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If you had a chance to go throught the procedure in Eternal Sunshine... would you? We like to think it's our memories and the people we come across that make us. But have you ever wished that you had never met someone at all?
selftitled85
02/04/05, 07:32 PM
haha all the time dude.
Lueda Alia
02/04/05, 07:40 PM
I have. more than once. :(
punklet2101
02/04/05, 07:50 PM
I am torn between "Yes, I love them but right now I'd rather forget them" and "No, we shared too many good memories".
Is it better to have had good times followed by hurt than nothing at all?
It was no contest for me. I voted "Yes,I love them but I'd rather forget them" because I until I met her I was in love with a friend I know I'd never be able to be with and I was okay with that. I'd loved my friend since the day I met her until I met this other girl and now I'm just, blah.
meh_indeed
02/04/05, 07:59 PM
no f'ing way, sure we all have bad memories, but the good far outweigh the bad, the bad help us grow as people
TheNumberOneFan
02/04/05, 08:01 PM
deep question, man...
punklet2101
02/04/05, 08:05 PM
no f'ing way, sure we all have bad memories, but the good far outweigh the bad, the bad help us grow as people
True that.
Pat Marquez
02/04/05, 08:07 PM
.... you can only learn from your mistakes.
it's not natural. so nope...
.... you can only learn from your mistakes.
True but what if they were the same mistakes you've made before. Except this time nothing went wrong and she decided to give up for no reason.
sleepygrlgreen
02/04/05, 08:26 PM
It's not so much the person that I'd want to forget, more like the events that occured as a result of knowing them. Don't know if that makes any sense...
It's not so much the person that I'd want to forget, more like the events that occured as a result of knowing them. Don't know if that makes any sense...
I get it....thats sort of the same thing with me. I would still be in my "shit doesn't phase me, and I don't need anyone else to survive" phase ... I was happy then.
aminorthreat55
02/04/05, 08:34 PM
Hell no. I love her and she has had more of an impact on my life than anyone else, why would I erase that.
Hell no. I love her and she has had more of an impact on my life than anyone else, why would I erase that.
Well lets say you were in love with your good friend. You know she doesn't feel the same, and you understand and learn to live with that. Then a few weeks later you meet someone new, you get along great and fall comepletly head over heels for each other. She starts a new job so you can't talk or hang out as much. You call her or leave her an email every so often and she 3 weeks without answering until you make it public and ask her what the fuck....she forgets you and won't give you a reason.........that's why
TheNumberOneFan
02/04/05, 08:56 PM
Well lets say you were in love with your good friend. You know she doesn't feel the same, and you understand and learn to live with that. Then a few weeks later you meet someone new, you get along great and fall comepletly head over heels for each other. She starts a new job so you can't talk or hang out as much. You call her or leave her an email every so often and she 3 weeks without answering until you make it public and ask her what the fuck....she forgets you and won't give you a reason.........that's why
holy shit dude
practically that EXACT same thing happened to me
I'm not even joking...
yeah...it sucks though cause I'm still overseas and I can't even get in contact with her. Somebody invent a time machine already... I'd like to start over.
your answers are too limited..... they suck....
how bout yes, i just plain want to forget about them. why do you have to love or hate them?
LoyalSubject
02/05/05, 01:50 PM
I agree and disagree. If You forgot about your past relationship with a person completely then you would make the same mistakes with someone new. However there are a couple of people I dated that I did not make any mistakes they were just fucked up people.
basedonimpulse
02/05/05, 02:53 PM
i really would not want to forget someone especially after seeing that movie.
your answers are too limited..... they suck....
how bout yes, i just plain want to forget about them. why do you have to love or hate them?
no you suck..... they're supposed to be in response to the procedure in the movie. That's why I said If you want to erased them is it because you love them or hate them.....there's no neutrality there, if you want to erase someone you obviously must want them gone.....besides there's always more "choices" than what you're given.
besides there's always more "choices" than what you're given.
well arent you clever
well arent you clever
yes, ....and heart broken, I could have volunteered for an extension out here but she's going behind my back back in the states and seeing other guys. I was only going home for her and now...nothing....just like that, no explanation, no reason. Nothing.
yes, ....and heart broken, I could have volunteered for an extension out here but she's going behind my back back in the states and seeing other guys. I was only going home for her and now...nothing....just like that, no explanation, no reason. Nothing.
what are you talking about?
what are you talking about?
