guys opinions needed (no weird pictures)

[cris545]

Okay dear men, I'd like to ask something... I'm not the kind of girl that talks first, I'm quiet and reserved, this doesn't mean that I don't like talking to people, I actually love talking to people and listening to their stories and what they say. Anyway, what I'd like to ask, what would you (as men) think is the best way for a quiet girl to approach you and get your attention. I talk and all sometimes but every other girl gets the most attention because well, I guess I'm too quiet. If you get to meet me though, I'm a very thoughtful person, I love discussing life, and I love anything that has to do with creativity. In terms of music, I could talk about any music type, I have my preferences but I don't necessarily judge. I love to discuss art with people too, and I love to have insightful conversations. Do I sound interesting at all? I guess when I'm quiet I look boring but... I don't know, what's your opinion?

Oh and... I'm not that good looking, nor that bad looking. I dress...not provocatively, I guess I do look a bit reserved, I don't follow fashion's rules but I don't dress awkwardly weird.

so...opinions?

[allelish]

Get ya tits out.

[Jra1]

just say...

'no small talk, you've got me'

[cris545]

seriously...

[aolsux]

seriously what gets my attention from right off the bat is promises of sex and lots of it

oh and buy some thongs

[cris545]

oh god... :headshake

[Signals Corrupted]

you guys are silly.

anyways, i assure you, cristina, that most guys do not care how a girl approaches them. seriously, just say hi whats up

[duffe]

i like girls reserved.

[cris545]

you guys are silly.

anyways, i assure you, cristina, that most guys do not care how a girl approaches them. seriously, just say hi whats up

alright, thanks :)

i like girls reserved.

that means i can stil be ur lover :love: lol

[mondeoman]

I'm the same way you are. I'm really shy and reserved at first and then I don't shut up. haha
But a good idea is to go up to some guy who looks like he has something in common with you, say he's wearing a band shirt of a band you like, and start up something there. If he's a turd, just go on to another guy.

[cris545]

I'm the same way you are. I'm really shy and reserved at first and then I don't shut up. haha
But a good idea is to go up to some guy who looks like he has something in common with you, say he's wearing a band shirt of a band you like, and start up something there. If he's a turd, just go on to another guy.

thats what i do sometimes, i take a while in finally asking about the bad shirt he was wearing though, but i do it sometimes, its good though, thanks

[Rebs]

Hmm I don't think anyone wants to be bombarded by a really super loud person, and if you really play your cards right you can use your quietness to your advantage and be a bit on the mysterious/sexy side.

[duffe]

that means i can stil be ur lover :love: lol
yes :D
I'm the same way you are. I'm really shy and reserved at first and then I don't shut up. haha
But a good idea is to go up to some guy who looks like he has something in common with you, say he's wearing a band shirt of a band you like, and start up something there. If he's a turd, just go on to another guy.
that's a good advice.

[mondeoman]

Hmm I don't think anyone wants to be bombarded by a really super loud person, and if you really play your cards right you can use your quietness to your advantage and be a bit on the mysterious/sexy side.
Loud, very talkative girls who won't shut up about themselves annoy the shit out of me.

Thanks Duffe.

[Mark is God]

Show me some boobies.

[cris545]

hmm :D

what the hell happened to my scene points, im confused

[PunkDrums182]

best advice yet.
Also the only real advice at that point lol.

[FallingOut]

I would say just see the stuff hes interested in, like if hes wearing a band shirt, and say hey I like them, or something like that. I know if some girl said she liked the band of the shirt I was wearing, it would be pretty cool. Or just say, hey Ive seen you around and always wanted to say hi but never did. That would be a good way I think.

[aminorthreat55]

Just be yourself. Being too reserved can be cute sometimes. And like Erich said, girls who always talk about themselves are obnoxious, no wonder they all suck so much dick. The guys probably don't even want it that bad, they just want them to all shut up and that's the only way to get it done.

[nfgguitardude]

Ok, lets say you want a guy that's outgoing, crazy, goofy. Bust out of your shell a little bit, do a few cartwheels, and roll into this guys attention. If I was in k-mart and saw anyone doin cartwheels, I'd be like "sweet"..

Now maybe thats not who you are. Maybe you're just naturally shy, and doing cartwheels isnt your thing. No problem whatsoever. But even shy people can flirt and jus say hey to people to get their attention, and if you like the guy, eye contact and laughter/smiles is a good way to grab a guy by the horns.

I dunno, I'm jus going off of personal experience. I used to be really shy. Not say much, not ever be the center of attention.. and life was good.

Now I'm different.. not usually the center of attention, hardly ever.. but jus tryin to be fun to be around.

They both work fine, it's not like shy people are better or outgoing people are better.. they're all cool in my book. I'm just saying - you want to know how to get some attention? I suggest a cartwheel

(Not literaly a cartwheel, jus try some new stuff)

Hope it helped. My scene points used to be high, I try to give people advice. But then it took a dive. I hope people don't hate me. I just want to help.

