Ex-girlfriend/boyfriend disappreciation post

[XthroughmyeyesX]

So basically, she makes me want to shoot her.
I'm sure there's many others out there that can relate.

Represent, for sure.
:soapbox:

[nfgguitardude]

What did she do exactly? I mean theres lying, cheating, backstabbing, tons of stuff. Care to share? I'm sure theres people that can relate, they just don't know your situation.

[XthroughmyeyesX]

What did she do exactly? I mean theres lying, cheating, backstabbing, tons of stuff. Care to share? I'm sure theres people that can relate, they just don't know your situation.

True, true - I just meant it as a general type of thing. But yeah, she cheated on me twice - I let both instances go... obviously it broke down a lot of the trust we had developed between one another, and then about a month after our one year anniversary, she pretty much came outta nowhere - and get this - I was sleeping and had my away message up on AIM, she IM's me and says something along the lines of:

"Hey.. listen. I did a lot of thinking on my own and I've come to the conclusion that I don't want to be in a relationship anymore. You can hate me if you want, but y'know - I'll be around to talk if you want later. Don't bother coming over today, I decided to take a few hours of work and I won't have time for you. Take care, I love you."

...obviously, my reaction was somewhere along the lines of "WHAT THE FUCK?" and "Uh.. oh. Hahaha." - shit's just been going downhill with her since then and yeah, pretty much - nothing makes sense when it comes to her anymore. I think it was just her way of saying, "I've been fucking other guys and I don't want you to dump me - so here, lemme go do it myself."

Sucks.

[Signals Corrupted]

True, true - I just meant it as a general type of thing. But yeah, she cheated on me twice - I let both instances go... obviously it broke down a lot of the trust we had developed between one another, and then about a month after our one year anniversary, she pretty much came outta nowhere - and get this - I was sleeping and had my away message up on AIM, she IM's me and says something along the lines of:

"Hey.. listen. I did a lot of thinking on my own and I've come to the conclusion that I don't want to be in a relationship anymore. You can hate me if you want, but y'know - I'll be around to talk if you want later. Don't bother coming over today, I decided to take a few hours of work and I won't have time for you. Take care, I love you."

...obviously, my reaction was somewhere along the lines of "WHAT THE FUCK?" and "Uh.. oh. Hahaha." - shit's just been going downhill with her since then and yeah, pretty much - nothing makes sense when it comes to her anymore. I think it was just her way of saying, "I've been fucking other guys and I don't want you to dump me - so here, lemme go do it myself."

Sucks.

holy shit haha. i think we are soul mates. hahaha

same exact shit. i got cheated on twice, and dumped a week after our anniversary

[XthroughmyeyesX]

holy shit haha. i think we are soul mates. hahaha

same exact shit. i got cheated on twice, and dumped a week after our anniversary

We're just that fucking awesome, obviously. Hahaha.
Glad to know I'm not alone with this kind of situation, sigh.

[nfgguitardude]

Sorry to hear about that dude. You know, I've been broken up with on the internet 2 or 3 times myself, and I personally think it's retarded and childish. One was a 6 month, a 2 month, and a 2 weeks... but cmon, a month and a year? And you weren't even there to talk to her while she did it. That's retarded.

Cheating is bad man, sorry you had to go through that. I've never personally had to go through that, but I would think it would be rough.

You sound like a good guy, you deserve better. I know you liked this girl, but cheating twice and breaking up on the internet through an away message.. thats something you don't need.

There's better girls out there for you, and even better, a perfect one for you. But if there's one thing I've learned, it's that you can't find your perfect girl unless you've let go of everything getting in the way.

But I know thats hard cus I never wanted to hear that kinda stuff after I just got outta relationships.

Sorry again man.