need help!

[BringPunkback]

hey man. usually i post to help others out. but i actually need help!
so i guess first things first...ive been single for about 9 months....i had to move away from my gf. so there was no hard feeling break ups...just a casual.."well, i guess this is it"....but the thing is that i actually love her and i still love her as much as i did when i still was with her. she totally changed my life and all that stuff...but i wont get into that...the point is ive technically been able to see other girls, but i just have had no interest at all in anyone else. she hasnt had another bf, and she wont for a long time...i always dream of the day we will be together again...and it seems so far from now. but the thing is...is 9 months later...im having feelings for another girl. dont get me wrong, these feelings are NOTHING like the ones i have for the girl i moved from....but theyre still strong. my point is that i would be fine with dating other girls...but it feels like once i do...things are actually officially over with the girl i moved from. and i know that when she finds out i have another gf...it will hurt her big time...i DO NOT want to do that. And i also think that it wouldnt be fair to the girl i would date...because she would never be able to fill her shoes.
i really dont kno wat to do. its just been so long i want a gf. but i also think she is worth waiting for.

[Juliet R Delta]

Hell, if its been 9 months and you're still in love with her... you need to let her know, first of all. Have you been in contact with her since you left? It's so damn easy to fall or stay in love with someone who's only been around in your head.
You need to know where you guys are at... because if you have been in touch and you have such strong feelings for her... maybe you should follow your heart and at least try for a long distance thing... if you really love each other you should be able to make it work, or you can at least try.

[sleepygrlgreen]

hey man. usually i post to help others out. but i actually need help!
so i guess first things first...ive been single for about 9 months....i had to move away from my gf. so there was no hard feeling break ups...just a casual.."well, i guess this is it"....but the thing is that i actually love her and i still love her as much as i did when i still was with her. she totally changed my life and all that stuff...but i wont get into that...the point is ive technically been able to see other girls, but i just have had no interest at all in anyone else. she hasnt had another bf, and she wont for a long time...i always dream of the day we will be together again...and it seems so far from now. but the thing is...is 9 months later...im having feelings for another girl. dont get me wrong, these feelings are NOTHING like the ones i have for the girl i moved from....but theyre still strong. my point is that i would be fine with dating other girls...but it feels like once i do...things are actually officially over with the girl i moved from. and i know that when she finds out i have another gf...it will hurt her big time...i DO NOT want to do that. And i also think that it wouldnt be fair to the girl i would date...because she would never be able to fill her shoes.
i really dont kno wat to do. its just been so long i want a gf. but i also think she is worth waiting for.


i'm in a long distance relationship...have been for almost seventeen months. if you two sincerely love one another..and know that if you do try a LDR ..there IS a good possibility of you two ending up together...then i'd wait. i know how difficult it is to not be able to kiss her or hug her..or just see her, but sometimes it is worth it. good luck dude.

[richter915]

i'm in a long distance relationship...have been for almost seventeen months. if you two sincerely love one another..and know that if you do try a LDR ..there IS a good possibility of you two ending up together...then i'd wait. i know how difficult it is to not be able to kiss her or hug her..or just see her, but sometimes it is worth it. good luck dude.
no...it's hard for those relationships to work...you're gay shut your face!

[Bikeage]

no...it's hard for those relationships to work...you're gay shut your face!

or just take your dad's nearest shotgun and kill everybody you see, that normally helps my problems

[richter915]

or just take your dad's nearest shotgun and kill everybody you see, that normally helps my problems
haha...ya that's why you're you and no one cares.

sleepygrlgreen...you have to stop being so sexy...for serious now.

[Lets Deja Vu]

hey man. usually i post to help others out. but i actually need help!
so i guess first things first...ive been single for about 9 months....i had to move away from my gf. so there was no hard feeling break ups...just a casual.."well, i guess this is it"....but the thing is that i actually love her and i still love her as much as i did when i still was with her. she totally changed my life and all that stuff...but i wont get into that...the point is ive technically been able to see other girls, but i just have had no interest at all in anyone else. she hasnt had another bf, and she wont for a long time...i always dream of the day we will be together again...and it seems so far from now. but the thing is...is 9 months later...im having feelings for another girl. dont get me wrong, these feelings are NOTHING like the ones i have for the girl i moved from....but theyre still strong. my point is that i would be fine with dating other girls...but it feels like once i do...things are actually officially over with the girl i moved from. and i know that when she finds out i have another gf...it will hurt her big time...i DO NOT want to do that. And i also think that it wouldnt be fair to the girl i would date...because she would never be able to fill her shoes.
i really dont kno wat to do. its just been so long i want a gf. but i also think she is worth waiting for.


I have been in this kinda situation before, its kinda simple. What you want to do is stick with the first love, always and forever. Sit down, take her to dinner. You need to talk to her, find out her feelings.

[sleepygrlgreen]

haha...ya that's why you're you and no one cares.

sleepygrlgreen...you have to stop being so sexy...for serious now.


only if you stop stalking me!!! but uhm... you're pretty darn sexy yourself mister. hm....maybe you shouldn't stop stalking me.. ::turned on::

[wendjiqn]

Bump.