Girl problems

[hockeyguitar99]

I apologize for boring you all with this but I could use some advice. I asked this girl that I really liked to homecoming, and she said yes. So after that i was on top of the world, and was planning to make our relationship official after the dance. A few days ago I found out that she had no real interest in dating. Obviously this has been hard on me, but I dont really know what to do, is there anything I can do to get her to like me? Any real advice would be helpful.

[hockeyguitar99]

Anal

There I said it for you, now advice please.

[OveriseFan]

Get more attractive.

It worked for me.

[fulltiltxb00gie]

Get more attractive.

It worked for me.
this.


or just show her how awesome you are at the dance.

[spansen]

again, you're young, better things'll come.

[Burning Star IV]

Turn down the suck.

/thread

[.invisible ink.]

be yourself, but sort of be an asshole (not a major one, only slightly) and she'll probably end up falling head over heels for you. At least she's going to the dance with you so you have a chance to win her over.

[a_money]

just be yourself. find out what she likes, strike up a conversation about a band you both like. have fun! don't take anything too seriously. and this is cliché, but if she's a bitch, she's not worth any of your time. no matter how hot she is or how much you like her.

[Jessooker]

you can't get someone to like you just because you want them to.

[Yes. And?]

This Underoath shit still going on??

[Jessooker]

unfortunately. seeing the same avatar is annoying.

[Smash Adams]

if you having girl problems I feel bad for you son
I've got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one

[hockeyguitar99]

This Underoath shit still going on??

Unfortunately it is, I know I'm part of the problem, but I don't want to pay for Rock Band 2.

[hockeyguitar99]

you can't get someone to like you just because you want them to.

I know, but what can I do that would help my chances.

[Praetor]

Show her this thread.

Will increase your cool factor 100x. Truth.

[Jessooker]

Show her this thread.

Will increase your cool factor 100x. Truth.

he's right.

[kaycey]

do it !

[mynameisX]

if you having girl problems I feel bad for you son
I've got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one


Hahaha, thanks.

[OdeToTheSun]

unfortunately. seeing the same avatar is annoying.
Which is why i've had mine changed for like a week now.

[thespearkid]

Stop liking Underoath. Girls like guys who don't like shitty music.

[James_Brand]

How did you find out she wasn't interested in dating? Because even if she said she would never date you, there is a little bit of a lie in that. She did agree to let you take her out on a date.(Didn’t she? Did you ask to go as friends?) But it depends on who told you this. Her friends might not like you (with her or at all) so they lied to you. Same with your friends.

Here's a little story for you, to help you understand something:
Once upon a time there was this guy. He liked this girl at his college who had a boyfriend. They became friends and drank and partied all the time together.

Summer came around and she broke up with her boyfriend. That was awesome because she lived an hour away. She said she didn't want to be in a relationship. That sucked.

So they hung out all summer and the guy didn't try anything because she said she didn't want a relationship. So school starts up and they continue on their drinking and partying and she starts dating the guy she broke up with at the beginning of summer. Then one night when they get drunk together she tells me that she would have been so happy to have been in a relationship with me and that was why she broke up with her boyfriend. But I never made a move because I wanted a relationship.

Moral: Try anyways. The worst thing that could happen is she says no and then you hook up with her sister the next year when she starts going to the same college. Total coincidence. Not because you wanted to get back at her. I swear.

[fadedmemories]

Read Twilight

[Zachals]

if you having girl problems I feel bad for you son
I've got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one
my first thought

[scmaley]

I know, but what can I do that would help my chances.

Have you tried talking to her? You're pretty funny, at least when you post. If she doesn't have a good sense of humor and you still like her--try giving her flowers. Girls love those.

[scmaley]

Read Twilight

Lol! Did you do that? That's a pretty good idea.

[schaft0620]

I apologize for boring you all with this but I could use some advice. I asked this girl that I really liked to homecoming, and she said yes. So after that i was on top of the world, and was planning to make our relationship official after the dance. A few days ago I found out that she had no real interest in dating. Obviously this has been hard on me, but I dont really know what to do, is there anything I can do to get her to like me? Any real advice would be helpful.


I have a good one for you. Be your self if she likes you for whom you really are you are going to be in a long sex filled relationship with this girl. If you be your self and dont act nervous and dont try too hard to get her in the back seat of your dads car she will respect you for it. show this girl a good time and she will remember it. Even if things dont work out maybe in the future donw the road she will remember the good times with you. If not fuck her man you were you for a full night of fun if she doesnt like you after acting your normal self this girl would never be in a working relationship with you anyway.

[atticus1492]

You will be alone for the rest of your life.

[Giant Broccoli]

Keep your simp hand strong

[SoggY ThE OnE]

show her your balls.

Now this could be a problem for some, but don't be discouraged by your size. Trust me. It works!

[pshh]

Tell her you asked the internet for advice

[Jesse00]

just show her a good time. yea, and take it from me, don't feel the need to try to find lots of common ground or similar interests. if you overdo it, you will look too eager to please (it's happened to me). you can actually use differences as fodder. light teasing is always a plus. but most of all, if she doesn't go for you, don't take it personally. and have fun.

