View Full Version : Would you steal someone's boyfriend?
brightkelly
12/31/08, 10:41 AM
Is it considered immoral? I don't think so because it's not like they're engaged or married.
PlacesToGo
12/31/08, 10:50 AM
if you feel bad about it, its probably because you should.
Vermillion
12/31/08, 11:05 AM
I don't like dicks anywhere other than next to my balls.
AlkalineAshes
12/31/08, 11:07 AM
If you think you could, don't be mad at a girl who does it to you
gnetophyta
12/31/08, 11:08 AM
Personally, I wouldn't do it, but it's not like you're forcing the guy to leave. He does it willingly...it's just a little sketch.
UntilItKillsYou
12/31/08, 11:12 AM
no, probably because stealing a boyfriend would require me being a homosexual, which I am not
But I advise you to follow the chick code. It states a girl does not sleep with her friends ex boyfriend unless she does.
If you think you could, don't be mad at a girl who does it to you
this.
GoWaitInTheCar
12/31/08, 12:40 PM
How boring.
home wrecker!
no, i'm just saying that (i'd assume) no one wants their boy/girlfriend "stolen", so why do it to someone else.
unless we're going to Moe's, yes please!
samsara
12/31/08, 12:41 PM
I wouldnt thats mean.
Because if he left another girl for you, he might leave you for another girl.
swt_catastrophe
12/31/08, 12:55 PM
no, probably because stealing a boyfriend would require me being a homosexual, which I am not
But I advise you to follow the chick code. It states a girl does not sleep with her friends ex boyfriend unless she does.
"the chick code", as you put it, apparently applies to when your friend likes a guy, as well.
...although i don't think she should get mad at you, if you didn't even know that piece of the information, when the [ahem]situation occurred...
/rant
thesafeword
12/31/08, 12:59 PM
If you do it then you're a dirty, dirty whore, but if you don't it means that you weren't pretty enough anyways.
HelpMeSleep
12/31/08, 01:04 PM
"the chick code", as you put it, apparently applies to when your friend likes a guy, as well.
...although i don't think she should get mad at you, if you didn't even know that piece of the information, when the [ahem]situation occurred...
/rant
ughh. I hate that. that's so not your fault. if friends don't tell you that they like some guy, it's not your fault at all. so lame.
if the girl's not my friend and the guy seems worth it, I say why not.
Machu505
12/31/08, 01:06 PM
Only terrorists and rapists steal other people's partners.
HelpMeSleep
12/31/08, 01:13 PM
if a guy likes someone else better than his girlfriend, then they clearly had problems anyway.
It's not an ideal situation, but things happen and I wouldn't be totally opposed to it. I don't want to hurt the other girl but it happens. I wouldn't, however, do anything that involves cheating with a guy.
HelpMeSleep
12/31/08, 01:27 PM
It's not an ideal situation, but things happen and I wouldn't be totally opposed to it. I wouldn't, however, do anything that involves cheating with a guy.
agreed. but cheating with a guy and stealing someone's boyfriend without doing anything while they're together are two different things.
AlkalineAshes
12/31/08, 01:31 PM
What do you mean by steal the boyfriend? Do you think this great guy is gonna be suddenly be loyal to you? I think youd be better of trying to just hook up with the guy, because if he leaves his current girl for you there's no way he will stay with you.
spansen
12/31/08, 01:33 PM
i wouldn't, because that would mean i was gay, which.. i'm not.
more heart
12/31/08, 01:35 PM
always wrong
HelpMeSleep
12/31/08, 01:44 PM
What do you mean by steal the boyfriend? Do you think this great guy is gonna be suddenly be loyal to you? I think youd be better of trying to just hook up with the guy, because if he leaves his current girl for you there's no way he will stay with you.
where's the logic in that? maybe he simply didn't like his girlfriend that much, hence why he would break up with her. if a guy breaks up with a girl, does that automatically mean he's going to be a shitty boyfriend to the next girl he dates? no.
if he cheats on his girlfriend with another girl, the other girl shouldn't trust him to be a good boyfriend to her. but that's a different story.
no rules in love and war!
HelpMeSleep
12/31/08, 02:17 PM
you mean, all's fair in love and war? :-)
samsara
12/31/08, 02:19 PM
in the Karma effect I do not try and fuck with it if possible.
swt_catastrophe
12/31/08, 02:28 PM
ughh. I hate that. that's so not your fault. if friends don't tell you that they like some guy, it's not your fault at all. so lame.
if the girl's not my friend and the guy seems worth it, I say why not.
EXACTLY. i got together with this guy, and then my friend told me that our friend B. was "in love with him"
well you know what? obviously, he liked me more.
i didn't want to hurt her, didn't tell her, she found out and pulled the whole, "you don't do that to a sister" card. wtf.
yeah, we're not on speaking terms anymore. which is really quite sad.
What do you mean by steal the boyfriend? Do you think this great guy is gonna be suddenly be loyal to you? I think youd be better of trying to just hook up with the guy, because if he leaves his current girl for you there's no way he will stay with you.
as opposed to her just hooking up and it continuing for however long?
DON'T hook-up with the guy.
because if that's all its going to be, then you might as well find someone else to do that with.
besides, that would make you a cheating slut... not a very pretty title.
HelpMeSleep
12/31/08, 02:53 PM
EXACTLY. i got together with this guy, and then my friend told me that our friend B. was "in love with him"
well you know what? obviously, he liked me more.
i didn't want to hurt her, didn't tell her, she found out and pulled the whole, "you don't do that to a sister" card. wtf.
yeah, we're not on speaking terms anymore. which is really quite sad.
yeah, see, that is so unfair. if he didn't like her or liked someone else (you, obviously) more than her, then it wasn't going to work out for them anyway. and I'll never understand how someone expects you to read their mind and now they like a guy, when they don't tell you. ridiculous. :rolleyes:
you mean, all's fair in love and war? :-)
Haha, yes, yes, that does sound more correct.
ship of fools
12/31/08, 03:36 PM
If a boy is willing to leave a different girl for you, don't be surprised when he turns around and does the same thing to you.
HelpMeSleep
12/31/08, 03:41 PM
Haha, yes, yes, that does sound more correct.
haha. I thought so. :-)
If a boy is willing to leave a different girl for you, don't be surprised when he turns around and does the same thing to you.
well, that would be life. people do break up with people and then eventually end up with other people all the time. that's like saying if a boy has dumped a girl before, don't be surprised if he dumps you too. and that's a really stupid reason not to date someone.
swt_catastrophe
12/31/08, 03:45 PM
i just get pissed when people are always saying friends before boys.
yes, i'm loyal.
but at the end of the day, if i'm interested in a guy that you had a crush on two years ago/fallen "in love" with, even though he doesn't feel the same way at all, then i'm sorry, but get over it.
i'm not a bitch, i swear.
I'm a firm believer in bros before hos.. unless she's really hot.
Is it considered immoral? I don't think so because it's not like they're engaged or married.
you're a dirty, dirty whore! you whore.
.invisible ink.
12/31/08, 05:30 PM
if i don't know the chick, it's not my problem what happens to her (that might not be the best way to go about things but that's beside the point). if it's someone i know and am friends with, i wouldn't consider doing it, it's just wrong. Oh and once they're married, i don't care if they're the hottest dude on earth, i'm not going there.
amysaurus
12/31/08, 05:43 PM
I'm an asshole and have stolen boyfriends from people many many times in the past. I have also been the one to be cheated with. And now my love life fucking sucks and that's what I get. Moral of the story: karma exists. It just might take awhile for it to bite you in the ass.
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