Love do you over use it?

[vote4pedro]

i know this could be a poll... but i'd rather just hear your opinions.... what are your views on when you should tell a someone you love them. i hear like 13 year old kids saying "i love him so much" and bla bla bla... but isn't love the most divine feeling... if they are feeling that at 13... when marrige comes around what is love going to mean. i typically avoid using the word... unless i feel that if i don't say it, a fight will break out w/ my GF, or... if i want to get laid...

[BrandNizzle3887]

i think you shouldn't think with your dick and try to use it to get laid and only say it when you actually mean it, ive only told one gilr that i loved her and she knows i always will no matter what, not cuz i want to get laid.

[SonEric84]

I absolutely HATE when people missuse this word. It really pisses me off to see these young kids running around saying it to every litte crush they have. Probably because it's been thrown in my direction and the girls that have said it wouldn't really know it if it slapped them in the face. I only say it when I mean it. I tell my friends sometimes, but that's friendship love so it's different. In the romantic way I have only told 2 girls.



Yeah that's fucked up that you use it to get laid.

[theESCO]

I was 13 or 14 when I dropped it for the first time.

Granted we had been together for like 4 years and we were pretty serious.

[Signals Corrupted]

I was 13 or 14 when I dropped it for the first time.

Granted we had been together for like 4 years and we were pretty serious.


you'd been together since you were 10?

[theESCO]

Yea, I know it seems really weird. I guess we where mature for our age or something.

We broke up when I was 15, and sometimes it still hurts.

:emo:

[SonEric84]

I was 13 or 14 when I dropped it for the first time.

Granted we had been together for like 4 years and we were pretty serious.


Well...that's a little different than what I was talking about.

[vote4pedro]

Yea, I know it seems really weird. I guess we where mature for our age or something.

We broke up when I was 15, and sometimes it still hurts.

:emo:
or maybe you still have the wrong view about what love actually is... no offence, but i don't think it's possible (well anything's possible... but super highly inprobable) for a 10-13 year old to know what the feeling is like, and if they do i'm pretty sure they arn't feeling it. maybe your case is different...

[Mercy Medical]

or maybe you still have the wrong view about what love actually is... no offence, but i don't think it's possible (well anything's possible... but super highly inprobable) for a 10-13 year old to know what the feeling is like, and if they do i'm pretty sure they arn't feeling it. maybe your case is different...
It seems impossible for you to know what the feeling is like when you're using it to get laid....

[Signals Corrupted]

my ex and i used to say i love you. as far as i know, it was well-justified because i do, indeed, still love her.

[__Deformative.]

My girlfriend and I say it.

But we're going to get married in Vegas. So it's cool.

[Signals Corrupted]

My girlfriend and I say it.

But we're going to get married in Vegas. So it's cool.


vegas? sweet. make it a western theme and get married by a duke or wyatt earp impersonator

[Sho]

I think that love grows and develops as you age. I mean, there are some people who love as a child does (sweetly, innocently, and entirely trusting), there are those who love in a preteen/teen way (wanting to spend every minute with that person, entirely devoted, absolutely enamored with that one), or there is the more adult version that I, personally, cannot describe, because I've never experienced it yet.

But, I think love is an ever-growing thing. It changes as your perceptions do, and it's value grows with time. I mean, how many people, when they're babies, know the value of a gold necklace? None. If someone gave you one at that age, you'd chew on it, slobber over it, and then likely lose it. But, if someone gave you one now, you'd probably cherish it and keep it safe and wear it on rare occasions, just because of its value. That is how I see love to be.

[__Deformative.]

vegas? sweet. make it a western theme and get married by a duke or wyatt earp impersonator

Haha, she wants to get married by Elvis.

Elvis was in a western, right? Maybe we can get Elvis with a cowboy hat.

[__Deformative.]

I think that love grows and develops as you age. I mean, there are some people who love as a child does (sweetly, innocently, and entirely trusting), there are those who love in a preteen/teen way (wanting to spend every minute with that person, entirely devoted, absolutely enamored with that one), or there is the more adult version that I, personally, cannot describe, because I've never experienced it yet.

But, I think love is an ever-growing thing. It changes as your perceptions do, and it's value grows with time. I mean, how many people, when they're babies, know the value of a gold necklace? None. If someone gave you one at that age, you'd chew on it, slobber over it, and then likely lose it. But, if someone gave you one now, you'd probably cherish it and keep it safe and wear it on rare occasions, just because of its value. That is how I see love to be.

I wear my girlfriend EVERYWHERE.

Sorry, that was crude. You have some good points, though.

[vote4pedro]

It seems impossible for you to know what the feeling is like when you're using it to get laid....
i never said i knew what it felt like... and i was joking about the getting laid thing... the few times i have said it were in situations where i felt that if i didnt... i would upset the other person even more...for example.... girl is sad... asks do you love me.... i say yes... even though i didnt mean it...

[SonEric84]

Pity love....ouch.

