thats the last time I'm taking advice from my bestfriend on men...

[immorehxcthanu]

Is playing with someone's hair scary? I really don't know who the hell to believe out of my friends. Seriously is that considered coming on too strong? You've got to be fucking kidding me.

[ikikwe]

Girls play with my hair all the time. That's because it's silky smooth. I don't mind it or find it coming on strong at all. I didn't even know it was coming on at all.

[thespearkid]

I only understood about 50% of that post but I like playing with hair.

[lovely864md]

It's terrifying. I shudder just thinking about it.

[immorehxcthanu]

Basically I like this guy I met thru a friend of mine I used to work with...my bestfriend(a girl) told me to come on stronger to him but the kid who introduced us tells me now I'm coming off too strong but I'm really pissed because he's talking to me like I'm a child on im and he's two years younger then me.

[mattmatumbo]

girls (used to) play with my hair all the time, its only because its a 'fro though

[Heart-A-Tact]

It's not really that big of a deal. Girls playing with my hair never bothered me.

[immorehxcthanu]

My friend is making me feel like some kind of whore or something. I think he's pissed off at me or something, for the longest time he's been trying to get with me but now that I like his friend shit hits the fan. It's so childish.

[Heart-A-Tact]

My friend is making me feel like some kind of whore or something. I think he's pissed off at me or something, for the longest time he's been trying to get with me but now that I like his friend shit hits the fan. It's so childish.

Because you were playing with his hair?

[xxcatastrophicc]

I love playing with hair. Noone that I know thinks anything bad about it.

[m_rue]

I don't think it's a very big deal -- just another flirty move.

[caLLmEnOoNe]

I don't think it's a very big deal -- just another flirty move.
agreed

[djUbilla]

I don't think it's a very big deal -- just another flirty move.Well said.

[immorehxcthanu]

Because you were playing with his hair?

Not even kidding. He's basically jealous but doesn't have the balls to admit it.

[thesafeword]

Playing with his hair leads to having sex and you're not married yet, so that would be breaking my Christian values.

[immorehxcthanu]

Playing with his hair leads to having sex and you're not married yet, so that would be breaking my Christian values.
lol

[andrew4045]

bitches be crazy

[Heart-A-Tact]

Not even kidding. He's basically jealous but doesn't have the balls to admit it.

What a joke.

[immorehxcthanu]

What a joke.

They have a band together...I have a feeling it's not going to last much longer.

[Heart-A-Tact]

They have a band together...I have a feeling it's not going to last much longer.

Well, it's a pretty legit reason to break up the band.

Haha.

[anamericangod]

I only understood about 50% of that post but I like playing with hair.

This.

[immorehxcthanu]

This.

I was really frazzled when I wrote this.

[thespearkid]

My friend is making me feel like some kind of whore or something. I think he's pissed off at me or something, for the longest time he's been trying to get with me but now that I like his friend shit hits the fan. It's so childish.
Not gonna lie though. The whole thing is a bit of a bitch move.

Edit: I'll explain. If you value the affection of this new guy over your friend and are willing to put your friendship on the line for a shot with him, that's fine but you'll look like a bit of a bitch for awhile. Also, your friend is a pussy who needs to grow the fuck up and your friend's friend is an ass as well (assuming he knows your friend is into you). Honestly, the whole situation sounds like something twenty year olds should be too old for.

[immorehxcthanu]

Well, it's a pretty legit reason to break up the band.

Haha.

It really isn't. He's the type of person that will honestly blame me if and when it does happen.

[Heart-A-Tact]

It really isn't. He's the type of person that will honestly blame me if and when it does happen.

Haha, I was just kidding. That's lame.

[immorehxcthanu]

Not gonna lie though. The whole thing is a bit of a bitch move.

Edit: I'll explain. If you value the affection of this new guy over your friend and are willing to put your friendship on the line for it, that's fine but you'll look like a bit of a bitch for awhile. Also, your friend is a pussy who needs to grow the fuck up. Honestly, the whole situation sounds like something twenty year olds should be too old for.

I feel bad that he feels bad but I can assure you he feels that a relationship will solve all of his problems. He gets depressed and treats me(and I'm sure most of his other girlfriends) like complete shit. I'm clinically depressed and I never take it out on my friends, I've given so much to help him and it's not like I'm shoving this in his face. He himself even gave me some decent advice on this guy but now that I'm thinking about it, I feel like he only did it because he felt obligated to. I'm really not a mean spirited person and he knows that I would drop everything to help him out even if he doesn't find the need to call me back when I leave him a voicemail hysterically crying because I'm so depressed. Something happened to him, I'm not exactly sure but I've known him two years and he wasn't always like this...

[thespearkid]

I feel bad that he feels bad but I can assure you he feels that a relationship will solve all of his problems. He gets depressed and treats me(and I'm sure most of his other girlfriends) like complete shit. I'm clinically depressed and I never take it out on my friends, I've given so much to help him and it's not like I'm shoving this in his face. He himself even gave me some decent advice on this guy but now that I'm thinking about it, I feel like he only did it because he felt obligated to. I'm really not a mean spirited person and he knows that I would drop everything to help him out even if he doesn't find the need to call me back when I leave him a voicemail hysterically crying because I'm so depressed. Something happened to him, I'm not exactly sure but I've known him two years and he wasn't always like this...
Have you asked him what's up?

[immorehxcthanu]

Have you asked him what's up?

I do but then I always get "nothing's wrong, what are you talking about?" Like he makes me feel like I'm fucking crazy for even suspecting somethings wrong.

[Gumbyjag]

fuck that guy. keep trying. he needs to grow the hell up.