aiight....this one is actually serious

[I<3mxpx]

OK ok...i know that most of you think that im a total *** jokester..who just posts pointless threads on here to be funny..but this time i really have a question. See today after school i told me gf that i love her...she means soo much to me and i do truly love her..i asked all my friends wat to do..and they all said if you truly feel it..say it. And thats wat i did...and when i told her she was like speechless..she couldnt say a word..i dont really know wat that means...weve only been going out 2 months exactly to this day..but the thing is that i have known her for over a year...and its not like i JUST met her..shes deffinatly not a stranger or anything to me..shes the world to me...and i love her...but i dont know wat her reaction means...i mean it could mean that she is really happy i love her or that shes kinda scared...so if yall could just gimmy your opinions..thanks lata

[Mercy Medical]

Simple answer:

Ask her what she thought....

[FallenFaerie013]

I agree I mean assk her how she feels but also tell her that she doesn't have to say anything you just wanted to know if she accepted and agreed on what you said.

[I<3mxpx]

well yea..right after i told her i asked her wat she thought and she was still speechless...and i did tell her that she doesnt have to say anything...srry i left that stuff out...

[Juliet R Delta]

easy: it freaked her out, she wasn't expecting it because she's not up to that point yet. She probably doesn't know how she feels about you like that. i mean, of course she likes you a lot, else she probably wouldn't still be dating you right? but how does she know if she likes you THAT much?
if things aren't weird or awkward, then don't worry too much, just act normal, and if she brings it up, tell her that's just the way you feel.

[punklet2101]

Yeah.. I agree ^^^

[SK_mo]

that sux man. i told one of my female friends that i loved her one day and we didn't speak for like 8 months. i think it's because i freaked her out and she wasn't expecting it. but i apologized the day before i left to bootcamp. and i didn't actually see her again til 3 weeks before i came out here. but this time she was a lot different.she tracked me down through some mutual friends and got my number.we talked a lot before i left and it was all really weird feeling. i still love her but i won't chase her anymore.

anyways, you may have scared her, but it'll all pass. she realize you care and who knows may or may not say it back. but something i've learned is that when you catch people off guard they either get really defensive or like your g/f they distance themselves/ or become quiet. hope this helps.

[vizo]

How old are you?

[venus/bacchus]

How old are you?
my guess is not nearly old nor mature enough to actually understand or comprehend love

[SK_mo]

my guess is not nearly old nor mature enough to actually understand or comprehend love
i'm 19 to answer the question and my definition of love is when you think/dream/ and live it all leads you to the one you love.when you hang out you can just look at them and they already know exactly what you're thinking before you say a word.When these feeling last for years and even though right now we've drifted apart, as soon as one of us sees the other we'll both go crazy. It's all been complicated because of the fact that I'm in the military, I've encouraged her to see other people so that, if she still wants to pursue something, it'll be for the long haul. like the saying goes "if you truely love someone, let them go." and even though it kills me to think of her with somebody else, I'm willing to accept it as long as we stay friends, because I care about her that much. There's a longer story behind it all, I didn't just say "oh, by the way i love you" there was reasoning behind it. I'm not holding anything against you cause when i read back what i said after i posted it i realized that unless you knew all the details it sounds completely retarded, but eh " ah serah, serah, what ever will be will be...."

[venus/bacchus]

I was talking about you, I was talking about the guy that made the thread.

[I<3mxpx]

Im 17

[MiNiSkIrTzRaWk]

she doesnt love you... life sucks like that.

[The Dove Song]

she doesnt love you... life sucks like that.
You're going to die a painful death one day and all anyone will have to say is 'Life sucks like that.'

[when 4ever ends]

that sux man. i told one of my female friends that i loved her one day and we didn't speak for like 8 months. i think it's because i freaked her out and she wasn't expecting it. but i apologized the day before i left to bootcamp. and i didn't actually see her again til 3 weeks before i came out here. but this time she was a lot different.she tracked me down through some mutual friends and got my number.we talked a lot before i left and it was all really weird feeling. i still love her but i won't chase her anymore.

anyways, you may have scared her, but it'll all pass. she realize you care and who knows may or may not say it back. but something i've learned is that when you catch people off guard they either get really defensive or like your g/f they distance themselves/ or become quiet. hope this helps.


dude i had the same thing happen to me. except..with out the bootcamp.

[SK_mo]

dude i had the same thing happen to me. except..with out the bootcamp.SUCKS DON'T IT? anyways the only thing the whole military thing did was uproot me and keep me away from her. Lucky for me though I'm stationed about an hour drive from home so i can drive home every night. it just all really sucks right now cause I'm deployed.

