Asshole

[stayforawhile]

So I was with this guy for a little over a month and we were friends before that too. We would hang out a few times a week and did a bunch of shit. Last Sunday he went to the movies with his ex-girlfriend and then our first day back to school on Monday just completely ignores me. I don't fucking get it. I asked him what the fuck was up since we went to talking every minute of the day to not speaking for 4 days and he acted like he had no idea what I was talking about. Fucking asshole.

[pilot_light_out]

First!

[4N6 science]

Sorry ashley...That's guy is what we call a douche bag.

[raychull]

^that.

[Miss Heartcore]

Well this usually happens to me 80% of the time. It just means he's back with his ex and if he isn't right now, then he will be. Obviously he was probably just choosing between you and one or two other girls.

[stayforawhile]

Sorry ashley...That's guy is what we call a douche bag.
It's cool, I'm trying to determine whether or not to im him and be like what the fuck is your problem since he is currently online.

[hellogorgeous]

It's cool, I'm trying to determine whether or not to im him and be like what the fuck is your problem since he is currently online.


don't. unless you really REALLY REALLY REALLY liked him/like him, then it's not worth it. you wouldn't want to date someone flaky like that anyway, they could bail at any minute!

[stayforawhile]

don't. unless you really REALLY REALLY REALLY liked him/like him, then it's not worth it. you wouldn't want to date someone flaky like that anyway, they could bail at any minute!
It's not that I really like him all that much I just kind of want to know why the hell he just ubruptly stopped talking to me. I could understand if he just wanted to end our little fling or whatever but we were good friends before we started that so I just don't understand why he would just flat out stop talking to me with out giving me a reason.

[Miss Heartcore]

It's not that I really like him all that much I just kind of want to know why the hell he just ubruptly stopped talking to me. I could understand if he just wanted to end our little fling or whatever but we were good friends before we started that so I just don't understand why he would just flat out stop talking to me with out giving me a reason.
I'm telling you why...it's because there's another girl. This has happened to me with 4 out of the 5 guys I've talked to in the past year.

[MarsEatWorld]

I hate boys

[stayforawhile]

I'm telling you why...it's because there's another girl. This has happened to me with 4 out of the 5 guys I've talked to in the past year.
Just because it's another girl doesn't mean he has to flat out ignore one of his (ex) best friends.

[imahoodlum]

That literally just happened to me a few months ago. We went from talking all the time to not speaking at all. Then he goes out of his way to ignore me. I don't understand it, either.

[Miss Heartcore]

Just because it's another girl doesn't mean he has to flat out ignore one of his (ex) best friends.
Yea but that's probably what happened. Is it fair? Absolutely not. I've seen and heard it all from guys claiming they'll fly out to see me to guys sending me text hows they'll never hurt me, want only to be with me, and then have a gf within in two weeks. It's fucked up.

[stayforawhile]

That literally just happened to me a few months ago. We went from talking all the time to not speaking at all. Then he goes out of his way to ignore me. I don't understand it, either.
I really couldn't care less I can find someone else to hookup with and shit but we were really good friends befroe this all started.

[imahoodlum]

I really couldn't care less I can find someone else to hookup with and shit but we were really good friends befroe this all started.

That's exactly what bothers me too. I was friends with this guy for over a year. We certainly don't have to be in a relationship and we certainly do not have to be dating, I just ask for him to at least acknowledge me. That is all. Apparently, this is too much to ask.

[jtjt43]

That really sucks. You're better off without him, but you deserve at least some kinda explanation from him

[stayforawhile]

That's exactly what bothers me too. I was friends with this guy for over a year. We certainly don't have to be in a relationship and we certainly do not have to be dating, I just ask for him to at least acknowledge me. That is all. Apparently, this is too much to ask.
I know it just enrages me so much we have 3 classes together and it's horrible just to think how last week we would be getting in trouble for talking during class now we don't even look at each other.

[stayforawhile]

That really sucks. You're better off without him, but you deserve at least some kinda explanation from him
An explanation is all I really want haha I didn't think it was that much to ask for.

[imahoodlum]

I know it just enrages me so much we have 3 classes together and it's horrible just to think how last week we would be getting in trouble for talking during class now we don't even look at each other.

Oh yes, I know what you're talking about. The awkward stares and the whole ten yards.

[stayforawhile]

Oh yes, I know what you're talking about. The awkward stares and the whole ten yards.
My personal favorite is having people ask me "ohh how are you and Connor" just fucking fantastic is what i tell them all.

[thespearkid]

Have you talked to him about this or are you just gonna jump to conclusions like a fucking woman loves to do so goddamn much?

[anamericangod]

You should probably stop being attracted to shitty guys.

