View Full Version : Looking Older
XxmagnesiumxX
11/04/08, 06:17 PM
Im 16, 5'2, and am always being mistaken for being 13, 12 and even 11. I really hate how im constantly being seen as younger than i actually am, and hate it even more when people say that ill be happy about this when im older. So yeah, any ideas to look older? And no not anal.
Taking_Frags
11/04/08, 06:21 PM
Correct make up, clothes...try to make yourself look more professional then a 13 year old would. If not, anal.
hero_dujour
11/04/08, 06:27 PM
I have the opposite of your problem. I always get mistaken as 21 or so years old. Which is totally cool now, cause it lets me get into places that require ID and such, but when I'm 40 and I look 50, not so cool.
I always hear that when you try to dress and act a different age, you usually get the opposite effect, so maybe you should try less? I don't know, that advice kinda sucks haha.
.invisible ink.
11/04/08, 06:33 PM
looking young is great! you might not appreciate it now, but it will pay off in the end...trust me.
Burning Star IV
11/04/08, 06:33 PM
Grow a beard.
fulltiltxb00gie
11/04/08, 06:57 PM
eyeliner. people say i look twenty years old sometimes.
nonamesleft
11/04/08, 07:08 PM
People often think I'm in grade 9/10. I'm in college.
Basically, I look like a 12 year old .. boy.
Heart-A-Tact
11/04/08, 07:43 PM
I'm always told that I look like I'm 12, but I don't mind.
XxmagnesiumxX
11/04/08, 07:48 PM
eyeliner. people say i look twenty years old sometimes.
yeah but you see i dont know if i should go down the makeup road..i dont really know much about it and i dont know how that would fly with my mom (she doesnt wear any)
argg_xo
11/04/08, 07:49 PM
deal with it. i'm 22 and still get hasseled trying to get into bars. i just keep telling myself i'll be happy when i look 21 when i'm actually 30.
raychull
11/04/08, 07:59 PM
one time when I was a freshman in high school, this lady on a cruise asked me what college i go to.
um. no.
but yeah. i guess people generally think i'm a year or so older than I really am? which isn't that big of a difference.
nonamesleft
11/04/08, 08:00 PM
I'm always told that I look like I'm 12, but I don't mind.
I do!
Heart-A-Tact
11/04/08, 08:05 PM
I do!
Oh. Well then!
fulltiltxb00gie
11/04/08, 08:08 PM
yeah but you see i dont know if i should go down the makeup road..i dont really know much about it and i dont know how that would fly with my mom (she doesnt wear any)
just don't go overboard with it. don't make it seem like you're trying to look older. to reach my peak of cheasiness: treat it like an art form. honestly, makeup can be ridiculously dramatic but when applied aesthetically, it won't make you look like a whore. i wear bright blue eyeliner all the time and i get complimented on it by everyone instead of people giving me "wtf is wrong with her" looks. what color are your eyes?
edot:
also, consider growing your hair out a little more. for some people, short hair makes them look younger. i'm one of the random ones who looks older with short hair.
caLLmEnOoNe
11/04/08, 08:09 PM
yeah i have the same problem. i heard it only once today which is surprising
XxmagnesiumxX
11/04/08, 08:13 PM
just don't go overboard with it. don't make it seem like you're trying to look older. to reach my peak of cheasiness: treat it like an art form. honestly, makeup can be ridiculously dramatic but when applied aesthetically, it won't make you look like a whore. i wear bright blue eyeliner all the time and i get complimented on it by everyone instead of people giving me "wtf is wrong with her" looks. what color are your eyes?
lol..my eyes are brown
Smash Adams
11/04/08, 08:15 PM
grow a beard
edit: you are a girl so um show off your boobies
fulltiltxb00gie
11/04/08, 08:16 PM
lol..my eyes are brown
hm..okay try getting the almay eyeshadow for green eyes and use the purple in the inside corners of your eyes. then take a tanish brown and just just like a blush brush to put that all over the rest of your eyelid. and mascara of course. it should come out cute.