[Louise Heng]

Pity love....ouch.
exactly what I was thinking.... that's bad!

I laugh when I hear 13 year olds saying that they were in love with someone. I definitely think that it is overused among some people. I've only ever said the "I love you" thing to one person and I definitely meant it. Although, I do say it every day with my friends and stuff but that's a different kind of love.

[theESCO]

I laugh when I hear 13 year olds saying that they were in love with someone.

I don't really want to get into the whole situation, not really one for the AP confessional. But at 20 I still love her, so something was definitely there.

[Louise Heng]

I don't really want to get into the whole situation, not really one for the AP confessional. But at 20 I still love her, so something was definitely there.
well i was referring to the general population of 13 year olds, i know that there are exceptions to everything (you included).

[theESCO]

:woot:

[BrodyFan03]

What! That's fucking ridiculous, You said it at thirteen? And you'd been dating for four years? You're full of shit. Okay, when i was nine, i wasn't thinking about dating and serious relationships, i don't think any nine year old was. Man i'm scared of how fucked up you're going to be when you get older.

[theESCO]

What! That's fucking ridiculous, You said it at thirteen? And you'd been dating for four years? You're full of shit. Okay, when i was nine, i wasn't thinking about dating and serious relationships, i don't think any nine year old was. Man i'm scared of how fucked up you're going to be when you get older.

Your right, I made up the whole thing so I could argue about it on the internet, it gives me an ego stroke.


Die.

[Mercy Medical]

What! That's fucking ridiculous, You said it at thirteen? And you'd been dating for four years? You're full of shit. Okay, when i was nine, i wasn't thinking about dating and serious relationships, i don't think any nine year old was. Man i'm scared of how fucked up you're going to be when you get older.
People have different maturity levels ya know.

[sleepygrlgreen]

The manfriend and I used to exchange "I loves you" every day for a while. We haven't really said it in a few months. He was the one to bring up the point that we're too young to know what love actually is and what it feels like, so we stopped, but I'm thinking that he's probably right.

Teens in relationships now of days through that word around like crazy. They've been dating for a week and they say "I love you" at least 20x a day to eachother. That's garbage.

[Sho]

Okay, when i was nine, Man, shut up. Seriously. You say that you didn't ? Well, guess what? You're not the absolute example of the world's population. I may sound a bit snappy, but damn, dude, lay off. Some people grow up faster than others, and some people learn what love is faster than other. Like someone said earlier, there are exceptions. Obviously, you weren't one of them; that doesn't mean you oughtta take it out on anyone else.

[theESCO]

I feel so...stood up for, lol.

Scene points for all~!

[Mercy Medical]

I feel so...stood up for, lol.

Scene points for all~!
Your welcome. :)

I just think it's stupid. You seem like a mature enough individual now to be able to sit and say that you had those types of feelings for someone at such a young age.

Everyone's different. Everyone matures differently than others, some are slower and some faster...

[vote4pedro]

brody fan... lets schedule an appointment from when we want to hear your awesome feedback....

[SC0926]

I think that love grows and develops as you age. I mean, there are some people who love as a child does (sweetly, innocently, and entirely trusting), there are those who love in a preteen/teen way (wanting to spend every minute with that person, entirely devoted, absolutely enamored with that one), or there is the more adult version that I, personally, cannot describe, because I've never experienced it yet.

But, I think love is an ever-growing thing. It changes as your perceptions do, and it's value grows with time. I mean, how many people, when they're babies, know the value of a gold necklace? None. If someone gave you one at that age, you'd chew on it, slobber over it, and then likely lose it. But, if someone gave you one now, you'd probably cherish it and keep it safe and wear it on rare occasions, just because of its value. That is how I see love to be.
I agree....love grows...I do think sometimes people just say it to say it. Case in point a friend of mine and his girlfriend had been going out for a few months(about 5 or 6)(ages23 and 24) anyways. He told her he wouldn't sleep with someone unless there was mutual love, well she said I love you..and shortly there after they slept together. Things were fine, but she confessed later that she didn't think she really loved him, than she just said it to maybe try to feel love for him, and it didnt work. They broke up, and hes heartbroken. So yeah, people whether it 13 or 30 throw the word around.

[SC0926]

oh, and Im not saying theESCO that you werent in love, cuse Im sure you were..im just saying people CAN throw it around(i just didnt wanna get yelled at lol, cuse i mean my post in the nicest way possible i swear).

[Sho]

So yeah, people whether it 13 or 30 throw the word around. Thank you! Finally, someone comes out and talks about that. That's the only downside to love, really :headshake , gets more complex as time goes on.

[theESCO]

brody fan... lets schedule an appointment from when we want to hear your awesome feedback....

Next time you just want to hear your opinion echoed, let me know so I don't waste my time giving you another view on it.

:headshake

[onethousantears]

I fall in love the first time when I was 14 years old, and I was sure that I loved him but be that sure take me like a whole year.