[aminorthreat55]

Just be yourself. Fake girls make me want to trade in my penis for a chainsaw.

[nfgguitardude]

Just be yourself. Fake girls make me want to trade in my penis for a chainsaw.

True that, I can't stand people that are fake. I was just using the cartwheel thing to get somebody's attention.

[Lueda Alia]

Okay dear men, I'd like to ask something... I'm not the kind of girl that talks first, I'm quiet and reserved, this doesn't mean that I don't like talking to people, I actually love talking to people and listening to their stories and what they say. Anyway, what I'd like to ask, what would you (as men) think is the best way for a quiet girl to approach you and get your attention. I talk and all sometimes but every other girl gets the most attention because well, I guess I'm too quiet. If you get to meet me though, I'm a very thoughtful person, I love discussing life, and I love anything that has to do with creativity. In terms of music, I could talk about any music type, I have my preferences but I don't necessarily judge. I love to discuss art with people too, and I love to have insightful conversations. Do I sound interesting at all? I guess when I'm quiet I look boring but... I don't know, what's your opinion?

Oh and... I'm not that good looking, nor that bad looking. I dress...not provocatively, I guess I do look a bit reserved, I don't follow fashion's rules but I don't dress awkwardly weird.

so...opinions?
I'm pretty much the same way you are, so I know exactly how you feel. I'm not sure if I have any advice to give considering that I need some for myself.. but, starting a conversation or just saying hey can do wonders. I have sorta realized that a lot of guys feel the same way like we do, so you just have to do the first move and go from there..

[Alex Djaferis]

you guys are silly.

anyways, i assure you, cristina, that most guys do not care how a girl approaches them. seriously, just say hi whats up

^^^

[Tony]

In all honesty, just try to get his attention. But don't do anything out of character (especially showing your boobies, as someone suggested). If sparks of any kind (including friendship-sparks) don't fly, then just leave it be. But if there's any kind of connection, then by all means, go for it. You only live once!

BTW, as a side note, the first girl to ever express an interest in me made the first move, and I thought the whole experience was quite incredible. Too bad she lost interest pretty quick. So yeah, don't do that to the guy!

[oldwirehands]

The best way a girl gets noticed from me is what music they are listening to? I don't know I always seem to start the conversation about music. Sometimes girls come up to me and ask me about the band shirt I'm wearing or something. Music, music, music. Death Cab For Cutie and The Album Leaf are how I got my girlfriend.

[when 4ever ends]

I'm the same way you are. I'm really shy and reserved at first and then I don't shut up. haha
But a good idea is to go up to some guy who looks like he has something in common with you, say he's wearing a band shirt of a band you like, and start up something there. If he's a turd, just go on to another guy.
thats me as well

[FenixIgnition]

Yeah, you should always stick to being yourself, that way you will find the right guy. But thats not to say you cant approach guys. But like it was said before, the best way it to find a common interest, and of course that would be music. If you go to concerts very much, your bound to find someone who sparks your interest and is similar to you. As most of my girlfriends I have met through this, besides from school, so yeah, it definately works.

But for just my personal opinion, I love girls who are more reserved, because I like trying to persue, instead of just getting it quickly. And you dont have to be the prettiest girl ever, if your sweet and thoughtful, then that is perfect with me.

[Bishop]

Honestly, just go up and talk to him about whatever. If he's a dickhead, he won't talk or just be an asshole about it and if he's a good guy he might also be shy or start up a conversation with you.

Booyah.

[FullBlast_This]

Find a way to talk to him, one on one. If you're too shy to go up to him and get it over with, then "accidently" bump into him or something along those lines. It just might work.

[kylecrawford]

as far as the band shiort thing thats a good start, ask him if hes going to a show that you are wanting to go to, even though friends of yours would be going, be like, man I was gonna go, but no one to go with, **hint hint** and being at shows isnt the best place to talk, so he'll want to by the end of the night, and with you being quiet and guys hating the smell of smoke, he'll feel just as awkward, and if he blows you off for the show, theres plenty of other guys at the show, and its not really about what you say, some times its how you look at them...

[PunkDrums182]

I dont understand the (no weird pictures) part of the title.

[aminorthreat55]

I dont understand the (no weird pictures) part of the title.
Me neither. I was just thinking that too.

[cris545]

I dont understand the (no weird pictures) part of the title.

I thought the title would make some think that its one of those threads asking if im hot and post a really ugly picture...

anyway, great advice guys, I was open minded with some guys and actually talked to them, found out that they're dickheads, so, I shall move on...and on...

I'm pretty much the same way you are, so I know exactly how you feel. I'm not sure if I have any advice to give considering that I need some for myself.. but, starting a conversation or just saying hey can do wonders. I have sorta realized that a lot of guys feel the same way like we do, so you just have to do the first move and go from there..

now i dont feel like im the only one :)

[TMartin442]

Get ya tits out.

haha wow. the perfect first response. lol