Can music mend my broken heart?

[Bright_Eyes2011]

I used to be a firm believer that love was just something you read about on books and saw on the movies. I have refused to tell anyone I love them and really mean it because so many people take the words "I love you" and use them until they are no longer significant or 'real'. I am only a teenager, but never felt like I belonged to the stereotype of what a teenager should be. My mind goes far beyond those that surround me and my knowledge stretches beyond my years. Don't get me wrong, I'm not the type to brag, but would anyone, given my age, truly give me the time of day if I didn't explain my situation first? So back to the purpose of this post, many of my friends claim to be in love and I just role my eyes as I listen to the fairy tales they believe in. What makes us think we are in love just because we have feelings for someone? I swore to avoid this "love" trap for as long as possible, but sadly fell victim to the disease about six months ago. The guy was a few years older than me but we got along extremely well. I'm not going to say that I loved him, but I believe that I could have. After we we're involved for awhile, he started flirting with one of my close friends and ended up going after her. He was one of my best friends and so important to me. I felt like I had lost everyhting. My friend, luckily, didn't go along with this guy and he soon told everyone how much he hated my friend. He stopped talking to me and called me occasionally when he was drunk, confessing how sorry he was and how he wanted to be different, how hw still wanted to be my friend. As stupid as it now seems, I wanted to keep him close to me. Eventually though, he stopped talking to me and moved 8 hours away without saying goddbye. I lost my best friend and a guy that could have meant a lot to me in my future. The whole thing has left me numb and so lost. If anyone has any advice on how to cope with something like this, I would deeply appreciate it.Thank you


-Sarah-

[4N6 science]

To long didn't read.

No music can't mend a broken heart.

Welcome to AP.

[Smash Adams]

I swore to avoid this "love" trap for as long as possible, but sadly fell victim to the disease about six months ago. The guy was a few years older than me but we got along extremely well. I'm not going to say that I loved him, but I believe that I could have.
you are really fucking weird, lay off the peyote

[RedWineSheets]

didnt read as well. Assume it has something to do with "love." youre 15, youll get over it. I dont talk to any of my friends that I had when I was 15, life goes on.

[kwsqd]

what the fuck is this shit?

[TSLROCKS]

To long didn't read.

No music can't mend a broken heart.

Welcome to AP.

This

[Metfan615]

what?

[Smeee]

Keep busy. In my experience, less time thinking means less time hurting and just let time get on and heal the hurt.

And what sensefail11807 said. Find some nice crying music and some angry ass-kicking music.

[kwsqd]

and roll a fat blunt

[anamericangod]

Oh to be 15 again.

[4N6 science]

Oh I forgot, in before the lock.

[tomakebelieve]

Oh to be 15 and my biggest worry being if I did my math homework or not....

[4N6 science]

I wish I was 15 again. The world was much simpler.

[Freeride]

yes it can, listen to Milkshake by kelis

[Heart-A-Tact]

I wish I was 15 again. The world was much simpler.

It really was.

[AlkalineAshes]

haha did anyone actually read it? i didnt lol

[4N6 science]

Nope not even close.

[andrewshungry]

there is no way anyone is going to read that

[UntilItKillsYou]

Music helps but time is what really does the trick

/serious answer

[AlkalineAshes]

music can also hurt tho.. be careful what you listen to

[Burning Star IV]

tldr

[Christinie.pie]

Love is so overrated and unfortunately it doesn't get easier.
You can drown yourself in music and hope that it can mend your broken heart or you can do something about it. Go talk to a friend, or do something to get your mind off of it and in time you'll forget about him.

[Chris Fallon]

I know you're only 15, but... wow, that was some of the most ridiculous, sophomoric crap I have ever read.