i actually could really use some help right now

[ac0ustic]

i liked this guy. alot. and he liked me. but his roommates all told me that he was only using me for a piece of ass, and instead of talking to him, i believed them. well i talked to him and apologized for jumping to conclusions but he basically hates me now and won't talk to me. i've lost him as a friend now as well as someone i could have dated. it takes ALOT for me to find a guy i'm willing to commit to and he was the first one in a long time. what can i do? is it possible to fix this?

and keep your sarcastic comments to yourself. i've been crying all night about this and i don't need anything else to make it worse.

[theESCO]

I have this weird feeling he's pissed at his boys for blowin' up his spot...

Either that, or they where talking shit cause they wanna get with you....

[Juliet R Delta]

absolutely, if he really is into you, he should listen. you should just go to him and be honest. I won't repeat my first sentence.

[Lueda Alia]

absolutely, if he really is into you, he should listen. you should just go to him and be honest. I won't repeat my first sentence.
I agree.


tell him how you feel, and tell him what happened. if he doesn't understand then you know what the only other option is...

I'm sorry... I hope everything goes well.

[ahatruck123smak]

best of luck to you

[Bishop]

If I was him I'd probably be doing the same thing.

My reason as to why is because if you were in a relationship with him and it took both of you a lot to get together, and yet these "friends" came up to you and started talking about all this stuff and you took what they said at face value, then that was just stupid and your fault, you should've discussed it with him if you really believed that and try to be mature about it with him instead of just not talking because that's something a 15 year old would do.

If I were you, I'd maybe give him some time to cool down about it, or maybe you just hurt him to bad by doing that and he doesn't want to deal with it anymore.

[sleepygrlgreen]

Yeah, I'm going to have to agree with some of the people here. I think that he was more mad at the fact that his cover was "blown". I don't know a guy that would get so mad to the point where he'd hate you and not want to talk to you anymore. Maybe he wasn't that great of a guy, ya know? Without seeming too desparate, maybe try talking to him again once or twice so that the story can be set straight. The only thing that may come out of it is the truth at this point. Sorry about your situation though... must really stink. And if he DID use you for as, then you're definitely better off not even having him ass a friend. You don't want to surround yourself with assholes. Well, with that said...good luck.