Have you talked to him about this or are you just gonna jump to conclusions like a fucking woman loves to do so goddamn much?

Can you not read? Did you miss the part where she said she asked him what the fuck was up? God damn.

[Smash Adams]

what an asshole going to the movies, a real man would only use netflix

[thespearkid]

You should probably stop being attracted to shitty guys.



Can you not read? Did you miss the part where she said she asked him what the fuck was up? God damn.
I mean really talk. Not "ask him what's up".

[TK]

It's not that I really like him all that much I just kind of want to know why the hell he just ubruptly stopped talking to me. I could understand if he just wanted to end our little fling

So, you don't like him that much? Do you think perhaps he wants someone that does? I mean, you're only upset because he didn't tell you why he ended your "fling", not because he ended the "fling"? Correct?

[envi]

I mean really talk. Not "ask him what's up".

"Asking what's up" typically leads to talks. If he won't tell her what's up, then it's his issue, not hers.

[stayforawhile]

You should probably stop being attracted to shitty guys.



Can you not read? Did you miss the part where she said she asked him what the fuck was up? God damn.
Hahahahahah thank you!

[stayforawhile]

So, you don't like him that much? Do you think perhaps he wants someone that does? I mean, you're only upset because he didn't tell you why he ended your "fling", not because he ended the "fling"? Correct?
I mean I liked him a lot we were like best friends but I wasn't inlove with him or anything.

[TK]

"Asking what's up" typically leads to talks. If he won't tell her what's up, then it's his issue, not hers.

It typically does. Why not just ask why haven't we been talking these past days? That always leads to talks...

[TK]

I mean I liked him a lot we were like best friends but I wasn't inlove with him or anything.

Were you dating him, or was it just a fling? Just wondering...

[stayforawhile]

Were you dating him, or was it just a fling? Just wondering...
We weren't offically dating but we were "together" or "exclusively seeing each other" or whatever you want to call it.

[mattmatumbo]

I hate boys

me too

[stayforawhile]

me too
Me three

[speakhandsforme]

We weren't offically dating but we were "together" or "exclusively seeing each other" or whatever you want to call it.
Then that "bunch of shit" you did doesn't mean shit. If you weren't even dating, there is nothing exclusive implied.

You got played: you're probably the first girl it's ever happened to, too.

[stayforawhile]

Then that "bunch of shit" you did doesn't mean shit. If you weren't even dating, there is nothing exclusive implied.

You got played: you're probably the first girl it's ever happened to, too.
Alright asshole.

[speakhandsforme]

Jeez, considering the thread title, you sure do use that word pretty liberally.

[stayforawhile]

Well that is what he is, and is what you are acting like.

[Posthardcore]

tl,dr,dc

[speakhandsforme]

Well that is what he is, and is what you are acting like.
Did we skip the part where you fucked me and I stopped talking to you? Because I think that should be a pretty important part of the whole "asshole" bravado.

But, seriously, you won't gain control over the situation immediately and it is, afterall, just high school. Don't worry about it.

[stayforawhile]

Did we skip the part where you fucked me and I stopped talking to you? Because I think that should be a pretty important part of the whole "asshole" bravado.

But, seriously, you won't gain control over the situation immediately and it is, afterall, just high school. Don't worry about it.
Hahah yeah I guess you don't deserve the title of an asshole. I know it's just highschool but it still makes me mad.

[Charles777]

That dude sounds like a penis wrinkle.

[deFobbed14yrs]

I hate boys

hear hear

[thespearkid]

Boys aren't half as bad as girls.

[Miss Heartcore]

Have you talked to him about this or are you just gonna jump to conclusions like a fucking woman loves to do so goddamn much?
Damn.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

he wanted your pussy so when you wouldn't give it he went back to kateyln who will soon be in
Philly and he will want to vag yet again.

[thespearkid]

Damn.
ah, ignore that. i was a little high, still am.

[stayforawhile]

he wanted your pussy so when you wouldn't give it he went back to kateyln who will soon be in
Philly and he will want to vag yet again.
Hahhahahahahahahahhahh when he come back I tell his ***** ass helll no homeboy

[Fallinto_rhythm]

Hahhahahahahahahahhahh when he come back I tell his ***** ass helll no homeboy

at first I was reaaaal confused wif does stars, but then I fink reeaal hard and I'm laughing my ****** ass off and Robitcha wants to know why I laugh so hard.

[stayforawhile]

I cant belive it bleeps ***** out!

[4N6 science]

Uh can either nikki or ashley please call me on my birthday k thanks! (saturday Jan. 10th)

[4N6 science]

Fuck!

[Fallinto_rhythm]

yeah, I'll call your ****** ass and wish you a happy bday.

[kwsqd]

I want to call.

