Beauty is in the eye...

[sleepygrlgreen]

I probably sound like a hippy, but what do you consider beautiful? (As far as people go...inside and out)

[Chemical Love]

good looks are a plus. but they have to have a personality that i can get along with. good looks dont mean anything if shes an airhead.

[sweethypocrisy]

big tits.

[selftitled85]

good looks are a plus. but they have to have a personality that i can get along with. good looks dont mean anything if shes an airhead.


i like cute girls with personality. looks can only get you so far with me. if i cant have an intelligent convo with you, there will be problems.

[Lueda Alia]

I know a lot will proabbly not believe this, but I'm not very shallow. If at all actually. Even my mom is more so than I am. And she's always making comments about the guys I like. I seem to ignore looks a lot if someone is not my type of person, I just don't care how hot you may be. If youre someone I can only drool over, then dating isn't exactly on the list.

All my friends think that most of my ex boyfriends are "okay" looking or "cute", only very few that they'd call good looking, so they always try to hook me up with guys that are very good looking because as they say, "you need to date someone that's good looking!".. I don't get it. Is it really that bad that I don't care much about looks? I'd date someone ok looking if I find his personality really attractive cause then he'd be so much hotter to me, looks wise too. So yeah. I mean, looks are a bonus, of course, but I could care less either way, as long as I like his personality.

[sleepygrlgreen]

I know a lot will proabbly not believe this, but I'm not very shallow. If at all actually. Even my mom is more so than I am. And she's always making comments about the guys I like. I seem to ignore looks a lot if someone is not my type of person, I just don't care how hot you may be. If youre someone I can only drool over, then dating isn't exactly on the list.

All my friends think that most of my ex boyfriends are "okay" looking or "cute", only very few that they'd call good looking, so they always try to hook me up with guys that are very good looking because as they say, "you need to date someone that's good looking!".. I don't get it. Is it really that bad that I don't care much about looks? I'd date someone ok looking if I find his personality really attractive cause then he'd be so much hotter to me, looks wise too. So yeah. I mean, looks are a bonus, of course, but I could care less either way, as long as I like his personality.

yeah, i'm the same way. looks definitely mean the least to me. they're not going to look that way forever. personality on the other hand, stays with that person for a long time, if not until death. like you said, good looks are a plus, but not important. i mean...you DO need to have some sort of physical attraction towards a person ... but that also increases as you get to know the person.

[MaybeOneDay]

I like somebody I can hang out with all the time and not get bored. Someone who can hold a conversation easily. The most important thing to me though is a girl who knows how to have fun. If you're one of those people who looks on the bright sides of everything in life, then your my type. I can't take those girls who worry about their looks constantly either. Looks aren't everything. Of course they help, but personality means so much more. Someone who's fun to talk to and makes you happy when you talk to them. Easy-going girls are the best. That's what makes a chick beautiful.

[Chemical Love]

I like somebody I can hang out with all the time and not get bored. Someone who can hold a conversation easily. The most important thing to me though is a girl who knows how to have fun. If you're one of those people who looks on the bright sides of everything in life, then your my type. I can't take those girls who worry about their looks constantly either. Looks aren't everything. Of course they help, but personality means so much more. Someone who's fun to talk to and makes you happy when you talk to them. Easy-going girls are the best. That's what makes a chick beautiful.


i agree with you on that.

[catastrophe13]

if we're being shallow, then noses. i have a thing for noses. i like them big and...interesting. i can't really explain it.
that, of course, ends up meaning that i find myself attracted to guys that a lot of other people wouldn't necessarily call good looking. but i like them. i don't like the typical good looks.
but, of course, personality matters a lot. if i don't like a guys personality, he could have the coolest nose in the world and i still wouldn't be attracted to him.

[mondeoman]

Hmm well I'd have to agree with what has mostly been said. I, for one, haven't always gone for the most obviously good looking girl. Personality and compatibilty are my biggies but I still like girls who are good looking.
I def don't like slutty girls. I mean girls can look nice if they dress a little sexy but no need to look like a street walker.
I really like small girls, small nice dressing emo-indie girls.
Oh yeah and girls who have good taste in music is a HUGE plus for me.

[MaybeOneDay]

Erich made a good point I agree with. Music taste is definately a hardcore plus.

[Bishop]

Well I actually have a thing for hispanic girls, I don't know what it is but I just find a good number of them to be extremely beautiful and the other thing is that they are very passionate so when your fighting it's yelling, and hitting and slamming and everything but when your making out or something more, it's just pure passion.

