Falling in Love

[PaulsRightNut]

do you think you already have to know the person pretty well, in order to fall in love with them?

I'm not necessarily talking about love at first sight, even just on a level of a friendly acquaintance.

But how well do you think you need to know a person before you can have such strong feelings?

[MADSTA]

I really think it differs from person to person.

[Giant Broccoli]

Youre picture is a dog.

[kaycey]

hey who you calling bitch, BITCH!!!

[resrchmnkygrl6]

idk, i'd agree with madsta, but people usually freak out when they hear a couple got married after only having known the otherfor "just" a year...sometimes (maybe frequently) even less than that.

[4N6 science]

I don't know what love is really.

[Dumpweed]

Youre picture is a dog.

You are pictar is an Azn.

[thespearkid]

You can't be in love with a person if you don't know the majority there is to know about them.

[4N6 science]

You can't be in love with a person if you don't know the majority there is to know about them.

Yeah it's most likely infatuation.

[lovely864md]

I believe it's very important to know the person well. You can't love a question mark. There has to be some sort of substance there.

I do believe that some people who are very infatuated with each other right off the bat can end up in love, but in the beginning that's what it is: infatuation and possibilty.

[thesafeword]

I love lamp.

[thespearkid]

Anchorman reference is win.

[Giant Broccoli]

You are pictar is an Azn.

kindly hop off my balls sir, who learned you how to spoke.

[kaycey]

http://img2.timeinc.net/ew/dynamic/imgs/041021/115849__whatslove_l.jpg
what's love got to do with it ?

[fadedmemories]

I think so....

[Freeride]

dunno, never been in love

[.invisible ink.]

http://img2.timeinc.net/ew/dynamic/imgs/041021/115849__whatslove_l.jpg
what's love got to do with it ?

is that Amy Winehouse pretending to be Tina Turner?

[Freeride]

is that Amy Winehouse pretending to be Tina Turner?

LOLLLL i hate amy winehouse so bad, she reminds me of a horse.

[theguilt engine]

Umm it just kind of happens. I can't really break down my experience with love...it's too awesome.

[kwsqd]

it takes a while. like others said.

[DaveZeroZero]

LOLLLL i hate amy winehouse so bad, she reminds me of a horse.
but without the elegance and sexual prowess.

[brentkid]

I think you can love someone pretty quickly. Falling in love with them is another thing.

[chronomic]

it's hard to say. and I'm even going to venture out and say that we're all kinda too young to really understand what love is. I'm not saying we can't recognize it or even show/give it, but that it takes a lifetime of commitment to get a grasp on what love really means.

I don't really know if that makes sense, and theres been girls I've fallen for, but I think it's a combination of infatuation and the feeling of one day truly loving them.

ehh, I'll prolly change my mind by the end of the day.

[pilot_light_out]

you just know

[tomakebelieve]

I haven't ever been in love, just had a lot of infactuation.

I do think it takes time, though.

[DaveZeroZero]

I haven't ever been in love, just had a lot of infactuation.

I do think it takes time, though.
*Infatuation

[tomakebelieve]

*Infatuation

Ouch I fucked up that spelling. Oops.

[pilot_light_out]

:-d

[voncorn]

Falling in love, could be the first thing.
Falling in love, could be the worst thing.
There's no rehearsing, retarded in love.

[lew_1987]

There's loving someone, and then there's being in love with someone.

[Heart-A-Tact]

There's loving someone, and then there's being in love with someone.

This is true.

[paigen]

There's loving someone, and then there's being in love with someone.

This.

[bigblue2015]

I agree that it's different from person to person. Up until my current relationship, I've always confused love with a crush or infatuation. It hard to explain, but when you're truly in love with someone, you know it.

[DaveZeroZero]

I agree that it's different from person to person. Up until my current relationship, I've always confused love with a crush or infatuation. It hard to explain, but when you're truly in love with someone, you know it.
And by that you mean that she gives great head, amirite?

[bigblue2015]

And by that you mean that she gives great head, amirite?

Exactly Dave, and to tie it in with your other thread, as soon as you know that she swallows. That's love.

[Kassie09]

I can love someone as a person quickly.
Now being in love with someone...that takes me a long time.

[DaveZeroZero]

Exactly Dave, and to tie it in with your other thread, as soon as you know that she swallows. That's love.
:lick:

[Chancetobe]

Interesting question. I wouldn't really know, because I've never been in love. But, I'd imagine that unless your in a successful relationship with someone, it's hard to be IN LOVE with them. You may love them. But the more you get to know someone, the more you can find to dislike.

