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punkpixie
03/15/05, 09:17 AM
So lately this 'friend' that I have is pissing me off to the point where I want to strangle her. Last December I got really sick so I wasn't going to school everyday, and I was at home for a long time. Anyway since then I've been dipping in and out of school, trying to get back on my feet again. During the time I was away she got really close to this group of friends I had before, who I've known since I was 5 and get on really well with, mostly because we like the same music and go to shows together and stuff. So anyway shes sort of taken my place with them because she pretends to like the same things that they do. And the funny thing is some of the bands that she likes now, I introduced her to. I feel that she is, dare I say it, a poser. Ask her any serious question about music and she doesn't have an answer. She's turned into one of those annoying little fan girls who says band names wrong, or likes a band because a lead singer is 'hawt'. She is up the asses of my other friends 24/7 and it's really starting to get to me. Especially when I can hear her stupid giggly voice everytime I'm in the same room! hahaha. Sorry if I sound stuck-up or unreasonable, but thats just the way I feel lately. It's probably all my fault for being away so long....

Jra1
03/15/05, 09:21 AM
is she genuinely 100% annoying personality wise, or is it just the music things that get to you?
my friends have friends that annoy me, i always try keep myself as distant as i can from them without compromising my friendship with the people i like, its difficult...but ive learnt that its easy to treat it like water off a ducks back and not get soo wound up by it if possible.

punkpixie
03/15/05, 09:26 AM
is she genuinely 100% annoying personality wise, or is it just the music things that get to you?
my friends have friends that annoy me, i always try keep myself as distant as i can from them without compromising my friendship with the people i like, its difficult...but ive learnt that its easy to treat it like water off a ducks back and not get soo wound up by it if possible.

I don't know. She used to do things before that bugged me a little. Like I do all this thoughtful stuff for her, making mix CDs or whatever and I just feel like she would never do anything like that. I guess the music thing has pushed me over the edge because music is my life and when people act like they know, that really annoys me. I don't mind if they hava a genuine passion and they're just starting out, because we all have to, but pretending is just a no-go area with me.

Jra1
03/15/05, 09:35 AM
i know what u mean with the give and no receive thing... i have that exact feeling now with 1 of my best friends, id give/do almost nething for her but she doesnt even consider returning any of my efforts.
its frustrating, and im pretty sure if she wasnt my best friend id have given up on her ages ago haha.

is it affecting your friendship with the rest of your friends?...cos if it isnt then i think the best bet is to ignore it, if they all like her then confronting her could be a bad idea, and lets be honest... im sure you'll live with 1 annoying person in your life, i wish i had the comfort of just 1...haha

allelish
03/15/05, 09:40 AM
I get fuckin' annoyed when people try to pass off as musical know it alls. But then i usually put them down and show the world how little they know. YESSSSSSSSSS I RULE!!

Thats only to people i know though, i would be unable to defeat some people on here for musical knowledge. AP is like the champions league of music if you will. Am i still typing?

punkpixie
03/15/05, 09:42 AM
I get fuckin' annoyed when people try to pass off as musical know it alls. But then i usually put them down and show the world how little they know. YESSSSSSSSSS I RULE!!

Thats only to people i know though, i would be unable to defeat some people on here for musical knowledge. AP is like the champions league of music if you will. Am i still typing?

hahahaha! When I think of you I sometimes think 'lovable loser'. That post really brought it home for me.

allelish
03/15/05, 09:45 AM
hahahaha! When I think of you I sometimes think 'lovable loser'. That post really brought it home for me.
Hahaha howcome?

punkpixie
03/15/05, 09:54 AM
Hahaha howcome?

I don't know. Just something about you I guess! hahahaha. I don't mean it in an offensive way at all....

allelish
03/15/05, 10:00 AM
haha ok. Some people have said that before actually. But even more without the lovable bit.......bitches!

punkpixie
03/15/05, 10:07 AM
haha ok. Some people have said that before actually. But even more without the lovable bit.......bitches!

Ho'bags.....haha. I just made that word up.

punklet2101
03/16/05, 06:28 AM
Ho'bags.....haha. I just made that word up.
Hahaha