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dirty vixen
03/07/05, 06:36 AM
i cheated on my noyfriend with his best friend.
i cheated on him cos he was being really horrible to me. he wanted to give the guy who i cheated with, £40 to take me off his hands. this was b4 i cheated.
does that make me a bad person for looking for happiness from someone else thou i was with some1 at the time.
my boyfried doesnt know that i cheated on him. i cant bare to be touched by him. it makes me sick the way he treats me.
is it right that i have no regrets about cheating?
me and my boyfriend were on breaking point, as far as i was concerned we had broken up and then thats when i did it.
but....im still with him.
think its because of familiarity.
is this wrong?
please can some1 give me adivse.
i did actually enjoy going behind his back. which makes me feel quite bad.

Lueda Alia
03/07/05, 06:44 AM
how can you have no regrets if it makes you feel bad?

and um, break up?

dirty vixen
03/07/05, 06:50 AM
i know it sounds stupid. but im kind of split.
i did it cos i thought we were over bu we weren't.
i know it was something bad. but im just in such a mess.
he told me he loves me then he says he loves this girl who doesnt want him.
its like having a relationship with 3 ppl. you know?
i guess i do have regrets but i dont.
im sorry it makes no sense. but do you kind of know what i mean?

allelish
03/07/05, 10:06 AM
You cheated on him and you feel bad so you are pretending your boyfriend treats you like shit so you can feel better, when really, he treats you like a princess. So you are a slut.

AmericanZen
03/07/05, 10:11 AM
He needs to find a girl that can type English.

apoemtothedead
03/07/05, 08:43 PM
A second grader has better sentence structure than you.

Signals Corrupted
03/07/05, 09:35 PM
A second grader has better sentence structure than you.


so what? she doesnt deserve help?

apoemtothedead
03/07/05, 09:40 PM
If by 'help' you mean 'bi-weekly meetings with a tutor to discuss and go over the the fundamental elements of the English language' then yes, she does deserve that.

theESCO
03/07/05, 09:45 PM
slut

jaimej
03/07/05, 10:02 PM
Wow. This is sad. I wish I could even give this chick advice but seriously.. why would you even want to get back at a guy who offered his friend money to get you take you off his hands. I bet his friend made that money off of you. So congratulations.

Andy
03/08/05, 02:06 AM
he wanted to give the guy who i cheated with, £40 to take me off his hands. this was b4 i cheated
That's actually an episode of Nip/Tuck.

AshesAshes
03/08/05, 02:11 AM
i know it sounds stupid. but im kind of split.
i did it cos i thought we were over bu we weren't.
i know it was something bad. but im just in such a mess.
he told me he loves me then he says he loves this girl who doesnt want him.
its like having a relationship with 3 ppl. you know?
i guess i do have regrets but i dont.
im sorry it makes no sense. but do you kind of know what i mean?
i like how you type ya break up with him :animateds

AmericanZen
03/08/05, 11:00 AM
If by 'help' you mean 'bi-weekly meetings with a tutor to discuss and go over the the fundamental elements of the English language' then yes, she does deserve that.


Hahahaha oh wow i just laughed out loud at work. Scene points for that one.

butIfellFORher
03/08/05, 11:24 AM
break up with him? and you should feel bad. SHAME ON YOU

Peter Parker
03/22/05, 07:22 AM
If by 'help' you mean 'bi-weekly meetings with a tutor to discuss and go over the the fundamental elements of the English language' then yes, she does deserve that.

hahaha, legend.

FinchBulldog2
03/22/05, 07:54 AM
You should probably just have sex with your boyfriend's father and get it on with any female members of his family as well.

Rebs
03/22/05, 04:53 PM
You cheated on him and you feel bad so you are pretending your boyfriend treats you like shit so you can feel better, when really, he treats you like a princess. So you are a slut.


amen.
personally, i think cheating is the ultimate screw over in a relationship. if you can find the desire to cheat on the person youre with, you dont deserve them

sleepygrlgreen
03/22/05, 05:19 PM
stop being assholes guys. she needs advice...despite her grammar or whatever...she does need help. i agree with jaimej though. why be with a person who offered a guy money to take you off his hands? i don't get it. i'm not condoning you for what you've done, nor do i think it's right, but i think that you were in a fucked up situation to begin with.

yeknom
03/22/05, 07:26 PM
meh, that girl is a dolt.