[immorehxcthanu]

I think it's easier if you're friends with the person for a bit first. This is speaking from experience but I guess it's different with different people.

[CHEW ROCKET]

I know a couple who got married within a week of meeting.
THe dude is american, and I hear you're all a bit crazy right?

[m_rue]

I wouldn't really know, but... I think to truly fall in love it takes time to learn about each other and going through experiences together.

[&IllBeTheReason]

I do believe that you can love someone very quickly. However, it's does get out of hand. You need to let it grow and develop before it becomes a serious commitment. I thought I loved a boyfriend of mine when I met him but every month after I loved him even more.

[blackbirdy]

I'd like to say something dreamy like "you just know" but that'd be lying. I've "known" before and it hasn't worked out and I think all the divorced people in the world "knew" at one time as well. I don't know, I've loved people I've known for months and people I've known for years and in the end - it well- ended. So who knows. :-|

[.invisible ink.]

I'd like to say something dreamy like "you just know" but that'd be lying. I've "known" before and it hasn't worked out and I think all the divorced people in the world "knew" at one time as well. I don't know, I've loved people I've known for months and people I've known for years and in the end - it well- ended. So who knows. :-|

just because you love someone (or fall in love with someone) doesn't mean it has to last forever. As others have said, it's easy to love someone, it's much more serious when you actually fall in love. Either way, it doesn't make it any less real or significant if it doesn't last forever. It can happen quickly and it can end just as quickly. People change, it's bound to happen eventually but that doesn't negate its impact.

[blackbirdy]

Not saying it has to last forever, I'm just saying that -so far -I've fallen in love with people at varying times of knowing them and it had the same result.

[June_Bug]

I think it's way easier to fall in love with someone if you've been friends for awhile. I'm kind of dealing with the same situation, it just makes it 10x better. Most likely they've seen you at your worst and the other way around, so it just seems natural.

[smithariko]

what is love?
baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me no more

[4N6 science]

Love is opening up a bag of potato chips and smelling that freshness.

[bigblue2015]

I think it's way easier to fall in love with someone if you've been friends for awhile. I'm kind of dealing with the same situation, it just makes it 10x better. Most likely they've seen you at your worst and the other way around, so it just seems natural.

I agree with this. I was best friends with my girlfriend for 4 or 5 years before we started going out, so I think it definitely makes it a lot easier, it feels like we've known each other forever.

[silentstar1134]

I agree with this. I was best friends with my girlfriend for 4 or 5 years before we started going out, so I think it definitely makes it a lot easier, it feels like we've known each other forever.

Thats cool, At least you get to know the person real well beforehand. but that must have been pretty restictive on your love opportunities.

[bigblue2015]

Thats cool, At least you get to know the person real well beforehand. but that must have been pretty restictive on your love opportunities.

Nah, not really.

[blackbirdy]

I agree with this. I was best friends with my girlfriend for 4 or 5 years before we started going out, so I think it definitely makes it a lot easier, it feels like we've known each other forever.

I always feel way too brotherly/sisterly toward people when I know them for that long.

[bigblue2015]

I always feel way too brotherly/sisterly toward people when I know them for that long.

True, I can see where you're coming from. I think for us though, there was always this underlying attraction there, it was just that it took forever for one of us to actually act on it.

[blackbirdy]

I think for us though, there was always this underlying attraction there, it was just that it took forever for one of us to actually act on it.

I can understand that. Makes sense.

[tasteofchaosgrl]

i think you should know them for a good amount of time before you develope feelings of love for them... my boyfriend just said i love you the other day after only dating for 4 days.. it caught me completely off guard and i didnt know what to say back

[DaveZeroZero]

i think you should know them for a good amount of time before you develope feelings of love for them... my boyfriend just said i love you the other day after only dating for 4 days.. it caught me completely off guard and i didnt know what to say back
I think he just wanted to put his peepee in you.

[tasteofchaosgrl]

I think he just wanted to put his peepee in you.
well thats not going to happen anytime soon

[Posthardcore]

Depends on both personalities and how you adapt to them really first. Then comes the rest.

[bigblue2015]

well thats not going to happen anytime soon


Burnnnnn.


Like the Hindenburg.

[DaveZeroZero]

well thats not going to happen anytime soon
then I suggest you dump his white ass, girl.

[blackbirdy]

well thats not going to happen anytime soon

Might want to let him know then.

[Heart-A-Tact]

Burnnnnn.


Like the Hindenburg.