[desipunk7]

man, all u gotta do is let her know you like her, but then not be too aggressive about it...see how it works itself out.

[bigblue2015]

if you having girl problems I feel bad for you son
I've got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one

I came in here to say this, but I figured that in 31 posts someone would have jumped on it. I was right.

[Yes. And?]

if you having girl problems I feel bad for you son
I've got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one

Show her this thread.

Will increase your cool factor 100x. Truth.

Stop liking Underoath. Girls like guys who don't like shitty music.

Read Twilight

You will be alone for the rest of your life.Listen to these posts.

[bobby runs]

again, you're young, better things'll come.
/thread

trust me in my few more years of girls. its all you can do. honestly thats how it is. it sucks but thats life.

[HelpMeSleep]

Read Twilight
I wasn't a huge fan of the Edward Cullen romantics to be honest. I didn't think that the book got to the point where it was really good until she got to meet the vampire fam and the action started.

actually at times, I thought the super romantic things Edward said were slightly sickening and if a guy I just started dating said something like "you are my life now" to me, I'd freak the fuck out.
this is why I'll die alone I'm sure.

that said, I actually really enjoyed the book. I'm reading New Moon right now and I'm only 130 pages in and I'm not loving it. I hope it picks up.

and to the OP, try anyway but not to the point where you look desperate. show her a good time at homecoming and make sure you look cute that night.

[fadedmemories]

I wasn't a huge fan of the Edward Cullen romantics to be honest. I didn't think that the book got to the point where it was really good until she got to meet the vampire fam and the action started.

actually at times, I thought the super romantic things Edward said were slightly sickening and if a guy I just started dating said something like "you are my life now" to me, I'd freak the fuck out.
this is why I'll die alone I'm sure.

that said, I actually really enjoyed the book. I'm reading New Moon right now and I'm only 130 pages in and I'm not loving it. I hope it picks up.

Exactly how I felt about the book
Lol! Did you do that? That's a pretty good idea.
Yup :-)

[HelpMeSleep]

Exactly how I felt about the book
:highfive:

did you read any of the other books in the series?

[Paulb-182]

Anal

There I said it for you, now advice please.

whats homecoming??

is it important

[HelpMeSleep]

whats homecoming??

is it important
do you not have homecoming in england??

it's like a semi-formal dance at the beginning of the year, not quite as dressy as prom or ball. and there's always except in the case of my senior year lol a big home football game which tons of alumnis and kids who graduated come to. and the whole week has activities and it's a big competition between the classes. at my school, we had skits and building decorations and I know other schools in our league did floats instead. and then of course on friday everyone wears their class colors and there's a big rally. oh and they announce a homecoming king and queen and princes and princesses for every class.

[_Andrew]

do you not have homecoming in england??

it's like a semi-formal dance at the beginning of the year, not quite as dressy as prom or ball. and there's always except in the case of my senior year lol a big home football game which tons of alumnis and kids who graduated come to. and the whole week has activities and it's a big competition between the classes. at my school, we had skits and building decorations and I know other schools in our league did floats instead. and then of course on friday everyone wears their class colors and there's a big rally. oh and they announce a homecoming king and queen and princes and princesses for every class.

that is sooo American lol... I thought such concepts were just over done in movies/tv shows, guess not.

We don't have such a thing either... lol

[HelpMeSleep]

that is sooo American lol... I thought such concepts were just over done in movies/tv shows, guess not.

We don't have such a thing either... lol
haha. really? nope, that's how it is out here anyway lol.

[_Andrew]

haha. really? nope, that's how it is out here anyway lol.

really really haha...

I think it's just you guys and maybe the Canadians (?) that do that... could be wrong though, gotta admit... the movies and stuff do make it look pretty cool.

[Paulb-182]

do you not have homecoming in england??

it's like a semi-formal dance at the beginning of the year, not quite as dressy as prom or ball. and there's always except in the case of my senior year lol a big home football game which tons of alumnis and kids who graduated come to. and the whole week has activities and it's a big competition between the classes. at my school, we had skits and building decorations and I know other schools in our league did floats instead. and then of course on friday everyone wears their class colors and there's a big rally. oh and they announce a homecoming king and queen and princes and princesses for every class.

no, nothing like that at all haha

i thought when we had a prom at the end of high school it was a bit much! :P

sounds good fun though, there wasnt much of it to be had at my school haha

[_Andrew]

oh yeah we do have "prom" but it's called a "formal" over here... and there's no prom "Queen" or "King"

[HelpMeSleep]

really really haha...

I think it's just you guys and maybe the Canadians (?) that do that... could be wrong though, gotta admit... the movies and stuff do make it look pretty cool.
no, nothing like that at all haha

i thought when we had a prom at the end of high school it was a bit much! :P

sounds good fun though, there wasnt much of it to be had at my school haha
haha. it's so weird. I never thought about the fact that you guys don't do that. the dance is alright, the best part of that is getting dressed up and looking cute. the rivalry between the classes and the skits and building decorations and rallys and stuff are the best part. I kind of miss it. senior homecoming was the best ever except for our big game got cancelled.