Piebalding
03/23/05, 02:35 PM
If you knew he was cheating on you, I just would have dumped him.

Here's the thing, I've figured out how a majority of girls are. This was originally a hypothesis, but now I have facts to back it up, as in a case study. Allow me to elaborate.

I was taking this girl out a few times. Eventually, I hear her talking about another guy and stupid me, I'm like "who's josh?" So this girl failed to tell me she had a boyfriend. Why? She was trying to create some drama in her relationship. So if the guy that these girls are with is not providing "drama" as in cheating, name calling, arguing, then the girl will provide it herself by doing something.To go on about this girl, the douche she is with now is a degenerate, pothead, video-gaming asshole who has nothing better to do than argue with her for 6 hours. I can't even imagine that. So now that he is making things interesting, there's no need for me(which I've pretty much walked away from her since then). To top it off, the guy she dated before was even nicer than me(he had a candlelit dinner and rose petals going up her stairs, so she says, for her birthday) and she cheated on him.

Well I felt that was relevent somehow, guys, if you know a girl like this and you are incapable of arguing and yelling with your girlfriend or can't fathom cheating on her, stay away from these girls.

yakiba
03/23/05, 03:28 PM
i agree with ^^^ you should've just dumped him..
i dont think you should EVER cheat on someone. that is the LOWEST thing a person could do, under ANY circumstances. if your boyfriend if treating you bad, cheating on you, in love with someone else (which is alittle like cheating, only its more mental), dump his sorry ass! dont stoop to his level. also, if he truely treats you like shit, you shouldnt be feeling guilty at all.. so.. i dunno whether ur lying about him being mean to you.. anyways, you really shouldnt've cheated on him. it doesnt make you look good at all.. you should've just dumped him.

sleepygrlgreen
03/23/05, 03:58 PM
If you knew he was cheating on you, I just would have dumped him.

Here's the thing, I've figured out how a majority of girls are. This was originally a hypothesis, but now I have facts to back it up, as in a case study. Allow me to elaborate.

I was taking this girl out a few times. Eventually, I hear her talking about another guy and stupid me, I'm like "who's josh?" So this girl failed to tell me she had a boyfriend. Why? She was trying to create some drama in her relationship. So if the guy that these girls are with is not providing "drama" as in cheating, name calling, arguing, then the girl will provide it herself by doing something.To go on about this girl, the douche she is with now is a degenerate, pothead, video-gaming asshole who has nothing better to do than argue with her for 6 hours. I can't even imagine that. So now that he is making things interesting, there's no need for me(which I've pretty much walked away from her since then). To top it off, the guy she dated before was even nicer than me(he had a candlelit dinner and rose petals going up her stairs, so she says, for her birthday) and she cheated on him.

Well I felt that was relevent somehow, guys, if you know a girl like this and you are incapable of arguing and yelling with your girlfriend or can't fathom cheating on her, stay away from these girls.
I don't know man, I don't particularly like drama in my relationship.

burntpaper
03/23/05, 06:01 PM
I think instead of cheating on him you should have told him how you feel, maybe he was joking in front of his mate and would have stopped if he knew it upset you. There is no excuse for cheating, if you're that unhappy stop being a coward and move on, break up with him and get on with it.

Rebs
03/23/05, 06:57 PM
well said

Greg
03/23/05, 07:06 PM
"a girl ought to stick to what she knows"

and if its being a whore go for it

ShoeSh1ne
03/23/05, 07:58 PM
does that make me a bad person for looking for happiness from someone else thou i was with some1 at the time.


What makes you a bad person is that you destroyed the english language.

catchmealone
03/25/05, 08:36 PM
You know it's sad when you are so desperate for help you turn to the internet message boards!
And you have GOT to love teenage "love". This guy is in so much love with his girlfriend that he also "loves" a girl who doesn't want him.
That's not love, that's called "I said it, can I get in your pants yet?"

IAmCountryMusic
03/25/05, 08:41 PM
ive been cheated on by bert mccracken and it was horrible.

being cheated on is bad enough without it being with such a dirty person