this sucks

[justsomenumber]

ok, i got a story.... here it goes. i feel for a girl about a year and a half ago or so and my life went from "normal" to uber emo depressing. the thing is she knew i liked her alot for that time but always waited for me to say something while we were really good friends. she started to go out with a few other guys and i got really upset and depressed. but i couldnt say what i wanted to say to her just because i didnt wanna wreak our friendship. well anyways she started going out with this guy i didnt like. so when i went over to her house one day and found out she was going out with him, i freaked. i called her later, told her how i felt and she just said she always thought of me as her best friend and stuff. i was devistated. but then she sends me a text message saying she loves me but wants to see what happens with her current boyfriend. so im all pissed off, her boyfriend dumps her and she sad. so now were at the present. now im not sure if i should do anything about my feelings now because i might just be in for more hurt. i think shes waiting for me to do something about it but i just cant figure it out. any thoughts?

[SonEric84]

If you still really care about her you might as well give it a shot and see what happens. At the very least talk to her and see what she wants.

[Juliet R Delta]

^agreed, but at the same time, it sounds like you might have been part of the reason they broke up, so you might want to tread carefully. Maybe she freaked out at what you told her on the phone because no one REALLY expects to hear that kind of stuff from their friends, no matter if they actually want it to be that way or not... but then she thought about it, and now she's probably still a little confused or unsure... i mean, you told her when she was going out with someone else! What was she meant to do about it?
go and talk to her man, you've already told her how you feel, now you need to know how she's feeling NOW, after everything else that happened. Worse thing to happen would be she'd know you still like her. She knows that anyway, right?

[justsomenumber]

she knows how i feel. she told me she feels the same way but still kept going out with this guy until they broke up. i guess ill jus thave to talk to her again ans see what happens. she also said she doesnt want to hurt me. she said she was a bad person and a bad girlfriend which i refuse to believe she is a bad person. shes had a history of boyfriends whereas i have not had a girlfriend becaus ei guess im to emo for my own good :(