I'm in the Marine Corps and about a month ago I was asked by my command if I wanted to stay out here in Iraq for an extra 2 months. It would have been good experience and and extra 6 grand for learning some new stuff about my job. I told them that I'd have to talk with some people, namely her, and that I'd get back to them the next day. She said she couldn't wait for me to get home....blah blah blah. So I told my command that I had people flying out to see me when I get back and that I couldn't stay and now she won't even talk to me anymore. Before I met her I was in love with one of my female friends that I know I'll never be with and I had just learned to accept it and I was perfectly content for the first time in a long time and I was able to just breathe and be me again.And then I met her and now I'm back where I started.....I'm just trying to get back to that place where I can be me,just me and not need anybody again.
I'm in the Marine Corps and about a month ago I was asked by my command if I wanted to stay out here in Iraq for an extra 2 months. It would have been good experience and and extra 6 grand for learning some new stuff about my job. I told them that I'd have to talk with some people, namely her, and that I'd get back to them the next day. She said she couldn't wait for me to get home....blah blah blah. So I told my command that I had people flying out to see me when I get back and that I couldn't stay and now she won't even talk to me anymore. Before I met her I was in love with one of my female friends that I know I'll never be with and I had just learned to accept it and I was perfectly content for the first time in a long time and I was able to just breathe and be me again.And then I met her and now I'm back where I started.....I'm just trying to get back to that place where I can be me,just me and not need anybody again.
so.... you didnt stay cause of the girl? and now the girl blew you off? i think thats what i got... if so that sucks man. i think you and i got off to a bad start.
so.... you didnt stay cause of the girl? and now the girl blew you off? i think thats what i got... if so that sucks man. i think you and i got off to a bad start.
Exactly......I think we did too, but I don't know why.
prob cause im an asshole sometimes.....
haha, yeah me too....especially since I graduated H.S. and even more so cause the Corps..... I've become an uber-dick in person and so I've started getting into more fights again.....I hate who I've become.
Timberwolf
02/09/05, 11:43 AM
I want to forget my dog, that little bitch peed all over my shoes. After the procedure he'd be all happy as usual and I'd be all like 'GET OUT OF MY HOUSE YOU STUPID DOG' and he wouldn't know where it was at.
MrChainsaw389
02/09/05, 12:17 PM
Note that I haven't read this thread, so I'm not responding to anyone else's stuff, just voicing my own opinion.
I think that if I hadn't had experiences with one specific girl in particular, I wouldn't be who I was today. Even though I really dislike her now and she ruined a handful of friendships for me, it doesn't matter. Every single person you meet has some sort of effect on you. If you don't meet them, who knows what you would be like. If you never had a mother or father, for those of you fortunate to have both, your life would be completely different if you only had one or the other or neither. The same thing applies for loves or best friends or what not.
Timberwolf
02/09/05, 12:18 PM
Note that I haven't read this thread, so I'm not responding to anyone else's stuff, just voicing my own opinion.
I think that if I hadn't had experiences with one specific girl in particular, I wouldn't be who I was today. Even though I really dislike her now and she ruined a handful of friendships for me, it doesn't matter. Every single person you meet has some sort of effect on you. If you don't meet them, who knows what you would be like. If you never had a mother or father, for those of you fortunate to have both, your life would be completely different if you only had one or the other or neither. The same thing applies for loves or best friends or what not.
aww...but it like...peed on my shoes and everything.
Tyler Revolution
02/09/05, 01:10 PM
I wouldn't want to forget anyone either. Even if I hate them for certain things, I have learned from situations, so no.
TheYrHeaRtLesS
02/10/05, 07:58 AM
what if you care about somone so much , but you can't find the right way to show it...you've had all these problems in the past with different people who have screwed you over and treated you like shit, and now you find the one who is gonna be true, and actually loves you the way you love them...but your expecting the worst, your prone to it ..therefore you dont listen to a word they say, you cant trust them because it all happened before, and you cant let you guard down because as soon as you do you feel the hurt is gonna hit you like a tidal wave again like it has before....you love her so much,and you know you do, your so sure of it but the past has ruined the present, and now you cant take that back...kinda sucks
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