help!

[jeremyfromva]

I am now 23...have never had a real date...still a virgin (pathetic i know) and honestly not bad looking...I lack serious confidence because of my high school days...I don't know what to do...any advice?

Stats...

23
dirty blonde hair
green eyes
6'2, 162 lbs (skinny as fuck)

In high school I was 5'6 and I was picked on the most :(

[apoemtothedead]

Hire a hooker.

[kimosabe]

Alright, seriously I'm not even gonna bother to burn you, seeing as this is probly as pathetic as it can get. What type of help do you want? You need to tell us more about what you do/are about. Do you have many friends male/female? I'm gonna go out on a limb and presume you don't have that many friends. First tip: get out. seriously. just turn off the machine go have a cup coffe at a coffe shop or something. Also, try new stuff, like going training, picking up a language class or starting martial arts (great way to meet bendy chicks :P). Also stop listening to emo. I mean that seriously, you're just perpetuating an unhealthy self image of yourself as a looser. fuck, even ska is better. But first step: get the fuck out.

[jeremyfromva]

Alright, seriously I'm not even gonna bother to burn you, seeing as this is probly as pathetic as it can get. What type of help do you want? You need to tell us more about what you do/are about. Do you have many friends male/female? I'm gonna go out on a limb and presume you don't have that many friends. First tip: get out. seriously. just turn off the machine go have a cup coffe at a coffe shop or something. Also, try new stuff, like going training, picking up a language class or starting martial arts (great way to meet bendy chicks :P). Also stop listening to emo. I mean that seriously, you're just perpetuating an unhealthy self image of yourself as a looser. fuck, even ska is better. But first step: get the fuck out.

Quite honestly...I have very few friends. I am pretty much scared of most people after high school. I go to movies alone or with a coworker or coworkers. I wouldn't say I have ANY true friends. I don't listen to emo...look at my favorite bands...most of them are not emo. This one's for the ladies to decide...am I just too fucking ugly???

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v634/jeremyfromva/67841931_m.jpg

and what I do...

I work for a cable company (cox communications) as a sales rep while they pay my way through college..I was in a Community College for the past few semesters but go back to Old Dominion University in the Fall. Again, i have no life...I pretty much sit on the computer all day or watch movies or write...i haven't killed myself yet because i care about my family too much.

[kimosabe]

Quite honestly...I have very few friends. I am pretty much scared of most people after high school. I go to movies alone or with a coworker or coworkers. I wouldn't say I have ANY true friends. I don't listen to emo...look at my favorite bands...most of them are not emo. This one's for the ladies to decide...am I just too fucking ugly???

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v634/jeremyfromva/67841931_m.jpg
"Favorite Bands:
Ben Folds, Mae, Jimmy Eat World, Something Corporate, The Shins, Interpol, The Starting Line, The Decemberists, Copeland, Death Cab for Cutie, Motion City SOundtrack, The WOrking Title, Keane, Ted Leo and the Pharmacists,"
Is it emo or is it indie or is it emocoreretrorockbluesjazz?
point is none of them are gonna wear out your dancing shoes. stop listening to crap. Going to movies alone....that's REALLY sad. As previously stated: get out! and get a hobby where you can be sociable and meet/meat people. Training is the shiznit.

[djUbilla]

I am now 23...have never had a real date...still a virgin (pathetic i know) and honestly not bad looking...I lack serious confidence because of my high school days...I don't know what to do...any advice?

Stats...

23
dirty blonde hair
green eyes
6'2, 162 lbs (skinny as fuck)

In high school I was 5'6 and I was picked on the most :(
I think the first thing you have to do is find a stout Middle Eastern man named Ali. He worked at a Border's in Northern Virginia last summer, and he should still have a beard. Find him and the party should begin.

And if that's too difficult, look up a Matt Howley, yeah that's it, Howley. He's got red hair and goatee, he'll hook you up with the ladies.

You know that, or just put yourself in social situations and say and do whatever you want, because it seems like being quiet hasn't worked. Anytime somebody asks, "Hey dude, you wanna go do something". Always answer, yes, because there's an infinite greater possibility that there will be chicks to meet outside of your room.

Hmmm...and...listen to what you want. Don't let it dictate your life, as in the lyrical content should make you assume that everything that could possibly be good will burn up in flames.

Just throw caution to the wind more. Why not?

[A picasso blue]

Hire a hooker.

you stole my idea!!! :(

personally ive decided that when i turn 18, if i dont have a girlfriend at the time (i havent yet) ill get a prostitute. my gift to me...