Ahaha. This is a good one.

[DaveZeroZero]

Burnnnnn.


Like the Hindenburg.
Burnnnnnnn.

Like your pee when you have VD.

[bigblue2015]

Burnnnnnnn.

Like your pee when you have VD.

+2 points for rhyming.

[DaveZeroZero]

+2 points for rhyming.
Like your pee when you have VD
I spit rhymez like I'm Jay-Z :jayz:

[bigblue2015]

Hold up, lemme get my beat-box going

[DaveZeroZero]

unnh-tiss!

[lew_1987]

Like your pee when you have VD
I spit rhymez like I'm Jay-Z :jayz:

D and Z don't rhyme. We're English, remember? ;-)

[Thomas Balkcom]

I know nothing of love at the age of 20, I have just been involved in numerous ultimately meaningless relationships.

[Dumpweed]

kindly hop off my balls sir, who learned you how to spoke.


you originally said, "You're picture is a dog." Which translates to, You are picture is a dog. "Your" would have been the correct usage. So I said "You are" to illustrate this. Anyways, no hard feelings I'm just bored and poking some fun, since you're an Angels fan and all :P

[DaveZeroZero]

D and Z don't rhyme. We're English, remember? ;-)
I'm both =]

[Giant Broccoli]

you originally said, "You're picture is a dog." Which translates to, You are picture is a dog. "Your" would have been the correct usage. So I said "You are" to illustrate this. Anyways, no hard feelings I'm just bored and poking some fun, since you're an Angels fan and all :P

You're annoying

[Fallinto_rhythm]

I know nothing of love at the age of 20, I have just been involved in numerous ultimately meaningless relationships.

Looks like we have the next Tucker Max on our hands.

[Dumpweed]

You're annoying


Glad you learned something today. :]
You're doing great!

[PadraicPrincess]

the "love" that you feel at the beginning of a relationship is not "love", it is infatuation, sexual attraction. love is friendship and something more, but honestly it is different for everyone. and at 18 I can't exactly say I'm an expert haha.

[Thomas Balkcom]

Looks like we have the next Tucker Max on our hands.

haha no my relationships are extremely boring

[kaycey]

makes you think about someone all the time.

[kesto4]

Love does take some time. With my current girlfriend, I think I was in love in the first month of dating honestly. But we didn't have a typical story, it was much different. The spring before, we realized we liked each other a lot and then when she broke up with her ex, we talked a lot and learned tons about each other and went on a date, but we didn't end up going out until a while after that. She was a good friend for another 6 months on my life while I dated another girl for 3 which wasn't anything serious. After that ended, for over a month we talked a lot and learned tons about each other, having very strong feelings for each other and knowing we would end up dating but I just wanted to take it slow, and now 7 1/2 months later, here I sit talking about her. I'm 18, she's 17 and I'm pretty sure we will end up together, and she feels the same way. It's just something you know...I didn't have a damn clue what love was before...

[Fallinto_rhythm]

one day I'll know what love is.

[bigblue2015]

I wanna know what love is....I want you to show meeeee

[ArmedROBery]

Wish I knew. It's weird to sit back and see all of your friends "fall in love", while you wonder why you've never even been in a single, serious relationship

Pssh, middle school does not count.

[bigblue2015]

Wish I knew. It's weird to sit back and see all of your friends "fall in love", while you wonder why you've never even been in a single, serious relationship

Pssh, middle school does not count.

I know what you mean, I felt the same way as you up until about a year ago. Everyone gets their shot eventually.

[concernedparent]

do you think you already have to know the person pretty well, in order to fall in love with them?

I'm not necessarily talking about love at first sight, even just on a level of a friendly acquaintance.

But how well do you think you need to know a person before you can have such strong feelings?
I only feel like I've really been in love once, and it was with a girl I knew for several years (as a friend), but once things stepped up I really started to feel "in love." It was because I liked her personality a loooooot.

[shawdadblah]

first off the person you have feelins for must be ready to accept it cause if you come off to strong , it can can scare a dude. then you just blew your chance. ........... love forced is love lost........

[Epidemic*]

Just fuck her brains out, followed by anal, that is true love.

[banditandrew]

love is hard, hurts, opens your eyes not only about your lover...but about yourself, and shit is it a lot of work

but the reward is amazing...i dont think ppl know what love is..until they get it from both sides (thats what she said)

[MarsEatWorld]

And by that you mean that she gives great head, amirite?
if by head you mean anal
you are right

[DaveZeroZero]

if by head you mean anal
you are right
Turbonegro did not write a song about good anal, only good head.