[HelpMeSleep]

oh yeah we do have "prom" but it's called a "formal" over here... and there's no prom "Queen" or "King"
actually we didn't have prom kings or queens either, just homecoming. and we had senior favorites, a boy and a girl that everyone voted for in different categories at the end of the year. the only category I had any chance of winning was "most likely to be late to graduation" which I got a pretty good amount of votes for haha.

[Paulb-182]

haha. it's so weird. I never thought about the fact that you guys don't do that. the dance is alright, the best part of that is getting dressed up and looking cute. the rivalry between the classes and the skits and building decorations and rallys and stuff are the best part. I kind of miss it. senior homecoming was the best ever except for our big game got cancelled.

i think were too lazy in england to get excited for it and make floats and things like that haha

we just sit :)

[HelpMeSleep]

i think were too lazy in england to get excited for it and make floats and things like that haha

we just sit :)
haha. I'm all for being lazy, I'm pretty sure I'm the laziest person I know. but homecoming week was always worth it for me :]

[_Andrew]

actually we didn't have prom kings or queens either, just homecoming. and we had senior favorites, a boy and a girl that everyone voted for in different categories at the end of the year. the only category I had any chance of winning was "most likely to be late to graduation" which I got a pretty good amount of votes for haha.

haha nicely done... yeah we don't do stuff like that.. although something tells me we should do something similar over here... oh well too late for me.

[Paulb-182]

haha nicely done... yeah we don't do stuff like that.. although something tells me we should do something similar over here... oh well too late for me.

and me

im stuck in the terrible world of work :/

although i went to a prom the other month for a girl i know who was leaving school

was just as boring as mine :P

[m_rue]

It sucks, but there's no sure-fire way to get someone to like you when they don't. Of course it's possible they could grow to like you, but obviously nothing is gauranteed. Your best bet is just moving on or you could try to become closer to her as friends and maybe things become more. If not, at least you have another friend. :shrug:

[fadedmemories]

:highfive:

did you read any of the other books in the series?
I just started reading New Moon

[HelpMeSleep]

I just started reading New Moon
me too. I'm like 150+ pages in.

[fadedmemories]

me too. I'm like 150+ pages in.
I'm 120+ pages in, I want to finish the whole series by the time the movie comes out :-)

[HelpMeSleep]

I'm 120+ pages in, I want to finish the whole series by the time the movie comes out :-)
when does the movie come out? and is it going to be for the whole series or just for the first book?

I think this book gets off to a really bad start. I really didn't like it until the point I'm at right now.

[fadedmemories]

when does the movie come out? and is it going to be for the whole series or just for the first book?

I think this book gets off to a really bad start. I really didn't like it until the point I'm at right now.
The movie comes out on November 21, I don't know if they'll make movies for the whole series though

[Chris Fallon]

I think your first mistake was thinking you two were going to date just because you would be going to a dance together. Rookie mistake.

[kaycey]

Anal

There I said it for you, now advice please.
your supposed to say it like this now - lanA

[mynameisX]

your supposed to say it like this now - lanA


I know a girl named Lana. I laugh every time I see her write her name. Thanks, PL forum.

[fadedmemories]

I know a girl named Lana. I laugh every time I see her write her name. Thanks, PL forum.
Me too, now everything feel's different

[hockeyguitar99]

I think your first mistake was thinking you two were going to date just because you would be going to a dance together. Rookie mistake.

It was more of a wish than a thought.

[ParkwayDrive]

BJ's work

[riot_gurl]

I apologize for boring you all with this but I could use some advice. I asked this girl that I really liked to homecoming, and she said yes. So after that i was on top of the world, and was planning to make our relationship official after the dance. A few days ago I found out that she had no real interest in dating. Obviously this has been hard on me, but I dont really know what to do, is there anything I can do to get her to like me? Any real advice would be helpful.

the best thing u can do rite now, is 2 B urself. i mean, the chix i know lyk guys who r confident and themselves. so just hold ur head up high and B urself. good luck.

[fadedmemories]

the best thing u can do rite now, is 2 B urself. i mean, the chix i know lyk guys who r confident and themselves. so just hold ur head up high and B urself. good luck.
She's got epic spelling skills

[hockeyguitar99]

She's got epic spelling skills

Thats what I was gonna say.

[Jeremy Aaron]

First off, do not be all about her at the dance. You definitely want to pay attention to her and you don't want to ignore her, but be casual. If you act at all like it's a big night for you or that she's the greatest thing ever, you're going to lose. If she's a particularly attractive girl, she's used to guys competing for her attention. You don't want to be another one of those guys.

Also, find little things to make fun of her about or make some type of negative comment. I would normally suggest targeting something she's wearing, but at a dance, that may not be such a good idea, because her choice of dress probably took time and consideration. You don't want to go for something that's going to be a really insulting. You want to be more in the realm of teasing. Again, pretty girls get tons of compliments from guys and are not used to hearing negative things about themselves. This sets off a cognitive dissonance that makes them much more interested in you. They figure you must have really high standards. Suddenly, they're looking at you like a prize to win rather than the other way around.