call them an ex because things aren't completely over, just really up in the air right now... :/

[Coronary Parasite]

in the past week my girlfriend left me and then i started going out with another girl. what the fuck, this week has been really fucking strange...
oh matt :(

you're one of the people i talk to on here who had a relationship i really believed would make it :( i'm sorry

[Greg]

the girl i like is just my friend. 99% always will be. she's becoming one of my closest friends though. so it's hard to not want to like her like that still. esp since we have made out. and she's been with a guy for 4 and a half years. i made out with her around 3 and a half. oops... so yea.... i guess we'll always be great friends and that's it from now....

[boysdontcry]

oh matt :(

you're one of the people i talk to on here who had a relationship i really believed would make it :( i'm sorry
well it's my fault anyway. i seriously feel so bad about it. we went out for over a year and she was the first girl i ever actually loved. oh well. i can't really do anything about it now.

[Mercy Medical]

well it's my fault anyway. i seriously feel so bad about it. we went out for over a year and she was the first girl i ever actually loved. oh well. i can't really do anything about it now.
Why can't you do anything about it now?

[Mercy Medical]

I'm the type of person that believes if you truly love someone and truly want them back then you should continue trying...in my opinion, the harder you try to get that person back, the more apparent it becomes to them that you really love them and that you're really sorry.

[boysdontcry]

she wants nothing to do with me. i'm a horrible person and i really don't blame her.

[Mercy Medical]

she wants nothing to do with me. i'm a horrible person and i really don't blame her.
That may be true, but if you love her enough and really do want her back, I'd say still try...maybe I'm just crazy. lol

[MrChainsaw389]

no offence kara, but I tried it that way with a girl a while back. Wow, really bad idea.

[Mercy Medical]

Yea, but it depends on what specifically you do. If you still try, but are very subtle about things, it may take a while, but who knows it might work.

If you're way super gung ho and in their face, I don't think it's going to work. All it's going to due is annoy the hell out of them.

[Mercy Medical]

But then again, it also depends on the girl and how much she cares. If she's really angry, but deep down inside part of her still really cares and loves you, I'm sure she'll eventually give you a second chance.

[mondeoman]

You might just need to give her some time to cool off.

[boysdontcry]

well just so you understand, i cheated on her.

she doesn't want me back.

[BrandNew20]

sorry man, hope that you can get things going alright.

[Tyler Revolution]

That sucks that you cheated on her. It really makes me mad when people cheat... I'm not ragging on you or anything, and I understand that you are sorry and you wish you could take it back, but damn, thats horrible.

[boysdontcry]

basically i was told by her friend that she cheated on me, so i was way pissed and i ended up hooking up with this girl i've been hanging out with lately. well i found out that my gf never cheated on me and so i completely fucked myself.

[Shellular]

I thought Shelly was going to be the maker of this thread.
why am i always the slut? it's so odd, that im totally not a slut at all.

[Shellular]

basically i was told by her friend that she cheated on me, so i was way pissed and i ended up hooking up with this girl i've been hanging out with lately. well i found out that my gf never cheated on me and so i completely fucked myself.
oh my hunny. i hope you're okay. if you need someone, im here.

[Mercy Medical]

basically i was told by her friend that she cheated on me, so i was way pissed and i ended up hooking up with this girl i've been hanging out with lately. well i found out that my gf never cheated on me and so i completely fucked myself.
I've learned over the past couple weeks to never believe what people say about other people, always go to the source first. This has nothing to do with a situation like yours, but lets just say my soccer team is a bunch of lying, manipulating bitches. :P

[venus/bacchus]

basically i was told by her friend that she cheated on me, so i was way pissed and i ended up hooking up with this girl i've been hanging out with lately. well i found out that my gf never cheated on me and so i completely fucked myself.
This is probably no consolation at all, but this is exactly like an episode of That 70's Show, and they end up getting back together after all the trauma.

Best of luck.

[Coronary Parasite]

basically i was told by her friend that she cheated on me, so i was way pissed and i ended up hooking up with this girl i've been hanging out with lately. well i found out that my gf never cheated on me and so i completely fucked myself.
did you sleep with the other girl...?

and if you have any hope of getting back together with her at all you should never speak to the other girl again as a show of good faith



and i'm not judging you at all, you know i love you awesome, but cheating man, bad :(

[boysdontcry]

i have never cheated on someone before and i hate people who do that so you can imagine how i feel when i actually do it.

[Coronary Parasite]

i have never cheated on someone before and i hate people who do that so you can imagine how i feel when i actually do it.
i'm sorry :(, i'm really sorry :(

[richter915]

i have never cheated on someone before and i hate people who do that so you can imagine how i feel when i actually do it.
geez man...shit does indeed happen...but you know...I'm sure one of the reasons you uhm "love" this girl is because she's forgiving...so don't give up on her...don't become her bitch but try and explain the whole thing...like...tell her flat out what happened and it was your own weakness that caused this disaster.

I'm sorry to say this but there's probably never gonna be a way to rebuild completely what you guys had...but that's my opinion...you never know until you've tried.

[Greg]

i've never cheated on anyone. but i've been cheated with someone.

[FallenFaerie013]

This is a tough situation but I think if mybe you explain the entire situation and tell her that people had told you that she cheated it would be better. I'm not saying it will fix everything because cheating is fucked up but I would try to tell her how much you care baout her and what you would do to make it up to her.
I'm sorry. I want to get back together with my ex too.

[punklet2101]

geez man...shit does indeed happen...but you know...I'm sure one of the reasons you uhm "love" this girl is because she's forgiving...so don't give up on her...don't become her bitch but try and explain the whole thing...like...tell her flat out what happened and it was your own weakness that caused this disaster.

I agree.

[Brit_Ben]

did you sleep with the other girl...?

:(

Dont think that matters at all, everyone seems so mad when u end up sleeping with someone else quickly but a fucks a fuck, a simple kiss can mean a thousand times more.

[punklet2101]

why am i always the slut?

That made me laugh :lol2:

[im_random]

geez man...shit does indeed happen...but you know...I'm sure one of the reasons you uhm "love" this girl is because she's forgiving...so don't give up on her...don't become her bitch but try and explain the whole thing...like...tell her flat out what happened and it was your own weakness that caused this disaster.

I'm sorry to say this but there's probably never gonna be a way to rebuild completely what you guys had...but that's my opinion...you never know until you've tried.

I'm with him..you have to get her to talk to you and listen to what happened. Does she know that you thought she cheated on you and that's why you did it? I definitely think you need to try to explain it to her.

I'm really sorry matt..I hope everything works out for you guys

[organizedchaos]

I'm feeling for ya. I want my ex back in the worst way, I miss him so much...and we're not together right now for basically the same reason. My best friend "pulled a Brooks" and kissed me in front of a bunch of his friends (my best friend is a guy who's had a crush on me for a while, and took advantage of the fact that my boyfriend and i were on a break) the boyfriends friends of course all are talking about what a slut i am (keep in mine, hes the one that kissed me, a peck, and i was shocked out of my mind) and basically everything is falling apart around me. I totally feel for ya kiddo.

[_astheruinfalls]

Explain it to her dude.

But yeah, did you fuck the girl? That could matter a lot.