[MarsEatWorld]

Turbonegro did not write a song about good anal, only good head.
Turbonegro meant anal when he said head.

[billyboatkid]

It varies. I knew within a two/three weeks..

[DaveZeroZero]

Turbonegro meant anal when he said head.
When "he" said "head"?

It's a band, fool.

[MarsEatWorld]

When "he" said "head"?

It's a band, fool.
When they.
haha

[DaveZeroZero]

When they.
haha
Shut up, you know you got owned.

[MarsEatWorld]

Shut up, you know you got owned.
I don't listen to them :shrug:

[DaveZeroZero]

I don't listen to them :shrug:
You're missing out on some great Norwegian death-punk.

[MarsEatWorld]

You're missing out on some great Norwegian death-punk.
I'll scope it out.

[caress me down]

all you need is love!

:-) listening to that right now

[4N6 science]

as tall as lions= love for me at this current moment.

[kaycey]

all you need is love!

:-) listening to that right now


ever listen to THIS
http://img2.timeinc.net/ew/dynamic/imgs/041021/115849__whatslove_l.jpg
what's love got to do with it ?

[RunInTheFront]

haha no? i'm going with ATAL.

[MarsEatWorld]

haha no? i'm going with ATAL.
:highfive:

as tall as lions is the way to my heart

[RunInTheFront]

:highfive:

as tall as lions is the way to my heart

atal is the way to go! I LOVE Lafcadio. I know for a fact they used a VooDoo lab Sparkle Drive pedal on their recording, which makes me love the album even more. But, self titled is a good record though.

[MarsEatWorld]

atal is the way to go! I LOVE Lafcadio. I know for a fact they used a VooDoo lab Sparkle Drive pedal on their recording, which makes me love the album even more. But, self titled is a good record though.
yummm..
im gna go try to sleep to some atal right now.
hahaha
goodnight :]

i'm mars btw

[RunInTheFront]

yummm..
im gna go try to sleep to some atal right now.
hahaha
goodnight :]

i'm mars btw

Goodnight! You can call me Spence! It is a shame we can't talk more. I'd like too!

[RunInTheFront]

Is your name really mars? Because that would be awesome!

[morgan_w]

idk, i'd agree with madsta, but people usually freak out when they hear a couple got married after only having known the otherfor "just" a year...sometimes (maybe frequently) even less than that.

I agree with that, I hate when it happens cause usually it never ends up working...

I am not sure how long it takes, I feel like it varies from person to person though.

[ouroboros85]

I agree with that, I hate when it happens cause usually it never ends up working...

I am not sure how long it takes, I feel like it varies from person to person though.
it totally varies from person to person. sometimes a person can meet someone else and the two of them could have SUCH a strong connection that getting married after a year of being together might now workout terribly for them and they could be married for the rest of their lives. other times it takes longer for people to develop that strong connection.

some people are needy and have to have somebody to lean on all the time which can either workout in their favor or drive their loved one away. sometimes two people in a relationship can be very individualistic people and can last years because they are happy and love being with each other and have a positive balance of how their time together and apart are spent. it's just that the time needed in order to see these things in each other differs so you can never really tell.

but what do i know? either way it's great when it happens.

[MarsEatWorld]

Is your name really mars? Because that would be awesome!
It's Marcela but everyone calls me Mars haha.
Happy Thanksgiving!!

[pisspants]

Falling in love, could be the first thing.
Falling in love, could be the worst thing.
There's no rehearsing, retarded in love.


Say Anything <3

[DaveZeroZero]

Falling in love, could be the first thing.
Falling in love, could be the worst thing.
There's no rehearsing, retarded in love.
I like the bits in that song about violating his every orifice.

[nicole sxe]

Youre picture is a dog.

your=possession
you're=you are

get it right ;)

[nicole sxe]

I agree with that, I hate when it happens cause usually it never ends up working...

I am not sure how long it takes, I feel like it varies from person to person though.


what constitutes ' working ' ?

Ive had family that dated 3-6 months(without knowing each other previously), got married and have been together over 15 years. So, in the end...it's all about if you make it work. But, thats a convo for another time because then you get into morals and standards. You do NOT want me to get into that.

[caress me down]

what the world needs now is love sweet love

[kaycey]

i hate it when shit doesn't work out later.
love sucks!

[Russia08]

i hate it when shit doesn't work out later.
love sucks!
agreed 100%...it's good for a while and the it just hurts and sucks. a lot =/