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immorehxcthanu
12/01/08, 04:40 AM
This guy I've had a crush(for 3 years) asks me out last sunday and of course, I said yes. Aside from a few texts over the past week we haven't talked at all. I know he's really busy but I'm just really confused, why did he even bother asking me in the first place? I think I've made it apparent I'd drop everything and go down there. Maybe I'm over thinking this.

kaycey
12/01/08, 05:11 AM
don't over think it, this may be good. maybe he does feel the same way but doesn't know how you feel and so he's just playing it cool but in reality he just can't stop thinking about you, he thinks about you every minute, every day, he can't even sleep because of you.

jagermeister
12/01/08, 05:33 AM
You're 21. Do you need to ask this?

kemichels
12/01/08, 05:34 AM
don't over think it, this may be good. maybe he does feel the same way but doesn't know how you feel and so he's just playing it cool but in reality he just can't stop thinking about you, he thinks about you every minute, every day, he can't even sleep because of you.


uuhhhhh...

kaycey
12/01/08, 05:48 AM
uuhhhhh...
lol, just saying, its possible.

MADSTA
12/01/08, 05:52 AM
Just ask him what's up.

Mskillet90
12/01/08, 06:13 AM
^That.

James_Brand
12/01/08, 06:33 AM
This guy I've had a crush(for 3 years) asks me out last sunday and of course, I said yes. Aside from a few texts over the past week we haven't talked at all. I know he's really busy but I'm just really confused, why did he even bother asking me in the first place? I think I've made it apparent I'd drop everything and go down there. Maybe I'm over thinking this.

That is a good plan.

morgan_w
12/01/08, 07:29 AM
Ummm...be happy, don't think about it :D

thespearkid
12/01/08, 07:35 AM
You're a little too old to not know the answer to this. Just talk to him about it.

SLoT
12/01/08, 07:44 AM
This guy I've had a crush(for 3 years) asks me out last sunday and of course, I said yes. Aside from a few texts over the past week we haven't talked at all. I know he's really busy but I'm just really confused, why did he even bother asking me in the first place? I think I've made it apparent I'd drop everything and go down there. Maybe I'm over thinking this.
You can look forward to your next date in 2011. Have a good time waiting.

LV03
12/01/08, 09:45 AM
what did he exactly say when he asked you out, word for word.

and yea girls tend to over-analyze everything, so you're prob just freaking out for no reason.

llwilliamsll
12/01/08, 10:15 AM
This guy I've had a crush(for 3 years) asks me out last sunday and of course, I said yes. Aside from a few texts over the past week we haven't talked at all. I know he's really busy but I'm just really confused, why did he even bother asking me in the first place? I think I've made it apparent I'd drop everything and go down there. Maybe I'm over thinking this.
Lulz I wish more girls would say that to me.

pennie
12/01/08, 10:26 AM
anal

chronomic
12/01/08, 10:54 AM
haha. i wish my girl problems were as sweet as this. every time i get involved with someone it ends like a horror movie. everyones dead.

4N6 science
12/01/08, 11:21 AM
uh...why is this a huge deal I'm sure there's a reasonable explanation.

.invisible ink.
12/01/08, 04:58 PM
he's probably just playing it cool. just relax and have a good time when you actually do see him (much easier said than done, i know.)

Machu505
12/01/08, 05:09 PM
This guy I've had a crush(for 3 years) asks me out last sunday and of course, I said yes. Aside from a few texts over the past week we haven't talked at all. I know he's really busy but I'm just really confused, why did he even bother asking me in the first place? I think I've made it apparent I'd drop everything and go down there. Maybe I'm over thinking this.

And all girls aren't like this, why?

sodamnclever
12/01/08, 06:05 PM
what did he exactly say when he asked you out, word for word.

and yea girls tend to over-analyze everything, so you're prob just freaking out for no reason.
so true.

Fallinto_rhythm
12/01/08, 06:32 PM
Ummm...be happy, don't think about it :D
Your avatar looks like a poor innocent girl who was sold into white slavery.

more heart
12/01/08, 06:35 PM
maybe he liked you for a while and it hasen't sunk in with him and he feels awkward

m_rue
12/01/08, 07:38 PM
Ask him what his deal is. Playing games is bullshit and a waste of time.

immorehxcthanu
12/01/08, 08:15 PM
Ask him what his deal is. Playing games is bullshit and a waste of time.

I completely agree...I hate feeling strung along, this is ridiculous.

disco.tetris
12/02/08, 03:15 AM
Give it about a week or so and if things don't get better talk to him.

immorehxcthanu
12/02/08, 05:49 AM
I honestly keep waiting to find out that it was a joke. Wouldn't be a big shocker since this year has been one of the worst of my life...just add that to the pile.

James_Brand
12/02/08, 06:28 AM
I honestly keep waiting to find out that it was a joke. Wouldn't be a big shocker since this year has been one of the worst of my life...just add that to the pile.
I'm waiting to find out it's a joke, as well. That would be hilarious.

Just remember that you're 21. In all reality, you will have many more "worst of my life" years, months, weeks, and days.

immorehxcthanu
12/03/08, 08:45 PM
He called me earlier, he's been busy with work. Had to go to Pittsburgh for something.

4N6 science
12/03/08, 08:48 PM
so you overreacted?

bung
12/03/08, 08:52 PM
Start showing up at his place without notifying him beforehand. If you do it enough, things will work out.