I also like a girl who doesn't need to be attached to me constantly, or needs me to call everyday and talk about nothing, because I'm just incapable of doing that and rather call to just go and watch a movie or something. That's another thing, I don't want a girl who feels she has to keep on talking all the time or have a conversation constantly because silence and still being there and completely comfortable with that person is the most intimate way that you can be involved.

If she has good tastes in music that's a definete plus.

I find that I love girls with black hair or hair that is really dark, it makes them seem mysterious and alluring.

I also like girls with ghetto booty.

Boobs are not everything to me, all I need is a handful and I'm a happy camper.

[Lueda Alia]

Well I actually have a thing for hispanic girls, I don't know what it is but I just find a good number of them to be extremely beautiful and the other thing is that they are very passionate so when your fighting it's yelling, and hitting and slamming and everything but when your making out or something more, it's just pure passion.

I also like a girl who doesn't need to be attached to me constantly, or needs me to call everyday and talk about nothing, because I'm just incapable of doing that and rather call to just go and watch a movie or something. That's another thing, I don't want a girl who feels she has to keep on talking all the time or have a conversation constantly because silence and still being there and completely comfortable with that person is the most intimate way that you can be involved.

If she has good tastes in music that's a definete plus.

I find that I love girls with black hair or hair that is really dark, it makes them seem mysterious and alluring.

I also like girls with ghetto booty.

Boobs are not everything to me, all I need is a handful and I'm a happy camper.

well shat! I'm not hispanic, I don't have a ghetto booty (if I have one at all!!) and I don't have big ( . v . )s either!! Dang it! I'm off the list! :(

[Bishop]

I'd probably make an exception for you.

Just because your nice to me.

[Greg]

i have to hang out with a girl before i ask her out. if it's gonna be about action then we won't be dating. if we can go to like starbucks and have great conversations i will probably end up asking her out. if we just sit there looking at each other.... i wont call her to go out again. well as a date. ill still talk with her in groups and such. but sometimes 1 on 1 things dont work at all.

[brandnewtbs23]

mature chicks that will accually care about me

[Greg]

that means college chicks.... thats what ive come to realize. high school girls just dont work for me. college women... god i can talk to her for hours...

[Lueda Alia]

that means college chicks.... thats what ive come to realize. high school girls just dont work for me. college women... god i can talk to her for hours...
some girls in high school are mature too. it depends on the person, not on the age. I know college guys who are so freakin mature.

[Greg]

some girls in high school are mature too. it depends on the person, not on the age. I know college guys who are so freakin mature.

you mean college guys immature? if so yea... i agree. i dont think the majority of guys ever really mature. they just learn when to shut up and act serious. but they are still way immature.

but yea some high school girls are mature. but they are all taken. and im not interfering with anymore relationships. been there, done that, had it blow up in my face. id rather go for someone (of any age) thats mature and actually cares about me. and right now thats college girls.

[sleepygrlgreen]

a lot of college girls are also total sluts.

[Greg]

a lot of college girls are also total sluts.

not the ones im interested in.... but i have to agree. just look at girls gone wild and college humor.

[sleepygrlgreen]

indeed. although richter may disagree at times, i think that i'm pretty mature for a 17 year old. at least as far as relationships are concerned. i have no interest in just bullshitting around. i'm either in a relationship or i'm not, and if i am in one, i'm going to give it all that i've got.

uhm...heh, i'm just starting to rant now. :: shuts up::

[LoyalSubject]

I'm not going to lie, looks are pretty important. Your first judgement of everyone you meet is based on looks. Although I believe once you start talking to them it's all about personality. I have to be able to have intelligent conversations but also be able to sit in complete silence.

[JoshCool7717]

I think when it rains the outside wonders of the world look beautiful.

[ohlookitspaul]

adriana lima?


but really, a personality is cool.

[MaybeOneDay]

a lot of college girls are also total sluts.
...and there is aboslutely nothing wrong with that.

[ohlookitspaul]

a lot of college girls are also total sluts.
collegehumor and girls gone wild give college girls a bad reputation.

[charly horse]

At first looks are important. i'm not gonna lie, the first thing I look for is looks. But like someone else said, that if those hotties are total jerks I probably wont have any feelings for them. If I'm not attracted to the person physically it just wont work out for me. Sometimes their personality makes them more physically attractive. Looks wise I like torsos and hair. Personality wise I like guys with good taste in music, a sense of humor(you got to make me laugh), and i like romantics. :)

[BuriedAlive]

believe it or not but the girl im dating (though i did go to school with her for 2 years in 7th and 8th grade almost two years ago) now we rekindled what we had on the phone. i just need a girl with a great personality and a sweet smile.