[stayforawhile]

Uh can either nikki or ashley please call me on my birthday k thanks! (saturday Jan. 10th)
Of course we can! We owuln't miss it fo da worldddd

[Fallinto_rhythm]

I want to call.

so fucking weird. I was just thinking about you then I saw your post.

[kwsqd]

so fucking weird. I was just thinking about you then I saw your post.

Apparently I have the best timing ever

[stayforawhile]

so fucking weird. I was just thinking about you then I saw your post.
den yo remembaed jon is our homeboy.

[4N6 science]

yeah, I'll call your ****** ass and wish you a happy bday.

Of course we can! We owuln't miss it fo da worldddd

Ahhh you guys are great.

[swt_catastrophe]

he's just not that into you.
obviously, if he's acting like this.

[fake empire]

should've hung out wit me instead girl

[envi]

Then that "bunch of shit" you did doesn't mean shit. If you weren't even dating, there is nothing exclusive implied.

You got played: you're probably the first girl it's ever happened to, too.

You know, I was seeing a guy, and I would occassionally be like "So, what are we?" and he'd answer "I don't like to put lables on things, giving it a name doesn't make it easier. Whatever blah blah blah." and when our friends would ask, we would always answer "No, we're not dating."

When we called things off, I was like "Anyway, I realize that you probably would've screwed around with another girl who you liked better or was prettier or what have you. It was kind of obvious."

And he responded with "Oh, no, I wouldn't've fooled around with any other girls while I was seeing you."


... Which made me feel like an ass because I had. Anyway, my point is, just because you're not officially dating doesn't mean you can't be exclusive. It just means that if you shave your head you can call things off and not be considered a shallow douchebag.

[jules_x]

So I was with this guy for a little over a month and we were friends before that too. We would hang out a few times a week and did a bunch of shit. Last Sunday he went to the movies with his ex-girlfriend and then our first day back to school on Monday just completely ignores me. I don't fucking get it. I asked him what the fuck was up since we went to talking every minute of the day to not speaking for 4 days and he acted like he had no idea what I was talking about. Fucking asshole.

HA. I KNOW THIS.
His ex hates you, and she made him choose. Either she told him right out, or sub. Anyways, if he didn't choose you, he's an idiot. But remember, she's an even bigger idiot than he is.

[kwsqd]

So I was with this guy for a little over a month and we were friends before that too. We would hang out a few times a week and did a bunch of shit. Last Sunday he went to the movies with his ex-girlfriend and then our first day back to school on Monday just completely ignores me. I don't fucking get it. I asked him what the fuck was up since we went to talking every minute of the day to not speaking for 4 days and he acted like he had no idea what I was talking about. Fucking asshole.
That is genuinely fucked up.

Yea but that's probably what happened. Is it fair? Absolutely not. I've seen and heard it all from guys claiming they'll fly out to see me to guys sending me text hows they'll never hurt me, want only to be with me, and then have a gf within in two weeks. It's fucked up.

It's terrible that you've met guys like this, but there are some who genuinely mean what they say.

[TalkShowsOnMute]

That is genuinely fucked up.



It's terrible that you've met guys like this, but there are some who genuinely mean what they say.
true story. not all guys are complete assholes

[t_ashley]

Yea but that's probably what happened. Is it fair? Absolutely not. I've seen and heard it all from guys claiming they'll fly out to see me to guys sending me text hows they'll never hurt me, want only to be with me, and then have a gf within in two weeks. It's fucked up.
Ugh, i Hate that. We still arent talking because she supposedly LOVES him. But i dont think that a person in love with her boyfriend goes to prom with someone else who asks AFTER you start dating.. Boys are stupid sometimes. as for the whole prob you have, dont sweat it. it isnt worth it.

[stayforawhile]

HA. I KNOW THIS.
His ex hates you, and she made him choose. Either she told him right out, or sub. Anyways, if he didn't choose you, he's an idiot. But remember, she's an even bigger idiot than he is.
Hahah I've only met his ex once when they were going out. We never really talked, she probably doesn;t even remember who I am.

[envi]

It's terrible that you've met guys like this, but there are some who genuinely mean what they say.

You see, I have yet to see this. And I don't mean with just men, I mean it with people in general. I believe people do genuinely mean what they say when they say it, but when it benefits them more to do otherwise, then they'll change their mind.

[Richard Maxim]

men are dicks, i would know. :-)

[bangarang182]

Of course you like him! you're making a post talking about your very frustration with him! Look the fact of the matter here is that the only reason he went out with you was beacause he needed someone to help get his mind of his ex. You were there and so he focused his attention on you to keep from thinking of "her". I am sorry but the world is a messed up place, and since he had a chance to get back with the gal he really liked, he took it. You my friend are just a sad Casualty. Sorry