Do I let Him Go?

[emptypr0mises]

My boyfriend, of 10 months, and I broke up about 2 months because we were having some problems that dealt with past mistakes. We promises each other that we'd keep in touch but I was usually the only one making an effort. So in order to save myself from getting hurt once again I stopped talking to him about a month ago. And now all of a sudden he calls me up and tells me that he wants me back and he misses me. Part of me wants to get back with him but when we broke up he said it was the last time and there was no chance of us gettng back together. So like any normal person I moved on, even though it was hard.

I'm not completly over him and I never will be. But right now I'm second guessing myself on wether or not I Should take him back. I don't know what to do.

[mirtizzle]

well, unless it's under certain circumstances like you had to move away or you had meddling parents or just needed space or something like that, i'm one of those people who thinks that if you break up, it should stay that way because there's obviously a reason it didn't work out in the first place
obviously i don't know anything about your relationship, but if i were just to make a judgement on what you've said, then i'd say to let him go... it's like telling him he can stop and start it all over again whenever he feels like it, and it's not worth getting jerked around..

besides, guys come and go, it's silly to worry about just one right now. it's hard now, but you'll get over it, even if you don't think you will.

[emptypr0mises]

thank you love.

your good at this giving advice thing lol.

[gex9883]

well, unless it's under certain circumstances like you had to move away or you had meddling parents or just needed space or something like that, i'm one of those people who thinks that if you break up, it should stay that way because there's obviously a reason it didn't work out in the first place
obviously i don't know anything about your relationship, but if i were just to make a judgement on what you've said, then i'd say to let him go... it's like telling him he can stop and start it all over again whenever he feels like it, and it's not worth getting jerked around..

besides, guys come and go, it's silly to worry about just one right now. it's hard now, but you'll get over it, even if you don't think you will.


What he said :o

[theESCO]

What he said :o

She said..

[cutebutxdeadly]

well, unless it's under certain circumstances like you had to move away or you had meddling parents or just needed space or something like that, i'm one of those people who thinks that if you break up, it should stay that way because there's obviously a reason it didn't work out in the first place
obviously i don't know anything about your relationship, but if i were just to make a judgement on what you've said, then i'd say to let him go... it's like telling him he can stop and start it all over again whenever he feels like it, and it's not worth getting jerked around..

besides, guys come and go, it's silly to worry about just one right now. it's hard now, but you'll get over it, even if you don't think you will.

i couldn't have said it any better.
and i know how you feel; except with me we're trying to be friends and recently i decided i just want nothing to do with him anymore.

[smalltownsburn]

You tell that man-whore MARY!

[FinchBulldog2]

Castrate him.

[EnderDove]

Why go back to him? Just so he can hurt you again, I dont think so. Tell him to fuck off in the nicest way possible. :)

[punklet2101]

Why go back to him? Just so he can hurt you again, I dont think so. Tell him to fuck off in the nicest way possible. :)
Haha :) Indeed...

[FinchBulldog2]

Give birth to his child and then throw it off a bridge in front of him.

[jaimej]

kevin i love how you post drunk random things on here haha.

as for this situation, i wish i could say i dont know how you feel.. ive had trouble letting go recently too. but you have to. otherwise he is in complete control. and you dont want a relationship like that anyway.

[cutebutxdeadly]

You tell that man-whore MARY!


i can't think of anything witty to say to that, i'm laughing too hard.

[Louise Heng]

just remember that you broke up for a reason.....