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Russia08
12/08/08, 11:41 AM
ok well this is something that bothers me a lot..and basically consumes my life ne more..there is this kid and i liked him a lot. so i went and made the first move..you know talked to him and eventually told him that i liked him..well turns out he liked me too and it everything was perfect..rightt? nope wrong..turns out he has a girlfriend..ok so this is sorta my fault too cuz i kinda knew this but he denied the fact that they were dating. well ne ways to make a long story short he cheated on her with me.. >.< and now i just dont know what to do..im pretty much in love with this kid and he says that he feels that same, but i just cant help but to think he is only saying this..and the thing is if we ever were to date could i even trust him..you know the saying once a cheater always a cheater? well how true is that? i can say that i have never been in a situation like this and i am learning to hate it. everyone tells me to just stay away from him, but it's so fucking hard when i care about him this much..bleh idk ne more.
voncorn
12/08/08, 12:30 PM
"Once a cheater, always a cheater" is false.
You're in high school, relationships don't work and shouldn't matter.
change font, then i will read.
swt_catastrophe
12/08/08, 01:27 PM
change font, then i will read.
seriously. too much bold and red.. not worth it.
argg_xo
12/08/08, 01:33 PM
no. i didn't even read the post
i can't believe i actually read it.
i will now kill myself.
goodbye ap.
oh! also it sounds like someone has daddy issues.
morgan_w
12/08/08, 01:45 PM
umm...so what'd you do with him hahaha
What the fuck...
Where's the obligatory anal response? These threads used to be a lot funnier.
Ps. Cheat on him. Problem solved. Then youll both be cheaters.
The font was annoying... just use the normal font from now on.
Anyways, you really should try to just forget about him. I know it'll be hard at first but as you meet other guys it will get easier. This guy is an asshole for cheating on his girlfriend and anyways will not leave her for you (even though he says he likes you more).
The saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" is not true I don't think... people make mistakes and learn from them. Cheating is bad, but cheaters aren't always bad people. But with this guy it will probably be a while before he grows up and realizes what he's doing is wrong. :shrug:
4N6 science
12/08/08, 08:52 PM
I can't read bold.
spansen
12/08/08, 08:54 PM
big font.
you're seventeen. shut up.
quarterhorse101
12/08/08, 11:00 PM
if you have to question whether you can trust him, you never fully will
morgan_w
12/09/08, 06:11 AM
if you have to question whether you can trust him, you never fully will
I love your username <3 I have two!
James_Brand
12/09/08, 06:50 AM
Place your complete and total trust in him. He seems like a stand-up kind of guy. Do everything he says and never question him.
MarsEatWorld
12/09/08, 07:21 AM
i can't believe i actually read it.
i will now kill myself.
goodbye ap.
Noooo keegsssssssssss
stayyyy
Russia08
12/09/08, 07:33 AM
ok ok so sorry about the fontt..bleh i wont do it again i promise.
Russia08
12/09/08, 07:36 AM
The font was annoying... just use the normal font from now on.
Anyways, you really should try to just forget about him. I know it'll be hard at first but as you meet other guys it will get easier. This guy is an asshole for cheating on his girlfriend and anyways will not leave her for you (even though he says he likes you more).
The saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" is not true I don't think... people make mistakes and learn from them. Cheating is bad, but cheaters aren't always bad people. But with this guy it will probably be a while before he grows up and realizes what he's doing is wrong. :shrug:
fuck yea ur prolly right and that's what im afraid of..but it's hard cuz i like him a lot. and when i tell him that maybe we should just be friends without the benefits he gets all upset..and we tried that and i fucked up within like a week. lolz so idfk
Russia08
12/09/08, 07:36 AM
change font, then i will read.
i did
INhopewefail
12/09/08, 08:05 AM
Place your complete and total trust in him. He seems like a stand-up kind of guy. Do everything he says and never question him.
Haha, are you the guy she's talkin about?
But seriously, you're being played. He's snickering with his friends right now about how he has you right where he wants you. So good luck.
thespearkid
12/09/08, 08:13 AM
He only uses you for physical satisfaction. When his girlfriend finds out, she'll break up with him and you'll date him because you're an idiot. Then, he'll cheat on you too. Enjoy the next few months of your life.
You simply tell him who he can and can't hang out with, and that he has to ask you permission if he wants to hang out with his friends (which you won't allow). My friend's boyfriend seems to think that will rebuild trust.
James_Brand
12/09/08, 08:42 AM
Haha, are you the guy she's talkin about?
But seriously, you're being played. He's snickering with his friends right now about how he has you right where he wants you. So good luck.
I am not the guy she is talking about. I'm just trying to help him out. He screwed up his game and deserves a second chance to succeed.