fulltiltxb00gie
11/04/08, 08:18 PM
grow a beard
edit: you are a girl so um show off your boobies
ian, i'm trying to make one thread in pl serious and you ruin it! :stick:
leifstar
11/04/08, 08:26 PM
ignore =D
caress me down
11/04/08, 08:29 PM
dress more mature maybe? and by mature i don't mean fancier
fadedmemories
11/04/08, 08:32 PM
THIS:
grow a beard
edit: you are a girl so um show off your boobies
XxmagnesiumxX
11/04/08, 08:35 PM
hm..okay try getting the almay eyeshadow for green eyes and use the purple in the inside corners of your eyes. then take a tanish brown and just just like a blush brush to put that all over the rest of your eyelid. and mascara of course. it should come out cute.
hmm.. i guess i can try doing that. itll be pretty funny trying to put some makeup on for the first time! but ill try.thanks for the help!
remedyeli
11/04/08, 08:35 PM
I think I look my age.
When I got in a car wreck the other day, the police offer said that my ID must have been fake because I looked over 18. Of course he was joking, but still. /shrug
Smash Adams
11/04/08, 08:39 PM
ian, i'm trying to make one thread in pl serious and you ruin it! :stick:
I was being serious, I was going to say for a guy the best way to look older is to grow facial hair
beautifulpoison
11/04/08, 10:10 PM
Im 18 and yet i still get carded for buying cough syrup....yes cough syrup..... Im constantly told i look like im still 13, and i dont even dress like a 13 year old
Heart-A-Tact
11/04/08, 10:11 PM
I was being serious, I was going to say for a guy the best way to look older is to grow facial hair
Good avatar.
spansen
11/04/08, 10:42 PM
grow
tomakebelieve
11/04/08, 10:47 PM
I get the "are you sure you're not 15?" question all the time.
One time this year a woman made me promise to be good in high school when I got there. :(
spansen
11/04/08, 10:48 PM
holy shit, you do look really young.. tomakebelieve.
squared82
11/04/08, 10:48 PM
Grow a beard.
That's what I did.
billyboatkid
11/04/08, 10:49 PM
I'm 19 and I've gotten that I look 23 since I was about 17. At least it doesn't go up as I get older.
Ballzies.
spansen
11/04/08, 10:51 PM
i grew a beard over the summer.. i was told i looked like 35 with that. now i just have a chin-patch thing.
lovely864md
11/05/08, 12:00 AM
I'm 5'2" as well but people tend to assume I'm a few years older. It's just kind of hard to judge around this age. Carry yourself in a mature fashion, be confident and dress your age. A little makeup is good but don't go overboard.
Just try to look put-together and polished I guess. Wear subtle and natural make-up -- going overboard and caking on make-up will have the opposite effect. Walk with your head up and shoulders back. These things generally give an air of maturity, so if you really want to look older...but honestly, I think you should just be yourself.
thespearkid
11/05/08, 10:03 PM
ian, i'm trying to make one thread in pl serious and you ruin it! :stick:
A couple of the threads actually remain serious for a decent amount of time these days.
And hasn't this exact same thread (word for word) been posted before by a guy? Anyway, wear tighter clothes.
Based on your picture I'd say people are somewhat justified in assuming your age to be low. You need to dress more feminine and style your hair in a more professional way. It seems you just kind of let your hair go at least in that picture anyway. So it gives off the kiddish look.
samsara
11/05/08, 10:49 PM
people always say i look either 14 or 20
weird they never guess my age
but im really short....
i just wear my hair up and make-up to look older
Gumbyjag
11/06/08, 12:15 AM
people think i'm much older than i am. i attribute it to my breathtaking facial hair.
I'm glad I have never had this problem. I thank my awesome facial hair, deep voice, and big stature. Being 18 and being able to buy beer kicks ass.
concernedparent
11/06/08, 12:25 AM
Put some pubes on your chin so people will think it's a goatee.
TheSkyline
11/06/08, 07:25 AM
I get the "are you sure you're not 15?" question all the time.
One time this year a woman made me promise to be good in high school when I got there. :(
You look like a 9 year old with a lip piercing. haha
And luckily for me people either think I look my age or am older than I really am.
