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SilenceBrokenTT
10/01/08, 12:06 AM
So yeah... anyone else here divorced? How long after did you start dating or did you start dating before it was final (and perhaps the reason why you got the divorce,lol). Anyways, just curious... my family's gotten on me for already dating but they all agreed that my ex-wife was/is crazy bipolar and what not and I have a date with an old elementary school/middle school friend who also moved out to AZ from SoCal on Thursday.... so yeah...

showbiz
10/01/08, 01:00 AM
http://www.forumammo.com/cpg/albums/userpics/10071/picard-no-facepalm.jpg

HelpMeSleep
10/01/08, 01:27 AM
my first reaction was wow, you're really young to be married, let alone divorced.

then I went to look at your picture to see if you were cute and I saw you're in the military. now I'm not surprised you got married so young.

anyway, I've definitely never been anywhere remotely close to marriage, so I don't really have advice for divorce. that sucks though.

lolwut1337
10/01/08, 02:03 AM
my first reaction was wow, you're really young to be married, let alone divorced.

then I went to look at your picture to see if you were cute and I saw you're in the military. now I'm not surprised you got married so young.

anyway, I've definitely never been anywhere remotely close to marriage, so I don't really have advice for divorce. that sucks though.

I would say "lol" but I did the exact same thing so I can't really talk...:blush:

and wow I just found the smileys section.

HelpMeSleep
10/01/08, 02:08 AM
I would say "lol" but I did the exact same thing so I can't really talk...:blush:

and wow I just found the smileys section.
hahaha. it's a total habit lol.

the smileys are the best! :dance:

lolwut1337
10/01/08, 02:12 AM
hahaha. it's a total habit lol.

the smileys are the best! :dance:

haha yeah that are, I've been afraid to ask where they are and I hadn't bothered looking at the tool bar. So I guess that's retardation on my part.

HelpMeSleep
10/01/08, 02:19 AM
haha yeah that are, I've been afraid to ask where they are and I hadn't bothered looking at the tool bar. So I guess that's retardation on my part.
nah. somehow for the longest time I noticed the smileys but failed to notice anything else on the tool bar! lol :hitself:

kaycey
10/01/08, 02:53 AM
I would say "lol" but I did the exact same thing so I can't really talk...:blush:

and wow I just found the smileys section.
i learnt how to multi quote like 20 minutes back.

lolwut1337
10/01/08, 02:58 AM
i learnt how to multi quote like 20 minutes back.

I still have no idea how on earth to do that.

kaycey
10/01/08, 03:32 AM
once you learn it though, its really easy.

fadedmemories
10/01/08, 04:55 AM
Whoa, you're too young to get married let alone divorced

anamericangod
10/01/08, 05:03 AM
I would suggest dating a girl who's out of elementary or middle school. The conversation gets really stale after a week or two.

Anthony Lutz
10/01/08, 05:57 AM
Whoa, you're too young to get married let alone divorced

It's weird, because I feel the same way, but if you look back just 20 years ago, it was the norm to get married around that age. Crazy how things change.

Tyler Revolution
10/01/08, 09:42 AM
I would suggest dating a girl who's out of elementary or middle school. The conversation gets really stale after a week or two.

But those two weeks are absolute ecstasy.

HelpMeSleep
10/01/08, 09:47 AM
Whoa, you're too young to get married let alone divorced
I said it first! :-)

Posed2Death
10/01/08, 09:48 AM
I would suggest dating a girl who's out of elementary or middle school. The conversation gets really stale after a week or two.

I LOL'ed.

pilot_light_out
10/01/08, 10:05 AM
i dont know

Bites the Dust
10/01/08, 10:30 AM
I'd wait a while so you don't fuck up again.

fadedmemories
10/01/08, 11:58 AM
I said it first! :-)
Oh yeah, I realized I typed in the same thing you did, sorry :-)

atticus1492
10/01/08, 01:13 PM
Life-long celibacy.

HelpMeSleep
10/01/08, 01:23 PM
Oh yeah, I realized I typed in the same thing you did, sorry :-)
that's understandable. my words were just so wise and full of win that they just stuck with you. it happens to people all the time. :-)

amysaurus
10/01/08, 01:35 PM
lol wut.

You're young, you should get back into the dating world if you think you're ready for it.

The_kok
10/01/08, 02:27 PM
you just need to go on a date where you abduct your ex and force your new girl to poop in her mouth while shes strapped to a chair watching winnie the pooh

Roboman
10/01/08, 02:40 PM
1. Don't get married so young.
2. Don't let military service make you feel like you have to get married. I'm pretty sure that doesn't work out most of the time.

argg_xo
10/01/08, 07:04 PM
i've never been married or divorced but i would say you should start dating whenever it feels right to you. don't let anyone force you into dating again, you want it to be natural when you're ready to get back into the game. /serious advice in the PL

caress me down
10/01/08, 07:10 PM
........

how long were you married if you're already divorced?

mattmatumbo
10/01/08, 09:14 PM
so what is the deal with people in the military getting divorced so much? i hear the suicide rates in iraq have peaked and are nearly as high as they were during vietnam. im glad i didnt join up.

Miss Heartcore
10/01/08, 11:29 PM
I would suggest dating a girl who's out of elementary or middle school. The conversation gets really stale after a week or two.
Listen to him. He's an expert.

HelpMeSleep
10/02/08, 12:03 AM
so what is the deal with people in the military getting married so young?
fixed. I think that's the reason for the divorces.

one of my best friends (who just turned 20) was engaged to a marine and I HATED HIM so much. he didn't even live here, he was in north carolina. he ended up cheating on her long term with the grossest skank ever who already had a kid. (I tried to add her on myspace so I could lurk her page and she messaged me and it was hilarious.) but thank god he cheated and she found out. it makes me sick to think she almost married that fucker. he was so dumb, I couldn't even have a conversation with him. I like her current boyfriend so much better.

CstSnow
10/02/08, 12:14 AM
1. Don't get married so young.
2. Don't let military service make you feel like you have to get married. I'm pretty sure that doesn't work out most of the time.

This is the truth, I had a friend join the army after JC and he had never had a serious relationship before, and all of a sudden after he was stationed overseas he had 3 different fiances in his 4 years in Germany. Lucky for him they all flamed out before the knot was tied.

swt_catastrophe
10/02/08, 12:26 AM
wow. you're from maricopa?
i always drive through...

and gl with that.

GetWellBoss
10/02/08, 01:24 PM
wow. you're from maricopa?
i always drive through...

and gl with that.

Maricopa is awful. I guess they have bigger houses for way cheaper, but there is absolutely NOTHING out there.

awakeohsleeper
10/02/08, 02:47 PM
you just need to go on a date where you abduct your ex and force your new girl to poop in her mouth while shes strapped to a chair watching winnie the pooh
I cannot believe you've brought Winnie the Pooh down to this level. Blasphemy.