"Favorite Bands:
Ben Folds, Mae, Jimmy Eat World, Something Corporate, The Shins, Interpol, The Starting Line, The Decemberists, Copeland, Death Cab for Cutie, Motion City SOundtrack, The WOrking Title, Keane, Ted Leo and the Pharmacists,"
Is it emo or is it indie or is it emocoreretrorockbluesjazz?
point is none of them are gonna wear out your dancing shoes. stop listening to crap. Going to movies alone....that's REALLY sad. As previously stated: get out! and get a hobby where you can be sociable and meet/meat people. Training is the shiznit.


ok um....there's really nothing wrong with emo. its apparent that he listens to emo along with other types of music. like the Shins and Interpol and Ben Folds are not emo.

your problem is not with the music

[cris545]

u sound like me, ur probably quiet and really reserved... if u wanna get girls, be more social and open up, do u have anything to lose, anything at all? since u dont...u dont have anything to lose by opening up... be urself and forget what others think, say whats on ur mind and forget about the rest, be yourself and stop reserving urself so much, odds are that someones waiting for u to open up

[jeremyfromva]

u sound like me, ur probably quiet and really reserved... if u wanna get girls, be more social and open up, do u have anything to lose, anything at all? since u dont...u dont have anything to lose by opening up... be urself and forget what others think, say whats on ur mind and forget about the rest, be yourself and stop reserving urself so much, odds are that someones waiting for u to open up

I am annoying if I am myself...I talk way too much

[Jerm]

i have a solution to you problem ill IM you later dude

[EMOtionallyPUNX]

I am now 23...have never had a real date...still a virgin (pathetic i know) and honestly not bad looking...I lack serious confidence because of my high school days...I don't know what to do...any advice?

Stats...

23
dirty blonde hair
green eyes
6'2, 162 lbs (skinny as fuck)

In high school I was 5'6 and I was picked on the most :(

Call me ;)

[richter915]

I am annoying if I am myself...I talk way too much
u think that you're annoying...you don't know. If you find yourself rambling, just ask a question...that let's you talk more, gives u a reason to shut up and listen, and you look a lot better.

you've got nothing to lose if you know no one, remember that.

[mondeoman]

Quite honestly...I have very few friends. I am pretty much scared of most people after high school. I go to movies alone or with a coworker or coworkers. I wouldn't say I have ANY true friends. I don't listen to emo...look at my favorite bands...most of them are not emo. This one's for the ladies to decide...am I just too fucking ugly???

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v634/jeremyfromva/67841931_m.jpg

and what I do...

I work for a cable company (cox communications) as a sales rep while they pay my way through college..I was in a Community College for the past few semesters but go back to Old Dominion University in the Fall. Again, i have no life...I pretty much sit on the computer all day or watch movies or write...i haven't killed myself yet because i care about my family too much.
Yeah I have to agree to get out and try and do more things. But if your going to a University in the fall, you should meet craploads of people there.

[Royal Grandin]

your not bad looking.... anyway , so thats not the problem.
what about, something I call personality?

[jeremyfromva]

your not bad looking.... anyway , so thats not the problem.
what about, something I call personality?

My personality was shot in high school...I was the kid everyone picked on...mainly because everyone looked their age while I always looked about 5 years behind. I look 18 but I am 23. So, I did everything I could to not be myself. I also believe the girls didn't ever want to go out with me was because I looked so young. I don't know where to meet people....I am not going to go to church...I am not a coffee person....and I don't want to meet someone in a club because I am not looking for sex.

[heartcoreXjam]

goto shows or something

[cris545]

My personality was shot in high school...I was the kid everyone picked on...mainly because everyone looked their age while I always looked about 5 years behind. I look 18 but I am 23. So, I did everything I could to not be myself. I also believe the girls didn't ever want to go out with me was because I looked so young. I don't know where to meet people....I am not going to go to church...I am not a coffee person....and I don't want to meet someone in a club because I am not looking for sex.

so what do u like to do? there's gotta be something

[IAmCountryMusic]

you sound pretty irresistable to me;)

[IAmCountryMusic]

goto shows or something
thats only if you want to pick up slutty scenester girls though

[laryssa]

thats only if you want to pick up slutty scenester girls though


...yeah.

[AloneInTheDark]

I understand where this guy's coming from, but you have to reach the point where you don't give a fuck what people think. I mean, you'll always be a little self-consience, it's impossible to not be. But just be yourself and don't worry about whats going to happen...you're not in high school anymore.

[xStareAtThesunx]

Honestly you aren't bad looking at all and you've got great taste in music. I think you just need to realize that high school is over so whatever happened during those awful years can be forgotten. Don't be too hard on yourself either because a lot of people your age are in the same position even though it may feel like you're the only one. Go out more to wherever you can and just start talking to people. What have you got to lose? Life is WAY too short to sit around at home and to care what anyone thinks because you're the only person you need to impress and it really doesn't matter what anyone thinks but yourself because it's your life. Listen to A praise chorus (jimmy eat world) because that song phrases it better than I ever could.

After all, those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.

[thisisastickup]

Honestly you aren't bad looking at all and you've got great taste in music. I think you just need to realize that high school is over so whatever happened during those awful years can be forgotten. Don't be too hard on yourself either because a lot of people your age are in the same position even though it may feel like you're the only one. Go out more to wherever you can and just start talking to people. What have you got to lose? Life is WAY too short to sit around at home and to care what anyone thinks because you're the only person you need to impress and it really doesn't matter what anyone thinks but yourself because it's your life. Listen to A praise chorus (jimmy eat world) because that song phrases it better than I ever could.

After all, those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.

