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A picasso blue
06/19/05, 07:20 AM
Abstinence does not work because :


if you wait until you get married to have sex....



kids all over the country will be getting married at 15

elemenohpe
06/19/05, 07:21 AM
abstinence doesn't work because people are weak willed.



i know i sure as hell am.

BrandNew20
06/19/05, 07:35 AM
people are meant to have sex, its in our nature.

VeloriumCamper
06/19/05, 07:44 AM
..because we see sex every single day and hear about it, so its American nature to copy that and do it early.

Jra1
06/19/05, 07:44 AM
sex isnt really important enough to warrant abstinence...
im disappointed in how i lost my virginity but i'm not torn up about it or anything

paen
06/19/05, 07:46 AM
sex is too fun to wait for. and its all around us. and its fun.

djUbilla
06/19/05, 08:52 AM
abstinence doesn't work because people are weak willed.



i know i sure as hell am.
Ding Ding Ding

Clarett'sGreyGoose
06/19/05, 08:53 AM
Ding Ding Ding
it feels too good to pass up.

elemenohpe
06/19/05, 09:09 AM
..because we see sex every single day and hear about it, so its American nature to copy that and do it early.

it's not really doing it early. i mean, when the average lifespan of a person was 30, people were married and had kids by 12, 13, 14... whatever, as long as the girl bled, they had kids. as the lifespan increased the general age of marriage (in sophisticated culture, ooga booga tribes don't count) became later. then came the cultural kick about manners and gentlemen, ladies, courting. now since marriage wasn't happening till later people thought sex should wait too.

i think BrandNew20 is right, it's nature. we're reproductively mature around 12-13 (some earlier, some later). so the hormones that cause sexual urges come around that time so people end up doing it before marriage. it's gratification baby.

so in short... sex happens.