[PunkDrums182]

she doesnt love you... life sucks like that.
instead of making a new name couldnt you just actually leave. we're still going to hate you, and this name is worse then your old blink182tomchik one. go away.

[I<3mxpx]

Thanks punkdrums182 for backin me up..at least i think thats wat your doin..but thanks!...and by the way..im guessing you play drums..wat kinda kit do you gots?

[MaybeOneDay]

I hope the next box of cereal you buy has a razorblade in it/

[I<3mxpx]

well this is a final reply from me on this thread...today my gf dumped me..actually just a few minutes ago...i should have never told her that i loved her...i dont necessarily regret it..but i do wish i never said it cause i if i didnt then everything would be ok...ya know...just when i think i finally find someone to be with for a while...me showing her/telling her how i feel just ends up smacking me right in the face and tearing me apart. For once i thought that this girl would be something very special and actually treat me like a real bf...but i scared her to much..i thought that she would just not say it for a while and not even feel it for a while..but she said that she would never feel that way about me..i really dont know wat im going to do right now.....chill...sleep...eat....im slowly loosing the will to live right now...my life is in shambles.. :hanged:

[SonEric84]

Dude don't let it get you down too much, if she doesn't love you it's a good thing you found out now instead of her playing it out and letting the relationship continue, that would make it even harder. Yeah, it really sucks...but you'll find someone that does feel the same and this will all seem not so important.

[Joling]

well this is a final reply from me on this thread...today my gf dumped me..actually just a few minutes ago...i should have never told her that i loved her...i dont necessarily regret it..but i do wish i never said it cause i if i didnt then everything would be ok...ya know...just when i think i finally find someone to be with for a while...me showing her/telling her how i feel just ends up smacking me right in the face and tearing me apart. For once i thought that this girl would be something very special and actually treat me like a real bf...but i scared her to much..i thought that she would just not say it for a while and not even feel it for a while..but she said that she would never feel that way about me..i really dont know wat im going to do right now.....chill...sleep...eat....im slowly loosing the will to live right now...my life is in shambles.. :hanged:

fucking hell... You're right it does feel like it tears you apart but like soneric84 said don't let it get you down too much....

I agree it was a stupid thing to say girls like you to be intangible (if that's the right word it is in dutch though...). So learn and never do it again unless you wanna get married...

but you probably figured that out by now... the main thing now is that you should go out tonight, forget about her and look for all the other pretty girls around... or else you can get real drunk, and that's a great thing to do -normally- but I don't think that will solve anything;)

so keep you're head up... the world's a nice place to be :D:D

and I suggest you take your Tell All You're Friends cd and listen it till you drop.... that always makes me feel better anyways

[SCREAM5THE5EMO]

that sux man. i told one of my female friends that i loved her one day and we didn't speak for like 8 months. i think it's because i freaked her out and she wasn't expecting it. but i apologized the day before i left to bootcamp. and i didn't actually see her again til 3 weeks before i came out here. but this time she was a lot different.she tracked me down through some mutual friends and got my number.we talked a lot before i left and it was all really weird feeling. i still love her but i won't chase her anymore.

anyways, you may have scared her, but it'll all pass. she realize you care and who knows may or may not say it back. but something i've learned is that when you catch people off guard they either get really defensive or like your g/f they distance themselves/ or become quiet. hope this helps.


Aww :( That's so sad.

[PunkDrums182]

Thanks punkdrums182 for backin me up..at least i think thats wat your doin..but thanks!...and by the way..im guessing you play drums..wat kinda kit do you gots?
a shit kit (didnt mean to rhyme, but life works out like that) but im getting a Pacific Drums by DW kit for x-mas

[I<3mxpx]

[QUOTE=PunkDrums182]a shit kit (didnt mean to rhyme, but life works out like that) but im getting a Pacific Drums by DW kit for x-mas[/QUOT)

DUDE soo am i! actually im jus getting a better Pacific then i already got :lol2:

[I<3mxpx]

ok this is the last post..anywho..thanks for all of your like possitive support..umm like it was totally weird..but like at the exact moment my gf told me it was over..like all my feeling...care..love..went away..and you know wat i realized..i realized that the love i had for her was just a puppy love..yea its hard getting over it..but i have been feeling quite good lately tho..and im on the rebound soo thats ok i think.. :lol2:

[PunkDrums182]

cool.