^basically sums it up.
anyways there isnt much i can say that anyone here hasn't.
you're not unnattractive and i'm sure you havee some hobbies /interests that half the world has. its easy to meet people go to clubs/shows and different stuff just to be with people and you never know what might happen

[xvszero]

There are a lot more 23 year old virgins than you would think.

Not many 27 year old virgins though. I got you beat, which means what... I lose I guess.

[ForeverInADay]

you stole my idea!!! :(
personally ive decided that when i turn 18, if i dont have a girlfriend at the time (i havent yet) ill get a prostitute. my gift to me...
Great idea! I got my girlfriend AID's this year, too!
My personality was shot in high school...I was the kid everyone picked on...mainly because everyone looked their age while I always looked about 5 years behind. I look 18 but I am 23. So, I did everything I could to not be myself. I also believe the girls didn't ever want to go out with me was because I looked so young. I don't know where to meet people....I am not going to go to church...I am not a coffee person....and I don't want to meet someone in a club because I am not looking for sex.
Who gives a fuck how young you look? I'm 19, almost 20, and I look like I'm 15. I too am insanely skinny, but my confidence isn't completely shot. Learn to laugh at/make fun of yourself, otherwise you'll just always be depressed.

Looking young doesn't necessarily have to do with girls not being interested though. All of my girlfriends have been a year younger than me, with the exception of one who was like...a year and 4 months.

Just go be social and be yourself. Don't try to fit the mold because people will definitely sense how fake it is and call you out on it.

[Saves The Night]

your not bad looking.... anyway , so thats not the problem.
what about, something I call personality?oh NFG! zing!

[Saves The Night]

I am now 23...have never had a real date...still a virgin (pathetic i know) and honestly not bad looking...I lack serious confidence because of my high school days...I don't know what to do...any advice?

Stats...

23
dirty blonde hair
green eyes
6'2, 162 lbs (skinny as fuck)

In high school I was 5'6 and I was picked on the most :(are you or are you not supposed to be an actor? (maybe Im thinking of someone else, I apologize if I am) Get fucking real if you are, just go tell someone you're an actor. BING! and then go right in the baby maker.

[adelphi_rocks]

...yeah.
what made you decide to bump this?

[BarrelIsPointed]

...I take it you don't drink?

[BarrelIsPointed]

Damn you Laryssa, for random bumps...I love you, remember that.

[AShannon04]

Hey man, I know where you're coming from. You seem like a really cool guy, and I'm sure something (or someone) will eventually come along. But yeah, as other people said, I would suggest going out, meeting people, having fun, being social and friendly. Everything will eventually fall into place :)

[Mr_V1tr1oL]

dont worry...you're not alone...eventually u'll find someone out there...

[Rock]

There are a lot more 23 year old virgins than you would think.

Not many 27 year old virgins though. I got you beat, which means what... I lose I guess.
that'd be funny if it wasn't so sad. i guess i'd better get into a meaningful relationship and get laid soon.

[odnetnin]

I need somebody!

[odnetnin]

Help!

[odnetnin]

Not just anybody!

[concernedparent]

I am now 23...have never had a real date...still a virgin (pathetic i know) and honestly not bad looking...I lack serious confidence because of my high school days...I don't know what to do...any advice?

Stats...

23
dirty blonde hair
green eyes
6'2, 162 lbs (skinny as fuck)

In high school I was 5'6 and I was picked on the most :(
penis size?

[Heartcore]

just wait till evan almighty comes out, you'll be all "wham bam thank you ma'am"

[FOBsuperfan]

maybe this isn't the people it u
u are afraid ask someone out don't woory so much about your high school life and i like skiny tall guys. so maybe when i am n va beach we can meet. 23 a virgin doesn't boughter me. u have your hand that works for now

[noodledancer]

from the perspective of a fellow dateless, virgin 23 year old... if you really want a relationship, you have to literally put yourself out there. otherwise, you have to accept that you're probably not going to find your dream girl hiding out in your apartment. also, keep in mind that your potential dates have no idea who you were, just who you are. so continue enjoying who you are (even if it means going to the movies solo). confidence comes from being comfortable in your skin.

[Rock]

maybe this isn't the people it u
u are afraid ask someone out don't woory so much about your high school life and i like skiny tall guys. so maybe when i am n va beach we can meet. 23 a virgin doesn't boughter me. u have your hand that works for now
She's giving you pearls here.

[jaimej]

Haha wow. What a random bump.

[still]

maybe this isn't the people it u
u are afraid ask someone out don't woory so much about your high school life and i like skiny tall guys. so maybe when i am n va beach we can meet. 23 a virgin doesn't boughter me. u have your hand that works for now

but aren't you 14? i think that's illegal.

[FOBsuperfan]

but aren't you 14? i think that's illegal.

no. i am 17 yr old.

[still]

no. i am 17 yr old.

i bet you are! does mommy know you're on the internet meeting men?

[anunsafebet]

id fuck ya. if that makes ya feel any better
at least you're not some fucking knuckleheaded fucking retard who doesnt know how to communicate an idea. you're very good looking you have great taste in music you got a decent job. you're an official catch so fucking rock on.

[Rock]

id fuck ya. if that makes ya feel any better
before you make comments like this, you really have to have a profile picture.