[charly horse]

You know what would be good about you chris. If you were older. You're soooo young, i don't like it. Not at all.

[BuriedAlive]

You know what would be good about you chris. If you were older. You're soooo young, i don't like it. Not at all.
yeah but im not mentally young. heh.

[charly horse]

I know, thats why I always forget you're so young.

[BuriedAlive]

ill be 16 on the 28th!

[charly horse]

Happy birthday. i'll be 18 in 10 months.

[BuriedAlive]

thank you babe.

[charly horse]

No problema.

[sleepygrlgreen]

collegehumor and girls gone wild give college girls a bad reputation.


the thing is... it's not just those tv shows that gave me that notion. i know some people who go to college and they've told me. from roommates who leave used condoms on the ground to girls that are all for the one nighters. and ya, it may be fun for a little bit, but they're still sluts. of course not all college girls are...but a good deal of them are.

[Bishop]

the thing is... it's not just those tv shows that gave me that notion. i know some people who go to college and they've told me. from roommates who leave used condoms on the ground to girls that are all for the one nighters. and ya, it may be fun for a little bit, but they're still sluts. of course not all college girls are...but a good deal of them are.

And that's why I love them. And having sex with them.

[sleepygrlgreen]

And that's why I love them. And having sex with them.


:: siiiiigh:: what happened to guys liking sweet, wholesome girls that don't suck a guy off on the first date?

[Bishop]

Oh no, don't get me wrong, I love sex. But if I met a girl who I thought was amazing enough I would wait for her until marriage or until she felt comfortable enough in our relationship.

[richter915]

I probably sound like a hippy, but what do you consider beautiful? (As far as people go...inside and out)
is this cause I called you ugly the other day? god fucking dammit. whatever.

all I care about is looks...even if you make me laugh, listen to me, share everything in common with me...if you don't look perfect I'll hate you forever. I epitomize everything evil in society.

fuck me.

[sleepygrlgreen]

is this cause I called you ugly the other day? god fucking dammit. whatever.

all I care about is looks...even if you make me laugh, listen to me, share everything in common with me...if you don't look perfect I'll hate you forever. I epitomize everything evil in society.

fuck me.


dude come on... i was being an ass the other day. i was having one of those "i am crap" days and i took you too seriously. i'm sorry. please don't be mad... i know you're not like that and i know how you feel towards me. er...

[richter915]

dude come on... i was being an ass the other day. i was having one of those "i am crap" days and i took you too seriously. i'm sorry. please don't be mad... i know you're not like that and i know how you feel towards me. er...
it doesn't matter, it's not about being sorry. just drop it, it's fine. I'm ok.

the truth about how I feel about looks and all: I don't care for people, I'm slowly becoming a misanthropic recluse and being with others except for my brother means shit to me. So looks as well as personality mean shit.

[sleepygrlgreen]

it doesn't matter, it's not about being sorry. just drop it, it's fine. I'm ok.

the truth about how I feel about looks and all: I don't care for people, I'm slowly becoming a misanthropic recluse and being with others except for my brother means shit to me. So looks as well as personality mean shit.

ya...

[allelish]

If a girl is really ugly, then i wouldn't go out with them. But the same goes for if she was really pretty but was a total air-head. But if you're talking about friendship, then only personality matters.

[YouWish22]

If a girl is really ugly, then i wouldn't go out with them. But the same goes for if she was really pretty but was a total air-head. But if you're talking about friendship, then only personality matters.

i agree. everybody's preferences are different of course, but if i wasn't somewhat phsyically attracted to a guy I couldn't date him. there has to be both a mental and physical attraction. I also could never date a guy who had good looks, but a shitty personality.

[gmc14]

The first thing is looks (not necessarily because its MOST important but it is literally the first thing I notice).If she's pretty and able to carry on a conversation and she's friendly, then there is potential. Intelligence is huge, and kinda linked to the first part about being able to have a good conversation. Preferably somewhat athletic or at least have some similar interests as myself. Then after I know shes "perfect" the social factor comes into play. If I fit in with her friends / she fits in with mine. I know it shouldn't be a reason to date someone or not, but at this age, it is important that if I'm with a girl we can both be comfortable socially. (I've turned girls down before because when I hung out with their friends I felt like they were "too cool" and it was intimidating, by the same token, if I thought a girls friends were losers it probably wouldn't work out either.