Im 16, 5'2, and am always being mistaken for being 13, 12 and even 11. I really hate how im constantly being seen as younger than i actually am, and hate it even more when people say that ill be happy about this when im older. So yeah, any ideas to look older? And no not anal.
Simple. Dress better.
e.j.fritz
11/06/08, 10:12 AM
some girl thought i was 13 or 14 when i asked her then i told her i was actually 17 and shes like "whoa" then she said i had a babyface and to not ever grow out of it.
haha at first this bugged me but now i kinda like it. all my friends honestly dont think i shave cuz theres like never any hair on my face because i enjoy looking young for some reason. i also think cuz i have longer hair it makes me look younger for some reason cuz when its pretty short, you can actually see my facial features and it makes me look older.
screamoutmyname
11/06/08, 10:13 AM
Grow a beard.
hahahaha yes. awesome.
looking young sucks until you turn 21, after that everyone else wants to be you.
tacosforcharles
11/06/08, 10:19 AM
Grow a beard.
I came in here to say this, but then I noticed she was a girl. Hmmm.
style your hair differently
tomakebelieve
11/06/08, 10:48 AM
You look like a 9 year old with a lip piercing. haha
And luckily for me people either think I look my age or am older than I really am.
Ouch! I've never been called as that young looking before.
I can make myself look older, but that requires make up, contacts, and making an effort. Haha.
xxcatastrophicc
11/06/08, 10:58 AM
I feel your pain, seriously, haha. I'm 20 years old, & I still get carded for cigarettes.
I remember one time, the guy behind the counter told me I looked 13 years old.
I don't really mind so much though.
Like the man behind the counter said, "You have God's Gift!"
too busy to read the whole thread.
smoke cigarettes, you'll look cool AND they'll age you quickly
Closet Fan
11/06/08, 11:31 AM
Dear readers of absolutepunk.net, I am a 20 year old male but apparently look 65+ years old with thin, wispy gray hair, liver spots, bad posture and the beginning stages of Alzheimer's disease. Literally everyone mistakes me for a senior citizen. I ride buses, subways and trolleys for free. Even my pharmacist slips up and asks me for my Medicare card every single time I pick up my prescriptions! Any tips on how I may be able to look younger? I used to get a lot of action back in grade school, but mainly just watch a lot of porno now. If you have any tips or tricks, help a guy out!
I really hope someone out there can help me. I'm really at the end of my rope here.
Talk to you soon!
- Jack Powell
amysaurus
11/06/08, 11:37 AM
It's always gone either way for me. When I was younger, in high school around your age, people always thought I was 19 or 20. It's probably because I'm a tall Asian girl. Now that I'm actually 19, people think I'm still in high school. Wtf.
Demonic_101
11/06/08, 12:33 PM
lol that sucks to be only 20 and yet, look like an old man. haha i have a friend like that kindof, we call him dally. he looked really old and he was only 17. now he is like 20 years old.
Closet Fan
11/06/08, 01:04 PM
lol that sucks to be only 20 and yet, look like an old man. haha i have a friend like that kindof, we call him dally. he looked really old and he was only 17. now he is like 20 years old.
Well, it turns out I'm sick, demonic_101. And, compared to what I got, your friend Dally sounds like a lucky son of a bitch. I've got Progeria. Ever heard of it? Well, it's an aging disease, and I got it pretty bad.
I really don't know what to do now. My life seems pretty worthless at this point.
TheSkyline
11/06/08, 03:11 PM
Ouch! I've never been called as that young looking before.
I can make myself look older, but that requires make up, contacts, and making an effort. Haha.
Haha sorry! Well actually you look a lot like this girl I know, but she's in 7th grade. haha
tomakebelieve
11/06/08, 03:29 PM
Haha sorry! Well actually you look a lot like this girl I know, but she's in 7th grade. haha
Well, I guess being told I look like a 7th grader is a step up from being told I look like I'm 9.
lovely864md
11/06/08, 08:17 PM
Dear readers of absolutepunk.net, I am a 20 year old male but apparently look 65+ years old with thin, wispy gray hair, liver spots, bad posture and the beginning stages of Alzheimer's disease. Literally everyone mistakes me for a senior citizen. I ride buses, subways and trolleys for free. Even my pharmacist slips up and asks me for my Medicare card every single time I pick up my prescriptions! Any tips on how I may be able to look younger? I used to get a lot of action back in grade school, but mainly just watch a lot of porno now. If you have any tips or tricks, help a guy out!