Noooo keegsssssssssss
stayyyy
<3
mattmatumbo
12/09/08, 10:03 AM
ok well this is something that bothers me a lot..and basically consumes my life ne more..there is this kid and i liked him a lot. so i went and made the first move..you know talked to him and eventually told him that i liked him..well turns out he liked me too and it everything was perfect..rightt? nope wrong..turns out he has a girlfriend..ok so this is sorta my fault too cuz i kinda knew this but he denied the fact that they were dating. well ne ways to make a long story short he cheated on her with me.. >.< and now i just dont know what to do..im pretty much in love with this kid and he says that he feels that same, but i just cant help but to think he is only saying this..and the thing is if we ever were to date could i even trust him..you know the saying once a cheater always a cheater? well how true is that? i can say that i have never been in a situation like this and i am learning to hate it. everyone tells me to just stay away from him, but it's so fucking hard when i care about him this much..bleh idk ne more.
:yellowcard:
Russia08
12/09/08, 10:10 AM
I am not the guy she is talking about. I'm just trying to help him out. He screwed up his game and deserves a second chance to succeed.
dude u dont even know him..lolz
MarsEatWorld
12/09/08, 10:49 AM
<3
<33
:yellowcard:
lol, you're back!
<33
:hug:
MarsEatWorld
12/09/08, 06:55 PM
lol, you're back!
:hug:
=]
keegssssss
=]
keegssssss
hey what's up?
Sventhegreat
12/09/08, 07:02 PM
You're in high school, relationships don't work and shouldn't matter.
change font, then i will read.
Haha I loved both of these posts. So great.
justletgo
12/09/08, 07:03 PM
Just grow up. This is obviously not a situation where you both are in love. Tell him what happened was a mistake, forget about it, and move on.
MarsEatWorld
12/09/08, 07:04 PM
hey what's up?
not much
im bored
James_Brand
12/10/08, 07:52 AM
dude u dont even know him..lolz
That doesn't mean I want him to fail.
mattmatumbo
12/10/08, 11:27 AM
lol, you're back!
:hug:
bitch better look out, i'm throwin' cards like it's nobodies' business!
AbeLurkin
12/10/08, 11:58 AM
just make out with people until you graduate.
Russia08
12/11/08, 07:50 AM
That doesn't mean I want him to fail.
oh...well u prolly should. he is a dick for the most part
Russia08
12/11/08, 07:59 AM
what is "prolly" ?
probably..lol
Russia08
12/11/08, 08:00 AM
Just grow up. This is obviously not a situation where you both are in love. Tell him what happened was a mistake, forget about it, and move on.
but i dont think it was a mistake..or i would.
PadraicPrincess
12/11/08, 08:17 AM
Relationships are for the WEAK.
Are you from Russia russia08?
Russia08
12/11/08, 09:55 AM
Relationships are for the WEAK.
Are you from Russia russia08?
yea they may be, but it would be nice rather than just a hook up..and haha no i am not
James_Brand
12/11/08, 10:03 AM
oh...well u prolly should. he is a dick for the most part
Who are you to tell me what I should and shouldn't want?
Russia08
12/11/08, 10:16 AM
Who are you to tell me what I should and shouldn't want?
dude..you just need to chill. i never told u, it was a suggestion.
James_Brand
12/11/08, 11:31 AM
dude..you just need to chill. i never told u, it was a suggestion.
You can't tell me what to do. You're not my mom.
And I know that you’re not my mom because she can at least use an ellipsis correctly.
BlueVioletMUM
12/11/08, 11:43 AM
Honestly you should move on, no matter how much you like him your still young...a lot of guys will come and go..and no matter how much you like him now eventually you will wonder what you ever saw in him in the first place. If you are questioning being with him because he cheated on his girlfriend with you then that in itself is your answer.
4N6 science
12/11/08, 11:46 AM
well said.
BlueVioletMUM
12/11/08, 12:10 PM
Thanks sensesfail.....:-)
Russia08
12/15/08, 07:44 AM
You can't tell me what to do. You're not my mom.
And I know that you’re not my mom because she can at least use an ellipsis correctly.
yea..maybe she can teach me..and i always do it..so yea....
Russia08
12/15/08, 08:03 AM
Honestly you should move on, no matter how much you like him your still young...a lot of guys will come and go..and no matter how much you like him now eventually you will wonder what you ever saw in him in the first place. If you are questioning being with him because he cheated on his girlfriend with you then that in itself is your answer.
eh yea i know that's true..and now i just think he has been lying to me a lot lately. bleh
Russia08
12/17/08, 10:23 AM
i love him
BlueVioletMUM
12/22/08, 10:29 AM
i love him
Yeah...and because you love him that is what makes it so hard...but you deserve better...trust me..there are plenty of decent guys out there...they may be a bit hard to find..but they eventually come out of the woodwork...and your doubts towards this guy and the way he is treating you is all the more reason to move on and find someone who will treat you right
thesafeword
12/25/08, 08:20 PM
Threesome. Duh.
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