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TheSkyline
09/02/08, 04:50 PM
To were I have to post online in a music forum about my life. haha

Anyways. There's this girl I really want to ask to homecoming, but I'm not sure if I should ask her to go as just friends, or as a date. I mean, I asked her out like a year ago, and she said she liked someone else, but it's been a while and recently (this past summer) she's been hanging out a lot with me and she seems to be more attracted to me than usual.
I know if I ask her to go as friends, she'll say yes, but that's not really what I want. Advice?

I've already considered anal, but hey, why not mention it again, there's no stopping you guys. haha

Ailite
09/02/08, 04:54 PM
You should go for it. It sounds like you guys have a good friendship, approach it in the best manner possible and hope for the best.

argg_xo
09/02/08, 04:55 PM
you could always ask her to be your date and if she says no, ask her to go as friends. she might find your persistance cute.

TheSkyline
09/02/08, 05:07 PM
you could always ask her to be your date and if she says no, ask her to go as friends. she might find your persistance cute.

That's a good idea, I didn't think about that. Thanks!

argg_xo
09/02/08, 05:10 PM
That's a good idea, I didn't think about that. Thanks!

haha! you're welcome! hope it works out for you.

Spewk
09/02/08, 06:36 PM
Just ask her and let her decide which one it is!

eHaMpToN
09/02/08, 07:28 PM
anal.

ZoSo1886
09/02/08, 08:23 PM
anal.

/thread

Giant Broccoli
09/02/08, 08:26 PM
Don't sweat it you'll get the girl just Be upfront, let your intentions be known

spansen
09/02/08, 08:48 PM
don't date a friend!

becauseyouwant2
09/02/08, 08:50 PM
You seem like a good dude. I say you should go for it. Asking if she wants to go a friends is an awesome idea, though,

spansen
09/02/08, 08:52 PM
yeah, going as friends works.. but don't date. ha

coryatlarge
09/02/08, 11:43 PM
you could try asking her to a little less public date. like a movie or something before homecoming. idk just a suggestion

Hamlet
09/03/08, 12:08 AM
you could always ask her to be your date and if she says no, ask her to go as friends. she might find your persistance cute.

No she won't, she'll see it as neediness, which is not attractive at all.

Just grab your balls and ask her out already.

brandnew=love
09/03/08, 12:29 AM
To were I have to post online in a music forum about my life. haha

Anyways. There's this girl I really want to ask to homecoming, but I'm not sure if I should ask her to go as just friends, or as a date. I mean, I asked her out like a year ago, and she said she liked someone else, but it's been a while and recently (this past summer) she's been hanging out a lot with me and she seems to be more attracted to me than usual.
I know if I ask her to go as friends, she'll say yes, but that's not really what I want. Advice?

I've already considered anal, but hey, why not mention it again, there's no stopping you guys. haha
idk if she's a friend... ehh? maybe you can ask her as a friend and then like during a dance or something tell her how you feel and see where it lands?

TheSkyline
09/03/08, 12:35 PM
anal.

Thanks..

No she won't, she'll see it as neediness, which is not attractive at all.

Just grab your balls and ask her out already.

I did, and she said yes, as a date.

I sir have balls.

HandsLikeGuns
09/03/08, 01:02 PM
you could always ask her to be your date and if she says no, ask her to go as friends. she might find your persistance cute.

thats the dumbest thing ive ever heard. if she said no the first time to a date, do you really think she assumes that youre really fine going as friends. obviously she knows you have feelings for her, she said no for a reason, do you think shed be comfortable going just as friends with a guy who she doesnt have feelings for, but likes her

anyway, congratulations man. very happy for you

atticus1492
09/03/08, 01:23 PM
OMG is that a guitar in your avatar?

TheSkyline
09/03/08, 02:08 PM
OMG is that a guitar in your avatar?

Yeah, the one I'm building.

Yeah, I know he's kidding with me, I just felt like being serious. haha

pyrospartan
09/04/08, 06:13 PM
Just don't get into the friend zone. If you really like her and ask her as a date and she says no.. honestly don't get your hopes up "/

i tried that for homecoming and prom last year. Ended up getting hurt more than if i would have just not gone.

Edit: damn i didn't see the post about she saying yes.

thesteve9x
09/04/08, 07:19 PM
Finally some results, good job.

Congrats, and now work on the anal.

Willy McFurgle
09/04/08, 07:29 PM
tranquilize her and make her your puppet like date. What Would Bernie Do?

http://www.videodetective.com/photos/066/002790_18.jpg

TheSkyline
09/04/08, 07:32 PM
Finally some results, good job.

Congrats, and now work on the anal.

tranquilize her and make her your puppet like date. What Would Bernie Do?

http://www.videodetective.com/photos/066/002790_18.jpg

There's my answer.

mattmatumbo
09/05/08, 01:10 PM
don't date a friend!

true true true

you could always ask her to be your date and if she says no, ask her to go as friends. she might find your persistance cute.

or stalker-esque

deathbatgurl
09/11/08, 04:25 PM
To were I have to post online in a music forum about my life. haha

Anyways. There's this girl I really want to ask to homecoming, but I'm not sure if I should ask her to go as just friends, or as a date. I mean, I asked her out like a year ago, and she said she liked someone else, but it's been a while and recently (this past summer) she's been hanging out a lot with me and she seems to be more attracted to me than usual.
I know if I ask her to go as friends, she'll say yes, but that's not really what I want. Advice?

I've already considered anal, but hey, why not mention it again, there's no stopping you guys. haha
ask her 2 homecoming, see how that goes, and tell her what u really want. take it slow

TheSkyline
09/11/08, 04:46 PM
ask her 2 homecoming, see how that goes, and tell her what u really want. take it slow

It's a probably a good idea to read the thread before you post.

I already did.

kaycey
09/11/08, 05:04 PM
That's a good idea, I didn't think about that. Thanks!
really tempted to say lana but idunno i was in the same position your in right now about 1 year back , anyway long story short, the second time i asked her she said yes.i hate her now, but thats something else.