I really hope someone out there can help me. I'm really at the end of my rope here.
Talk to you soon!
- Jack Powell
Pull a lot of pigtails, didja?
BJW7191
11/06/08, 08:23 PM
Im 16, 5'2, and am always being mistaken for being 13, 12 and even 11. I really hate how im constantly being seen as younger than i actually am, and hate it even more when people say that ill be happy about this when im older. So yeah, any ideas to look older? And no not anal.
grow a beard... that how i used to dupe people into thinking i was 21 when i was actually only 18
Closet Fan
11/26/08, 03:06 PM
Pull a lot of pigtails, didja?
I mainly just banged my friends' moms, teachers, and the occasional employee at the DMV. You know, older broads.
glassjaw777
11/26/08, 03:15 PM
Im 16, 5'2, and am always being mistaken for being 13, 12 and even 11. I really hate how im constantly being seen as younger than i actually am, and hate it even more when people say that ill be happy about this when im older. So yeah, any ideas to look older? And no not anal.
Listen to the song I Can- Nas.
MarsEatWorld
11/26/08, 03:24 PM
I'm 19 and I've gotten that I look 23 since I was about 17. At least it doesn't go up as I get older.
Ballzies.
you do look older. but in a good way haha
holy shit, you do look really young.. tomakebelieve.
HAHA. same thoughts.
people think i'm much older than i am. i attribute it to my breathtaking facial hair.
hahahha I like your tat
Haha sorry! Well actually you look a lot like this girl I know, but she's in 7th grade. haha
owned
alltimehoe93
11/26/08, 04:58 PM
Yeah, I'm 15 and 5'1" and I'll admit I don't act my age. However, a lot of people, even before they really get to see how I act, they think I'm so much younger. That stopped happening as frequently as it used to when I started wearing eyeliner.
Gumbyjag
11/26/08, 09:21 PM
hahahha I like your tat
thanks :)
takemyhand
11/26/08, 11:40 PM
blah I always get asked if I'm my little sisters twin :|
or younger than her (she's 14).
But once in H&M I got mistaken for 26... I was happy that day.
haha.
I suggest wear good make-up, it has to be right for your face certain make-up doesn't look good on everyone, and haircut find something to match the shape of your face.
and clothes dress like other girls your age?
could try heels, that might be pushing it hahah
yea i used to always get that, and still do. I dont wear makeup so that probably doesnt help. However, when at bars everyone knows that you have to be at least 21+, so its not as bad but still gets annoying.
concernedparent
11/28/08, 06:57 PM
yea i used to always get that, and still do. I dont wear makeup so that probably doesnt help. However, when at bars everyone knows that you have to be at least 21+, so its not as bad but still gets annoying.
And luckily, you're always at bars.
DaveZeroZero
11/29/08, 05:49 AM
Grow a beard.
Dammit Brandon, that's what I was going to say
Regardless of whether or not she's a female.
caress me down
11/29/08, 07:48 AM
there's an identical thread to this one. search function :-)
tomakebelieve
11/29/08, 07:34 PM
I got mistaken for 24 today. That never happens.
Though, the woman who thought my bb cousin (whose 3) was actually my daughter. >:o
h23eather
11/29/08, 07:42 PM
I am 19 and always get hit on my 30 year olds that think i am older. always the older guys, never guys my age =[
llwilliamsll
11/29/08, 09:32 PM
Smoking helps one look older.
PadraicPrincess
11/30/08, 05:05 AM
Clothes are huge, and get heels or boots with small heels. I feel like I don't look particularly old all the time, I am 5'4 approximately, but I have this guy friend who is 6'2 and looks really old, so whenever I'm out with him it's not a problem.
SO the moral of the story is, find taller, older looking friends? ahaha I give bad advice.
Angylion Gefell
11/30/08, 02:10 PM
try wearing more serious looking clothes. I dunno, i've never had this problem, so i'm just shooting in the dark.
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